₦airaland Forum

I prefer monthly pay.

Weekly pay messed my planning and system up.
I did bi-monthly pay for few months and went crazy.

On the other hand, I have a friend who recently joined the monthly pay gang. She couldn't cope
To each his tent.
What works for A might not apply to B

cococandy:
Leave your wife and marry the nairalander guy telling you all that nonsense. Your problem will be solved.


Anyone with a brain ever wonder why it’s only the women that usually have spiritual husbands and are ogbanje?

You dey vex

I have asked that question too.
How come women are so strong in underworld but not respected in real world

Superstition begets backwardness and retrogression.

armyofone:
When poor, broke, facing hardship etc they blame the lady in their life.

When they are wealthy - they give praise to something else. Men!

My dear, Nigerian women have seen it all.

This reminds me of yul edochie.
If tomorrow he makes it, trust me, he will go and marry another wife and discard this one.
Their inferiority complex is the worst in this world.
That's why they have successfully burnt Nigeria down.

Guy is having a meltdown and of course, the blame is always the next person .

Na educated people be this o.
Nigerians where flying brooms and matches are always after their progress through somebody close to them.

Husband + wife = double wahala but diff approach.
Una weldone

Which kain load be this for his head?

I want to cut off my locks cos they are very long and heavy now and this man dey carry almost triple of my lock for head.
He try.
He don't shave?
No no no.
That's dorty.
Hygiene 101 in a humid country. Always shave. Yuk

pocohantas:
Not easy at all sis. At this point, e suppose follow for 1000 ways to die.

To think some people would justify this madness. Locking ones partner out in the night? You no even send the insecurity? Coldhearted partners are dangerous because they don’t even know when to stop.

Make women dey try marry men whose hearts softens to them. Pharaoh sef no do reach this one. Tufiakwa!

They do. If not many will not be dying inside marriage.

You see, some women do get it right. Many don't.
Some see plethora of men hanging around them begging, many don't.
Societal, religious and family pressure is high.
You are panicking and called "choosy", you just plunge head. Anything you see, you take.
Many want to run away. Even the financial independent ones.
But in a society where marriage is seen as the only achievement of ladies, once you call it quit, family( many) is on your neck, at work, ladies will start avoiding you, female friends will disappear, they will even tell your single female friends to run away from you.
Odds are against you. Go looking for a job in Nigeria with divorced tag, they will mess you up.
You end up bitter and resentful. Depression sets in. It's not easy. This is the reality.
Nigeria is still primitive. Patriarchy is the system here.
That's why it's good to look beyond the money.
As long as one look beyond money, it's hard to make a mistake.

This lady was attracted to the money. The signs that the man is a bully and abuser were all there but money blinded her. I don't have any advice for such people cos you are wasting your time. She will tanda there as long as he is paying the bills.
Even if she is taken to a hospital, she will still go back to him. She entered and now felt she has arrived and want to change him and if he resist, she will start nagging. What does she expect?
Patting or the man will change overnight?
Guy know she is there for the money that's why he is still the same after marriage.
Na death do they part. Its part of the vow anyway.
Goidluck to her.

Very fast judgement.
Why are some people still awaiting trial up to 10yrs?

pocohantas:
I can assure you it is because he pays the school fees, rent and buys bag of rice at home. Isn’t that wonderful enough?

Financial security and the taboo of being labelled a divorcee.

It's not easy being a Nigerian woman. Many odds.

1Sharon:
You don't contribute financially that's why he disrespecting you like that. Seems you're completely dependent on him.

She is a nagging liability.
She don't know how to hold her forte.
He married her cos his people are disturbing him and she was the readily available one.
He never loved her and will never do.
She don't have self worth.


She still don't have self worth.


There are many housewives who their husbands provide for 100% and their husbands love and cherish them.

If the strike doesn't affect state, why are they part of the strike then?

Who do solidarity with his work?

For once I agree with this man.
All state governors should sack any lecturer who joined in this strike.
They are very wicked, lazy and inhumane.
I thought that it affected all schools except private schools.

By the way, how come private universities didn't join or are they not lecturers too.

omenka:
Anytime I see an Okoro complain about being hated, it makes me laugh.

Such poor clowns.

Ain't gonna start trading words with you now.
Too late for that Mr.

JohnBullMySon:
There's nothing Emefiele can do about this. This is economics. No regualation can stop Naira from falling. People who remit dollars into Nigeria now exchange through the parallel market to gain enough value for their money. In turn, the parallel market doesn't need CBN's dollars. They keep on receiving from Nigerians outside the country or foreigners and sell at the market price. People need dollars. You cannot use police to stop them from getting it.

