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Zabiboy:
I dont know about anybody here o....
But MrColdSweat, i'v learned alot from you man..
Just like that adultress thread, i dont really care whether this MrColdSwe@t is a guy or girl, the most important thing is the message...
I reduced my comments drastically on this thread because most people cant post redpills without women in it....makes me wonder if we're here for MAINLY ourselves or to discuss women...
Personally for me, i do tell those around me, and Mrcoldswe@t talked about it too..."BRIDE PRICE IS POINT BLANK USELESS FOR ME"...be it virgin or no virgin...some other things Which he talked about too which i agree with...
But anyways, it'll really be nice if we can pick out things we need from a comment and move on
My Humble Opinion
Looking forward to seeing more of your comment @MrColdSweat

Brideprice should not b abolished

If it's abolished, how will traditional marriage hold?

So everyone will b using court system and church system

From there alimony and rubbish family laws will b passed.

Una wey wan bride-price to b abolished, I just dey laugh una

If they abolish brideprice, next is too abolish polygamy.

Brideprice is our culture, our tradition, our identity.

SOZINN:
Blaming men is exactly what these feminists are doing.
They just blame men for everything happening, even after sexually objectifying themselves they still blame men.
Blaming one gender for the entire problems in the society today won't solve anything

U are on point sir

MrColdsweat:
Check back to the first few pages of this thread, you'll see my comments supporting the maintainance of this present system. I know about the ways of men and the components of masculinity. I have bashed women on nairaland and traded words severally with bitter feminists like pocohantas and the rest.

But you see this truth, it must be spoken.

You can accuse me of anything, but calling my posts rubbish without actually dissecting it and pointing out the false claims or inconsistencies, do not only prove you are illogical, it proves that I'm right; when it comes to masculinity, the reasoning of men shut down.


Let us start from somewhere.


The emasculation men didn't start from Sweden or any European country. The emasculation of men, started in early society, where man had to tame and cage women in his journey to conquer nature and instill order in this chaotic world.

My analogy of the man and the caged lion should help you understand this. Marriage is a system used to tame women. In the process of creating marriage, man tamed himself by choosing to live a life of working for women and offering bribe to women, to ensure that she stays comfortably in her chains. Man is the custodian of society, by creating the marital institution, he emasculated himself.


Secondly, you are right, women have no experience with loyalty because loyalty is a component of masculinity, whereas femininity is just an embodiment of meekness and humility. But you misunderstand my post. My asking men to accept equality, is charging men to individually live like equals to women.

I ask that men become equal with women by refusing to slaves to women and dropping or modifying the traditional definition of man. I do not ask that men enter an agreement with women.
I ask that men abandon their social duties and pledge loyalty to himself.

This is the gospel of mgtow.


Also, If you think you are above women in this society, then you are exactly what my first post talks about. You are blinded by your pride, and masculinity.

U are a big time dullard

So If men abandon their masculinity and their societal roles, all of a sudden women will wake up and apologize for accepting radical feminism ryt

This is stupidity at its peak

My hatred for MGTOW knows no bound

Rubbish!!!!

TheUndercover:
Seconded, a society of Masculine vs Masculine won't work. It takes positive and negative to attract, not positive and positive. Both genders have their roles to play, and if both genders decides to leave their roles for the other, we've seen that this usually leads to chaos.

Men are meant to lead and women simply follow suit. Men are leaders not followers. Men wants to be the winning team, Women simply wants to be part of the winning team. Gender equality as it is defined today by the modern world cannot work lest it creates disaster.

Exactly

That's why we want feminine women and not masculine women

Boom!!!

MrColdsweat:
Some of us have broken free from some mental chains like religion, tribalism, patriotisms etc. But very few men are bold and strong enough to break the chain called masculinity.


Some ancient men, sat down and dictated the lives and destinies of generations of men to come.

A man must be loyal, a man must be stoic, a man must never show weakness, a man must executive his duties until death etc. Unwritten, slavish laws which are subconsciously instilled in us through socialization.

Let me be short, we are all slaves. If men should be worried about anything, it should be about our miserable lives. Lives which revolves around proving that we are men.

You live your lives, toiling for others, you are constantly under pressure. You cannot live beyond the codes of men. The moment a man goes against the laws of men, we condemn him and hurt his ego.

You do nothing good with your lives. You spend your lives proving that you are a man, instead of enjoying it. You constantly prove to your fellow men that you are a man, you pound women for hours to prove you are a man, you join secret or silly organizations to prove you are a man, you gulp several bottles of bitter beer to prove you are a man. You do not even realize that you are not living. You constantly prove to your wives that you are a man. The moment she leaves you, you feel less a man and Commit suicide.

