₦airaland Forum

marvelck:
Since women naturally age faster than men, its not advisable for a guy to marry a girl his age or within his age range. Guys need to marry girls they are far older than with at least 10 years, so that when she's aging everything will still be balanced. You can still be enjoying her breast, and also admiring her full waist line for a long time to come. Compare to when you marry a girl that's only 3 or 5 years younger than you. Before you know it, she'll start looking older than you apart from adding weight anyhow after giving kids. So, let there a space of like 10 years between you and the girl you want to marry, just like fathers used to do it in the past.

Adaure4ever:
The term "kiss and tell" is very common in the world of men,
and I am yet to see what they enjoy in this act even when they promise you not to do it.
Its very common in the area of Sex, A boy will beg a girl for sex, after she accept and both of you will go and "jigijag". After the sex romp, be rest assured that the guy is going to brag with it to his friends.
Its an irritating character.
I am not a victim of it But many girls have been put through emotional strain because of this act.
BOYS, Whatever that happened between you and that girl should be secret.. KEEP IT SECRET, you stubborn heads.
Thankz..

dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

I have been married for three years and we have a daughter. I have been secretly seeing one of my husbands friends for the past six months though he is also married. We have a sexual relationship and love each other so much. But I feel bad because this man is a better lover than my husband. As a result, I have not had sex with my husband for weeks. I know that this is a wrong thing to do, but Im very happy this way. Why?

Dorothy,

by e-mail.

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Dear Dorothy,

Because you have no morals, no scruples, no conscience and no common sense. It is clear that you have no respect for your husband, his friendship or your marriage vows. You may think you are happy now, but the joy will evaporate when your husband finds out about your affair. Sexual compatibility is important in a marriage, but it takes a lot more than good sex to make a long, mutually rewarding relationship. Dont throw away a good future for you and your kid for a sexual fling. By the way, why did you marry your husband in the first place?

Bunmi

http://dearbunmi.com/he-satisfies-me-more-than-my-husband/
ask@dearbunmi.com

billyG:
Hav u pple 4gotten that 1st Bank was fine #trillions for concealing money belonging to fed.government,they want 2 get that money back by fraudalent charges,some1 shld petition EFCC.

Themandator:
If it was a thousand or two, it wouldn't have made much impart with some people but deducting a million plus from a friends account in the name of withdrawal fee is crazy.
Another was charged 200k, another 500 plus... It is unacceptable.

9jaOfficial:
I just called FIRST Bank Call Centre. They say it's not a CBN Policy but a new Policy from First Bank Mgt. This took effect March 2016. They now charge a sum of 1 Naira per 1000 Naira on all forms of transfers either on counter via Internet banking or Mobile banking or ATM transfers and other forms of bank transfers on all savings accounts.
This is a very inconsiderate policy by FBN to all their customers.

VLadipo:
Hello all,

I first got the alerts in early March. I was debited a total of NGN105.00 for withdrawal fee on my SAVINGS account.

Confused, I went to my branch to complain. From time immemorial, we have always known (and were even taught in school) that savings account do yield monthly interests if you do not withdraw more than once from the account within a month.
Hence, I was surprised to get this explanation from the customer service person I met that I was charged withdrawal fee because I withdrew more than once from my savings account. The normal thing should be no interest for that month.
She further explained that the directive was from CBN and that deliberations were still ongoing on whether the policy should hold. She promised that a reversal of the deduction could take place.

Now, just some moments ago, I got 2 alerts indicating that I have been debited a total of NGN105.00 as withdrawal fee for the month of March.
This is in addition to the senseless,unrealistic charges debited from my account as payment for SMS alert every month.

Now, isnt that crazy?

Guys, please can you relate to all these as regards your savings account in your respective banks?

What do I do temporarily while I think of leaving Firstbank for good?

The charges on my savings account have become unbearable and disgusting.

Thank you.

Regards,
VLadipo.

squirrelmail:
This is a 2 units of 2bedroom flats, all rooms ensuit. It will be a storey building of 4 flats. can i get a rough estimate here plz as block molding is ongoing at the site now.

@Lalasticlala help plz

BiafranNigerian:
Is that a mother board circuitry ?

blackpanda:
Oh shut up! You lame attempt at scare tactic has no meaning whatsoever. A vote for change is not a vote for automatic paradise. We must go thru the process of righting the cesspool of shit we were in, before things get better. There is no magic wand anywhere. So your silly prayer is ridiculous and dumb!

zeefa:
Caught his Wife, Sister in-law and the husband having 3some.

