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PoliticsRe: Chikwe Udensi: Make An Igbo Man President In 2023, IPOB And ESN Will Die Off by Debra911(f): 8:53pm On Oct 16, 2021
Waffarianman:
Flat Heads will just ground this country with looting, thieving, stealing and smuggling just like Chima ground our Agro chemical company with stealing. Kole work
So your tribe is the best to rule Nigeria ?cos your tribe is not guilty of any of those trash you listed above.
RomanceRe: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Debra911(f):
magicminister:
And this is the line of thinking that makes majority of Nigerian girls feel so comfortable and entitled to a man’s money. Because for people like you, that is all you have to offer.

To the OP:
I used to be in your predicament! Felt anxiety whenever I wanna shoot my shot and most times, I miss out on wonderful women because I was probably afraid of rejection.

To overcome this fear you feel, you need to condition yourself to be perfectly comfortable with rejection
You need to be confident with yourself and you need to be able to speak your mind and let people take it how they wanna take it.

I wish you the best. Don’t let anyone tell you that feeling goes away if you make money. If you don’t have confidence now, money wouldn’t bring it!
FamilyRe: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Debra911(f): 5:00pm On Oct 13, 2021
adelaja70:
Then you leave my house for me... Shikena!
ASAP
FamilyRe: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Debra911(f): 4:57pm On Oct 13, 2021
My father never laid his hands on me,even wen I said the worse, he never stopped pampering me and I'll always be the one to apologize even when I thought he was going to flog me. Any man who lays his hands on me, I'll get him arrested. It's as simple as that. No human deserves to be maltreated
Music/RadioRe: Flavour - Levels (Official Video) by Debra911(f): 4:12pm On Oct 12, 2021
DEROX:
cheesy na song be this mtchew rubbish even bella shmurda beta songs are better talkless of Davido and Big wiz
Everything in life isn't about competition. From the video u just watched, does any of them look like people begging for accolades or Award?
CrimeRe: Man Wrestles ‘Pseudo-Police Kidnappers’ In Lekki (Photos, Video) by Debra911(f): 1:57pm On Oct 12, 2021
falcon01:
some Nigerian police are very stupid and usless. What kind of lawless country is this? How can you as a police officer stop so low like this sef? Harassing the people who you are meant to protect?

Modified** I see what you guys are saying e no mean say police no dey haras people!
I know you're trying to get the FP, but you should have tried grasping the details before commenting
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Guys Always Think They Were Rejected 'cause They're Broke. by Debra911(f): 6:47pm On Oct 10, 2021
bodybuilder:
Why do Nigerian guys always think they were rejected 'cause they're broke.
Why do you have this mentality that your brokeness is your only flaw.
Might be another reason. That's girl you think rejected you cause you're might even be dating someone broker than you.
Sometimes you're not as broke as you think, it's just low self-esteem from comparing yourself with others.

It could be your bad looks, social awkwardness, bad hygiene, shyness and many other things.

Some guys underate the power of being good looking sha. So many girls can be gotten by just being tall and handsome, being rich is just a bonus.
I'll rather date a broke but hard-working nigga, someone I can build an empire than dating a rich but arrogant nigga; their arrogancy piss me off.
PhonesRe: Instagram, Facebook, Whatsapp Down. Stay At Home Tonight For Security Reasons. by Debra911(f): 11:19pm On Oct 04, 2021
The idea is quiet reasonable, especially for security reasons; so many persons have everything about their lives posted on social media, no privacy. Finally, Nairaland is truly standing out. I will miss talking with my international friends; WhatsApp calls and video calls made it easier& cheaper.
FamilyRe: My Wife Complains That My Private Part Is Too Big & That I Stay Too Long, Help by Debra911(f): 12:48pm On Oct 01, 2021
KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh angry

