₦airaland Forum

Thanks. Yes, it will with time. If possibly get contracts 4rom the state governments/compaines that wants to help with human development in Nigeria. We just started with lagos as it came so sudden. Next year would probably be the East and North. We might tackle it in such a way that public schools would write to us as to why we should help their school. We see how things go this xmas 1st.

You better start with the north, they probably need it more than west and east.

but why 70/30? why not at least 60/40??

You are asking Osama for a peace accord. keep trying.

Any man that lets his wife call the piper in his home is a FOOL!!!
He's a disgrace to all homo-sapiens

Easier said that done, life is full of unforeseen obstacles. Remember this day.

I would seek extra marital activities rather than kiss your farty ass . . .
Besides, i have got a mastermind. . . . . The only reason i am not married now is because i am putting enough in ma savings for unforseen contingencies like having to deal with a daughter with a hole in her heart.
I will not ask $1 from ma wifey if she is not ready to give. . . . So u can shove your $200k up your tampon socket

Braggart!!! Men like you will rather die than heed the voice of reasoning. What's so extraordinary about kissing my farty ass as long as it'll solve your problem?

Yes. . . . .And i'ma get me another set if she's so daft enough to let that happens because of some appalling reasons Cool
Its not my wish for a woman to personally introduce me to my creator before my appointed time.

Characteristics of a deadbeat dad. Run women run!!!!!!

I told DeepZone the same thing.
If she cannot cope with me policy. . . .She can feck off.
Who puts up with a spiteful, sheisty female

Forget Funmi for a second, what about your kids?

Assuming you have a lovely daughter that has a hole in her heart and kanu nwankow refused surgery to her and your only option is to cough up $200K which you clearly do not have. Your only option to save her life is getting the money from Funmi and Funmi demands you kiss her farty ass before she gives you the money, won't you do it for your daughter's sake?

eysh, 95/5? Chineke Mehh!! That's too much na

Is that not you that's giving these ChauviNAZIS a chance to fart in your face?. Allow men, they'll seek for allowance.

30/70 as in Men:Women

Yeah, that's what Hotfunmi and other 40 year old virgins are fighting for
The other day she was looking for a husband that will be her secetar[/b]y Cheesy

Roflmao; Whatever!!!!

I've explained to you what submission means
[b]It's worked before, it won't stop working tomorrow

It doesn't work that much these days in the west because of matriarchy . Gender roles has been exchanged too, she who brings the bacon calls the piper.

Key Key!!!! Cheesy
You can't eat your cake and have it. . . . .so they say!
So you know how it would be if same issue is being presented back at you?
As for me. . . . .I'm cool with 95. . . . 5 . . . . . .Yup u heard me!
If She doesn't like it. . . . . . . . The exit door is always there

And your four loving children will go through life fatherless abi?

C'est finis, so why don't you be submissive, as the Book of Wisdom has advised us to?
Since it's so obvious that you take all the blame for a failed seed
It's simply wisdom, and it's so easy to apply

Why this so much obsession with submission? If you are that emotional about it, why not buy yourself a dog?

Stay there and keep deceiving yourself
The only time female human beings mature faster mentally is during puberty

Big lie!!!

And why can't it be like that too?

You are just a troublemaker.

50-50 is not working yet and you're chasing 30-70??
Err . . . are you sure u're not on expired coffee Cheesy

Women suffer more when kids go out of hand, they're the ones that the soceity points to
They're the ones that get beat-up by the ruthless sons

Why can't they just do it the way that has been tested and trusted??
Why change our values because of what we saw on Oprah?

Women TEND to suffer more because they are more involved in the childs life. The men often drop their oil and bail with a foreign woman.

LOL

@topic

after reading this, it makes me want to do something.

Please do baby. Lots of women need assistance in getting education in Nigeria since most polygamous fathers favor their male children alone.

Nice project. I hope your largess will affect every section of Nigeria?.

C'mon, we've got the 70%
And remember how complex the heart of the woman is

Shouldn't that be because we are more mature than you guys mentally?

@topic
50-50? naah don't think so

60-40?/65-35? yeah, no problem

90-10? you must be 'avin a bubble

And my question was, if the woman is the stubborn type that wants her 50 untampered with and since the 50-50 can never work, is there anything REALLY wrong if the man condescends just for the sake of his CHILDREN instead of these fatherless boys we have these days roaming the streets and looking for whom to rape? I'm sure you've witnessed some of them here.

hehehe, dear it is ok, you are young now, when you get older, you will see what we are talking about

Make una see young ibkaye talking about old age.

@topic, I don't think there can ever be a 50 50 share of power. One is always over the other and it just so happens that the man has the upper hand. I'm cool with 60-40 because I want to be in control of my man. Thing is even with the 40 I can always make my presence and importance felt. Sure, there will be times where there's nothing left to do but lead (and trust me, I will step up to lead) but I will not be really looking forward to those times.

True talk!!! But i don't advocate usurping the power from the man, take it slowly if he's incapable of doing his job including power in bed.

Ephesians 5
"Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church; and he is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives be to their own husbands in everything. "

When did you become a believer?

That's why I said, she has to be part of the decision making
If you don't know how to get to your man's heart, then you've failed as a wife

Seek ye how to get to your woman's heart before telling women about their own speck and it shall be well with your marriage.

First lady ko, First lady ni.

A womans place is in the kitchen jo

Be careful of what you say because you may aggravate some people here. Women should be equal opportunity players in the Nigerian polity.

No one is saying she shouldn't make decisions
She should always state her own opinion and be a part of decision making
But the man is the final decision-maker

Even when the decision is destructive and lethal?

may b

Yes, he's a homo erectus and Neanderthal.

That is sure aint no wife. What is the point of getting married if you are still doing what you did when you were single and that is making all the decisions?

Because he's an early man.

You have got issues. . . . . .
No straight thinking man would allow a woman to dominate his household.
What message are u passing to the kids?? Are u insane??

says who? The gospel according to Hannibal?

How do you determine if he is worth the mantle?

By his fruits, we shall know them.

No. But I am saying a married woman with a husband should vacate that position. Are you willing to do that?

If he's worth the mantle, then yes.

Ego is natural. Psychology agrees. Will you claim that women being the head of the household is a natural occurence? If you do you are no christian.

Are you saying that a widow or an unmarried woman should not head her household because she's a Christian?

Dear God created men and women for many reasons - love is one of them.

And dominate is not one of them. Adam never dominated Eve, rather, He gave Eve 70/100 and that's why he ate the apple.

Lol did I say domineering? Grin Grin I meant ego. . . .
Before you rush to put words in my mouth, when I mentioned domineering it was meant to answer the question about the need for male ego.

I don't think the male ego thing is natural, it's cultural and that's why passive gay men tend to have smaller ego than ordinary straight men. Will you also claim that sleeping around is a natural phenomenon in men?

Why won't i heed advice??
A woman is not a dummy or a pet dog. . . .Of course, she has a say in the matters that spring up in marriage.
I am more than willing to listen to ma partner's needs.
However, she should be contented with 20.
Anything more than this. . . . . .She can go back to her Dad's house where she can have 110.

Roflmao, his ego is so much that he couldn't even hide his hypocrisy. Chics, marry this dominatrix at your own peril.

If my husband wants his 80% in running the home then he is also soley accountable when things go wrong. If he doesn't consult me and disregards my opinion I will be the first to say "I told you so"

That is if the thing that went wrong is not disastrous, like foreclosing your home and being in huge debt or losing a child to a minor ailment because hussy decided to take your child to a native doctor.