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Now he is under pressure to always beat dressing record.

Why do you guys make it sound like it is mostly the woman responsible for a couple inability to make babies? Just look at their conclussion sef.... infertility is 1/3 the woman's fault and the rest jointly shared by both the man and the woman together. LOL like it can never be the man alone responsible for the problem. It's okay.

manikspears:
Chairman if na play stop am o,the ones wey dey naija ohunnever get treatment, you want add more abi?

You no talk lie Sha...... Wetin you suggest make Dem do her?

Bitch gat no class. She should be deported back home

Can't they lock her in the cell and give her hard time

CC Bros Billyonaire

Get her a nice wristwatch.

klassykute:
lol why e dey pain u nahh.. let me be a fool that believes in God's work abeg u can cari all the awards jare.. wats d black race about ehn oga tell me.

È no pain me. Na you my comment pain hence you just had to mention me. I made my comment and left it there. Na you say you put hands for her va.gina and draw out the baby. I still stand by my word.... you and her should be investigated. Na so una dey take kidnap babies and sell then stand as false witnesses to save your dirty business. So she should be investigated along with you. If the baby is hers, then no problem. You will not use God's name to fool us.

Dcholeric:
he should be better off marriage and offer support from a distance than take a Jacob position .

I don't know what you stand to gain by creating male weaklings .

that position isn't for male gender at all (if you say it is not for female too no problem)...it only brings the worst out of them ...the OP is an example. (you heard him says he lost his respect ..I guess if she lost her job she wouldn't loose her respect in his sight)

who says the wife should be a house girl?

Did I say he should condone her disrespectful part? Yeah he should leave his marriage because he said he is being disrespected. Have you heard the woman's own part? Do you know what he terms to be disrespectful? You sit online asking a man to divorce his wife because he told you he feels disrespected by his wife. Who will run errands for his home? Is his wife a robot? He should be a man and stop acting like a baby. Put yourself in wife's shoes. Look at this example, As a man, you go out to Hussle, Your brother lost his job, he has some time to spare at home, you go to work since you shoulder the family financial burden. You come back home from work and ask him to help you do some chores at home or do some stuff and then he starts saying you are turning him into a house maid and disrespecting him because he lost her job. And his friends support him and encourage him to leave home. That one is even putting it lightly, why should a husband feel that doing things for his family is beneath his standard? His wife goes out to work, she has kids to care for too and he is here complaining of the errands he runs for his family?? Such a man would expect his wife to slave away for him because he feeds her.

She would not lose his respect if she lost her job because it is expected of men to be breadwinners but she would lose her respect if she was a dirty, loud, quarrelsome, obnoxious wife. Which he did not say she was.

klassykute:
wch my church .. sm1 dat pushed d baby out, lol haters will see u walking on water nd say its cos u cnt swim.. save ur drama bro if u dnt believe God works miracles then u can go argue with ur Ancestors

Na you push am out for her? Did you see her vagi.na while she was giving birth? Your ancestors were useless to you and your lineage that is why you like to pick on others own ba? Fool, because you hear church you sold your heart to ignorance. Walk on water, call me to make sure you are not doing tricks and if your walking on Water is valid, I will say it's a miracle. Fool, stop wallowing in ignorance and stupidity hiding under religion. Idiots like you make the black race look foolish.

eph12:
Exactly it is not a must to do church. Many people have skipped church wedding and they were not excommunicated from the church. Some people want to enjoy the thrill of the church wedding but don't want to recognize it as part of the process before you can finally have all the sex you want, it does not work that way. Sex wey dem go still tire for sef

Gbam! I feel the vibe in what you say.

shadeyinka:
You didn't seem to get me. I said if traditional wedding is your FINAL wedding rite, you are free to have sex but if it isn't then you are preforming acts of fornication.

God recognized all forms of marriage including Civil (court) marriage, Traditional wedding, Religious weddings (mosque or church or Hindu or Buddha).

My problem is with Christians who know that Church wedding is their final wedding rite yet begin to sleep together after their traditional "wedding/engagement". Can one be married twice?

If Banky and Adesua plan another marriage for Jan 1, 2018 are they not making caricature of marriage for we all know that they are already married in SA.

For all who desires to have a church wedding as their final wedding rite, every thing they do prior to that are just PRELUDES and necessary rites before their final wedding.

Finally, if traditional wedding is your final wedding rite and you still want the church involved, ask for church blessing and not church wedding for you have been traditionally wedded

Now I get your point.

klassykute:
u just won for urself d most stupid post of d century.. d woman gave birth in Winners on Wednesday

A medical exam on her will not erase that fact now.... or will it? If you are so sure of the miracle, why are you pissed by the simple test that will even help promote your church?

eph12:
See hope you know that it is a choice to do church wedding? What is the point in choosing to do church wedding but can't wait for it before you start living as husband and wife? Is the priest or pastor not making mockery of himself when he says "I now pronounce you husband and wife " if they have been living as husband and wife already?

