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Emman8:
Please help my honda accord 2003 V6 Vibrates whenever i turn on AC and acceleration started behaving sluggishly
Cc GAZZUZ, Autojosh

There are many reasons cars jerk ranging from engine seats, dying plugs, faulty break pads and rotors, faulty/incompatible compressor and so on. Since yours is noticed on switching on the AC, then you might need to check the compressor.

QueenSuccubus:



One of the most boring and irritating position ever...

Like seriously, do people still do it?

Maychang:
Truth is...Abstinence is the best....it relieves us of so much worries and consequences.

Platonic relationship can best be practiced in a distant relationship.

Oyind18:
There are guys that like them naughty like this

Like them naughty for friendship/fling, most timed not marriage; unless in error.

davereal:
Firstly, graduating with a first class is not a guarantee for job. But it is only fair within the ambient of merit that a first class graduate in a relevant field as regard the opening should be considered for interview (is left for him to proof his worth).
So while scrolling down the list yesterday, I was so sure of seeing my name. But to my surprise only three names appeared from Central Zone, Taraba State, for the position of Foreign Service Officer GL 08 (Foreign Affairs)
So I began my analysis: I graduated with a First Class in B. A. International Studies and Diplomacy while the shortlisted candidates graduated in these disciplines:
1. NCE, B. Sc. Social Studies
2. B. A. French
3. B. Sc. Sociology

I don't know their grades, but let's assume they all had First Class, their disciplines are not as relevant as my own considering Foreign Service Job. But this is Nigeria where merit is always murdered on the alter of connection.
Patiently waiting for the next batch. In the meantime, I'm already running my M.A in the First and the Best University in Nigeria (you know the school na...Lol). The job was just Plan B.

Well, I'm glad u acknowledge that graduating with first class is not a guarantee for gaining a job, not even being shortlisted. However, do you also know that in the process of recruitment, very little error (either on your part or the screening officer) can disqualify you. It is not of he that runneth...

BTW, batch B is coming.

Personally, I detest a woman beater and classify them as inferior. Funny enough, most of them can't fight fellow men outside. Come what may, there are much more honourable ways to treat your woman and make her realize her mistakes.

khiaa:
You must think that a virgin is a supernatural being. If she has sex with a man who isn't satisfying her she will long to experience good sexx with someone who will. Stop the delusional perceptions of virgins, they are normal women. Every woman was a virgin once.

In case you didn't know, if you ever are the guy that devir.gins a woman you better have your game tight and your sexx skills on point because you would be her first and she will always remember you and she will compare her future experiences with you rather you were good or bad.

For example...How was your first time? Girl he sucked, he was a two minute man
Or....Girl he was sooooooo good, it was heavenly. Get the picture?

While I respect your views, I also think you didn't take certain things into consideration. The act the lady is looking at is pen*trative s*x which in any case, is not meant to last too long; please correct me if I'm wrong. According to S*x therapists, 3-7 minutes is considered normal. Do you also know that some times, a lady could term a 7 minute sex as too short due to the excitement (practically, set a timer and count down and it would wow you). If a man can hold a for*play for 3 hours, I wonder what else a lady wants that she can't get within that period. Also, multiple rounds of sex doesn't only depend on the man(I acknowledge exceptional cases where the man has a problem revitalising). Just as it takes time for a lady who reaches orgasm to be back again for sex, so does it take a man's throttle to become erect after ejaculation. The problem is that some ladies would lie down and expect it to rise again within 2 minutes (its an organ, not a machine)

I believe the essence of sexual intercourse beside reproduction is mutual satisfaction and not lasting longer than usual, if your man thrusts for 3 hours and you still enjoy it throughout the long duration, then perfect. What she should look out is that which turns her on and takes her to cloud 9.

I've known ladies who do not prioritize penetrative sex, as a matter of fact, she only permits it to facilitate your orgasm. I've also known some who would complain you are hitting her tummy (for some, gentle is better while for others, aggression does it all). It is always best to discuss intimacy and discover how best to be compatible in all spheres. Our problem most times is not talking about what we prioritize with our partners who should be our confidant. The assumption of "what is good for the goose will fit for the ganders" is usually our itching point.

Jodha:
I won't do any of that if I like a guy


.. Just saying#

If ah like yhu... Nai I go snub yhu pass sef...

Attention keh..ask yhu out nih.

I know a babe that does/did that to a guy and you know what, she eventually lost her dream guy cos of her style. The guy is a shy and impatient one.

