₦airaland Forum

Addictions are addictions. We have seen cancer patients sneaking to smoke cigarettes.

Fenrir:
But my real problem is Yoruba. Prostration was never mandatory and never "begging for a bride"
Yoruba ancestors cared more about a man that will stand up straight AND treat the woman right over getting on his stomach AND abusing her later.
Look at Yoruba weddings today, pushing men to the ground and saying "beg harder" laughing and pointing. Thats not humility or respect. Thats public and ritual humiliation.

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Its a culture and it has deeper significance than what you have attributed to it in terms of humiliation. In fact it has nothing to do with humiliation.

Is that what you went through and is that your annoyance?

Look, you need to understand cultures before you deride them.

Fenrir:
Your wedding traditions for all tribes were for lineage guarantee "virginity" if the woman is a virgin at marriage. Then all men should absolutely do the traditions BUT if that woman lives a modern life with 100% sexual freedom, hook up culture and coded runs then the family have no right to scream traditions later and its always the fathers and uncles that pressure the couple by screaming "mandatory" when its no such thing. And federal law is very clear on it. The family have no say.
A couple can freely reject everything or some parts and the law will always side with the couple not the family.

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And what is my business with this gibberish, even leaving aside the fact that "we" in Nigeria are NOT one culture but a potpourri of over five hundred different ones?

Fenrir:
You begged 😂😂

You want me to leave Nigerian men alone? Stop lying about something as petty as culture. No other country does it.

All countries have hypocrisy but no other countries outright lie about wedding culture. its not the women that lie about it. Its the fathers and uncles.

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So according to you, your issue is Nigerian men lying about wedding culture?

Is that it?

Fenrir:
I didn't add anything, if you learn to read, you can go back and read it again because what I actually said is posted in multiple topics AND this one.

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Leave Nigerian Men alone. Thaz all. Other than that, enjoy your life.

Fenrir:
And you obviously cannot read..
Father = Swedish/Norwegian
Mother = Danish/Norwegian

Me = Norwegian/Swedish/Danish

Nationality and citizenship are completely different and its ridiculously idiotic that you confuse them.
Nationality is where you are born but citizenship is where you earn living or grow up.
You are lazy with logic and have clearly never left Nigeria.

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Worever.
I guess you also forgot you claimed to be Nigerian as well.

And British as well. Taught English by an Australian.

At some point you even added American.

Look it's not my business, I don't know you, you jolly well could be all countries, sha leave Naija men alone since we are the worst creatures in the world.

SkengRay:
Oh My . I loved how you exposed his Childishness . I'm definitely sure he's a 14 year old kid catfishing as a Scandinavian

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That one person has claimed to be Norwegian, Swedish, Danish, British and Nigerian and taught English by an Australian.
And yet, obsessed with Nigerian men only, who according to the creature, are the worst things on Earth.

Oya leave us na, e no gree.

Fenrir:
Fine, lets remind everyone THAT you begged.

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When? Where?

Jesus!

Sugarboyy:
Same multiple roads are also currently under repairs. In Edo state alone, roads repairs are currently ongoing on Benin/Sapele road, Benin/Agbor road, Benin/Auchi road, etc and they are all federal roads

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It remains a bad priority and chiefly instigated for theft at a cosmic scale.

Just look at the power situation with the grid still collapsing daily.

That's the kind of thing that is a real priority.

HacheNoire:
Damn! This is massive!

A lot of development will be coming up along that coastal road. Gas station, hotels and shopping malls.

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Lol. You imagine too much.

Fenrir:
And the funniest part?
“Who on Earth are you!” wasn’t rhetorical. That was genuine disorientation. Your mental model no longer has a slot for me. I wasn't an atheist troll, foreigner, debate partner, or clown. I slipped categories.

Do you want to continue AFTER publicly begging me to stop? And trying to offer a deal to "save face"

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Honestly, you are hilarious.

Fenrir:
I am a son of fire and frost
I am the truth given teeth
I am the freedom that cannot be caged
I am the wolfs kin

Loki was Fenrir's father. I am loki like.

