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SeunWedsLinda:
Good morning nairalanders. I'm sharing this here because I feel restless with this urgent need to end my relationship. I'll make the story as short as possible.

I started dating my girlfriend this time 2 years ago. The experience hasn't been bad because she's all I could wish for in a woman. Very pretty both facially and in physique. Respectful. Been there for me during my down times. Encourages me when things don't go my way. At some point, I thought she was gonna leave because of my financial state but no. She still stuck by me. Even helping me financially to bring me up to my feet.

However, Despite every attempts at steadying my financial imbalance, there was never any progress. We went for a crusade mid last year and the prophet called her out, was praying for her and she was falling under anointing. She was oblivious of what was happening then the man of God delivered a big prophesy that shocked me. He said she is possessed by a spirit which is out to ruin every man she's had something to do with in the past. That a lot of men have been destroyed. My heart raced faster and I couldn't figure out what to do at that point. When she finally got herself, she cleaned up and went home. Came to my house the following morning and asked me what happened. I told her everything the prophet said and she begged me not to leave her. Of course I didn't leave her. We still continued with the relationship. Don't blame me here guys. My belief was that no man or woman has the power to influence what happens to you. That success or financial breakthrough is the end product of hardwork and perseverance. That was why I took that prophesy with a pinch of salt.

Our lives continued. I kept encountering frustrations in my live goals and ambitions. Depts hanging round my neck with no hope in sight. Rents expiring with no plan for renewal. To the point that I had to borrow to feed. These were much that I decided to go see another prophet yesterday. This prophet is different from the first one that hosted a crusade we went for. I decided to go alone this time around and it's located in a different state. In the course of the ministration. The prophet called me out. He told me I should limit things I say to THAT GIRL (my girlfriend). He mentioned to me that my girlfriend is good and it's not her fault. That she is possessed by a spirit that is out to ruin. Responsible for restricting any favor that looks like it's coming my way. Every thing he told me was in tandem with my real life experiences. He prayed for me afterwards and I still went further to meet him. I needed some clarity on whether or not to continue with my relationship. He didn't urge that I breakup. But he advised I should just leave her and focus on my hustle.

My girlfriend has been calling me since yesterday but I've not been picking. I'm confused guys. I know I will eventually pick and talk to her but how do I breakup? Where do I start from? I don't want to tell her what the prophet said about her. My mind is mess rn. Please advice me guys

SeunWedsLinda:
Good morning nairalanders. I'm sharing this here because I feel restless with this urgent need to end my relationship. I'll make the story as short as possible.

I started dating my girlfriend this time 2 years ago. The experience hasn't been bad because she's all I could wish for in a woman. Very pretty both facially and in physique. Respectful. Been there for me during my down times. Encourages me when things don't go my way. At some point, I thought she was gonna leave because of my financial state but no. She still stuck by me. Even helping me financially to bring me up to my feet.

However, Despite every attempts at steadying my financial imbalance, there was never any progress. We went for a crusade mid last year and the prophet called her out, was praying for her and she was falling under anointing. She was oblivious of what was happening then the man of God delivered a big prophesy that shocked me. He said she is possessed by a spirit which is out to ruin every man she's had something to do with in the past. That a lot of men have been destroyed. My heart raced faster and I couldn't figure out what to do at that point. When she finally got herself, she cleaned up and went home. Came to my house the following morning and asked me what happened. I told her everything the prophet said and she begged me not to leave her. Of course I didn't leave her. We still continued with the relationship. Don't blame me here guys. My belief was that no man or woman has the power to influence what happens to you. That success or financial breakthrough is the end product of hardwork and perseverance. That was why I took that prophesy with a pinch of salt.

