₦airaland Forum

I wish them well. May they find happiness in each others arms.

ThreeBlackBird:
Ehm..ok.
You've mentioned 'logic' a couple of times now and I think you should know logic doesn't begin and end with your personal view of life and bias. We all can't just see it the same way.

Tooh, I have heard.

electof:
You cheated NCDMB through the test and trying to justify it.....?

Lol.

Relax. Nepotism, corruption, Legislators, governors, Emirs, presidency, the management of NCDMB and countless number of highly connected individuals who did not even apply are waiting to cheat you too.

It's a vicious cycle.


Wahala be like all unrighteousness...

.e no dey end....it keeps popping up and sabotaging issues for you.....

Lol, no be small thing o. God bless Nigeria. God bless Nigeria for us o.

if it was in my power I will make sure all of you guys who wrote get employed. As in cheerful helper that I am
That is what I will use my long legs for. But since my legs re short..

Goid luck to you guys.

ThreeBlackBird:
You're simply agitated at the wrong person and I'm not sorry for that. I acknowledged the failure of the board but I'll say again that many of you scream your lungs out for a merit system you wouldn't even qualify for either. If you followed the NNPC thread and you're here again, you should understand. And don't tell me about little or big logic, I don't owe you either of them.

The truth of this matter is, the vast majority of those who are participants of this exercise are hoping on 'God' for 'divine testimony' and not really a merit-based system. If you ever hope on God for this job and you're angry some people saw questions before the test, you're a big hypocrite. You're banking on the supernatural God to make you a way into the organization, which is absolutely acceptable, but you're mad some people are connected to mere mortals or saw the questions before hand. In the end, you're just another selfish creature masquerading as a saint because you missed this one. Fool everyone else but you can't fool me.

We all love merit system when we're helpless but I tell you, even in private companies and all around the world, some people are favoured than others. I feel your pain but I really can't help.

Just look at logic of some people sha. So if people wrote that test witjout a glitch, those who passed will not look up to God for a spot?

Or that if it was based on merit alone, people who are looking at merit and hoping to get a spot based on merit will not pray and hooe on God too?

I am NOT against Merit, infact better if they based this employemnt on merit alone than to stage a failed trecruitment test.

Yes. Merit would have been better.

And yes, I have learnt to be as selfish as can be when it comes to such things no regrets. Human nature requires it to some extent and I am human so yes, I have to be selfish but not evil. if I get food, I will feed my dependents first and then share the rest with yours. I am not ashamed to reason that way even you will do same and may save the remaining for your future use instead of sharing with me.

...... So far as I know that I or whoever I am pushing aka supporting will get there and perform I will push for our good.....Let us all get there first. And then we show what we are capable of achieving on the job.

I SALUTE ALL WHO SCALLED THROUGH. But let us not justify the wrong way things were handled or drown the voices of those who feel they could have done better had all things being equal. Aka the test was smooth and without hitch. Why do you seek so much to drown their voices?

When I found that site, I even wanted to post the link to that test on the now deleted thread so that all who will write will be armed equally but they were deleted and people who already wrote asked me not to.

I made my comment based on how many people say the messed up test is not a big deal or reliable excuse for some of those who did not score well. You are not the first to mention it and I wonder how you guys reason.

I hardly comment here but this wrong mentality has got to stop because of our future in Nigeria. Let us learn from mistakes and try to improve rather than wave errors aside and blame victims.

How then do we fix our society if we reason like that? For how long will we dwel on such vicous mindset. With a mentality like yours the average man has no choice than to join the que of the selfish people if that will set him on the part of success. .

ThreeBlackBird:
Sorry, but the board has failed woefully, starting from a simple test it could not contract to capable hands. [s]And this should not even excuse anyone's failure because if it were a merit-based system as well, many of these same victims wouldn't make it. [/s].

That comment if yours destroys the little logic you think you are trying to make. I have a close person who took that test. How dare you say a horrible setup where the test portal takes years to open, you answer the first page but then to get to next oage the portal takes 20 mins to get there (have in mind that the timmer is counting) then if you refresh it takes you back to homenpage where you have ro sign in again (timmer still counting) which takes another 20 mins that is if it opens at all.
Then when it finally opens you are afraid of even going forward to see if there are easy questions you can answer because you know that once you skip a few to move forward, you may not be able to return back to the page you left behnd.
Plus, I saw the live question and answers marked on a website where hundreds of people were following and using to answer the questions when they sucveed in logging in.