Can't men use their time for something more productive in lifehuh
Stop being a hypocrite
HealthRe: What Could This Be? by Debra911(f): 4:54pm On Sep 30, 2021
silentvoice:
This appearance has been on my private part for as long as I can remember. It doesn't itch except when I shave on some occasions. I'm a 23 years female and not sexually active, is there a way for me to clear this? Does anyone have experience on what this is? I also keep having reoccurring boils close to my vagina
Hey dear sorry about that, you'll be fine. I've worked in a laboratory, STI to be precise and I still do. From what you've just said, aside the fact that some bumps do occur after shaving, reoccurring boils around the vagina shows that you've got an infection which could not necessarily be from sex. Candidiasis(yeast infection) is mostly not gotten from sex; it could be from wearing tight panties ,use of public toilets or urinating in an unclean environment. Boils around the vagina are one of the signs of candidiasis. So I'll advice you go for a STI test. Better still u use fluconazole tablet(150mg/200mg) and mycoten cream, and avoid wearing tight panties when you sleep at night. Cheers
Christianity EtcRe: Stop The Killings - Pope Francis Tells Buhari by Debra911(f): 9:46pm On Sep 29, 2021
APOSTLECHUMA:
There is only one holy Father that bible spoke of and that's the one in heaven. Any human being on earth that claims this, is only confirming that he is the anti-Christ that is seated in the temple (church) answering blasphemous names and lifting up himself above all that is called God or worshipped. IT WILL BE TOO LATE BY THE TIME THE WORLD WILL REALISE WHO THIS ENEMY OF GOD WHO IS CLOTHED IN WHITE TO FOOL THE ELECTS IS.
People like you are part of the problems we're facing in Nigeria.
TV/MoviesRe: Meet Gulder Ultimate Search Season 12 Contestants by Debra911(f): 4:08pm On Sep 27, 2021
WhiteLavender:
Haven't really watched this GUS though but what exactly are the criteria for choosing the contestants?
I'm asking because I don't understand why with a total sum of 16 contests, only 4 of them are females.
Not all ladies can survive the hurdles involved. You'll understand when you begin to watch it. GUS is not bbn
TV/MoviesRe: Meet Gulder Ultimate Search Season 12 Contestants by Debra911(f): 4:06pm On Sep 27, 2021
richmond500:
how does this GUS work though? I didn't watch it back then, I was only interested in who wants to be a millionaire
This is my best show,you'll love it& you'll learn a lot; on survival and how to tackle real life situations when faced with any. It's a game for smart minds.
CelebritiesRe: DJ Switch: I've Been Cooked Up In A House For Months; Never Got Asylum To Canada by Debra911(f): 7:58am On Sep 27, 2021
I admire this lady. We only have 1 out of thousands of such ladies in Nigeria
CelebritiesRe: Jodrey: I'm Used To Female Attraction - Mr Ideal Nigeria 2020 Winner (Photos) by Debra911(f): 9:04pm On Sep 22, 2021
He's handsome.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Hoteliers Enabling Internet Fraudsters Activities - EFCC by Debra911(f): 5:44pm On Sep 15, 2021
Curious345:
you're finished. I can see your husband /boyfriend is an Internet fraudster.
'Seer'
I think you're a fraudster too, u sound like one
CrimeRe: Nigerian Hoteliers Enabling Internet Fraudsters Activities - EFCC by Debra911(f): 10:16pm On Sep 14, 2021
I'm tired of this buhari govt it sucks.
FamilyRe: Advice Needed by Debra911(f): 5:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
Zuchey91:
I need matured inputs please.

I am a married woman, with a child.

My Marriage has been really rocky. Quarrels every now and then.

What basically causes the problems is our differences, we just don’t understand each other, it wasn’t so visible during dating.

Although we did not date for long....but being married, it has been from one issue to the other, right from a week after our wedding.

I have always contemplated leaving, but I am yet to be fully independent.

Sometime this year, I found out he has been cheating (I was not surprised, but I was heart-broken) my discovery strengthened my resolve to leave the union.

In the process of nursing my heartbreak, I reconnected with an ex, we got talking and he helped my heal. I did not tell him what I was going through at the time...I was just enjoying the attention he was showing me.

I should state that I did not tell my husband about his cheating, I held all the emotions back, it was a very difficult period for me because I am usually the outspoken type.

My ex is not based in the country where me and my husband reside, we just communicate on phone, he says he misses me and would want us to meet when he is in town.

I should also state that my ex was married but divorced.