Naijasinglegirl:
So I got into the second row of a danfo at the bus stop and while the bus was waiting for two more passengers, a boy and a girl came in and sat beside me. Next thing, the boy asked the driver the cost of the fare, driver said N200. The boy turned to the girl who weighed not less than 65kg and said, "Sweedy, its not N150. Let me lap you."
Soon enough, 15kg of Sweedy was on my thighs and 50kg was on her boyfriend's own. The babe had balanced like a boss and was sipping coke from a straw with sunglasses wedged in her hair. She even had the guts to be chewing gum too. Only God knows where they were coming from.


I was very uncomfortable in the position they put me since it was a tight bus but I could not alight because buses heading to my direction were few. I was just hissing and hissing miserably because I didn't want to cause a scene. .
The boy now asked her, "Sweedy are you okay?" She replied , "I can manage," They didn't even ask me how I am coping with 15kg of Sweedy. When the last passenger got in, a visibly angry man, he told the relationship people to adjust so he could sit comfortably. He said he couldn't understand why they were inconveniencing him who paid the complete fare. Boyfriend was like, "Chairman where I wan see space?" Then he turned to NSG the mumu and said, "Can you shift?"

That was enough to send me through the roof. "Shift to where?" I asked. "Am I not carrying Sweedy too? Have I not tried for you people?" Then an agbero who was observing came by and asked them why they could not sell their coke and use the money for their transportation.


http://www.naijasinglegirl.com/at-least-date-a-man-that-can-afford-your-tp/

Oh I'm sorry sweedy, I think I should get you a car!

konjishild:
when she visits me,she will pull off everything and go naked, she even cook for me naked, asked her why but she said she wants breeze to enter her,friends what could that mean?

That's her nature, nothing else. BTW, why cover ursf in your own privacy...my opinion tho.

LAFO:
Some people are blessed sha....





Unlike our own wey look like tangerines

It's that simple, just pay some attention to it.

Abati is a professional, Adesina is a lie lie politician...my opinion tho.

kateskitty:


I'm not gonna bore anyone with the details but he logged into my Facebook account and saw I have been chatting with some random guy.
But what broke the camels back for him was that I initiated the chat with the guy by saying "Hello handsome"

Just digressing a bit, I wouldn't share my social ntwk PW with my bae (or anyone) and wouldn't request hers cos I know certainly that sometimes, we get messy on social networks just for fun. BTW, wouldn't wanna get my head into a lot of things...not into someone's privacy.

Glory12345:
Which of the Nigerian GSM carrier is The Fastest and Most Economical Network for Data.
Is Mtn data still rocking? It’s terribly slow at my end and customer care have not been helpful u just receive unnecessary call from them when ya expecting Better call and if not for my itel s31 dat i had to change to glo sim now and even glo is fucking up big time.

Mtn Data is expensive and Slow
Glo Is Slow too

Which one are we going to use now?

It all depends on which is good in your area.

Glo is the cheapest and it is super good in my area. What I do is use Etisalat(SME data) in the office and Glo at home.

Ioannes:
Wishing the President dead is very unbecoming and unladylike. He's someone's father and someone's husband and his crime is that he's trying to clean up the mess of your hero, Jonathan, even though he's moving at snail's speed.

That's no reason to wish him dead.

You were making sense until you got to this point: his crime is that he's trying to clean up the mess of your hero, Jonathan.

Like seriously, the thing is getting out of hand these days. First Bank did similar thing early last year.

Without being doubtful, what I see in some of these prophecies is analysis/predictions.

EmilyShoton:
I hate men but love their money. but criosly was she stupid?

I'm not sure if you (as a lady) have been in love.

Most women do a lot of unimaginable things when they are TRULY in love.

Csami:
Na lie.

Since the past weeks, we've been getting news of how the Nigerian army have been victorious against BH sect, killing them in their numbers while taking one or two casualties.
This means to an extent a large area of the state should be safe and with tight security right!? Which also should mean that the IDP camp that house BH victims should be a safe place and miles away from any gunfight or BH invasion!?
So this mudafvcker should tell us what a fighter jet was doing so close to a safe zone and at the same time releasing it's payload on refugees killing more than 50 persons?

Either the government have been lying to us (never trusted them anyway) or the government killed them on purpose.

Thumbs up.

Your last paragraph: I take the former; they are serial liers. But you know what, Nigerians are gradually getting the real deal.