After working hard all your lives, providing for family and relatives, your only reward is being called "a man".


Because of this mental padlock, you do not see women are as humans as you are. Infact, this mental padlock has caged men from reasoning properly. A man might be a good thinker, but when the issue of masculinity or equality is discussed, his brain shuts down.

Example: As a man, what would you lose, if women succeed in eliminating bride price?


This word "man" has blinded you that you will rather be slaves to women than be equal to women. You will rather have a woman dependent on you and be a leech on you, than have a woman as your equal.

When women mention gender equality, you exhibit cognitive dissonance. You begin to resist.
You are blind that you cannot see that this "gender equality" is freedom for men.


You want a system where you will continue to be slaves, and your reward is a pat on the back, than have a system where everyone is free to choose their own path.


Men must stop focusing or talking about women and focusing on themselves.

We call women hoes but you have not for one day, taught of controlling your sexual urges. You constantly patronize women for sex, when they show you pepper, you come to the internet and wail.

When will you realize that, no matter the redpill or pill you swallow, as long as you don't have self-control, you'll always be at the mercy of women?

Men must stop focusing on women and start focusing on themselves. We are slaves to the word "man". We must free ourselves.

Women are happier today because they have freed themselves from the traditional definition of " woman". They now live their lives on their own terms. They have no pressure nor expectations.

Men must follow suit, so that we can live longer.

Men redefine the word man, so that we can stop being slaves.

All bloody fallacy

Who told u women are more happier now??

Women now are more miserable and unhappy because they are losing their femininity or trying to fight their femininity.

Masculinity is a good trait that men should never think of losing, it's our badge. It's our identity.

U are sounding like a woman and women are drawn towards utopian thinking that's why they came about with feminism.

MrColdsweat:
Exactly my point.

You are exhibiting cognitive dissonance, same way a religionist becomes confused and defensive when you show him some inconsistencies in his holy book.

I ask you, asides

1. Shorter lifespan.
2. Likely to die from violence.
3. stricter punishments and longer jail term.
4. Likely to get an E or F at school because men get 70% of E's and F's at school.
5. More likely to commit suicide.


Tell me, what more benefits do you enjoy as a man?


Can't you see that gender equality is an opportunity for us to restructure society and remove some burdens from the male gender?

Good and bad things happens to both genders first of all.

There's no burden on the female gender.

Men are created and women are born

Gender equality is against nature and order

We need both the masculine finesse and feminine finesse to make the world a more balanced place.

I don't see gender equality as an opportunity to remove burdens for the male gender because the male gender is not complaining about any burden whatsoever.

Scandinavian countries tried removing ur so-called burdens and now they have a serious crisis of gender identity.

Making women head of the family won't help men whatsoever. Women are narcissistic, selfish and solipsistic....they don't care about the male gender, that's why they love the male gender conditionally

Boom

Superpower:
So where do you draw the line?Do you marry 2 3 4 or more women.Without self control what differentiates a man from an animal

U draw the line based on ur capacity to be responsible for all the wives and children.

We are higher animals nah so it's not a biggy

Superpower:
Marriage changes nothing.you are still sleeping with multiple ladies

Men are polygamous by nature

Blame it on our testerone

Toks2008:
No.

Adultery is when you sleep with someone you are not married to but Polygamy is different cos you are married to the lady.

Polygamy is the best marriage system sef

It is a natural dread for women

Men don't fight ur polygamous nature

deliveryboy:
How would you know that? How would you know most men don’t support their wives. The truth is most men are the backbones of their wives’ success. Look around you, all families relocating abroad were sponsored by men, the ideas, plans and the execution for relocating abroad all done by men. Most businesses run by women be it salons, provision/super market all sponsored by men. Education after marriage by all women sponsored by husbands. Men support and build women but the truth is women internally despise men and would blame men for all their failures.

The thing is wen it comes to marriage, there's a dominant gender and a submissive gender

The man is the dominant gender
The woman is the submissive gender

There's no 50/50 in marriage, it's a myth

Women always want to have men that are higher than them. They don't see equality wen it comes to men, it's either u are a weak man or a strong man.

Chii59:
Read a book and absolve yourself of ignorance. It's stupefying.

I'm for equality of opportunities but I'm not for equality of outcomes

Women should strive to be feminine rather than take up pseudo masculine beastly traits

BRATISLAVA:
The problem is that men don't want to grow themselves. All they do is sit and create rules for women. So men don't want to go to heaven, too? Why did they create the red pill movement and MGTOW? Those are not Lucifer inspired schemes, because they involve men, right?

The abuses men deliver on women emotionally, physically and verbally is enough to put all of men in hell, but you will never address that. All you know is women this and women that.