I would not deny my having feelings for my ex, and I also do not want to believe in a fairytale ending, I am just confused.
As it stands ,going for a divorce is advisable but i wish it wasn't your ex you're reconnecting with,to avoid future complications
PhonesRe: Nigerian Lady, Linda, Wants To Buy iPhone 11 Pro Max With N150k & Sex 10 Times by Debra911(f): 6:01pm On Sep 02, 2021
This is an old news now.
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop Oyedepo: Fulani Vagabonds, 2015 Error; Many Will Die, Go Blind, Crippled by Debra911(f): 1:35am On Aug 31, 2021
Kingspin:
From day one, I saw Buhari as a disaster.
You people were all against GEJ because he hailed from the South South, and forgot the devil Buhari. All the signs were there for us to see but you chose to hate on.
Modify.
People like @arthurwillia need to see this. I guess he must be a paid agent to fight anyone who chooses GEJ over Buhari.
RomanceRe: If You Want To Look Very Attractive To People, Do This. by Debra911(f): 10:41pm On Aug 29, 2021
77star:
This is what I tell pple I met here

I have some of them here as friends outside nairaland, males and females alike

Some people don't mean what they say here, it would shock u that some of them are even cool headed cheesy

How did I know?
Again, I have friends here on Nairaland that I chat with through WhatsApp, both males and females wink
Same here. And you're so right!
RomanceRe: If You Want To Look Very Attractive To People, Do This. by Debra911(f): 7:03pm On Aug 29, 2021
mariahAngel:
Kriss seriously, you have to be more careful with your words.
It is for your own good.

Don’t you know that every time you type such hate words against women, it is God you mock, for women are His creation.
Like seriously! Lmao. Are u new here? Men are God's creations too! I would advice you stop taking some guys on NL too serious. Many ain't what they comment here, follow their words at ur own peril. Many are here to catch fun, some are key board warriors, some are lonely and depressed;looking for an immediate to chill out. Some of these guys might end up sending u 'mails' if possible the same guys who insulted u here on NL. Babe u got to chill, stop taking their words too serious, many ain't wat they say.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Chelsea (1 - 1) On August 28 2021 by Debra911(f): 5:41pm On Aug 28, 2021
Chelsea a club for winners
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie's Matriculation Day (Throwback Photo) by Debra911(f): 9:10pm On Aug 26, 2021
Ok
PoliticsRe: 2023: Jonathan Shouldn't Mess Up His Good Name By Contesting - Idahosa by Debra911(f):
arthurwillia:
Lol ode say na thought.
FooIish ldioot say na without no intelligent basis
Abeg I no fit laugh
Oh wow! I was just going through my post, then I saw the tautology and use of homophones, thanks to that anyway;didn't see that earlier. I guess it was because I wasn't more relaxed to reply u ,besides I'm a graduate of Bus.admin&Medical student not a graduate of English cheesy. Since u sounded educated ,there are better ways to place an argument,not sounding like a lousy street Yoruba boy who managed to acquire education.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Jonathan Shouldn't Mess Up His Good Name By Contesting - Idahosa by Debra911(f):
arthurwillia:
Who is this one? You know you can blame both of them and you’ll be ok right?

GEJ government was bad Oga, there and then did inflation start, I remember I was in 300l then and 5000naira my parents send to me wasn’t enough anymore for a month due to increase, na there e start before Oga bubu destroyed everything, so rest Oga
See werey no dey ever quote me if u no get better point. So there's not been inflation before GEJ came in ? Which university did u even finish from? Since you were not taught about inflation, google is ur friend, u can help yourself with it. You need to be thought Economics, cos I can see you just jump to quote me, without intelligent basis, olodo shi.
RomanceRe: Businesswoman Reveals The Kind Of Husband Most Women Are Shopping For by Debra911(f): 10:04am On Aug 26, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
Not far from the truth...

In other words,most women are looking for puppet-like husbands lipsrsealed

But thank God many pussy ass niggas are already getting the redpill stuck in their DNA.

