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[quote author= post=69794820]MODAFOKA! [/quote]very funny. happy Sunday

chrisbaxtian:
Hello everyone! Please, I would like to know which income type my tithe should be withdrawn from. Do I tithe my net salary, since it is my take home pay, or should I tithe my gross salary? Please, spiritually matured individuals should offer advice with scriptural backing. Thanks

you pay tithe from your gross. that is your total salary before tax or any other thing is deducted from it. don't worry when you Start paying, and God start blessing you, you will even be paying more than your gross.

some days ago I opened a thread that I titled can a born again Christian marry a Muslim. it all about a lady that we have been friends for some years now. though I love her and I know she have feelings for me, I believe we can't marry because she is a Muslim. And to make things more confusing, most times I pray concerning marriage, she normally come to my mind. I have this deep impression in my heart she may be the one. you can read the thread. The reason why I decided to open this thread is to share with the Christians in nl what the Holy Spirit Spirit showed me today while praying concerning this issue. The Holy Spirit led to Colossians 3 vs 11, where Paul said, where there is either Greek or Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all and in all. that means whether Christian or nor Christian, Christ is in all. The Christ that is in we believers is also in those that don't believe. Christ is in all. the only thing that Christian have that in unbelievers don't have is the Holy Spirit. Christ has came that we may have live(John 10vs10). And that life comes through the Holy Spirit. The letter killeth, but the Spirit giveth life(1cor3vs6). so we as Christian have the Holy Spirit that gives life, but Christ is in all. And in Romans chapter 8 vs 10, if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. So we are to see unbelievers as one that have Christ in them, and to pray that the Holy Spirit become there life through the righteousness of Christ, by quickening them and give them life.

GRACEGLORY:
These testimonies will transform your life.

am coming tomorrow

FarahAideed:
Strange that you know how to spell dignity but you don't know the meaning

guy you are wicked. short and simple

enilove:
THERE ARE MANY VOICES IN THIS WORLD :

That of men, God and Satan.

These are real and they do speak.

Many people in this world hear their voices dropping in their hearts like suggestions.

Satanists , agents of darkness do hear voices.

Even innocent people who are not agents of darkness hear demons speaking or directing them thinking it was the voice of God.
The devil spoke through Peter in the Bible , if not by divine power , an ordinary man would have thought it was Peter speaking.

Back to your question .
It is true that there is nothing impossible for God to do. But ask yourself , why can't HE change her now instead of after marriage?

GOD MAY NOT SPEAK TO YOU CONCERNING HER SINCE YOU DID NOT ASK GOD FOR DIRECTION FROM THE BEGINNING. IS LIKE YOU HAVE PICKED ALREADY BUT JUST WANT GOD TO APPROVE OF DISAPPROVED IT , GOD DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY.

The servant of Abraham first prayed for the sign to know the right wife for Isaac not after he had choosing b4 asking God for a sign.

The devil can deceive anyone by any means and through any avenue open to him.

James 1:14-16 KJV
But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
[15] Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
[16] Do not err, my beloved brethren.

LASTLY , ASK GOD FOR A CLEARER CONFIRMATION.
PLS DO , ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE A DIVINE CALLING. A DIVORCEE CANNOT BE USED BY GOD IN HIS VINEYARDS.

I prayed concerning it today. I took the matter to the Holy Spirit. I will be sharing in another thread what the Holy Spirit showed me. please do join me

CAPSLOCKED:
BUT SHE SHOULD GIVE UP HER MUSLIM FAITH BECAUSE OF WHAT, YOU AS A MAN IS SUPERIOR, OR BECAUSE YOUR CHRISTIANITY IS SUPERIOR?





EVEN AMONGST CHRISTIANS SOME CHURCHES DON'T ENCOURAGE MARRYING PEOPLE FROM SOME OTHER OR CERTAIN CHURCHES.
HONESTLY RELIGION DIVIDES MORE THAN IT UNITES. IT'S THE WORST TOOL EVER INVENTED.

AND PLEASE, STOP ALL THIS TALK OF YOUR GOD TOLD YOU THIS YOUR GOD TOLD YOU THAT CUS YOU HEARING YOURSELF TALK TO YOURSELF... YOUR GOD AIN'T SAYING SHĮT.

