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argent412:
I don't understand.
na him give the girl Belle.
Bros, abeg, don't carry someone burden ooo.
make she enjoy am

smiles

DenreleDave:
Hmm. So u suggest she abort it..

Well I can't tell her dt except she does it on her own..

It is too heavy for mi..

u ehn

DenreleDave:
Huh... Very deep ooo.... I I don't know wat to say

well u know what is right.. Let her to inform her mum she cant nurse a child alone without job or help.. There wil be a time that she will need someone around, carrying a baby for 9 months nobi beans o..with the look of things I think she should abort but she must not use drugs.. Sebi its 3weeks let her go to a qualified doc for D nd c..nothing will happen to her..taking drugs is not advisable for abortion 0o..the truth is she cant keep the baby. Person wey no get anybody no fit pregnancy o..If she is keeping the baby, food is very compulsory o, total care alot of things is needed nd with d look of things she no get kobo.. Think twice o..if pregnant woman no chop well she fit die or she over stressed herself..keeping a baby is very hard. M talking form experience

Some women are wicked o..

DenreleDave:
I doubt if I can even though I really want to see that baby come through.... Honestly...

Baby deserve a life.

Mynd44 lalasticlala seun Dominique please help out

why?

DenreleDave:
LadySarah imal.ma pls what do u suggest

Let her keep the baby nd if u are bouyant pls help her.. Abortion is not good, u cn raise the child as your own..

God, this is serious o..

Liposure:
the lord will be your strength

Thanks dear

Divanona:
Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.

We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant.
The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school.
I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby.
I went through everything all by myself.
Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days.
He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.

now, I'm so confused with my life.

He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.


I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life.
The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.

A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans.
But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.

Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.

Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused.
What would you advise? What should I do?
I don't want to make more mistakes.

Sorry for my lengthy write-up

..hmmm ma'am u really need to sit down nd think very well before accepting him o, dont forget he left for good 8years..if everything is going well he wouldn't cum back.. Samething that's happening to me now, I got preggy after school nd d father of child denied nd abandon me, he has bn begging me since last year even the parents called to beg me I told m not angry but the fact is I'd b alone than to be with him because he left when I needed him now he went to different places nd they told him to go beg me because things aint going well but I knw nothing about his probs.. I heard he is doing juju to have me back, believe my heart, mind body nd soul cant forget the hell I went tru I almost lost my life.. My dear don't fall � for him send him back forget what he did for u,, nothing can justify the fact that he left when u needed him.. Stand strong for your child nd be happy. If u can help him pls do but don't accept him o, u might regret it.. Men are very cunning.. U need to wise up nd stop being fool..u can't trust someone that left u for good 8years oo..what if he's planning to use you or your child for money � ritual.. If he loves you he won't leave u for 8years.. Please don't fall for his lies o

Queenlovely:
I swear I don't know this iyabo ojo of a woman.

but nairaland is always pushing her news to front page.

Yoruba actress are not famous I beg una

with that her son that people mistake for her husband.

what is the source of her income

or is it apostle Suleiman

she introduced stephenine otobo to pastor....

she is a chairlady

she runs a prostitution ring at owo LGA

after doing my homework

Wetin concern u

I’m only looking for just one pere

u go see.. Just calm down

Rapture4real:
It is a serious but welcome case.Very soon, we will have Sis. Righteousness 21

MrsRighteousness:
Revelation 20:12-15 And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works. [13] And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works. [14] And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. [15] And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.

Righteousness don get Mrs oo

Wow

Jesus

Collette9:
I’m only looking for just one pere

woman no dey your side? If u have money nd a good job u will see but if u are jobless my brother oyo lowa o

UDUJ:
Go through her profile and posts. She is a known chronic attention seeker. Majority of her posts are fictional

Collette9:
amen ooo thanks my sister [center][/center]

.lol

Collette9:
I’m looking for one nice babe maybe someone on here can help me out
Link me up!!!

God will provide

Stevyne:
Preeq thrusting in and out of pussy inform of pleasure and pain.

thank you

Whats so special about sex

Take it easy guy.. Nobi only u

PreyingMantis:
After how many days

lol.. m not active online

I hear u sir

PreyingMantis:
Igbo men hardly marry dirty Yoruba girls... It's always the Yoruba guys killing themselves over Igbo women. Stop giving yourself too much credit for nothing

AlabiJ:
Seriously, ibo people need to stop this nonsense and archaic practise immediately. If they can be treating their own fellow ibos like this, then what hope is there for a complete non-ibo stranger in their midst?

Those ibos being discriminated against had better leave such backward society and go elsewhere, else they will hardly progress. Could this senseless discrimination be the reason why their society is still the most homogeneous and seen as the most hostile towards strangers in Southern Nigeria? One hardly hears of strangers progressing in iboland the way ibos are allowed to in other societies.

All you Ibo people still practicing this nonsense should stop it. It's not fair!!! Tufiakwa.

more reason why I cant marry an ibo man

Humanoid01:
You should just say you're not ready for a relationship, it doesn't make you weak. Sooner or later, you're going to forget this comment you made, and you'll meet a guy who'll tickle your fancy. We are humans, we'll always be emotionally attached to someone, except you nor con get conscience again.

hummm it is well

Frankenstein:
Why go for a masters degree if you already have a thriving business?

because I can only survive with the business. Nd I can't depend on masters alone because no job.. 0nce my business is good nd I v my masters with my personal laboratory.. Who wedding epp

Poorboy:
don't play with this question oooo, just keep the answer somewhere incase.

incase what ooo.. I don't understand

Even before that I dont giva a Bleep about any guy...once my business is doing fine nd m done with my masters.. Who. Wedding epp.. After all only few couples last this days.. After money na money oo..