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Shior, she may be talking to him for all we know. Our youths are hypersexualized o. When did we degenerate to this level? If him come shake her hands, Una go come cry harder.

kayfra:
Neighbor. Have you played your victim card today?

Turn to your neighbour and say......
Neighbour, have you bought petrol today?

Say.....
Neighbour how much did you buy 1 liter?

OP, may God guide your steps and lead you back home.

Mayflowa:
Very well correct! Our makeup is a combination of environment, learning and feelings. The environment has wire men to go Scot free with casual sex unlike women Esp in Africa. Times are changing anyway. If you go to sexuality section here, people are now opened to seek their sexual needs including gay relationships.

I can tell if will naturally feel the urge for casual sex but the society frown at it. For men, apart from having societal nodding, men actually naturally feel the need for casual sex like animals and can easily be led to it.

That is why housemaid can easily seduce Oga. Have u told any guy he has a good smell or sexy lips? He will go numb on the kneel. Men are easy prey sis.

Happens both ways, driver could seduce madam and gate man could have the same effect on her too but she has to think twice based on her environment and the fact that there is 99.9% chances of losing her husband and may not find a man to accept her fault when she gets thrown out. But a man with 10knowm wives will still get women even prettier ones who will still date and marry him even of he has 19wives at home already. And if madam catches him cheating, there is every likelihood that he will be forgiven and won over again by her.
So you see, instinct to bang randomly when sexually aroused abounds in both sexes just that for one it is expected to be controlled and suppressed until after marriage and even in marriage, she may be looked from the corners of the eyes if she suddenly develops some kind of sexual skills and adventure in bed. While the man has the right and freedom to explore and conquer to ease the "tension"

Wow, history sure is interesting.

Mayflowa:
You know in western world, who are the owner of the word "rape", they defined ur last paragraph as rape. Someone touching your breast against your will thereby setting ur hormone on fire is rape. White peeps say you need to ask her, do I touch your breast? Are you ready for me? . That is seeking consent otherwise is rape

Yes that is if she still doesn't want it. Then it is called sexual assault/harassment not rape. Rape happens when she still rejects the advancement but the man still went ahead to force her and have sex with her.
If the touch sweet her, she come enjoy am come agree to do the do and enjoy it E Don commit from rape. E Don enter consensual sex.

WATERLee1:
No one ready to accuse the woman of raping, reverse is the when that man coerce her. Mtcheew women's world

That no be rape Na. She did not physically overpower him, he wasn't in any danger, he had every chance to say No and push her out of his car, she proposed a deal if he had rejected it, there would not be any negative consequence, he did not do it out of fear or after he was incapacitated by her. So he consented after he had a taste of the goody goody she had to offer for waving her debt aside.
If he had stopped her before he "fell" he could have charged her with sexual assault or abuse. Just like a girl can not say she was raped afyer giving a story like this..........I did not want to but he touched my breasts and I couldn't resist the sexual excitement so I decided to get laid.

Mayflowa:
You are very right on what it should be! You speak from a woman' s perspective who mostly have restraints on their feelings and sexual actions.
I speak from a man's perspective, sadly, you are not a man to understand. Take it from me! Men don't necessarily invest their heart before engaging in sex. The feelings comes and off we go. We can be so dedicated to out wives and love her to.high heavens, yet we can still do casual sex.
Not so for women. They commit their hearts before launching out for sex and most likely get stucked to the man if she had a good time with him while detaching hersef emotionally from her husband. It is easier to detect a cheating wife than a cheating husband because of this behavioural changes.
Ever wonder while men like pastors, Bill Clinton, Tiger woo cheat? They do love their wives but restraint is hard for men. Many women may not know but their loving husbands cheat or had a minor fling one time or the other. It's just bad but that is how we are wired. Do you wanna fall any decent man? Go wink at them and see them crawling up to u.
By the way do men lose their wife by cheating? very rare! Except you are poor. Yet poor men still got pardoned.

Because we have been allowed for centuries to see sleeping with women as an achievement. We make the woman feel shame if she acts like men in sexuality department hence they (women) have been for centuries told that it is a shame to allow a man who does not value you and marry you sleep with you. So.e even get told that if they try it in marriage, they stand the risk of loosing their family through mysterious deaths, even some culture believe that complicated child birthing is as a result of the wife cheating. So they wire them to keep themselves to avoid all these negative effect of sexual exploration. Look around you and tell me if our culture and society would allow a woman do as a man will do. Even if the woman was wired so from heaven by accident society will never hear of it that she behaves just the way she was wired. But a am an that does same is not looked upon that badly. Plus women have been made to accept rivalry and the choice of their men to marry more than one. Women married to the same man and living in peace are praised and honoured while men married to one woman and living in peace are tagged "Jazed" and the community where this is happening would want nothing to do with such an household.
So our upbringing influences our sexual behaviour mostly.

Hackers at work.

