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Women can be funny. You are passing through wahala yet you still want to concieve baby NO 2? Wy? To double the stress on you and have double kids aka withness who will experience the turmoil in your home?

I see no reason why he would be angry about you picking your mom at this time vs his, I mean him using what he considers an error to judge you is quite childish.

Why cant you pick your mom? Is your mom not an imoirtant part of you too?

I dont see any reason why he is behaving badly except that his native Dr is a yahoo guy who has found out that you are trying yo snatch his paying client from him. Now he is working underground to frustrate you by telling his client aka your hubby evil tales about you so as to separate him from you emotionally and maybe physically.

Be careful sha, make dem no kill you one day claiming your death will release hubby from the spiritual cage you supposedly locked his desyiny in.

Pkele. Did you not notice his belief in voodoo before you married him? If you did, you would have saved yourself the stress you are experiencing today by dumping him befire saying I do.

I will join others to say, pray and be veeeery submissive. Keep begging him and dont complain about his babalawo journeys again. Maybe he will change.

Now he will be forming jackie chan... 30 yrs doen the line he will come online to complain about how kids only focus on their mothers and ignore their dads in old age. The opportunity to make a home happy and functional is comming and going yet he is forming boss

....husbands, know that Kids see, they hear and observe all that is playing out between their parents. They know sacrifices and know who plays a major role in family dynamics and situations.

Dont think your paying school fees and providing food is all it takes to build a relationship with your kids and wife.

Tooh

This is why I tell fathers. Love your kids and treat your family well cos kids grow up and become wise. Dont follow those SM posts that tell men to be selfish cos kids grow up to appteciate only their moms. Kids know good fathers and evil mothers no matter the wash wash a bad woman says, her kids will grow up knowing the truth based on how dad treates them.

OP, dont stress it. Focus on your growth as much as you can and dont wish her dead or alive. Na God hands those ones dey.

This is getting out of hands. Things cant continue like this na. Govt need to do something cos at this rate Nigeria will drown.

Toooh, Its well.

Its well

But she did not insult anyone na. Know your way no be curse.

* Dont plan to be her, you only know what she shows you on her joutney living life as her. .. Plan to be the best you is the best way to go.

* Dont expect her to pay youvfor being het fan.... Shr appteciate your loyalty as a fan but shr doesnt owe you financial compensation.

Nigerians sef. God help us.

Somebody will just wakeup, plan well and make up story and post online and then jobless people who believe all they see on SM will carry it on their heads like bag of foofoo.

Na so... Only a fool would expect you to say otherwise.

Doraty1:
https://www.blueprint.ng/breaking-man-marries-dead-woman-with-n2000-bride-price-in-bauchi/

So they will use religion to legally judge the case in Nigeria? The entity that corrupted the brains of humans by creating religion.... 7 gbosas for you.

Someone wants to punish the mother

Realtord43:
Most married women are not alway in good term with their mother inlaw.

she might have a sigh of relieved now but still pretend to be sad on her demise.

fear women!

Tooh, if them raise leg, una go say dem no sabi carry leg.... If dem keep leg down, una go say dem no sabi keep leg down.

Which one una want them to do?

Hiann!

WelcomeToBiafra:
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Thank you for your post. But you know what....

Tooooh, fair enough o.

Franklydes:
You no get sense Sha pervert. If person rape your babe or wife for your front, you go fit Comot and for your head. Well it seems you are a rapist same

Toooh. You bave tried!

Nigerians no dey go better driving scjool to learn how to use the road. Govt no xare about state of cars either.

Life lesson......dont mock tbise who dont have just because you have plenty. Just one swipe mother natute can wipe you slate clean.

May the souls of the children reincarnate to a better amd more prosperous place. As gor thr adults that list their lives..... Comfort to tvkse they left behi d and I hope they lived lives worthy of goodness for their souls in the afterlife.

Bluffly:
Please get lost

Tooh...... Say more

Bluffly:
That is your prayer above for yourself. Go and borrow senses before talking.