As in while some were answering and struggling legitimately, some were just answering using orijo.
Kai it pained me that I did not see it earluer before she wrote. Cos last last Naija rewards scammers and I have no regrets if she had also scammed her way to the top cos those are the majority that will populate the list of who made the cutoff mark.

I have learnt that Nigeria doesnt like honest peiple, cheat and scheme your way to the top and you will be celebrated. Those who can not scratch and claw by any means possible will be mocked. Its only God that will help that country.

How does taking away ones opportunity to prove ones abilities to succeed not be considered an excuse for ones failure at that particular task?
Do things right and let thise who fail legitimately know that they did so due to their errors. Dont lead people to failure and then remove blame from yourself claiming ehn, some of you would have failed anyways even if we did not Bleep things up fir you on that day. .

Its like saying you dont blame a mother who doesnt cook good food for her kids cos the kids "MAY" end up not eating what the mother cooks anyways. Or saying you dont see corruption as a problem because not many people would have succeeded even if the leaders were not corrupt anyways. Your menrality is why Nigeria is a shithole.

sofiscatedmoron:
So what brought penis into this matter, u self

That is the cane they use to flog and abuse house helps na.

Lord have mercy. He could have entered the car by himself sha. Thinking its play time as ussual. May his soul rest in peace.

Omihanifa:
This girl that use to talk like all those female cartoon characters

Yes. Her accent when speaking yoruba no mature at all at all.

So you mean to tell me that naija men can rob, attempt to r@pe and even shoot at a woman?

Mbanuuu, naija men are all saints na.

According to chewing gum boys of NL, women are evil all men are victims of womens evil. I believe those robbers are women disguising as naija guys in a failed attempt at painting men bad..

czarr:
it started last year and it is making me really uncomfortable...it seems to be expanding, it started like a small wound like blister. Doctors in the house epp your boy!

@OP czarr If it is what I suspect, just scrape the inside of banana skin aka peel and paste it on it.
Make sure to wrap it so the skin stays on it if possible do it over night. Until it goes.

sofiscatedmoron:
Nigerian women are wicked to their maid ,, unlike Nigerian men

Yeah you are right..... , the men mostly just fu¢k them using threats. And when caught they claim the underage girl seduced them. In a society where the men are believed to lack self control and are proud of it.... The girl would now be victimised for seducing her mature oga who as a naija man is most likely born with a natural deffect of not being able to control his pen|s

bigcasava1:
Anambra women top chat for child abuse. I don't why they hate other people's children. Am from imo my wife is from Anambra but the way she handles the house maid give me heart attack, I had no choice but to send the house help back to their parents. I just send the number 8 house maid back to her parents b4 she kill her.

You be man. You dontbstand for ngwompiti!
Some yeye males would join their wives to abuse the kids even sexuly too.

Truth be told, some Naija women wicked no be small. As in evil personified. Very thick demos wey like to suck on energy given off from agony and pains dwell im their hearts.

Nigerian chewing gum boys boys who hate to see independent women will quickly call her a prostitute. To them all women are prostitutes except tbeir sisters and mothers.

My only reason againat her moving out on her own is that many naija boys like to ra@pe They will track her down, when they see that she lives alone, rape, rob and even murder her and naija men will rejoice at her death claiming she prolly was cheating on her murderer which got him angry. Others will say she prolly was carrying aristo or gee boy who killed her for ritual. They always justify the murder and death of naija women. For that reason she should stay safe whatever her decision.

Haters will quote me and pretend men dont ever commit those crimes I wrote up there. The denial is real.

Marketing. Good one

Nigeria is just upside down.

So prior to now, the sons and daughters of that land could not afford to pull resources and drill a bore hole? Local govt chairman sef and all the chiefs no fit dig common bore hole?

As in.... They needed help from good samaritan to dig one. God is really merciful at mans inhumanity to man

Later they will tell them that the NORTH and FULANI are their only problem

Digmygold:
All Nairaland girls are not your mum whom you aptly described in your dumb analogy of the female gender. She needs to put you back in her rotten womb and rebirth you so she can give you the proper upbringing that you clearly lack. Broke men like you need not join the stingy men association, you are a platinum life member. You are gonna be broke till infinity finity finity finity wo yo yo

Chai, this one touch me. The person wey send am on long journey don dey weak.