What did the person say the temp was during the said snow fall. Snow can only fall when the temp reaches freezing point. That is 0 degree Celsius. I do not think that temp was reached yesterday in jos.

The only reason I see the Nigerian church failing is hypocrisy. Yes, our religious leaders are hypocrites, their followers are even worse than them. Their actions are disgusting to God and man. Who will listen to a pastor who sleeps with the choir leader, milks his people dry, preaches only for material and financial gain, selfish, quick to tear his members down, lord it over the people under him, does not practice what he preaches ? How do you respect and consider the Christian life Holly and worthy of emulation when you look around you and see the shame and disgraceful lives they live day to day?
These are what will make people dump Christianity in future even if Moslems do not overtake it.

ononujuchika:
support one-sided fight against corruption?

What happened to those who padded our budget?

Did rat ate up the petitions written to EFCC about how amaechi and fashola stole their state blind?

What killed timipreye silver's case at EFCC?

When will buhari and his EFCC lap dog probe source of his campaign funds from states that were owning civil servants at that time?

Till your hypocritical buhari answer these simple question don't expect us to take him serious.

Well, as I see it, any past PDP leader who jumps ship with bank full of "chop I chop" money and enters APC is automatically not corrupt. So all those in Bubus party are new creations in Buhari, old things have passed away, behold all things are made new. But those that stood to contest and fight in the name of PDP? They are corrupt!

Small pikin reasoning as usual. He confirms that she speaks proper English yet he makes her occasional use of pidgin sound like cancer.
Dem never even serious with her or marry her o yet, Dem Don Dey monitor her pidgin level. When him marry her Na to worry about how she Dey smile and walk.

Typical mentality, marriage makes her a pride? So if she wasn't married you guys wouldn't be proud of her?
I know he meant well, but still be get as e be.

I guess it's because he lied

Starships4u:
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Cap From His Head And Playfully Run Around With
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If I Remove Your Wig From Your Head And Playfully
Run Around With It , Would You Still Find It Funny ??
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Those of you abusing the woman, I pray that your mothers and sisters don't experience such. Sometimes women are forced to prove their loyalty and if they refuse to accept they are considered cheats.
Many women fall for this psychological mind game and do it anyway to please the men. I have heard and seen cases where women are forced to swear in a shrine to prove their innocence and if they reject the offer they are tagged witches, guilty and all what not. She prolly did it out of love to calm the man down but see where it landed her?
She was selling petrol costs it brings in better profit, with 4 children and a husband to Cather for, I understand her desperation
Women, I hope you guys are learning from all these? Don't trade your future to please a man. I know she was sticking around because If she took a break for her sanity sake, people will say she was a bad woman who wants to do her man because he got blind but see that he nearly killed her? If he was not stopped that day, shey Na from grave she for Dey form strong supportive wife? Or if say she kill am out of anger as he also claimed, Na jail she for Dey form I was a good wife to him?

Hope they are in jail now

Must be someone she knows trying to erase evidence.I hope the police will not sleep on this one.

Nigerian police seem to be working backwards sha. When such a report is made, the police should dispatch someone to go search the home of the said missing person while the suspect is on custody. If the person is not found be or no sign of foul play, the suspect could be released with guarantee of a trustworthy person who can produce him when need be.
I Don Dey tire for Nigeria police sha.


People should stop employing strangers to secure or work in their homes. If that man was known he probably would think twice before going to this extent.

freecocoa:
That woman is totally blameless in this.

The psycho of a man, should be electrocuted.

How you think it's okay for someone to torch another because they supposedly disobeyed an order, beats me.

Because in Nigeria many men believe they own their wives hence they can just wake up and tell the woman not to eat or even step out and she must obey or face his anger and people will say ah ah, you should have sat at home as your husband dictated Na, you should have just done it.
But she, there is wisdom in what he said sha, women or people who are not ready to face the result of their challenges should not challenge an angry person that is clearly wanting to prove that he/she can rise up to the ocassion or be called a bastard

See how we treat each other in that Nigeria? Is this not how they breed terrorist? When will these people learn diplomacy is important in a Democratic government?

Danyayebs:
good new i just saw a post he was arrested for atempted robbery

Share a link please

Well, if a woman kills her husband after catching him cheating many times, I will not support her likewise a man should not kill his wife too even if he catches her cheating. She is also someones child just as he is someones child too. Na the same 9 months for bele, Na the same labour pains Na the same stress to educate and train both gender

Their children and wards no get their bus ni? They should do something jor!

Very inspiring news

No be to pray for the pikin? Na to pray God to overlook the situation wey the innocent child take enter world and bless am.
Well,if mom and Dada are still dating I will ask for them to marry cos I know they are still fornicating and may soon bring another one for dedication.

See the kind money these people steal? Na only God go judge them since my power no reach them.

newbornmacho:
where is buhari's certificate?

Lying is not corruption

Dem plan am?

What has tompolo done for the Nicer Delta community from the proceeds of his contract deals?

Long overdue