₦airaland Forum

Ekakamba:
Another preposterous counter. Keep struggling for your dominance to avoid death.

Ekakamba:
Can't we stop talking about the bolded?

We 'MEN' are the reason why women are hypergamous.

The last time I checked, it is men like you who is worth $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$, with at least a 1st degree will woo a JSS drop-out and marry her. Why? Because you are darn scared of a well-to-do lady? Then why cry wolf (the bolded) when you can also be?

It is full-leash for a man to assume that any woman who does better than him won't accept to date or marry him, that man needs to work on himself ASAP.

Any man wey never date and tame woman who does better (or equal to him) than him to the extent of full submission should STFU and stop complaining about women HYPERGAMY!

Damn!

AwesomeStormy00:
Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

BlueKiddo:
@op ur assumption is correct, but i think u should narrow this opinion down to Nigerian girls


They are the most worthless species I have ever come across

Sometimes when I try to hold a decent meaningful conversation with them, I just get fed up because they are so boring and irritating and their monosyllabic replies are unbearable (kk, lol, sup, kul, grt)

Eventually, I got fed up of texting Nigerians and decided to go to the west

In doing this I met so many wonderful people who are highly intelligent

All the relationships are completely platonic

I met this English girl and she is a very intelligent biologist, pro gamer and a writer (we decided to start writing a book during lockdown)

I also met this European guy who I game with (he's a great mathematician, a very good gamer and he's well into sports and all) we have a server in Discord and we have fourteen other guys and girls who are part of the team

Also I'm friends with a guy from the middle east, he's a brilliant artist and all his paintings are life-like and VERY realistic

There's also this Latino boy from Mexico who's presently teaching me how to play a guitar, he's a great musician and he's presently working on his debut album

My Scottish cousin and friend is teaching me how to illustrate on my phone

The list is endless and could go on and on, I just named a few of my Western friends

There's always something to discuss about, they are very smart, they have direction and dreams in life and we never run out of juice




And after all this, whenever out of courtesy, I decide to just say "hello" to my Nigerian friends (both guys/girls), I get so disappointed to be hit with waves of kul, fyn, av u eaten, aw ws ur day, api new month oo

Its all so heartbreaking


And at this points in time, I reason that something must be wrong with the average Nigerian's IQ

BareFacedLies:
On top wetin?!

Afrobasic:
Truss me when I say I am born again. I bathe myself daily with the precious red pill.

All my simping I now detest them, Never will I simp again.

We must spread this gospel of the red-pill, I want all my Nigerian brothers to be saved too!.

QuadrilAyinde:
Now, how many Ladies have U met personally for U to Say this?? U guys just keep.coming up with a Generalization theory that isn't logically convincing to an open hearted individual...
And congrats to your being 100% in charge bro... I pray the Lord Almighty makes it easy for U to do (Amen)

QuadrilAyinde:
(1) So that's why the Holy books had warned ONLY the Ladies to Flee from Fornication bah?? Keep deceiving Ursef ehnn.. It is well with you

(2) I never said Ur wife should be Ur BackUp Plan, but Rather As a Support System... They are 2 different things bro

QuadrilAyinde:
See ehn, TRP Philosophy is Very good at Being a Step ahead of Women to beat them at their Manipulation Game, but it's quite obvious that quite a Large % of TRP Followers are not ready to see some of the Downsides therein.. Now, let me Try quickly expantiate:

(1) THE ISSUE OF GENERALIZATION:
U see ehn, it's very Illogical for Anyone to just come out and start claiming WOMEN in totality are this and that.. The 1st question I'd like to ask is How Many Ladies av U interacted with Personally b4 Arriving at this Conclusion? It's quite obvious most of these Conclusions are excerpts from RedPill books and Forums scattered all over the Internet. Rather Using MOST LADIES would av suffice and probably made sum1 like me not to even bother bringing up a discuss in the 1st place..... Always Know that to Every Established Attribute and Characteristics of the female Gender, there is Always an Exception, so Why are you TRP guys Deliberately Ommiting the Exceptions, No matter how Small their Population is?? Hope U know that Even if the Ratio is 95:5, then it's still bn classified as MAJORITY and not ALL... Even sef, let's look at this issue in the Surface sef. u guys av classified Guys into RedPilled, BluePilled, BlackPilled etc etc, Now does it even make any sense Now Grouping All Women under one Umbrella??