God will judge that evil of men and many men will end up in hell for thinking it's a man's world. You've destroyed enough families and relationships with your approach that men are always right and women should adjust.

Wat are u saying

Is it not women started having rights that family structure and marriage started collapsing in the western societies

Women have always being enjoying since history till feminism came.

Men even developed sanitary pads and tampons to aid women's menstrual issues

xeju:
there's more to feminism than marriage authority fight. don't treat ladies as 2nd class citizens period. respect every woman as much as you respect a man. don't use religious books as a yardstick to treat ladies as rag

But women are second class citizens

Women don't see equality wen they are with a man, they either see weak or strong man all because of their hypergamous nature

BRATISLAVA:
If you are right, why haven't they created an internal feminism against females?

Stop trying to twist and divert from the evils that men do to women.

Men hiding from their responsibilities have become mainstream, that is why feminism had to take up their slack.

Women oppress women more than men

dominique:
When is he going to warn men not to join the red pill gang? Oh, I almost forgot! It's only women that need to keep adjusting themselves to suit the growing expectations of the society.

There's nothing wrong about the redpill philosophy

Chii59:
E don hit FP o.
I stopped identifying as feminist when I decided to read about the movement and what it stands for.
Though, I still believe in gender equality, though not from the standpoint of modern feminism.

Gender equality is feminism nahh

Which kind contradiction u just dey state

apple30:
if u open shop n no body patronise u u no go close am..

WTF!

Why open shop in the first place?

FashionCookie:
Okay Sir. Just stay away from women patapata for you to have peace. Na the truth be that...

Why

We have testerones

We can't stay away from women

FashionCookie:
Lol...them call meat, kpomo dey carry hand. It's people like you who will come here soon enough to cry how your wife left you. "...to preserve our seed and increase our lineage" indeed. Una go just dey yarn opata...because you see people bragging you sef wants to join. You forget say to each him own...SMH

Why wud I cry over a hoe or a LovePeddler??

I'm not bragging, I'm just stating my value system.

Wen one understands women's nature and agency, one definitely will know peace

FashionCookie:
Who's talking of paternity fraud here? Well, that one concern you and your wife/wives Happy "marrying." Hahahaha...chai. Nothing I no go see for here.

That's y we know the game and play by its rules

U think we marry for love lol, we marry because we want to preserve our seed and increase our lineage

Jeon:
I accept it with pride.

Sure

We understand y u are solipsistic, it's ur survival instinct lol

Jeon:
your choice.

Lolz solipsism at its peak

FashionCookie:
Oga you are just contradicting yourself. Ok, let's go like this...who sleep with these women mainly? So if you as a man is flexing your polygamous power(like you stated earlier) on women, you'll still end job with one of them. That's the fact. So you better be careful of what you brag about. Women don't marry women, MEN marry women.

Polygamy means we marry as many women as possible but we won't succumb to paternity fraud. The women will always be in our frame and they will be very feminine, we will never be cuckolded

Jeon:
as I said only weak and retarded men see women as sex objects [ birds of the same feathers flocks together ]

U didn't answer my question so that means I m ryt then

Jeon:
only weak men view women as sex objects

Lolzzz

Wat other agency do women have asides their pussy??

"Strong Men retains riches while Gracious women retain their virtues"

Women are sexual objects, that's why they have biological clock

FashionCookie:
Women whire with women abi? Una no go fit stop gor nairalabd...na orisirisi thibgs person dey gear from una everyday. Polygamous nature you say? Hahahahaha...stop making me laugh abeg. U guys will never stop give excuses for your *.....* I don't have the right word to use yet. As for women whoring around according to you, my happiness is, it's men they'll still settle with at the end of the day. So whether you like it or Yes, men will still bear the brunt of the monsters they created.

So ur rationalization is that men are the cause of women whoring about SMH??

Sure those women whoring about will end up with beta males and simps, both genders are always battling intra sexually for the best sexual mate to have.

apple30:
stop partronising them oga maybe infidelity in marriage go reduce..Abi no be person dey marry cheating wife's.. Yimmu

Women should stop commercializing their pussy then

excel101:
See this dingo with limping dick

Oponu oshi

slowpoke

FashionCookie:
Even as the expense of their peace of mind? Do you think it's everybody that's lucky with their choice of partner(s)? The same way some women find it difficult having a man, do you know it's the same with men? If it's not happening, mostly it's not the woman's fault...you don't know inner battles people fight. So you guys should stop making them feel less of human...haba.

Why do women find it difficult having a man??

Because they whored around during their youth

Because they don't want to accept men's polygamous nature

Because they see themselves as equals to men

Amongst other reasons