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With what I know now about how this life is, if I am in your shoes I ho marry her.
And I will be faithful to her, yes she made the first move but she is my kind of person Kuma before, else we wouldn't be close in the first instance.
I go take charge , wipe away her tears, do small marriage with her and that with the approval of my family members sha o.
But I am not you

Unyimekelvin:
There's this good neighbour of mine that I always associates with..we do talk, Play and do some stuff like that together...

She 38 and unmarried, she isn't in any relationship at all;we do ball together as neighbours sha just that!!!

Let's me cut it short, I'm tired of typing ...


Fast forward to this morning around 3::AM..i heard a knock at My door ..cos I was still awake, so i rushed down to check who was knocking behold it's was this neighbour of mine..she was on her night gown, looking so charming tho ... she asked me to open the door for her cos she's feeling too lonely in her apartment..i was like okay!!! Wait a minute I rush in to put on My pyjamas cos I was only on My short...

I later came back nd opened they door for her,she walked in majestically.. then I closed My door and follow her ...

She came in and sat on My bed without saying any shit!! I was like Aunty Dorathy is everything alright ??cos that's her name...she replied yes..

On my mind I knew all was not fine, might be she's just scard of sleeping alone in her apartment....

So I climb on My bed and lay down My Head and My body...she was just there staring at me.. without saying shit..so I got My blanket and gave it to her to used.... she rejected it and said there's something very important that wants to discuss with you ...i said okay go ahead... she lay down roll closed to me..... now My spirit was high but I held myself firmly cos she is not My equal..

They following conversation took place..
She: why are you always alone?? Cos I haven't seen any Lady in your house before...

I: I laughed out so hard before replying ...i said I was fine staying alone.

She: have you for once asked me why i chosed to be they way i am??

I: I reply how

She: I meant staying up to 38 unmarried..

I:::i was like ooh NO!!!
But why

She::: she said okay, i want to ask for a favour!!

I:::i said yes!!... go ahead

She::: promise me you not gonna fail me..

I::: i said yes...

She:: I have been having this in mind right from they day i knew you and I always feel bad telling you or asking you this...

I::i was like what's that??

She:: you are aware I'm 38 unmarried,No relationship and I'm afraid of Men cos I ave been through..a serious heartbreak � before.. you know, you are My neighbour, my friend nd they one I'm really closed to in this compound and i trust you ..

I'm getting old and i can't remain like this ...I need a favour from you and that's a child...i know this might sound weird to you but I'm really serious about it...i will be taking responsibility of everything, I will take care of you and the baby...i promise never to make you regret this favour you are about doing me....is not as if I want you to marry me,i want a child from you.. be it a male or female but if you give me both ...i will still appreciate it,if you chose to get married to me i will sponsor they marriage and i promise to build things together with you and defend you in anyway... I'm so desperate for this yeah! I know that was they reason i came by this time ..

I love you yeah! and I can't hide this anymore;i might be older than you but you made my taste... age is just a number..if you get married to me,even if you choosed to have a side chick out there i wasn't have any problem as far as you made me be among someone's mother...

I'm confused i haven't said anything till today and she's still distopping me ... what should I do now...�...she is beautiful tho but older than me..i loved her but they fear of her age hmmm... have you been through this before share your opinion ...

I am interested, can someone welcome me here. I really need this pls

Hmmm... U think the fighting will reduce?

iiifedimma:
So wonderful, anyway Congratulations to them and to the man. It's even better that way, at least, two sisters can make best co-wife together without much fighting always

U are laughing at me ba, I hear it is possible ni

recieve:
Dreams

I need a fat ticket from which I can raise house rent of 350k

Answers above are correct, for nos 10. Choose 0.5

All these book authors are confusing themselves. 5+2=7
If you want to use that 5 n 2 to mean something else then the sign ought not to be +

memories1:
Wrong section, I know... but I really need help with this. I can't quite figure it out.

Who you can think say go win this argument? Law is not age in service but evidence and presentation

Moh247:



Kenneth Okonkwo that became a lawyer less than 5 years ago

Vs

Festus Keyamo SAN

This is a joke taking took far
.

