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HappyCreative:
You shouldn't Cherry pick either then right?

Wat am I cherry picking??

Women are hypergamous is a fact not cherry-picked

HappyCreative:
Did I not say I wasn't a feminist? You are seeing words on a screen and constructing your own narrative.

U didn't deny it outrightly

Ur words are feministic

Connected1:
Then I believe "HappyCreative" deserves a Beta Male i.e the one she can easily control with her short height, vagina & self acclaimed wealth.
Terrific woman

Sure no high value alpha male will be attracted to her of course

She knows this already

She seeks weak men to control them but she will still be complaining that men should man up or that men are scarce due to her not seeing a man to be her husband.

HappyCreative:
Not all women. Are all men hypogamous?

Men and women should submit to each other. Ephesians 5:21.

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ESV:Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
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ESV:And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,
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ESV:addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart,
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ESV:giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,
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ESV:submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
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ESV:Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
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ESV:For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.
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ESV:Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
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ESV:Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,
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ESV:that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
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ESV:so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.
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ESV:In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
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ESV:For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church,
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ESV:because we are members of his body.

HappyCreative:
Not all women. Are all men hypogamous?

Men and women should submit to each other. Ephesians 5:21.

High value men are not attracted to pseudo masculine hybrid beast women


That part of the scripture was for men and women to submit whenever they are in a holy gathering

Don't misquote or cherry pick the Bible

Jeon:
among the human race black men seems to neglect and be toxic in marriages.

How??

HappyCreative:
Not always. Have you heard of the gender pay gap?

Men and women are different. I wouldn't say they are not equal though.

Gender pay has been debunked so many times

Are u new to feminism ni
Most feminist don't use that trope again nah

Their new trope is social constructivism and transgenderism

EMEKUSBOY9:
We know all this things, we are no kids. People just want to drag things.

The gospel truth is that not all men and women will get married to good spouse. So what u do now while single matters

Noooo

There's nothing like a good spouse

A good woman is a myth

AWALT!

As a man u must first prioritize yasef and make yasef ur mental point of origin in all situations of ur life.

One of the differences between a high value alpha male and beta male is a high value alpha male controls the frame of his marriage while a beta male doesn't. An high valued alpha male doesn't condoles infidelity from his woman or women while beta males do.

HappyCreative:
Maybe in your marriage. Don't speak for all of us please.

Women are hypergamous

Women don't see equality, women see strong or weak men. That's why women date and marry upwards and not downwards.

In marriage, women must submit to their husbands. It's nonnegotiable!

Women love opportunistically
Men love idealistically and sacrificially

HappyCreative:
The fall of the Roman empire for example, happened because the empire failed to enforce its rule. If they don't have the power they once had, they have to move with the times.

In regard to your other message. I'm not a feminist per se, women should have more equal rights though. For revamps getting the same pay for doing the same job.

Women are paid the same way a man is paid for the same job

Women and men are not fundamentally equal

PoliteActivist:
But you fail to see that in the real world it is not always about money. A penniless religious guru or guitarist or social giant would have a bunch of women worshiping them

Don't confuse poverty reality as real world please.

I don't see poverty reality as my real world.

Sure worshipping them but can they marry all those women

Arkmanbuddy:
What do you mean by this? The alpha in this case is going to bleep long-term. God knows if he hadn't been bleeping before the Beta fumbled.

Alpha bleeps short term

Beta bucks long term

Women's sexual mating strategy

A man must meet her hypergamy of AF/BB for her to submit to him.

So as a man focus on ur alpha Bleep side and ur beta bucks side

Seniorwriter:
Those Alpha - Beta - Simp theories are not what I'm trying to portray...For a public domain like this it is paramount to suggest or give info that can help people increase in knowledge and way of life....not to bash or talk down but to help in no matter a small way.

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
@Seniorwriter

Understood boss

PoliteActivist:
U still refuse to deal with the real world. Women also see those qualities you mentioned. And they can totally satisfy a woman's pypergamousness. There is something called potential and women also see it. It is not always money. Eg, a US medical intern has no money but will satisfy it for any Nigerian lady

Okay

I don't care about men who have average and poverty future plans sexual mating strategy

I'm talking from a rich man/patriarch perspective

Polygamy is not a sin

Men are polygamous by nature

Seniorwriter:
Ladies are one complex creation...they hardly know what they want early in life.
They all have weird desires.
Tell a lady to describe her kind of man and u'll be shocked the qualities can't be of this world.
Anyways if you are a lady try prioritize your desires.
BTW if financially independence is key to having the right partner around you then in future you might start to crave for the most important thing in a marraige relationship which is companionship!!!!