(2) THE HIGH LEVEL OF HYPOCRISY:
Isn't it funny that sum1 who has decided to keep spinning plates till he gets tired has gotten the Audacity to Openly Call His female Counterpart An Olosho/Hoe/Ashawo etc etc.. Whi gave you the Moral right to do so? Even the Bible said Let he with no blemish cast the first stone... Either You accept it or not, In as much as the concept of Spinnig plates is an Integral part of TRP, then You Lots are BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES... Damn the Societal whatever that Demands Chastity from Women Only, Call me a woman apologist, Nah U sabi, The Truth Always hurts...

(3) NOT BEING INLINE WITH MODERN MARITAL REALTIES
See ehn, I just wish some of u RedPillers are being hinted on how Our Mothers do stand in to cover up some financial shortfalls in the home without ur Knowledge, Please Try have a One-on-one Heart-to-heart discussion with your Mums and you will be Marvelled at things U never know... Now Let me ask these Questions... How many men these days, with the present economic situation of the country can boldly shoulder 80% of Marital Financial Obligations?? Why do you think Women are Now opening Small Kiosks/shops/Metal containers in Multitude All over the Place, cant u see this is just to support the husband coz the financial load is much??
Now further ask ursef, do you now think A Woman u have Mentally degraded to being a Slave and footmat will be Ready to go all out to Support you in expanding your responsibility??...
In fact it was funny hearing a friend of mine telling me few days ago that He's just getting to know that most of his primary and secondary school tuition fees were largely shouldered by his Mum but He never Suspected, simply because His Mum Never made it Known, and this my friend is done with his BSc, just Imagine... The bottom line is JUST MARRY A REASONABLE WOMAN AND UR LIFE BECOMES SIMPLIFIED AUTOMATICALLY.

QuadrilAyinde:
Seriously U and I dey the same boat, Trust Me, though I never said a man should be dependent on his wife's Money, but Rather a System whereby they both contribute Financially (definitely the Man as the head of the Family will shoulder the higher share Nah).

Now this is exactly where I bn dey get Issues with TRP Comrades: Do U ursef think Sum1 who is Solely After Controlling and Taming his Wife to be under his Absolute Authority will Allow his wife to foot such billing? The Answer is No simply coz such men would have felt less of a Man at that Instance since the Wife had decided to Shoulder the Task they are supposed to see off....

It's just a Case of Pure Useless ego and Nothing else. It's just quite funny None of these TRP guys is Married (probably except Emmaodet), they would av seen that Most of these Stuffs they are preaching ain't Practicable at all UNLESS THE KIND OF WIFE THEY MARRY NAH LAZYMINDED FELLOW AND A FOOTMAT

GLYCOLYSISS:
Play stupid games, win stupid trophies!

Got to go man, do have a great day.

QuadrilAyinde:
Aswear Nah me fuckup Walahi, but show Never spoil... As for me ooo, Marriage is a Union of Partnership where the Man and Woman Unites to achieve common success...

Now let me ask U, What's ur definition of Marriage?? What do u intend to achieve by getting married??

QuadrilAyinde:
Dominance Dominance Dominace!!!! .... Oga Abeg try rest Small ehnnn, U are beginning a big Jest of Ursef ... The question is simple, In what way do U now think u are different from fundamentalists/Terrorists??

GLYCOLYSISS:
Smile,
These attitude is exactly the reason more persons are going to think he's right!
You got to keep your cool man.

QuadrilAyinde:
So u mean U prefer holding the frame in your marriage to U not living a Lonely and Miserable live when U reach Old age. ... Chai, this is Serious... No Vex brother, when U marry, ensure U carry the 100% Financial Responsibility (this is not even possible sef), I pray God help You Last Long, Amen

Seriously I rest my case with U bro... Goodnight and sweet Dreams

MrColdsweat:
@bolded.
You keep proving that masculinity distorts your thinking processes.

What is your definition of freewill?

how are you different from Al-Qaeda and other terrorist/fundamentalist groups, who claim that anybody who refuses to join Islam, deserves death?