Lol, so your mouth can be sharp and active when you talking about others but as soon as dem ask you to imagine say e happe to you... You want to dive from 3rd mainland bridge the fear of yansh trashers is the beginning of wisdom. Pkele, you go dey alright last last

Bluffly:
What was said here is not sodomy. If that is what you want to bring in say it with your senses intact and not in a stupid manner saying if they come to your house and not my house.

Please shift

Hahahahha why e pain you like this?

Sexual assault na sexual assault. So, a man can be raped by men too. This ignorance you parade as wisdom will not work for you in real life. Like I said, wait until they knock at your door and rape you then we will know how easily your wife will forget it

Bluffly:
The truth is raping a woman is different from raping a man. It will be easy for the wife to get over the raping of her husband but may not be easy for the husband to get over the picture. In that situation this guys will deposit all there semen inside her. Though give or take both are exposed to possible diseases.

I pray for you reading this post that may you and your family never find yourself in an impossible situation. May you never experience such in Jesus name.

Men get sodomised oga. I am sure if robbers come to your house and knack you through back door and still deposit all their sperm in your anus just to humiliate you, in presence of your wife you will understand that sexual assault can happen to men and women. How you guys decide what is easy for women to get over baffles me. Women look tbe other way mostly because that is what society expects from them not because naturally they dont care. They also have been traimed to stand tall and fight for the one they love no matter what. So dont think because they manage to pull throigh it means they did it without much to no effort.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

This is why some lies are good for the sake of peace sha

All these women married to small boys need to learn how to talk in their presence.
She should have just lied about rather dying than allow them and when the situation arrives in real life she calmly submit and sare her life if rhey refuse to hear her plea for mercy. thrn I am sure you would still dump her afterwards based on your inability to get the picture off your mind for ordinary movie talkless of in real life of course you would expect her to be killed and celebrated (maybe) in your heart as a good wife.

I wish them well. May they find happiness in each others arms.

ThreeBlackBird:
Ehm..ok.
You've mentioned 'logic' a couple of times now and I think you should know logic doesn't begin and end with your personal view of life and bias. We all can't just see it the same way.

Tooh, I have heard.

electof:
You cheated NCDMB through the test and trying to justify it.....?

Lol.

Relax. Nepotism, corruption, Legislators, governors, Emirs, presidency, the management of NCDMB and countless number of highly connected individuals who did not even apply are waiting to cheat you too.

It's a vicious cycle.


Wahala be like all unrighteousness...

.e no dey end....it keeps popping up and sabotaging issues for you.....

Lol, no be small thing o. God bless Nigeria. God bless Nigeria for us o.

if it was in my power I will make sure all of you guys who wrote get employed. As in cheerful helper that I am
That is what I will use my long legs for. But since my legs re short..

Goid luck to you guys.

ThreeBlackBird:
You're simply agitated at the wrong person and I'm not sorry for that. I acknowledged the failure of the board but I'll say again that many of you scream your lungs out for a merit system you wouldn't even qualify for either. If you followed the NNPC thread and you're here again, you should understand. And don't tell me about little or big logic, I don't owe you either of them.

The truth of this matter is, the vast majority of those who are participants of this exercise are hoping on 'God' for 'divine testimony' and not really a merit-based system. If you ever hope on God for this job and you're angry some people saw questions before the test, you're a big hypocrite. You're banking on the supernatural God to make you a way into the organization, which is absolutely acceptable, but you're mad some people are connected to mere mortals or saw the questions before hand. In the end, you're just another selfish creature masquerading as a saint because you missed this one. Fool everyone else but you can't fool me.

We all love merit system when we're helpless but I tell you, even in private companies and all around the world, some people are favoured than others. I feel your pain but I really can't help.

Just look at logic of some people sha. So if people wrote that test witjout a glitch, those who passed will not look up to God for a spot?

Or that if it was based on merit alone, people who are looking at merit and hoping to get a spot based on merit will not pray and hooe on God too?

I am NOT against Merit, infact better if they based this employemnt on merit alone than to stage a failed trecruitment test.