A man ought to be a man always and must know how to put his woman where she
rightfully belongs.....No dey mumu around undecided
Most MEN are looking for SLAVE and WIFE to control, not wife to be loved."
PoliticsRe: 2023: Jonathan Shouldn't Mess Up His Good Name By Contesting - Idahosa by Debra911(f): 8:07am On Aug 26, 2021
SmartPolician:
The only reason Jonathan looks like a good leader is that we now have a Buhari who is worse than him. Jonathan was a weak and corrupt man who shouldn't have any business in politics.

I remember how Okonjo-Iweala, the finance minister at the time, was shouting that Nigeria needed to save the money from its excess crude account but Jonathan and his gang of looters were going behind the back to withdraw and spend the money.

That's why Amaechi, as the chairman of the governors' forum, insisted that the money be shared among the states of the federation and that administration made him look like the devilish squandermania.

If Jonathan had made efforts to diversify this economy, this mess wouldn't be as terrible as it is today. He was busy spending and looting with reckless abandon. I am sure he's definitely going to lose if he contests again. Please Nigeria needs a different person with a different idea. We cannot continue with old wine in a new bottle.
I can't believe some Nigerians are still reasoning this way ,despite the ongoings in the country. Show me one politician in this country thats not corrupt? Even you,if you're given the post of Nigerian president today,you'll embezzle more than ur past leaders.

We are talking about lack of insecurity within the country and daily hyperinflation of goods and services. Was it GEJ that Caused these? This week alone, unknown gunmen has taken many lives and ur president has been mute all along? Was it Jonathan that told him to be mute? Dollar value used to be 189 during GEJ regime but dollar is now 505 ,was it Gej that caused it? People like you are the ones supporting Buhari govt and thats why the Idiot doesn't care about lost of lives and suffering of an average Nigerian. I don't know if you're within Nigeria, but if you're within the country, check your vicinity and see if Unknown gunmen hasn't gotten to your doorstep? Shine your eyes ogbeni! Nigerian are no more safe, people are suffering.
GEJ govt wasn't like this and Nigerians are blaming him for embezzlement? So buhari no embezzle abi? Lmao.
PoliticsRe: Gumi Berates Politicians For Attending Buhari Son's Wedding In Private Jets by Debra911(f): 8:24pm On Aug 21, 2021
Buhari is the still president, doesn't matter if
we like it or not. We just have to keep waiting patiently for 2023
Foreign AffairsRe: Biden Assertions On Afghanistan Fact-Checked (Photos) by Debra911(f): 8:17am On Aug 20, 2021
Guardiola84:
CNN slave shut up your mouth!trump defeated ISIS ,terrorist n american enemies get emboldened when democrats are in power,Al Qaeda n ISIS were indirectly funded n sponsored by democrat govts ,even d latest events in Afghan could be secret a "arranged" btw d corrupt democrat govt of sleepy Joe n talibans who knows ,wonder why american soldiers ran off n abandoned billions of sophisticated military weapons n hardwares for d taliban
Another reasonable comments. Nice one from people who don't read from backyard.
Foreign AffairsRe: Biden Assertions On Afghanistan Fact-Checked (Photos) by Debra911(f): 8:07am On Aug 20, 2021
kennyz247:
Joe Biden my man and my best president... Americans can not continue to waste the lives of there galant soldiers just for a country dat can not make sacrifice for d good of there country....if e dey easy all ds yeye abi coward Arab Emirates should continue where America stop..
Taliban will come for America someday, just like Osama bin Laden did.
Foreign AffairsRe: Biden Assertions On Afghanistan Fact-Checked (Photos) by Debra911(f): 8:04am On Aug 20, 2021
Beancounter94:
This was how the situation was going to end. It would have ended like that, whoever was in charge...Biden, trump etc.

The only way Biden could have prevented this situation was to have simply committed to staying in Afghanistan for the next 100 years, while brutally building up a large secular population.

If there is anyone to blame, it is the Afghan people, and their army. They got trained, they got the money, they got the stuff...and they simply allowed a bunch of illiterate seventh century enthusiasts to take over their country ...just like that. Just like that.
Nice one, you're on point. Afghan has a corrupt system like Nigeria. Some Talibans are part of the Afghan soldiers, so how do they fight the terrorists group?

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