You are immature and proud and that is not an insult. Your Dad doesn't also sound like a God man.
Get a marriage counsellor, arrange for counselling, invite your husband and with this new attitude of his, he will come and mend this relationship. Go back to your house as this your high headedness will not be very beneficial to you if you continue like this.

Don't blame yourself too much, you are young and selfish that's y u think like this, in few years time matter go change

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Facts will be out in the court. The state relinquished their shares to Dangote in fev, 2003.
What else una want. No politicians fight for masses so just forget it, Yaya na for himself e dey fight for.
Dangote no perfect but na im get him plant

What did he do? All Western countries had this kind capitalist at one point or the other in their history.
People like Dangote is who we need and to regulate their activities is what is missing but it will come one day

Oluboh:
Dangote can't do this in western worlds

This mindset is what we always don't get. Ndi Igbo why do you wish Yoruba, hausas and Fulani bad always.

tishbite41:
If to sey na Igboland, e go take una 20 years to approve am
Una Yorulani collaboration against the Igbos will soon backfire

Can't you see that what the state want is more than tax, they are with one side of the mouth (fanwo actually) saying tax evasion an on the other side of the mouth saying it is theirs.

Chekwume16:
Yes it should be prosecuted through the court but tax evasion is a criminal offence and not a civil matter.

Now it sounds good because you are thinking of bit as a just fight, watch till the end and you will discover it is all about the selfish interest of those in power.
Again it is important to note that this kind of actions scares investors and should rather be handled in a better way

Valkrie:
The issue is not only tax evasion...!!

That cement factory started off as Kogi Cement Company and dangote according to findings use the C of O of the land which belong to kogi state to take a loan of over 60billion for construction then turn around to claim the company to be his own....no paper document to show any agreement anywhere that he purchased the factory from kogi state...Dangote have been dodging and now trying to use association as a front to get pity...!!!

Dangote should go to kogi and show the paper that show clearly he is the owner of the company simple...!! Why all these talk from both sides of his mouth...? He thought he is invisible after riding on the back of this nation to become a billionaire via shady business activities...!!

No woman goes gaga everyday for her man in marriage. This been the guy that mesmerize her brain is just a feeling that don't last in marriage.
Na just pre marital euphoria. Commitment and actions begin to play more sustainable role than that your feeling of love.
Sometimes same goes for the man as some days you just don't seem to love the other person the way you should.
Weaknesses begin to show forth more in the home and you are only left with the choice of trying so hard to understand the other person and remain committed to your vows to him or her.
That action of speaking or splitting plenty words in anger is not uncommon with women forget the mesmerization of the today. Some day when you get married and see such you guys will remember that some of us told you so.
Yes does this mean I pamper the ladies to continue like that? No!
My advice is to the man not to his wife.
The man complain of his wife behavior and we here trying to help him understand this gender that can not be fully understood.
Lastly let it be known to you that none of us is perfect, so as we talk about this popular weaknesses of the female gender we must also know that we have ours. That some women wake up in the night and look at their husband and wonder why or how they married such a man!
Let love lead my people.
Love itself is an action word as it entails doings, so yes do things that makes her happy, however this doesn't mean you don't correct her or change it for her when required

Ologbo147:
That is not what he meant. He is like let a woman find a feature or characteristics in you that makes her go gaga- natural love not you dying to please her as you never truly can

It's the way we put it that looks different, I feel we just made the same point minus the insult though.
You prefer to say it as " let a woman find her joy in you" why not let her find sorrow in you, meaning that u did something to let her find joy in you.
Lastly learn how to state your point without insults.
Some of us are happily married even when some people don't believe it's possible to be

jeromestarks:
You want to make a woman happy?
You're too dumb.
Even God can not make man happy. Who are you to try.
Brother, let a woman find her joy in you not you working hard to make her happy. You won't live long if you keep this mentality and do you know what's worse? You will never be truly happy if your aim is to please a woman.

There is a popular saying that women speak from the bedrock of their emotions especially when they are angry. They don't speak about fact or truth once they are angry but how they feel at the moment.
Even if you buy your wife a car now, in less than a week if you have a fight she can say it boldly that you have never bought her anything in life.
This is the way it plays out for most of them and it is not ingratitude na anger.
So if your wife matter na vex dey cause am just look away, discard the plenty talk and move on to better matter.
Sorry it hurts but they are again the most loving if we can make them happy.