Wonder they say never ends! Dayo came to my house and was crying looking so down. A sign of given up on himself with so much frustration and anger all around his entire face. The winter that just started doesn't help matters cos his face was looking so. Dry like someone suffering from malnutrition. The weather must have given him hard time cos he actually came to my place buy bus and from the bus stop to my house is a little bit far. So I could feel the level at which he must have been affected and got dried up working in d winter without dressing warm.
It was on Jan 1 new year and the new year celebration was still on the air.
Before, I continue on Dayo's gift for the new year, let me take a little time to give you a short story about him. I wouldn't want to say or give u the exact location of Dayo to cover up his private life. However, he moved to North America from Nigeria through a Spouse Visa packaged by Sade his present wife in 2013. Before dayo came to join his wife, he was a banker in Nigeria but was sacked due to a case of misappropriation in managing a customers fund which affected him and his boss.
Shade is working as a nurse and she has her married elder sister living in the same county with her. In fact, shade was staying with them before dayo's arrival but later got their own apartment not very far from her sister's house. Am sure anyone reading this would understand how Shade's sister and her husband received dayo. they have been supportive and good to him since he joined them. Most especially during the process of his naturalisation and all.
Now to the unbelievable event that left him speechless and insane up till this moment. It was on a new year eve and dayo went to work but left early to join his wife for prayers before breaking through the new year. On a normal day, he was supposed to close 8am next morning (jan 1). But he lodged a complain n requested to leave before time which was eventually granted.
But to his widest imagination could dayo have thought something terrible might be going on in their apartment. Dayo was with the gift he bought from walmart with the hope of surprising his wife. he opened the entrance door gently and headed straight to their bedroom. You won't believe what he saw, his wife shade, her sister and the husband on their matrimonial bed all naked having party.
What an abomination! According to him, he broke down in tears cos he was so speechless and weak. He didn't know if to rush them and beat hell of the man or attack his wife or the sister in-law for such nasty act.
Since then, dayo has been in my house and I advise him to calm down..
I know we have wise men n women on nairaland, am throwing this out for you to help advise him on what to do. He told me that he would be returning back to nigeria and forget about the marriage but for me where is he going to start from in Nigeria. Please kindly contribute as I promised to give you updates as time goes on!
Please kindly note that those names used are not their real names and am using this platform cos non of them use nairaland, so it easy for me to seek people's opinion to help my poor friend. Thank u.

Etizz:
I want to ask a very salient question, I have a friend who is supposed to round up this scheme by December 2015, his employer has finally signed his timesheet of December (dat means all his timesheet has been signed wish has been confirmed from his own page)

Furthermore, he is having serious issue with his employer since yesterday, and his employer is threatening him that he will deactivate his account, that he will make the timesheet invalid, and he will end up not having November and December stipend.

Finally, my question is, is it possible for the employer to deactivate or making his timesheet dormant even after he (the employer) has successfully filled and submitted the timesheet?? ?? ??

Edokpia, laduna, puttersmind, I need u guys here....

Thanks everyone.

PassingShot:
I don't need your preaching about your political leaning or absence of it. I could have ignored you but thought to educate you a a bit perhaps you will understand better.


If you're conversant and exposed enough, you will understand and accept that GEJ's attempt at removing subsidy had everything wrong with it. Firstly, in November of 2011 or thereabout, GEJ said the rumour that subsidy was going to be removed was not correct only to announce through the New Year's message on the first of Jan 2012 that subsidy had been removed. The reaction was spontaneous and expected. So, on the ground of his earlier promise and the fact he announcced it without consulting far and wide, people were right to reject his action. Hope you comprehend!


This coming from someone who professed non-partisanship is at best laughable. What PMB has recorded in seven months have given indication of better tomorrow to those with analytical mind.

1. Insecurity: If you were wise enough, you'd have known that PMB has done a better job than GEJ in this regard. BH was controlling some local govts before PMB came on board. They could launch audacious attack on military formations and sack police barracks then. The same cannot be said as of today apart from the suicide bombing.

2. Economic meltdown: As a result of what? You're dull if you don't know that the economic meltdown is a result of looting of our FR and ECA plus the fact that crude price has tumbled coupled with fact that GEJ didn't invest in productive sectors of the economy when he held sway.

3. Corruption: Can you please name a single corruption case under the current regime of PMB? If you can't, you're not better than a motor park agbero. The fight on corruption that PMB is currently waging has never been witnessed in the history of Nigeria. It's so loud that the deaf is aware of it yet an imposter like you is talking trash here.

The TSA that the incompetent Jona could not get all MDAs to comply with is being complied with already and government has been able to mop up previously dorman/stolent money into its account. Do you need me to explain what this means to you?


And you say you're not a supporter of any govt/party? Keep living in denial. Na you sabi.
Only people living in self denial will continue to deny the fact that GEJ FAILED WOEFULLY and there was no way he could have won against even a statue of Buhari.

PassingShot:
Keep living in the past. GEJ that couldn't manage surplus cannot be trusted with subsidy removal. Where are the palleatives promised on the partial removal called SUREP?

@ the topic, I hope this is correct. It is good news especially now that crude price has tumbled. Just as the president said in the media chat, no one will be subsidizing anyone with the current global crude price. And by the time our refineries start to work optimally, subsidy will not even be in the equation even if crude price goes up later.

bgates:
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They might have scam interns again oo
The day don they pass small small oo

ernesty20:
Sometimes i wonder why guys suck the same place where urine and smelling blood are passing through. It is very very disgusting if i may.

Some pussssies are smelling yet some guys suck them like their lives depend on it. So tell me, why do u suck pusssssy?

roseval:
Pls can you help with their website.

sasquareT:
My guy the truth is that US go woop Rusian ass oo,...Rusian like making noise sha and are more aggressive which will eventually serve as their undoing

mizquote:
we often say your re good in bed. but that most times is a lie.

likila:
see yar doctor.
shrink or optician.

obiorathesubtle:
If you haven't made a survey on about 10 handsome guys. Your conclusion is invalid!

Jolllyjoy:
the next time they ask,tell them you havent eaten,and see how much they care.


Hehehe

onila:
I only talk to gentlemen

it sucks being gentle does not guarantee manners all the time

so disappointed in him

u wont react fast to slap him because u didnt expect it from such a guy

ishaq062:
please where u asked to provide the invitation txt message or email.
I want to gatecrash.that why I want to know

rawguy:
y say so? remember that ilorin is nt sthwst so I don't expect ilorin to write last Saturday. or do u knw any ilorin given invitation for last Saturday?

rawguy:
Any invitation for ilorin, Pls let's knw o. though no invitation frm my end here.