[quote author=latiephwald post=52724351][/quote]Ur line isn't going, inbox me another let's talk.

latiephwald:
#55000
In great condition. for
Lagos Ikorodu
09026198968
serious buyer pls

How many inches please. I actually have someone who needs a system but it has to be 14".

HtwoOw:
More petrol in fire

Later they will say Buhari is Evil, contempt is a problem in itself

and failing to conduct himself like a reasonable human being means bail hearing is adjourned


Na him do himself

Just wondering the kinda human beings we breed in this country!

Do you understand the rational behind secret trials

I'm sure you've not been following this case, I'm pretty sure of that.

Worriedwife:
This issue has been disturbing me, I had to create a new id to get advice 'anonymously', maybe someone else who has gone through this can help. My husband's dress sense is poor, his shoes look like weapons...pointed mouth with very heavy soles. His colour combination is something else. He is a good-looking young man but dresses like an old man.

It makes me not to find him sexy, even his boxers look like soccer shorts.
Whenever we go out, people look at him like he's my gate man. The other day, we went to visit some family friends and someone there said, we don't look like we came out from the same house.

You know how people can be, news have been going around that I am spending all his money on myself while he goes about tattered. My in-laws are also part of the rumour mongers. I have tried to teach him, but he's not ready to learn. Before the usual didn't you know when you married him questions, I knew. He kept saying I am just a girlfriend and I want to change him. Now I am his wife, he still won't change.

Please, what can I do? Won't it be rude if I throw his old wears away?
We recently moved to PH, I don't know my way around yet. Things look expensive here, where can I shop at a fair rate?
I need practical solutions. Thank you all

So humorous! his shoes look like weapons...pointed mouth with very heavy soles
even his boxers look like soccer shorts.

But seriously, there are men like that and they see looking good as waste of money.
Do the needful, swing into action, shop for him, costume for him too and if he is not the stubborn type, you will change him.

AsianAfrican:
Hmm My first post here! thanks to my best friend that told me about this page.

I left Nigeria in 2014 and I was dating this Yoruba guy that my best friend hated with passion but she didnt know why but I was willing to make her see reason with why she should like him.

Since I left the country, I have been faithful to the dude. I usually told him about other guys asking me out. This dude would say, I should move on if I see someone better. this is someone that claims to love me. He never for once called me from 2014 till June 2016 I broke up with him. I did the calling! (oya insult me lol Sha that is mistake love).

Before I broke up with him, I asked him times without number if he was dating someone else and the dude would say NO!

To cut the long story short, the dude has been in a relationship all this while with a girl that he introduced to me while I was in the country as his family friend because she was always in the house when I went to see him. He was obviously a gold digger thinking I would get my Canadian paper and come back to Nigeria to marry him.

The most annoying of it all is wasting Jesus salvation by being a side chic for 2yrs! Jesus didnt die on the cross for me to be a side chic na.

This is a guy I dated truthfully for 2 years! This is a guy I will send my money to while I was serving. He never took me out. WOOOW, will I forget the day I called his mother and she insulted me to stay away from the son. I was in shock while a woman I have never met will throw insults to a lady she has not met! I discussed the issue with this yoruba guy and he played deaf ears! Since I left the country I have turned down many guys because of this guy I knew perfectly had nothing to offer but I genuinely loved him and believed in his future. Although I was heart broken but ..... It is all fine

My parents have always told me a yoruba man will always end up with a yoruba woman in the house or outside the house which means either ways you will be replaced.
I have decided never to give a yoruba guy a chance in my life. #myopinion

Even as an Igbo guy, I don't think all Yorubas are like that. Having stayed with them for long, I can tell you there are very nice and sincere ones. You simply met the wrong guy. They are very caring and hospitable.

Catalin:
If your friend wants to get married, he will. All these ones na long Tory. What about orphans that grew up without any parental guide but the are doing well in their various families and partners. He even saw a grandmother that raised him. Where did you say your friend is from

Environmental influence is as strong as genes. Remember, there are certain people who are natural introverts, and without a social/loving background, it could be something else.

Oloniyan:
My Friend just confided in me the real reason he has been avoiding and evading any discussion that has to do with marital affairs.

This guy is a very handsome dude and a jovial kind of being. I noticed that since I've known him that he hasn't keep any relationship beyond 4 months. I used to brushed this off with the reason that my friend must be a playboy until yesterday evening when he opened up to me because of his 'High' state

He told me he was born out of wedlock and he was taken from his mother when he was just a year plus (as he was told) to be living with his paternal Grandmother. The Grandparents were farmers and they have little or no time to attend to his mental developments.