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation. Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari. This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Even this wouldnt work.
He has a witness na. Just wait for your salary. If they commot am ask God to help you. There is no lesson tp learn except to just know that this world is possessed by wicked people who loves to cheat others n u just got cheated.

xtivin:
This one is hard o, next time make him sign on the docket simple. He may have been drunk but when the shayo clear you have a good legit evidence. God help you!

God forbid

Corridon:
Yorubas finest artist.

What about people born on the same day, will their actions be same or similar?

August 27

Are you a male or female?
Best is for you to go to the hospital

samwriter:
I need help i do not know what is happening to me.i notice this thing first when i use my friend toilet which is pit toilet after finishing pooing. i want to stand up i could not i try to forcing myself up i nearly fall that day. after someday my waist too started paining me and i could work well through that day i even told one man he said is jedi jedi because am used to eating rice morning afternoon and night that i should get agbo in my mind i was how can eating of rice cause jedi jedi.I was thinking may been because am used to spent much time in the toilet that is causing it i normally toilet everyday which i spent like one hour sometime 40 minute in the toilet.I do not press phone in the toilet staying that long in the toilet i don even know may be is infection i don even know.If i experience the waist pain and leg pain without taking anything the following day i would be ok since i i am facing this problem i have never taking any drug or agbo is like off and on thingh i don even understand what is happening to me. I need help

Sometimes imagine that the person you intend to insult both directly n indirectly isn't your age mate.

2. Did the poster tell you his wife is wayward?

3. And y do you assume all men will stoop so low to dating their friend's wife, even if you can do that not all men will do that and that was not the question here.


'Make una dey get sense for this app' - do feel a hero saying this to me?

girlygirlyMain:
What if the friens wan bleep her?
Make una dey get sense for this app

Abi your wife go beat you ni?.
Tell her that she can quarrel n even stop the gossip anywhere close to her n her family (women business not your problem) but your friend is not within her reach, she must respect her husband n your friend as much as she ought to.

Gbam!

My own issue is the adults that are turned into their errand boys doing useless and needless pranks to insult each other

The questions are very simple.
No *5

wwwkaycom:
My wife's cousin is a student in a federal government institution, a monotechnic. I've always noted that the guy is naughty. Recently my wife told me the guy is having issues in his school because he approached his supervisor, a single female lecturer for a relationship. The lecturer warned him to perish the thought but this guy persisted.

Now the female lecturer has refused to continue with supervision of his project and wrote to her head of department to assign him to another supervisor. He just started afresh with a new supervisor while his colleagues have defended their projects two weeks ago.

He called my wife this evening to tell her that final results of his colleagues have been uploaded into the institutions portal while his name was placed under "non-graduating".

I have some questions here.

1. Did this guy commit any offense by "toasting" his female lecturer?

2. Is it right for the department to have denied him opportunity to graduate because of this?

3. Can he complain to the authority of the institution about this? What will he say he did to have been denied opportunity to graduate?

4. Has the department committed any offence against this boy as touching his fundamental human rights?

5. Can he seek legal redress?

Thank you all.

So what exactly was the blasphemy?

This blasphemy blasphemy is what exactly?


May God help us o

Antoeni:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/552039-i-killed-my-parents-over-blasphemous-comments-against-prophet-muhammad.html?fbclid=IwAR2iLZ4aGN9WlZC6UUQ6Wf8ITHd-sNE5ZY7myGl3dFqhV287mP62N2OHdbk

The way you are going even living with them will be issues. because finding them is the easiest, living with them takes even more patient.

Try to learn to overlook

AllDModsAreMaad:
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

Stop it abeg.
Haba can't we even be happy for ourselves for once! Don't you think we even deserve the goodnews?
Why spoil our fun.
What about USA?

Zonefree:
The complete table shows 9ja no try at all. A country of over 200 million people struggling with just 35 medals. Scotland with just 5 million people got 49 medals.

Y?

marenkurz:
They are mäd in the head.