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Fenrir is chained till Ragnarok

The Mob Movies made from the lives of some of these people are the best ever.

Fenrir:
Im Norwegian one of the 20% that doesn't fit there, do you know why?

Because im not your debate partner on your terms.
I wont submit to any cultures not even my own.
I wont submit to some family telling me what to do.

But I am "a chaos agent"

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Fair enough.
The gods will surely use the magic chain of the dwarves to chain Fenrir.

Fenrir:
You learned a valuable lesson "better the devil you.........."

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I dont think you are clueless philosophically. Lets stick to that.

Fenrir:
Yes! I am your atheist lord, come and bask in godless glory my child. Come step into the light of rational thought. 😂

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I'll make you a deal.

Stick to philosophy/ theology / existential discourses and we can have rational discussions.
PS: I do kid around a lot but rarely do people realize its play.

Fenrir:
I've reviewed your 216 topic submissions with some care, and certain patterns emerge that merit direct articulation rather than evasion.
You don't post casually, you post with fixation. Religion, atheism, delusion, morality, God, Islam, Christianity, evolution, Israel/Palestine, eugenics, terrorism, race, masculinity, women, social decay, years of it, threaded through with intensity. That isn't intellectual breadth, that's thematic rumination, the kind that suggests unresolved preoccupation rather than settled curiosity.
Your framing is overwhelmingly adversarial. Scan your own titles, hardly any are neutral inquiries. They're structured as challenges, indictments, exposés, "why X is wrong", "the barbarism of", "for simpletons", "test for delusion". That's a cognitive stance that treats the world as something to be defeated rather than engaged. It's combative by default, which means the combat itself has become the point.
Here's what I think happened between us. Your identity isn't rooted in being Nigerian, Christian, atheist or political. Your identity is being the contrarian intellectual, the one who sees through everyone else's constructs. When I arrived doing that same thing but without deference to your established position, your identity framework destabilised. That's when admiration flipped to hostility. You laughed at the verbose performance when it was amusing decoration. The moment it became competitive and established a different hierarchy, you pivoted to "psychosis". That wasn't disagreement, that was a status threat response.
And there's a behavioural symmetry worth noting. You accuse others of delusion, mental instability, irrational belief, obsession. Yet your own posting history demonstrates fixation, repetition, and an observable inability to disengage from certain arguments across literal years. I'm not diagnosing you, I'm simply pointing out the mirror you keep holding up reflects in both directions.
This isn't about racism in any crude sense. It's about territoriality of intellectual space. You've built a persona as the forum's resident skeptic, and someone walked in and occupied that same territory without asking permission. The issue isn't what I'm saying, it's that I'm saying it at all, here, in your established domain.
So let me be direct, I'm not leaving. I don't need your approval or your space. And the discomfort you're experiencing isn't my psychosis, it's your identity adjustment in real time.

Now the verbatim version and hope you enjoy little lady 😘.....