He told me that doesn't remember any bit about any 'reasonable' time spent with his real dad or mom before he lost them at his teens age.

Now to cut the story short, he said he couldn't bring himself to understand what a Parental care or love is. He doesn't know anything about family setup because the people he lived with in his early age were farmer that start their daily routine of farming as early as 6am and ends it around 6pm which hindered them from showing him that love or care he craves for.

The fear in his mind now is how he's gonna be relating with any woman he marry? How do families relate together? What does it takes to be a loving, caring and responsible father? Mind you these are what he couldn't get as a person to the extent that he has been finding it difficult to hold any lady down cos they used to complained that he is too cold. and he told me he is trying his possible best to be romantic.

He told me that he don't wanna be like his father or mother. He don't wanna fail his own family.

Dear Nairalanders, Please my guy needs mature advise cos he told me that he is contemplating impregnating any lady and accept the kid and not the mother. I told him he is on the way to creating another version of him.

Please Your Advise and counseling might save a traumatised fellow.

Mods.....please move this to front page for my guy sake....he is also a Nairalander and might see this. thanks

One thing I feel that would go a long way is getting used to family life and care. He has to learn no matter how little he can. In as much as he is somewhat cold to women, he should be free with his relatives/folks, hence, the reason mingling amongst those he is used to would go a long way.

Justdulla:
That why i advice against away match. Some parents ehn they are messed up.
Back to tha topic, he has to spend some time in a family house setting. Probably his relatives or a friend. Secondly he has to get married to a very good homely lady. A lady that understands the virtues of motherhood and taking care of her home. So he has to avoid the city ladies or open eye babes in nairaland, and search for the reserved up and doing lady from a rural setting. Am talking from experience ooh cos very few city ladies make good wifes.
Furthermore he has to change that notion of baby mama drama, let him think positively about life. And Lastly, Marriage is not by force, baby mama is not by force either, enjoy yiur single life, adopt a kid and die.. Afterall no one lives more than 90 something these days, so why should we carry life matter ontop our head like agege bread

halimi26:
Yoruba men are very sexually promiscuous but very fashionable while igbo men are very aggressive,violent,money-grubbing,criminal minded,insecure and fashionably inept
I prefare Yoruba men 1000%

With due respect to your opinion, I think you've only met the non educated Ibos.

meshachdbuzz:
baba na chrome I dey use they are asking for passport I no get oooh

Unless things have changed, they request for passport when you wanna get verified.

meshachdbuzz:
iam trying to sign up with the web money the thing just they confuse me

It's kinda complicate but use Chrome, you will understand it better.

meshachdbuzz:
very bad is there any other way of payment....i need this phone

Use Webmoney. Aliexpress accepts it and you are Escrow protected too.

IAmOged:
Take ur time to read
solution to the conundrum that a lot of guys face: why does it look like girls like guys that don't give a shit about them?
The usual answers are simplistic: girls want what they can't have; aloof guys look like they have higher value; aloof guys seem more interesting or mysterious, etc… All of these answers are right to a degree, but they dont tell the whole story. So I came up with my own explanation:

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Needy Love: Our society exalts love as the greatest good, the pinnacle of human life, etc… But the problem is that our society sees “love” as purely an emotion.
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What our society calls love I call needy love, defined as a set of ultimately selfish emotions including the desire to have sex, the desire for physical affection, the desire for an ego boost, the desire for validation, etc… This is not a complete list, but the specific emotions are not important – the point is that these emotions are selfish in that they consist of YOU wanting something from the other person without regard for what they want.
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There are, of course, other conceptions of love: the Bible (and many other traditional societies) saw love as a contract between two parties that has little to do with emotion. But our society sees love as purely emotion without the accompanying obligation – when your “emotions” run out, you’ve “fallen out of love” and you can go find somebody else with no consequences.
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The emotions that make up “needy love” are our strongest emotions, so needy love hijacks our thoughts and convinces us we have a deep connection with the other person. People don’t think “Wow I am under the influence of a bunch of extremely strong chemicals in my brain” but instead think “this is my soulmate.”
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That is why “love” is the subject of countless poems, movies, love songs, etc… and an object of worship in our society.
Needy love emotions are different for men and women. Women, for example, feel a strong attraction to “confident” men, whereas men, although they like confident women, don’t have the same emotional reaction to confidence. Men, on the other hand, place more weight on physical appearance than women do. Overall, the checklist that has to be satisfied for women to fall into needy love is much longer than men’s, which is part of the reason women take longer to fall in love and are more“flaky".
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The reason relationships are so hard is that just because you feel needy love towards a woman doesnt mean she feels the same needy love back – they have a different process going on in their brain.
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One of men’s strongest needy love emotions is their overwhelming desire for sex right away, so men “fall in love” and emotionally over-invest in a relationship much quicker than women. Thats why men are a lot more likely to be “creepy” than women –their “needy love” emotions activate much quicker. However, the needy love emotions are much stronger in women and once a woman “falls in love” she is much more likely to become clingy and needy.
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Negative needy love: Here is the dark side of needy love: while the needy love emotions make you feel good for a while, they have an incredibly destructive negative component. Feelings of attachment, sexual desire, acceptance, etc…, can quickly change to neediness, depression, desperation, loneliness, anger, resentment, etc… if the person rejects you. Needy love is like crack – the highs are amazing, but the lows are terrible.
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The Greek philosopher Plato wrote that “erotic” love is ultimately dangerous because it makes you irrationally value a person when they like you, and then irrationally hate them when they don’t. As we all know, love can literally drive a person crazy and cause one to become violent, stalk somebody, fall into deep depression, etc… “Love” has ruined countless people’s lives.
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On a subconscious level everybody knows that a person in the grip of needy love is basically insane.
Vicarious emotions Human beings have a weird ability to feel emotions vicariously through other people. For example, if you see a guy get hit by a car, you feel “bad” for him because you FEEL as if you yourself got hit by a car,. You don’t logically think to yourself “oh that must suck to get hit by a car.”. The Scottish philosopher Adam Smith said the basis for human sympathy is the fact that we feel through the eyes of the others. Thats why you oftentimes don’t have sympathy for people experiencing problems you havent experienced.
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One reason needy love so intense is that you feel the other persons emotions vicariously: not only do you feel your own emotions towards them, but you also literally enter their mind and feel their emotions towards you, so being in love is like an infinite loop of emotions. You love them, you feel them loving you, you then feel them feeling you loving them, etc… It’s insane and part of the reason why “love” is such a complicated mindfuck. But beware: YOU CANNOT ACTUALLY READ THEIR MIND SO YOU PROJECT EMOTIONS ONTO THEIR BRAIN THAT THEY MAY NOT HAVE.
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The main point of this article and the reason why women like men who dont give a shit about them is this: Women are disgusted by needy love. If a woman sees a guy displaying the needy love emotions, she immediately become turned off because she vicariously feels that he is becoming crazy.
She knows that the man WANTS something (not just something, A LOT) from her. This puts pressure on her because now somebody's happiness is dependent on her. She knows that he is constantly thinking about her and if she bleeps up even a little (i.e., forgets to call him back, says something weird, etc…)
he will become angry and disappointed. The bleeped up thing is that we Ladies feel all this subconsciously, so they don’t really know why they are getting turned off: they just know that the guy is doing something that is repelling them.
All women have felt needy love before so when they sense it in somebody else they know exactly what is going on.
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[color=#000055]However, women feel needy love on a much stronger level than men. One thing I have noticed is that the clingiest/neediest women oftentimes give out the harshest rejections – it makes sense: these women reject guys the hardest because they themselves know full well know what its like to be needy and they know its terrifying.
Also, because the needy love emotions are at the forefront of womens minds,
a woman can sense needy love in a guy when he himself doesnt even see it. Worse yet: super attractive women have so many men fall in love with them that they may assume a man is displaying needy love to them even if he isnt.