If you're a Christian, you are a Christian for a reason. At young age you probably didn't have a choice but to go with your parents, but at marriageable age? Since you have decided to stick with the religion, why is it difficult to do the little things?

Once again, if you decide to do only trad and invite your pastor to pray that's fine. You won't be sanctioned and your marriage will be well recognised by the church.

I said No need for church wedding sef. It's just an ego trip. Do trad, invite pastor and your church people to witness and bless the union along with your elders and family. Afterwards if church too sweet you, do Thanksgiving in your church and host the members.
Church wedding 2as imposed on our people by the white missionaries who believes that our traditional weddings were some satanic rituals and that our ancestors were direct children of Lucifer. To accept our brothers and sisters who converted, they insisted on white wedding before God will acknowledge that the new converts are truly married. Even older ones who married loong before conversion were forced to re marry in church because God must have really hated us blacks and our weddings and traditions. Why can't you people differentiate between humans playing with your heads and God's real love?

They should take her for proper examination to erase all doubts.. Many babies are being sold these days.

bro4u:
send the motherf*ucker back to Libya, such ingrates deserves no rescue.

Do they not realize that not everyone coming from Libya is a starter?

shadeyinka:
No!
The only condition is if the traditional wedding is the Final wedding right. If not, it is fornication.

Abeg OUR traditional wedding is considered a done and sealed deal by God and man. You can invite your pastor to witness and bless that union on that day. Church wedding is a formality to soothe the ego. God doesn't give a shit about what you do in a building esp one he did not give direction to consecrate as Holly but was rather built for the purpose of sheltering the brethren while preaching the gospel. Even Jesus worked from both.
You people will claim to know God's mind even more than God himself. The Jews did theirs their way, when Jesus went to a wedding in the Bible, did you hear that it was done in the Temple?. All the weddings talked about in the Bible, were they done in the Temple? Why carry human vanity to the church? The priest comiming and witnessing it is enough. No need for tho ego trioping God likes past those and that I am Certain of.Jesus's people did not adopt African wedding style. They did it like their ancestors before them did. But Nigerians, I even see them wearing Indian cultural clothing on their wedding day. I have seen Yoruba brides dress like Igbo brides and Igbo brides wear Benin bridal custumes. Nigerians too over do.

Dcholeric:
you don start ..
shey the grown man should now be a proud houseboy/Jacob?

fear God

Is his wife Jacob/house girl? Are his kids little Jacobs/houseboys and girls? Okay since OP can not run errands for HIS home while he is unemployed and has the time to do so for now at least, you can go and help him run errands for HIS family maybe it will calm him down

Doesn't mean she is out of the woods. Adrenaline rush can make a man with bullet in his body run home and collapse at his door front. Thank God she did not die tho. No vital part was crushed. Many kids have not been that lucky.

Gloryr:
please pray for me too

though my problem is not babies sha..

So what are we praying for o?

Hiannnn. Running errands is not bad na. If you are not employed and can spare some time to assist at home why do you find it hard to do or see it as an insult? Na me suppose run errands for you? Is it not your family? Many men start feeling small when they lose their source of income. Don't fret it. Be strong and even if you leave Abuja don't ask for divorce. Just take a break and send her money as often as you can.

Yes. Very well so.

python1:
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Where is cownu?

Wetin concern me with him? He is doing stomach infrastructure somewhere. Please if you find him, let me know. Me sef dey find am. Was he killed by the Army or did he escape? Hope he is Alive tho. I want Igbos to have their Biafra and Arewa to have their Arewa añd Oduduwa to have their own.

Nice one. Wishing the contestants good luck

Crowd doesn't mean a thing. Politicians world wide have been known to hire crowd to appear at events in a bid to scare their opponents and fool the world into believing they are much loved by their people.

oloriLFC:
Useless Women Everywhere. The Man should even rejoice that d revelation came early and not when he has wasted resources on a child not his.

Training a child is not wasted resources no matter the situation.

Plenty money would be made from bail..... oh sorry bail is free or ist it?

Although I did not click, For once there are no lies about a marriage without a single problem.

Alao046:
thanks very much. Now i get

Welcome

Love Machine:
A very troublesome customer who had once walked away with my company's money after making purchase came to make another purchases again at my workplace few days ago.He gave me two hot slap simply because I demanded for payment before service.I retaliated by giving him a blow in his mouth.And the management queried me for retaliating.They said customers are always right.Dont I,as a staff have right too?My grievance with all this employers is that when a customer walk away with their money,the employer will not say the customer is right for running away with payment.They will quickly deduct the money from the staff salary at the end of the month.But,when a staff argue with a customer who refuse to pay after service,they will say customers are always right.They can even fine such staff.Well,i have resign sha.

You could sue the customer and the company if you had not hit him back.

damn shame