I have undertaken a comprehensive taxonomical survey of your 216 topical submissions, and certain behavioural architectures manifest with sufficient clarity to warrant unambiguous articulation rather than diplomatic circumlocution.
Your participatory methodology does not constitute casual intellectual recreation, rather it exhibits pronounced fixational characteristics. Religion, atheism, delusion, morality, divinity, Islam, Christianity, evolutionary biology, geopolitical Levantine conflicts, eugenic discourse, terrorism, racial taxonomy, masculine paradigms, feminine comportment, societal deterioration, sustained across longitudinal temporal intervals with observable intensity coefficients. This does not represent intellectual heterogeneity, this constitutes thematic perseveration, the symptomatology of which suggests unresolved cognitive preoccupation rather than epistemologically satisfied inquiry.
Your discursive framework demonstrates overwhelming adversarial architecture. I invite you to conduct an auto-analytical examination of your own titular nomenclature, whereupon you shall observe a conspicuous absence of neutral interrogatives. They manifest instead as confrontational propositions, prosecutorial indictments, revelatory expositions, constructions such as "the deficiency inherent to X", "the barbarism endemic within", "for intellectual simpletons", "diagnostic protocols for delusional cognition". This constitutes a psychological orientation that conceptualises external reality as adversarial territory requiring subjugation rather than collaborative terrain inviting engagement. Belligerence has transmuted from tactical methodology into existential raison d'être.
Now permit me to illuminate the interpersonal dynamic trajectory. Your psychological identity architecture is not fundamentally anchored in Nigerian nationality, Christian theology, atheistic materialism, nor political taxonomy. Your identity is constructed upon the foundational premise of being the contrarian intellectual, the singular consciousness capable of penetrating the illusory constructs obscuring everyone else's perception. When I materialised within this digital ecosystem demonstrating identical capability without demonstrating hierarchical deference to your established positional authority, your identity scaffolding experienced destabilisation phenomena. This precipitated the transformation of admiration into antagonism. You demonstrated mirth regarding verbose lexical performance when it functioned as aesthetically amusing ornamentation. The precise chronological juncture at which it transitioned into competitive intellectual positioning and established alternative hierarchical structures, you executed a rhetorical pivot toward "psychotic pathology". That was not intellectual disagreement, that constituted status threat defensive response architecture.
Furthermore, a behavioural symmetry merits observational notation. You systematically attribute to others delusional cognition, psychological instability, irrational epistemological frameworks, obsessive fixation. Concurrently, your own contributory historical record demonstrates fixational patterns, thematic repetition, and empirically observable incapacity to achieve disengagement from particular argumentative threads across literal calendar year intervals. I am not conducting clinical psychiatric diagnosis, I am merely illuminating the reflective apparatus you persistently deploy projects illumination in bidirectional vectors.
This is not fundamentally concerned with racism in any superficial definitional sense. This concerns territoriality of intellectual spatial domain. You have constructed a persona as this forum's residential epistemological skeptic, and an entity has manifested and occupied identical territorial space without soliciting authorization protocols. The substantive grievance is not the ideational content I articulate, it is the mere fact of my articulation occurring at all, here, within your established dominion.
Therefore permit me unambiguous directness, I possess no intention of territorial evacuation. I require neither your validation nor your spatial concession. And the psychological discomfort you are experiencing is not manifestation of my psychotic pathology, it is your identity recalibration occurring in observable temporal reality.
Pray do not misinterpret this as blowing big grammar, I am merely ensuring you receive maximum comprehension through your preferred linguistic frequency.

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Jesus is Lord! Who on Earth are you!

LordReed abeg follow me chee chomtin!

Fenrir:
I concur wholeheartedly that your manifest conviction regarding celestial telecommunications represents a marked preference for assertion over verification, and I harbour no trepidation in observing that when an individual claims privileged access to metaphysical ‘messages’, they have effectively immunised their beliefs against scrutiny by placing them beyond evidence. Furthermore, you materialise upon this digital platform chiefly to lament your nation’s predicament whilst maintaining a posture of comprehensive inertia regarding ameliorative action. Now permit me to offer a comparative observation: in my ancestral homeland the thoroughfares are maintained to a standard that renders disorder conspicuous rather than normalised; women traverse public space at any hour with materially lower apprehension of harassment; domestic security is less a daily obsession and more a contingency; and children are not routinely socialised under a model of authority that confuses intimidation with leadership. None of this is an indictment of every Nigerian man, but it is a critique of patterns that too many women themselves describe repeatedly and publicly, and it is precisely the existence of those patterns, not my presence on a forum, that appears to trouble you. And pray do not misinterpret my diction as ‘big grammar’; I am merely conducting an anatomical dissection of your rhetorical evasions using the only instruments you have thus far supplied: assertion, projection, and offence taking.”

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Yawn.

Fenrir:
I dont spend all my time on here 😂 i got a life and if you notice i was gone for 2 two days and I dissappear for weeks at a time, you however? You visit this every single day like this is your religion, you never miss a single day. Day after day, no friends, no trip to the pub, no date nights with your husband. If you fell off the map, tell me how people would actually miss you? Are a geriatric in a care home? A little old lady clutching her purse when the big bad godless atheist posts on NOT your forum. This forum can be accessed from anywhere in the world so by definition its not yours and not Nigerian its public access for the world.