I don't know from what angle you are looking at this from. But am not a religious person, am a Christian, that Christ like. and as a Christian there are certain things I can do and not do. and one of those things I can't do is to marry a nor Christ like because there will be clash of interest, because as a Christian, am not permitted to sleep with her until after marriage. so I don't think she would want that. then as a Christian, I may likely end up as a pastor, would she want to be the wife of a pastor? this are the things am concerned about. so as a Christian, we cant do certain things.

enilove:
Op, I will advice you to do the following :

1... Approach her and inform her of your feelings for her. If she agrees , tell her that she needs to be converted to a Christian and Why.

2... If she cannot convert , then remove the idea of marriage to her from your heart.


Those 2 steps are very Important because , if you don't ask her to convert b4 marriage , she might refused to after marriage. And as long as she does not commit adultery , you cannot divorce her based on her religion if she is willing to remain in the marriage.

God has told us not to marry an unbeliever which may be why God has refused to speak to you.
God does not go against His words.

A wrong marriage can destroy God's plan for you. It can take you to hell.
You may think women are weak, but in marriages they are VERY VERY POWERFUL.

MY ADVICE IS THIS, DONT MARRY HER FOR ANY REASON UNLESS SHE ACCEPT JESUS CHRIST AS HER SAVIOUR.

thanks very much. I just feel like why approach her, if I know I may not get married to her. there was a day I heard a voice. I don't know how true it is, when I listing the reasons why I can marry her, and why she keep to my mind, the voice said, am I the one to convert. am judging her as a sinner was it not the same way you were also a sinner and God saved you. can't God also change/convert her. am not making it up. this was what I heard. and since then, I don't think have prayed for marriage. I don't know if it's true. what can you say concerning it. please reply

all we see is truck with heavy equipment and you guys are celebrating.

[quote author= post=69768276]Sure thing[/quote]you too dey every where

Igbokiller:
thanks for answering, God

am not God, am only telling you the obvious. God can never answer a prayer to kill somebody. so it is either you give your life to Christ, or continue wailing

I don't believe in wishes because am a realistic person.

Igbokiller:
if it comes through. I'll give my life to christ

that can never come to pass, so it is either you give your life to Christ, or continuing wailing on regret

[quote author= post=69766398]Possibly.... She is so gorgeous![/quote]sorry to say, d

Meekha:
Well, lemme not say that we are both sailing on the same ship but my own situation seems very similar to yours. I really helped her in the time when she needed help most and the help happened to be very timely and this made her fall in love with me. But there are many problems here
1. I am 7 years older than her (Which I do not find really ideal but nevertheless can cope or change my views shaa)
2. She is a Muslim and I am a BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN who wouldn't' give up my Christian faith for any reason, though I was born a Muslim, I converted to Christianity along the way.
3. She is from a super rich family and I am only a worker hired by her dad to help coach her where she had deficiencies. I am a graduate who is just trying to make ends meet and this job is very dear to me.
4. I have made a personal commitment to myself against falling in love with people I coach but then, this seemed to be very very different!
5. The parents of the girl have a high level of trust for me or an unusual likeness so they treat me better than other co-workers maybe it's because I deliver an exceptionally excellent service plus I am very hospitable and I consider it one of the greatest wrong I will do to betray their trust.
6. I know that it is a great woe on her part if her parents never find out about her emotional connection to me because it is a big TABOO for Muslim girls to marry Christian man though the reverse is permissible!
7. She is a Hausa-Fulani girl while I am from the middle belt: A clash of culture and social values.
8. I will end up putting the saviour who connected me with the family in a big trouble and this may result in the robbing of other young people like me of their prospects. The list seems endless.