Wow!!!!

Wishing him well.

livinbygrace:
All this while she never said anything about the man until the death of her mother.While the mother enjoyed everything ,the father"s reward na after death.To every man out there,make sure you take good care of your family,wife,children and at the same time have fun and enjoy yourself while it last,because no reward for any man on this earth and when children advanced in age,they will always prefer their mothers to fathers.
Thats why you see some children buying houses for their mothers while buying their fathers ogogoro (schnapp) when they becomes successful later in life..Men wise up

So, how man wey die 19yrs ago want take enjoy everything on social media with her mom who has been alive all these years only to pkai last year?
Una hatred for women no go make una use clear eyes jump off bridge sha.

Did you consider that some deaths are too painful to talk about and it takes years or some situation to make you open up about them?

Yall need to chil about this hatred for your wives and kids. Dont marry if you cant stand the sight of a family. No one will force a woman and children on you.


If you like no treat your family well even in death your kids will not remember you.

He is finner sha.

1st choice
*: Civil cervice..... assuming the possition is great and is such that I can impact positively the society where I serve and the nation at large. . I will save and sart my own business later. (Will NEVER trade serving the nation in a meaningful and impactful way for a billion pounds)
I will not settle for mediocre position tho. I hate when my impact is not being seen and felt by people I serve.

#50 million if the civil service job will just have me sit there and struggle with bosses and others about doing thr right thing.

He who gets to the top by systematically climbing on the backs of others will everly be afraid of bending down.

Nigeria... It shall be well

TOPCRUISE:
Many will suspect his first wife

Abi, not minding to know.....

If she is still alive, if they divorced long before he remaried. Sonetimes a man migt have even offended fellow man who vows to destroy his whole family. Or even the second wife might have offended a guy aka left her boo to marry this new man.

t00dugged:
, this generation of women said " at the end of the day ,it's night" .


I said one time ,these men need to go down on their knees and pray for a wife dem think say na joke.

Lol, dem think say e easy to find wife but husbands scarce to find dem no know say to find wife na miracle indeed.
When women say dem dey look road before them accept marriage, them go laugh them to scorn saying any man is husband material. Now they can see that just anybody wont cut it for you and its better to be singke than marry a mad (wo)man

Men are getting it left right and center and they are not happy. Once upon a time it used to rain everywhere for women. Now its raining gbas, gbos, gbas for men

Men, get thibgs right, women are also sexual creatures. No be only una sabi chop all kinds of soup

Me I will just sit back and enjoy the wailing.

Before una say na baby mama sure pass. Women come show una say dem sef dey ready,.... after una say cheating dey DNA therefore the men are not to blame, now women with cheating DNA have learnt that self control is not possible so they are flexing their natural instinct.
Next una say sex doll is the way to go... Women face cucumbers

Now una say stingy will solve it and soon women will start hussling by all means . We go see where these human foolishness will lead us.

Even in death, he is still leaving his battle for others. Enslaving them in his mental jail. Tasking them to pray for him, for his soul as if his peace now depends on how well they pray.
why did he not ask for that otayer to overcome while alive?

Pls my people, succide dose not solve jack.
You cross over to another raealm. Your body will be silent here but what makes you; you still carries rhe burden. You cross over to feel pain and regrets at the waste of opportunity of not fighting till the natural end. Yes, take it from me. Its the fact.

Mbanuuu, someone is trying to frame a Nigerian man.. All naija mrn are saints na. According to the chewing gum boys we have in naija now, no naija man is ever bad to a woman talkless of a child.
This man must be a woman in disguise trying to paint naija daintly man as evil cos we all kniw that only Nigerian women are evil.

Back to topic..... Next thing he will plan their kidnap and murder cos he knows that Nigerians will celebrate her death by saying maybe she was murdered because her hubby found out she cheated on him and did paternity fraud with the son.

If this was a woman victim now, chewing gum boys will say......

.... Lets hear from the husband first before we draw our conclusion because a man can not just wake up and pour acid on his wife just cos of ordinary arguement

cococandy:
if she has money or connections, she can.

Nigerian police are for sale to the highest bidder.

Its such a shame really