Yes. Merit would have been better.

And yes, I have learnt to be as selfish as can be when it comes to such things no regrets. Human nature requires it to some extent and I am human so yes, I have to be selfish but not evil. if I get food, I will feed my dependents first and then share the rest with yours. I am not ashamed to reason that way even you will do same and may save the remaining for your future use instead of sharing with me.

...... So far as I know that I or whoever I am pushing aka supporting will get there and perform I will push for our good.....Let us all get there first. And then we show what we are capable of achieving on the job.

I SALUTE ALL WHO SCALLED THROUGH. But let us not justify the wrong way things were handled or drown the voices of those who feel they could have done better had all things being equal. Aka the test was smooth and without hitch. Why do you seek so much to drown their voices?

When I found that site, I even wanted to post the link to that test on the now deleted thread so that all who will write will be armed equally but they were deleted and people who already wrote asked me not to.

I made my comment based on how many people say the messed up test is not a big deal or reliable excuse for some of those who did not score well. You are not the first to mention it and I wonder how you guys reason.

I hardly comment here but this wrong mentality has got to stop because of our future in Nigeria. Let us learn from mistakes and try to improve rather than wave errors aside and blame victims.

How then do we fix our society if we reason like that? For how long will we dwel on such vicous mindset. With a mentality like yours the average man has no choice than to join the que of the selfish people if that will set him on the part of success. .

ThreeBlackBird:
Sorry, but the board has failed woefully, starting from a simple test it could not contract to capable hands. [s]And this should not even excuse anyone's failure because if it were a merit-based system as well, many of these same victims wouldn't make it. [/s].

That comment if yours destroys the little logic you think you are trying to make. I have a close person who took that test. How dare you say a horrible setup where the test portal takes years to open, you answer the first page but then to get to next oage the portal takes 20 mins to get there (have in mind that the timmer is counting) then if you refresh it takes you back to homenpage where you have ro sign in again (timmer still counting) which takes another 20 mins that is if it opens at all.
Then when it finally opens you are afraid of even going forward to see if there are easy questions you can answer because you know that once you skip a few to move forward, you may not be able to return back to the page you left behnd.
Plus, I saw the live question and answers marked on a website where hundreds of people were following and using to answer the questions when they sucveed in logging in.

As in while some were answering and struggling legitimately, some were just answering using orijo.
Kai it pained me that I did not see it earluer before she wrote. Cos last last Naija rewards scammers and I have no regrets if she had also scammed her way to the top cos those are the majority that will populate the list of who made the cutoff mark.

I have learnt that Nigeria doesnt like honest peiple, cheat and scheme your way to the top and you will be celebrated. Those who can not scratch and claw by any means possible will be mocked. Its only God that will help that country.

How does taking away ones opportunity to prove ones abilities to succeed not be considered an excuse for ones failure at that particular task?
Do things right and let thise who fail legitimately know that they did so due to their errors. Dont lead people to failure and then remove blame from yourself claiming ehn, some of you would have failed anyways even if we did not Bleep things up fir you on that day. .

Its like saying you dont blame a mother who doesnt cook good food for her kids cos the kids "MAY" end up not eating what the mother cooks anyways. Or saying you dont see corruption as a problem because not many people would have succeeded even if the leaders were not corrupt anyways. Your menrality is why Nigeria is a shithole.

sofiscatedmoron:
So what brought penis into this matter, u self

That is the cane they use to flog and abuse house helps na.

Lord have mercy. He could have entered the car by himself sha. Thinking its play time as ussual. May his soul rest in peace.

Omihanifa:
This girl that use to talk like all those female cartoon characters

Yes. Her accent when speaking yoruba no mature at all at all.

So you mean to tell me that naija men can rob, attempt to r@pe and even shoot at a woman?

Mbanuuu, naija men are all saints na.

According to chewing gum boys of NL, women are evil all men are victims of womens evil. I believe those robbers are women disguising as naija guys in a failed attempt at painting men bad..