MrColdsweat:
@bolded.

how are you different from Al-Qaeda and other terrorist/fundamentalist groups, who claim that anybody who refuses to join Islam, deserves death?

Susily:
That's people you mentioned don't even have wives again, maybe except Otedola

My question is why is it that most billionaires and wealthy men are either single or divorced??

GLYCOLYSISS:
You guys are not getting the game here..
That guy is playing a top notch mind game,and shutting him up is not how to go about it.

Let him talk, and lets listen.

Don't shut him up, let him tell us about how to go about modifying masculinity he talks about. Only then you can see what he's actually trying to sell to us.
These is time to play the fox, keep your cool, relax and watch what they got to offer.
Don't interrupt him.
As I said earlier on, these is the time to play the fox.

QuadrilAyinde:
Lol... Funny guy.. Make I enlighten U Small, probably U go understand me better now .....What u should know is that B4 getting Married to your wife, u must have shown and proved to her that U are indeed Financially Intelligent if U are the type that want her to Participate in the Money-wise running of the House. Remember the Popular saying that: There is nothing a Lady/Girl can't do, her resistance or rejection of an Idea/Offer from you simply means U are not the type of person she can do it for.... Hope U now Understand me a Little...

And my Postulation is this:

Once ur Wife is contributing to the financial running of the house, that will Automatically afford an Intelligent man the chance to be Saving for his Old age Coz Its certain his wife will be Moving from the house of one child to another playing the GrandMa role, thus Leavimg The Man ALL TO HIMSLEF TO SORT HIMSELF OUT MOST TIMES...Now Imagine a Situation whereby U av Toiled all Ur Sweat during your agile and able-bodied days to Take care of Ur wife and Children and Now at Old age, U practically av nothing to fall back to (NO SAVINGS, NO BACKUP) while ur wife is busy enjoying her Life under the Direct care of her Children as Mother-in-law (Regular visits and temporary Long stays), Don't you think it would have been too Late to start regretting then of You forgetting to Plan Ahead and Live happily when it would av made more sense...

MrColdsweat:
Who's talking about modifying it to the taste of feminism?

I stated a few reasons, modifying it so that men can have more job options, modifying it so that men can live longer, modifying it so that we can go through life without depression and pressure, integrating self-control as a masculine value, so that men can be immune to the exploitation and manipulation.

Where and how does any of my proposals benefit women or feminists?


Why can't some of you men reason without fear of women or involving women?

QuadrilAyinde:
I no even understand this TRP guys anymore... I already said it earlier today that A True RedPiller is an Insecure Man and a Control Freak Who Never wants his wife to be Financially successful and Capable since All he Cares about is the Domination/Absolute Control of the wife, smh... And this is the Angle that I've decided to come in to Let TRP guys to understand that this is a Vague thinking... Seems U have forgotten that she also has her Family Members she's financially obligated to be Assisting from Time to Time as well, thus the More reason U allow her to be Financially Independent so that She'd Automatically block any expenses coming from her family side from reaching You... And this is just inline with what MrColdSweat meant by Redefining Masculinity Coz too much financial burden on a Man has higher chance of shortening the Life of a Man

It's a very simple Analysis...

QuadrilAyinde:
Aswear U funny bro... In what way have U now answered the direct and simple question he has asked... So in ur words now, SMV is ur topmost consideration factor for getting Married ... U RedPillers just keep verifying my Initial conclusion that U people can't stand a Successful Woman, No need of hiding under any Philosophy

Ekakamba:
I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend then maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in XYZ Commission pushed buttons and your wife received an appointment letter in TRP Commission with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

What will you do the say she broke this news to you?

Night bro.

Ekakamba:
I understand, just get a secondary school dropout as a girlfriend then maybe a wife if you decide to marry because you never can tell if you'll continue being richer/wealthier than your wife till death.

Tell me what you'll do in this scenario: You work with X coy earning maybe 1000 naira monthly, got married to a lady (got 1st degree) who is a NPower scheme teacher earning 10 naira monthly. Her brother who works in XYZ Commission pushed buttons and your wife received an appointment letter in TRP Commission with a monthly net of 10,000 naira.

What will you do the say she broke this news to you?

Night bro.