It wil get worst.
Why?
Cos so far, those in diaspora have been the one providing the needed forex so far a long time ago.
Yep, without their contribution naira would have risen to 1000 naira per dollar.
Now, the world is facing economic challenges due to war in Ukraine. Cost of living and inflation is biting hard everywhere. One has to stay afloat first before exchanging money to send home.
So this give the naira free fast fall and that is what we are witnessing.

Ofodirinwa:
He was not the only one, but he was for sure the top 3 worst. Everyday something very hateful about Igbo this Igbo that. It's only now that Fulani are really showing him pepper that he changed his tone. If you use twitter go to his account and search 'igbo', you will see that he was really possessed.

But he is an emotional fool so he can very well return to his regular program

The guy hates igbo with passion.
From his time on nairaland, nobody except omenka and simply Leo can match his avid hatred.
It's still igbos that will go on his feed to bring his tweets here everyday. Do they worship him?
The same with reno. Reno never liked igbo. Ffk the same. Anybody that want social media fame will align and start defending igbo before they strike and these mumu will be hailing them.
Tell these boys to grow up.

I pity whoever believe sarki.
Sarki of all people. Lol
Maybe some of you are only months here and underage else why pay him attention
Is that how you guys especially igbos crave attention and belonging you will accept any idiot who tilt towards you a minute and then go rogue on him if he changes his mind.
They actually know your mumu button and are using it very well

What makes you standout is whe you don't need a second party to convince you of who you are or believe in.
Be proud of yourself and let others chase after you.

This is what choosing a president out of sentiment causes.

Acidosis:
Those bastards will relocate to Lagos, leaving behind the innocent and common man.

Nope, they won't. Politicians from the North don't like to settle in lagos. What lagos is to the majority of the southern politicians is what Abuja and kaduna is to northern politicians.
They will rather go to dubai.
First lady relocated to dubai few yrs ago. Atiku virtually lives in dubai and so many of them.

Hausa man prefers religion to his culture and ethnicity while fulani prefers culture and ethnicity to religion.
The day the hausas understands this, they will become free from fulani slavery.

They thought that because all North adopted hausa as their lingua franca, it wil automatically make them superior not knowing it is a political calculation on subjugation and slavery.

Wonder why people still frequent his church.
Only one man.
Scandal after scandal.

Not long ago, his prik was posted online.

That's why I like Catholic Church. By now, they should have de-robed him.

As long as they refuse to do the right thing or vote the right person, Sri Lanka will be better than Nigeria soon.

If only the politicians are affected. Also rock is next. The monsters they nurtured is out to swallow them.

AngelicBeing:
Hian, l will not enjoy it together oo, You see why many Diasporans have completely given up the idea of relocating back to a country called paradise Nigeria, Nigeria is a FAILED STATE after the order of Afghanistan, Syria, South Sudan, Yemen, Libya etc Nigeria should be auctioned on eBay to Western Nations or China should buy off this God forsaken country called Nigeria

Na your kantri uou dey yab like this?
There is god o

armyofone:
Thank you

come and eat noodle

We will get there. Everybody must eat veggie by force

Lexusgs430:
As usual, lessons would be learnt ...............

Staffing issues are historic and cannot be resolved in it's current form ......

I dare the political party, that proposes a total privatization of the NHS .............

This report, might be a preparation of minds ..............

Welcome to capitalism if it happens.

Do you want it?

This is Nigeria

The disaster the likes of paid urchins imposed on their people because free money is sweet.
Let's enjoy it together

That teacher should be sacked.
Very unprofessional and careless utterance from a teacher.

In a developed world, by the time parents have written and signed petitions against him or her to panel sitting to widrawal of licence, the person will know that words have souls.

Words make and Mar people

Nigeria is this way cos we don't know how to acknowledge one another selflessly, we believe that it's street credibility to insult and bully people.
See the product. Zim

naijapips04:
Tell them. Obi is an emotional manipulator.

While your candidate is a emotional blackmailer

Afamed:
Obi has no single legacy in Anambra people should not be deceived with his antics of investing $10000b.
Anambra is purely a glorified dumpsites

You have always hated obi.
Sorry dear.

Ndi ipob. As planned takeover of anambra didn't work, is it this?

Try harder

Nigeria kill talents.

Congrats to her and her team.

cococandy:
that person is a certified troll. The uncle doesn’t exist. That’s how they go about being idiotic on here

Thank you
Now, it makes sense.
Wanted to break coconut on the idiot's head

So they still troll here in this present day Nigeria?
Hmm, they are not out there helping whoever that feeds them to make ends meet?

barbstee:
It could be true.

UCH has started charging patients a thousand naira daily for electricity

I know it's very costly to run but that amount is a lie.

40 X 12 is 480million in a year.
It's OK.

Let's continue lying to ourselves. Na we dey suffer am.