Our lives continued. I kept encountering frustrations in my live goals and ambitions. Depts hanging round my neck with no hope in sight. Rents expiring with no plan for renewal. To the point that I had to borrow to feed. These were much that I decided to go see another prophet yesterday. This prophet is different from the first one that hosted a crusade we went for. I decided to go alone this time around and it's located in a different state. In the course of the ministration. The prophet called me out. He told me I should limit things I say to THAT GIRL (my girlfriend). He mentioned to me that my girlfriend is good and it's not her fault. That she is possessed by a spirit that is out to ruin. Responsible for restricting any favor that looks like it's coming my way. Every thing he told me was in tandem with my real life experiences. He prayed for me afterwards and I still went further to meet him. I needed some clarity on whether or not to continue with my relationship. He didn't urge that I breakup. But he advised I should just leave her and focus on my hustle.

My girlfriend has been calling me since yesterday but I've not been picking. I'm confused guys. I know I will eventually pick and talk to her but how do I breakup? Where do I start from? I don't want to tell her what the prophet said about her. My mind is mess rn. Please advice me guys

Lifeisgoody:
I find it hard to believe anyway.
Where is your store and price range, maybe I can patronise you for this December

Lifeisgoody:
The stone is the main issue here. How do you expect me to buy death with my own money. O wrong now

TheGenius001:
Share with us dear

Bote3000:
I would like to know which or these type of women is best for a man to have in his life...

Case1: The woman is loving and caring and is always comfortable with whatever the man brings home in this case there will almost always be enough to eat pay bills and live a normal life with some glitches she won't argue she will succumb to every request the man makes weather bad or good, all she will want is just to have the man home always because she is in love she doesn't push him to strive from more or even a chance to see the world outside the current space they living in as she will term these things as vanity.


Case2: the woman who is loving and caring but wants more... Wants a better meal a better car a better house she wants to live with the flow of technology not necessarily a very fast pace she is angry when the man is lazy she likes the new car car the next door neighbour got she wants jewels she want her kids in the best school she wants her husband to smart she wants the good things in life ,her happiness sincerely comes out when she gets gift from her man. she not contented with litle things she pushes the man to do more .

Question: is the case2 woman a greedy person or are men just too blind to see that that's what life really should be or would they say my wife they stress me ?

Is case1 the best option a man can ask for

lefulefu:
not money per se cos i have seen some ppl with money who still look like weed smokers .when u take care of urself u will look good

Truvel:
There Is Dis Girl I Know Who Av Not Given Birth To Any Child But Her Boobs Are Saggy. She Should Be Btw D Range Of 16 Or 17yrs. Although, Dis Girl Quick Know Man Sha. I'm Even Aware Dat There Was A Time She Got Pregnant & Aborted It. As Young As She Is, Her Boobs Is Like A BreastFeeding Mother's Own. Her Boobs Are Just Staring At Her Toes. If U See Her Boobs, U Will Think She Has A Baby She Is Breastfeeding. I Asked Dis Question Because I Want To Know. Presently, She Is Living With Her Bf. Is It Because She Had Gotten Pregnant B4? Or Is It Sex Dat Make Her Boobs Looks Dat Way? Or Is It Just Normal. Note: Dis Girl Na Girl Wey Be Say Na My Present She Start To Grow Breast Oo.

Netanya:
There's nothing compared to a mother's love , for real . I just pray that God grants women still wanting the fruit of the womb their desires.

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

tobechi74:
to early to conclude,he may be doing work from home.

DaHrNn0001:
I can relate but......

WrittyWritter:
Maybe it is how to become one of d celebrities going to his villa

WrittyWritter:
I don't understand..what advice do u need

Martinez39s:
Point of correction, Regina is not a child. Ned Nwoko is a very successful man, one in the top echelon of capable and wealthy men; as a result, people will want to associate with him since success has many friends.

Stop being jealous and mind your business. If you were at Regina's age and Ned Nwoko asked for your hands in marriage, you will accept even if your parents are against it.

OGWILLS123:
was house rent among your goals
for this year

well maybe an achievement for you not
for me, house rent is what you have to do
every year so that is no way near achievement.

any way congrats :-o

ModestGal:
It is an achievement, don't mind the troll, I'm happy for you

dumininu01:
Huh CEO.. Can I send a pm?