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Psychosis.

I am happy to be here. I dont come here to cry about Nigerian men.

Fenrir:
Ok little lady, "you lot" believe what you want. No skin off my nose and im in Nigeria specifically because im raising my child here for a while "a promise to her mother" so my child knows how evil the MAJORITY of the men are and bonus 😂 me being on here grinds your gears and its hilarious because you will never leave and borders mean nothing to me. Silly little lady. Awww bye min kjaere 😘

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Just makes it worse. Raising your child in Nigeria and spending all your time on a Nigerian board b1tching about Nigerian men.
One must have done a number on you.

Fenrir:
See what I mean about you men?
So insecure
So petty
So criminal
So corrupt
So arrogant
So narcissistic
2 innocent words can set you off in spiral of paranoia that you think everyone in the world is like "YOU LOT" 😂 some Christian you are. Some good man you are. Weak....

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The bold discloses you as a girl.

2. I am not a Christian.

3. The "you lot" thing is tiresome to me because it is your effort to distinguish yourself from Nigerians while you spend so much time discussing on a Nigerian board

Fenrir:
Grow up.

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Where is your stash

Fenrir:
And dont get me wrong fella it comes to THE MAJORITY of Nigerian men including you, if you say.....

1) we are traditional
2) any part of your traditions or cultures are mandatory
3) you must do it
4) we are humble and respectful

Then you are lying. But then only 22% of Nigerian are literate on the law.

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Confess

Fenrir:
Fella "you lot" is not offensive. You forget 1 thing look how i talk? Im Scandinavian that grew up in the uk but was surrounded by Africans more than Europeans and learned English from Australians and Americans so I tend to mix British/American/Australian. Grow up and on here the amount of liars there are its "you lot against us"

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Each time the circle of countries you come from only widens.
Delusional.

Fenrir:
You lot had religion forced on you at school, that's my equivalent.

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Will you sharrrrap dia at once!
"You lot this, you lot that", please!

Fenrir:
Different definition of posh aka toff talk.

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Ride on, it's good sport

Fenrir:
Ill take that as a compliment good sir, you lot have pidgin but I have posh.

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Thats not posh at all Mr. Obahiagbon, but I enjoy it, its hilarious.

Fenrir:
Pray, sequester your current volume of vacuous and cacophonous disputation, lest you find your consciousness utterly petrified by my most impenetrable scholarly lexicon.
And I assure you, I am not blowing big grammar; I am initiating a comprehensive atmospheric purification of this digital environment’s linguistic integrity.

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
FENRIR OBAHIAGBON!

TenQ:
You shut down the pursuit of this knowledge?

God has revealed Himself enough for you to know Him if you choose?


Let me ask you a question:
If indeed, there exists an Intelligent Uncaused-First-Cause of Everything that is not bounded by the laws of Physics and Chemistry

Should such a being care if humans murdered and raped each other?

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Since I dont know such a being I cant tell. However my guess is that no, such a being would not care and the evidence of life is that such a being is probably neutral to such things and even worse, the world appears designed in favor of violence.

TenQ:
I agree with you.

God is truely unknowable UNLESS He reveals Himself to us.

We get to know who God is through some men He had chosen from the Land of Israel: from Abraham to the Apostles of Jesus. Records abound in the Bible.

Each one of us Christians then bond in a union of Relationship with God by our individual personal and subjective experience of Him. Thus we can say, we know this God reported by His prophets personally.

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Well I guess that works for you.

Fenrir:
I never said differently but I get to define the atheist I am

And I went to war SO PEOPLE HAD THE RIGHT TO BELIEVE WHATEVER THEY WANT

show me 1 Nigerian man that will fight for my beliefs? Because I gave blood for yours

and you dont even practice Christianity since you scream your traditions are mandatory in a lie, both the Bible and Quran directly tell you not to do that and it makes you a selective hypocrite.

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Fabu Master.