Of a truth, I love the girl and she is of the view that she can marry a Christian cos her religion permits it (i knew it's not true, she was just speaking out of love). I currently have been putting up a stern face whenever we meet but this seems to be fanning the flames of desires even the more. The more I get to see her, the more my resolve weakens as per not dating her. Whenever I pray, her pictures keep flashing before my face as if to say that she is the One and I dream a lot about her these days. She is more than beautiful (know these typical beautiful Hausa-Fulani girls)

THE TRUTH!!!
Christianity does not encourage marrying people of the opposite religion and so if one does it, it may not be the best choice!!
God save us!!!

brother that's my problem. I don't if it is possible that God can be saying I should marry her. there is feelings between us. Even where we work, people have told several times to marry her. But I love Christ. God has been so good to me. I want to the will of God. Am really confuse. How I wish she is not a Muslim.

geoworldedu:
I think it's not proper. How can a saviour of the world come by fornication? A bastard became a saviour. Hmm! The holy sperm of the holy spirit can perform wonders anyway.

you are still dullard post about the Holy Spirit. I don't know what you want to gain out of it.

they are not the same

Rebuke:
Really? But there r verses in d quaran to brain wash people into suicide bombing and killing of innocent people, right?

I don't know why people didn't see this. 100likes for you

SaintLucia:
The mosque is not a business center. You can never see two or three mosques in the same street or opposite each other or in a three storey building. Zakat and Sadaqt in Islam is given to the poor.

the mosque is not a business centre, but how do manage your finances. is it not that after Friday prayers, you divide the money between the Alfa's and imams

Shampoo77:
Any news from the Imams, Alfa and their mosques?

abi. they can criticize all they like, but papa is moving.

don't mention that one leg lukaku. I don't know believe in him so much. he so believe in him that is going to use him as the only striker this season. I pity for hm. let see what will happen

Oma307:
who is pastor when God speaks, he knows how it will happen, he doesn't speak and say can I do it, my bro No. have heart to heart conservation with the lady and ask her if she can convert to a Christan, that is if you genuinely love her. if she says no, go back to God since he has spoken and challenge him. I believe God will tell you the way to go about it

the thing is that have gotten any confirmation from God. see, I believe God is taking me higher. as in I may likely end up a pastor, though God hasn't spoken anything yet, but I know that is where am heading. so can she be a wife of a pastor, I don't think so. why this go to her if I don't think she can do well as a pastor's wife. and can God really tell one to marry a Muslim

Liverpool. because they did a transition from last season to the coming season. look at what they did in the transfer market. they bought key players they need. they had problem with the goal keeping position, and they have done that. so I believe Liverpool are going to challenge seriously for the titles this season. mourinho, is just making mouth. he is going to play a full season with one out and out striker in lukaku. let me see how he do it. if they don't sake at the of the season, I will be surprised

Please I need your advice. Is so happened that I know this lady for years now. we are good friends. But the problem is, I know that as a Christian we can't really get married because she is a Muslim. So I have been trying to keep the relationship on just us being friends, even though I love her and I know She has this little feelings for me. If I had been serious, I know we would have gotten married or close to that, but I keep avoiding her and sometimes I do it on purpose.

Now, where I get really confused is that, any time i pray for God's will in marriage, she keeps coming to my mind. This is not infatuation or something. It has been happening over and over again. I know God also talk to us through giving us this deep impression in our heart.

It was so deep on day that I told the Holy Spirit that I can't marry her. I spoke with my pastor this week concerning this issue, and he said it is not possible for God to tell us to marry a Muslim and this thing keeps coming. am really confuse. because of this, have not been praying concerning marriage.

PLEASEEEEEE, I need Christians to comment on this.

thank you guys for this. this is helpful

God bless you. have not been seeing you around

FarahAideed:
Buhari keeps digging himself deeper into the hall of shame

wow, hall of shame

this is serious oooo. so this man don't have self will

Sharpshooota:
I don't know why they are fighting themselves
Boko Haram wants what Buhari want
Sharia law in the north...

But the fear of losing grip on Niger delta oil is the major issue...

not Sharia in the north but Sharia all over Nigeria. they want to islamize Nigeria.

Originakalokalo:
My job is not to convince you.

My job is to preach to you.

The holy Spirit does the work of convincing.

Let me know if you want to learn more about him

Don't bother if all you want to do is argue

you are good man. continue to stand for truth. God will continue to strengthen you

OtemAtum:
There are many christians I know who are very fearful and pray die by fire for their imaginary enemies. Pls don't try to deny the fact that they are your fellow Christians.

that is because they don't know what they have. believe you cannot find the peace the op is talking about in other place but only in Jesus. i am not afraid and can never be