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how friendly romantic and playful is this your friend with those ladies ,? he might not notice but maybe his too tight I mean too serious , ladies love guys that are a little bit loose you know guys they can be free with play with them joke around open minded

lol she has time for you cause she has nothing to do , besides she's just 20 yrs old what does she know about love

the point you made is pointless

what do u mean by sex mind game?

All she wants might just be friendship and attention not necessarily sexual, but if u feel she's been obsessed with you and crossing the limit, let her know where the limit line is, it's something simple she's a mature lady she will understand

[quote author=Imoh555 post=78172599]Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it.. But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies.. I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now.. She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways... Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life....... Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense


Exactly my thoughts

biGDhAp:
.. so which is between a man thigh.. life ??

The thing between a man's thighs is not as deadly as that which is between a woman, cause it will kill you emotionally spiritually financially and then physically

most Nigerian's don't really know what relationship is, most of them go into relationship for the wrong reasons, going into a relationship cause of sex money material things etc are actually wrong reasons for anyone to be in a relationship , why not make it friends with benefits instead , but when two people are truly in love they look beyond sex and material benefits, they share responsibilities 50|50 were the guy is weak the Lady might be strong to help him were the girl is weak the guy might be strong to help her , true lovers share each others strength and weaknesses equally , but tradition and religion will say a man is the provider , a man should love while the woman is to receive and submit , religion and tradition is really the problem of Africa ,that's where that typical mentality come from

husbandsnatcha:
Wickedness is wickedness ...even if u arent a killer

U can be a great killer n stil be kind

we are both saying the same thing, its a pleasure having this conversation with you , peace

this story just dey anyhow

Young man, you don't even know how to chat a lady in the first place something as simple as that, but you want to be a bad boy player do you know the effects that comes with it, there is death in between a woman's thighs young man be yourself

agbonkamen:
you don't understand. if a fat man is ontop a fat lady she will feel the weight of the man unlike a slim guy that would look like a paper ontop her.

No woman what's a weighty man who can't do the job on top of her, a lady once told me she prefers slim guys cause when they are on top of u they don't press their weight on u rather they carry their own weight by pushing their hands against the bed in a form of pushups giving the lady enough space to breath properly and whine her waste

He did the right thing, I mean a man gotta do what a man gotta do

[quote author=husbandsnatcha post=78157109]One or two people are lucky enough to tell d story ,
But millions are trap i av a port-daughter who has a business in dubai ,her boyfriend just stabbed her mum in d neck n thigh for advising him about his wealthy babe just last week that triggers this my topic
,she isnt here so am writing it , The guy is so hopeless eh that all he lives for is go to nightclub wt my daughter ,.............. Anyway he cooks well like an electrical engineering B.ED degree holder that he is
....,thats one thing i like about him

Man's Education now ends in kitchen ...hehehehehehehe i love this situation ,but y ar my talking

....on a more serious note ,people killing their mum out of noting or cutting off their sistas hands is that what you want ? Answer me ?

No that's not what I want, but what can we do no amount of preaching can soften a man's heart who's heart has been harden until he or she has enough of it and decides to turn the right path, besides that some people are born to live and walk on the evil side of life, there is a passage in the Bible that says, God said to Pharaoh, for these very purpose I created you that my power and glory might be known through your hard heartedness, something like,
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husbandsnatcha:
U can still soften ur heart by helping humanity like i do............. ! Ok

My dear if God himself give humans the free will to choose the path they wish to follow whether good or bad, and allow humans to make huge mistakes so they can learn from it then I will say let every human be allowed to taste both sides of life, and choose the side which taste better on their tongues, I believe God himself wants it that way, evil, good, love, hate, light, darkness, weakness strength, porverty riches etc these elements are the reason why these world is interesting to live in

girls change their looks every now and then through makeup hairstyle etc no big deal if the change their dp frequently , I bet as a guy if u have a girl on social media who stick to one profile pic for 6 months you will wish she change it ,I see guys asking girls please send me ur recent pic

this girl is possessed by they same attention seeking spirit that possessed her friend the risky as$f**cking Bob

agbonkamen:
How do slimm guys penetrate fat women

the question should be how do fat guys penetrate fat women , cause slim guys got no difficulties f**cking a fat woman at all

husbandsnatcha:
Wat are u if not dust ! Our hearts as africans are filled with injustice, maltreatment and tribalism ...let me stop here,

Firstly an oyibo or black american can never engage in dis abyssal ritual for money , because they are ok..... Even a church of satan member in illnois can never stand to see a man suffer in void and hopelessness because of one indxxn stuff , They will be so much pity enough to spoil the curse
Secondly ,White women who even ventures to do that it wont work on a whiteboy because their hearts are full of compassion ,mercy n equity[sub][/sub], Me, an Evil element was preaching about compassion here and churchgoers are telling me to shut up that am talking trash..... ...you see y my charms will get all pastors in nigeria.
.......... You talking i can see great injustice and wickedness on ur soul not even ur sexua.l escapedes ,Any incarntation on you will work no matter wat u pray .... Living God hates injustice and cowardice ,

OPEN UR EAR AND LISTEN : NIGERIAN CHURCHES CAN NEVER BE THREAT TO THE KINGDOM ,BUT OUR HEARTS ARE THE REAL THREAT ,STRONGER THREAT TO THE KINGDOM

: PLS DEY GO CHURCH AT LEAST TO BE WITH UR CREATER ABEG

.So leave oyibo out of this ,i can even charm you from here if i like ...just kidding

Lol I once walked that Path so I deeply understand what u are saying, But am already a lost soul don't care anymore, no be inside church God dey o both God or Satan lives within us.

its just a Nigerian mentality , do the high class ladies abroad who know nothing about spiritual stuff do same thing to these boys

It's possible, a man from France who won a 500k pounds lottery embark on a sex tour to Africa from Ivory Coast to Senegal to Nigeria to Ghana in a space of 3 years slept with close to 2k women impregnated 600 hundred of them, 18 years is enough to sleep with 5k women

hmm nawao for naija , someone died in an accident it took 4 days to contact the family , R.I.p mamma so painful

IntrovertedK:
why is it not easy?

haba am too young to father a grown lady , most naija girls got that entitlement mentality once u start dating them u don become their papa be that ,

To be in a committed relationship with a naija babe this days no easy o , its better to patronize prostitutes once in awhile to release yourself

The money these preachers spend on private jets its enough to create millions of jobs for the youths job creation shouldnt be left for goverment alone to provide ,

Kai nigeran girls are not sexy at all , a pool party for that matter no sexy bikini slay queens imaging if these was in the werstern world u go see correct babes with beta curves

There is no wrong or right time for sex it could happen on the first date, what matters is understanding beside who demand for sex this days it just happens naturally they two just flow together

As a guy I don't hate gays but they irritate me
I just cant imagine kissing or f**cking another guy so irritating but I love lesbians

She's probaly suffering from something else not circumcision , sexaul urge starts from the brian not genital ,

I don't believe you, if a yoruba man will allow his son or daughter to marry igbo and an igbo man does the same , even though it seems like these two tribes don't like each other, why will a nigerian look down on a woman that married an African American , its not true

Lol this man doesn't no how to lie , someone that stabbed his wife and threatened to do it again and even kill his wifes sister, it was all in the video , weytin him dey talk now , his daughter is not even looking that well fed

Haba guy don't tell me, you wait for your parents to call in an electricain to come change a simple lightbulb , the thing is men are naturally self dependent , so its normal for a man to know this stuff