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Some women (especially women that get hit on a lot) interpret simple, everyday actions by the guy (having polite conversation, buying them a drink) as insane needy love – remember we said that vicariously feeling emotions doesn’t mean that you will actually know what they are feeling. If you're a super hot girl like me in Nigeria in 2016, you have tons and tons of people displaying needy love towards you: the cashier at the Mall,store, your 15 ex-boyfriends who can't get over you, other girls who are jealous of you/want to be you, etc… A person who is genuinely emotionless towards you is a breath of fresh air.
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Finally, beyond the subconscious level, women are turned off by needy love because needy people are just not fun to be around. They agree with everything you say, don’t say anything interesting/provocative, laugh at all your jokes, and don’t challenge you/call you out on your bullshit. Basically you are useless. Furthermore, people under the influence of needy love act irrationally, talk stupid, act creepy, and display more negative emotions (jealousy, disappointment) than positive ones.
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Please keep in mind that our brains can subconsciously pick up a person acting out of needy love, and the signs are often very subtle. Imagine a person saying “hey how are you”? A person can say those same words as a merely nice guy, but another person acting out of needy love will betray their neediness in their body language, tone of voice, eye contact, etc… On a logical level there is no difference, but your subconscious emotions will be able to pick up that the person is displaying needy love.
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That’s why a lot of guys fail when they pretend to not give a shit – they have to actually not give a shit. It is a very delicate dance to not display needy love – you need to carefully choose your words, and you need to monitor your subject closely to see if you are freaking her out. You can be having an amazing time all night but then the slightest nudge of needy love freaks her out and sends her running.
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The point remains: sometimes even a subtle, slight bit of neediness puts the subject on the defensive. Remember, freaking out over needy love is a subconscious process so she may THINK she like you but she feel revulsion if you are being needy.[/color]
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DONT GIRLS WANT TO BE LOVED?
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Well… Not exactly. What women really want is a guy THEY CAN LOVE.As a guy, you need to just get out of the way and let her love you and not say or do anything to Bleep it up. Remember, needy love emotions are selfish, so a girl will send needy love to you all day but then freak out when you send that same needy love back. Of course, girls want certain things from guys, like attention, somebody who will listen to them, sex, etc… Its ok to give those things in the right times and right amounts. But the full panoply of needy love emotions often freaks them out, especially if the guys needy love is stronger than theirs. Another way to put it is this: women want to be loved on a logical level: they want a guy who is attentive, cares about them, isnt needy, isnt selfish, and isnt an asshole.
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Ladies arent impressed with needy love. Also, girls know that the needy love emotions are temporary and wildly fluctuate, so a guy who is under the spell of needy love could easily fall in “love” with another girl tomorrow and leave alone.
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One thing I’ve noticed is that the most “slutty” girls post the most quotes about “love” on their Nairaland profile, Facebook page etc.
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Why is this? They can’t control their emotions and live in a world of needy love, and needy love doesnt actually care about the actual person you love. When somebody else tickles your emotions you move onto them and forget the first person you were needy loving. If you love a girl “logically” you are actually doing her more of a service than if you love her with needy love. Logical love is more solid and pure than needy love.
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So what should a man do? If you want to get a girl to like you, talk to her, be nice to her, joke with her, etc… But just don’t display the needy love emotions. Treat the girl like any other dude you know. Don’t say anything that implies that you “need” anything from her, don’t stare at her too long, don’t follow her around, don’t demand her attention, dont do things for her, etc… If you're out with her, dont make her feel “responsible” for you – make her feel like you could totally walk away and do your own thing and it wouldnt bother you.
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In fact, you should err on the side of slightly being a “dick” because a lot of really hot girls will interpret normal behavior as needy love. It will be hard, because you’ve been taught by society (i.e.,telemundo, romantic comedies and Disney movies) that the way to court girls is to kiss their ass and tell them all about your deep and passionate needy love. And of course your emotions are going to want to make you act needy. Control your emotions! Another danger is that the girl will start showing interest so you will think “its ok for me to start showing needy love now.” No!! Needy love is always bad, and just because you've been making out and staring into each other's eyes doesnt mean its ok to bring out your needy love.
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After some practice, you will be able to snap out of it..
But wont I friendzone myself?
Good question.
Yes, if you completely act emotionless around a girl, we may think you are uninterested. So you need to do 2 things:
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1) Tell Us you are interested. Ask us on a date. A lot of guys are afraid of asking girls on dates because they don’t want to look needy, but if you can ask a girl on a date without displaying needy love you will intrigue and excite her. Its a great deal for her! She can get all the fun and excitement of a date without the burden of dealing with a guy that wants a bunch of shit from her, and
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2) Do all the things you've learned on Nairaland romance section, ashewo bear parlor thread/harddon thread: eye contact, deep, intelligent conversations, kino, escalate, etc… It is possible to do all these things without showing needy love. You may ask: how can one escalate with we ladies sexually without making it look like you want to Bleep Us … well, its an art...sortta push-pull method.
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bashers should backoff....

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Wildflame

Babygirl, you were making sense until I discovered I've not read up to 30% of the whole post yet.

You could have partitioned it to keep readers in suspense or try the much you can to reduce the length.

We now live in a world of "brief" and "microchips". I doubt if a lot of people would have time for that.

#NoBashingPlease

rokiatu:
Who the fu...ck dump Ebube?


That's like dumping Beyonce for lil Kim.

...lies in the eye of the beholder!