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
@Seniorwriter

Ladies are not complex

Their mating strategy is ALPHA bleeps, short-term and BETA BUCKS,longterm

AF/BB

PoliteActivist:
I think you are confusing yourself a bit.

A man who has strength, courage, independence, leadership, and assertiveness is an alpha male. Yet u may have all those qualities yet have not much money

Money is the number one quality an alpha male has then leadership and assertiveness and decisiveness etc because men have to become and women just are. It's called burden of performance for men.

How can u lead ur home if u don't make more money than ur wife??

How can u lead ur home if ur wife is making all the decisive and critical decisions

In a relationship there's a dominant gender and a submissive gender

The man is the dominant gender and the woman is the submissive gender

No high value alpha male depends on his wife for financial support. She is coming into his already built world not building his world with him.

Women don't see equality, women see weak or strong. They date and marry men who they perceive has more smv than them.

PoliteActivist:
Simple: sometimes a wife helps a man make it. Has nothing to do with alpha male. You may be alpha male and yet have mothing

U can't b an alpha male and not be high value.

No alpha male or high value man depends on his wife to make it.

Only beta males and simps do

PoliteActivist:
Delusional means not dealing with reality. What happens in REALITY is that lots of times a man relies on his wife's help till he makes it. That's what HAPPENS, not "why wud a man want"!

The reality is that most men are weak and beta males who don't understand Wat masculinity is and who don't understand that women just are and men must become.

Men are judged by their burden of performance.

PoliteActivist:
Nothing like back-up plan. You talk like you don't live in the real world. Don't we always read of women who supported or even carried their husbands till they became a real catch??

U are very delusional

Why wud a man want his woman to support their family financially in the first place?

frank950:
this is so funny, wahala for who is considering her hypergamy and femininity.

so wait, what will be her role in your life if she can't support you financial when need be......

we give ourselves too much burden in this short life. Always placing ourselves in an overreaching pedestal to maintain our ego.

If a woman renders financial support to you and feel she doesn't need to respect you because of that, you shouldn't be in a relationship with her at the first place....

U sound like a weak man

Let her control the frame of ur relationship and see how far u guys will go which I'm very sure won't b that long.

Women hate emasculated men

They hate men who make them become masculine.

Femininity and hypergamy is very important wen vetting a lady for marriage, asides other factors. Remind she's entering ur world and not building ur world with u. U are there dominant gender and she's the submissive gender

PoliteActivist:
The opposite of hypogamy
Come on, we all know what it means

If u know then u will understand why it's stupid to make ur wife ur backup plan financially

PoliteActivist:
It's you who don’t get my point. What if you don't have it?? What you do have to offer is marriage. In exchange she'd give you the support you need to build up yourself to satisfy her hypergamousness

Baba wats hypergamy in the first place??

PoliteActivist:
But that's IF you have a built world. The question again: how does having her prevent you from building it? If anything you'd even use her in building

Don't u get my point

Women are hypergamous and will always seek a man who has high value And his value is higher than hers for mating and for commitment.

Women hate building with a man because she will be forced to b masculine and she detests entering the masculinity essence. It kills her femininity bro

Only a weak and useless man will depend on his wife for financial support or use his wife as backup plan for finances!!!

PoliteActivist:
Are you saying that having a wife by your side will prevent you from making money? How?

Women are hypergamous

Women see weak and strong men not equality of the sexes. That's why they date And marry upwards and not downwards.

Men now because of our idealized way of loving a woman see equality of the sexes.

As a patriarch, ur wife isn't coming to build ur world with u, she's coming inside ur already built world. U rule over her and dominate her in ur world in all areas except for the feminine role areas of ur world. Her femininity blossoms and shines because u are already her lord and her husband.

Her supporting u is going to make her masculine and she will hate u for it. I don't depend on any lady to support me, I just want her to come into my built world and use her femininity to beautify it.

Dump the mothafoka ass

He's a weak man

He shouldn't have been dating u in the first place

He should have spun plates and gone on monk mode, focus on his goals and ambitions.

I wonder why guys do this tho, date someone exclusively wen u have not achieved anything worthwhile yet SMH!

PoliteActivist:
But ask yourself this: if you love someone, will money prevent you from marrying them if you have their consent?? NOOOO.
Money has nothing to do with marriage
Money has nothing to do with marriage

As A Man who wants to b a Patriarch, how will u rule and run ur home of money has nothing to do with marriage uhn

Redpill philosophy is one of a kind.

Men need to awaken from their bluepilled conditioning

Mtscheww

Trash!!!

Rubbish!!!

Pseudo masculine hybrid beast of a woman

Tuehhhhhhh

CHoccolaTE:
I can't deal with you Male people perverted nature, sorry not sorry.

All of you are perverts, it's not testosterone, its mental illness.

E peele o

Kuku goan transgender nah

Oponu