Health › Re: Mysterious Disease Hits Girls' School In Kenya by Desusi: 6:49pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
ch214: Those evil globalists are on trial experiment on African soil: they want to get people opinion before they take their final decision but one thing that is sure, is they will not succeed in their evil conspiracy on Africa soil instead the European threats against Africa continent would fall back on them.
This evil european globalists are doing this because Africans are waking up and asking European military to leave their Africa countries.
Failed conspiracy already. Please give us more conspiracy theories so that we can choose one. |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by Desusi: 2:47pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
writetopoker: Because free things are sweeter Hmmm, indeed stolen water is sweet. |
Events › Re: Birthday Celebrant Asks Guests Without Asoebi To Leave Her Party, Curses Them by Desusi: 8:03am On Oct 04, 2023 |
buygala: How can you not pay for Aso ebi and want to eat free Amala and Ewedu in the UK?.. O wrong nau 
Do these wicked people know how much a plate of Amala costs in the UK ?.. My brother, these people didn't know that party is partly business. The desire of and business man is to make money. Nonetheless, a graceful heart shouldn't curse,this is because your being 70 is God's grace.Simply tell them to walk out.There are people who came purposely to eat and nothing else,even when they do not know the celebrant. |
Travel › Re: NRC Employees Lured Us To Board Train Without Tickets - Daramola Adenike by Desusi: 3:30am On Oct 04, 2023 |
Poverty on the beat. Everyone seeking opportunity to survive. Hmmm. |
Family › Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Desusi: 3:07pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:
 It is well bro...
Sometimes when I look at my dad,I only wonder how he managed to do it....As in,how he managed to take care of my brothers and I after the death of my mom despite being jobless..............There was never a time we went hungry...We were even privileged to attend one of the best private school in town...Tho there were challenges along the line but it really helped shaped us into being what and who we are becoming....
Op, it's never been easy...........But trust me, there's no wicked father anywhere who would fold his hands and watch his children lack when he has the ability to solve their problem....
May we become fathers and not only fathers but the type that will be able to provide eveey basic need of our wards and our parents and every loved one 🙏 God bless you my brother! May God give you a very understanding and sympathetic son like you to you.whenever l pray that my God will give my kind of son who is callous to him,he will be offended saying lam cursing him.This means some sons like fathers are terrible. May God help us. |
Politics › Re: Ali Gana Alhaji: ISWAP Guns Down Boko Haram Commander In Sambisa by Desusi: 6:07pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Planned strike: NLC, TUC leaders arrive State House by Desusi: 6:00pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
You people are joking with the president. He is their mother's husband. Jagaban of Africa,He is the president of Africa most populous nation from Atlantic to sahara.Make una go sempel and relax,no strike jooor.All na shakara! |
Politics › Re: Troops Clear IPOB/ESN Camps In Okigwe, Imo; Recover Fresh & Old Corpses (Photos) by Desusi: 4:02pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
CilicMarin: Source: @HQNigerianArmy Every man is the architect of his or her own fortune. A word to the wise is enough. My people from the east and in naira land how many ears have you? I advice that all Igbo in diaspora should unite together and fight these cankerworms or else,the struggle continues |
Family › Re: He Wants To Marry Me, But He’s A Married Man!!! by Desusi: 3:31pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Nengiraw: Hello nairalanders, please I need help on this situation. So I’m a lady in her mid 20’s. I’m actually very much set for marriage in the eyes of my family, since society deem it fit to place marriage as an achievement for women, and always bring up your age to remind you to. Anyways, it’s not a priority for me to get married now, as I feel like I’m not ready mentally,and I have a lot of trauma to work on, but I’m also open to it, if it’s in my face and ready. I don’t stay in Nigeria, so my family don’t know if I have a man in my life, so they decided upon themselves to introduce me to a man who is my uncle’s friend that stays in the same country as me. They were more focus on the fact that he comes from a neighboring village from us and that he was a doctor. (Meanwhile he’s actually a nurse, but he told them, that he was a doctor, he also never mentioned to them that he was married and had a child, before they decided to introduce him to me)
So we eventually started talking on WhatsApp, he saw some of my pictures already and he was mesmerized. In fact he was already kind of making me his wife in that moment. So one day he called me and we were just talking,and I heard like a toddler crying so bad and needed his attention, I asked him who was that , he told me it was his daughter, there was this awkward silence for almost five minutes of us not saying anything, so I told him I’ll call him back. I called my mother that day and was mad as hell, that they didn’t disclose such information to me, but from my mother’s reaction she had no idea, and she was also mad and she told me, she will call me back, so she could verify from my uncle, since that’s his friend. Even my uncle too had no idea. To cut the whole story short, he later called me the next day on a video call, and he started telling me about his wife( Yes! She’s still his wife, because I don’t think he has divorced her yet)and how abusive she was, and how he tried to make it work, but she was so crazy and stuff like that. That he’s actually trying to get shared custody of the child. That he’s no longer married to her. I was not really having it, because I just felt like he wasn’t being honest with certain things and on top of that his wife is still in the picture, and I don’t know if I want to settle for that. Also he just turned 40, and I’m 25. So the age gap is too much for me. Also I have not met him in real life, cause he stays in a different state from me, my family still wanted me to be open minded until I see him in person, then I could make a decision if I want him or not. He always sends me pictures of his daughter, and he recently sent me one with his first wife and daughter, I was surprised that he did, and he said he wanted to show me the daughter instead. I still felt like I didn’t need to see a picture of her. I started seeing the red flags of him that I couldn’t settle with. Also the way he talked about the wife was vulgar, and I felt like he didn’t need to tell me about her in that manner.
Now the most recent thing he started doing was sending me random stuff about marriage to my WhatsApp. I usually glance at it,and don’t reply, cause I don’t know why he’s sending me that. The one that gave me a major big red flag from him, is when he sent where Regina daniels( the actress who married Ned nwoko) was talking about marrying her husband a virgin and how it’s important to be a virgin. He then asked me if I was one. Honestly I felt really numb, because I don’t know why he will be asking me stuff like that, when he didn’t really get a respond back from me, he proceeded to send another message telling me, “No mind them sha, virgin no sabi. With a heart eye emoji. I was dumbfounded, I didn’t know how to reply to him anymore. I stopped picking up his calls and I have no intention to meet up with him anymore. Now my family is mad at me, saying that at least I should see him in person, but I don’t want to. In fact I’m no longer interested in him. Please am I wrong for feeling the way I feel? Thanks. What further witnesses do you want? Your God has revealed a lot of red flag to you about this man.why looking for wahala or tampering with sleeping dog.Now he is looking for a virgin today,tomorrow, he will be looking for a princess! I beg my little girl,run for your only one life. |
Fashion › Re: Piercing Of Men's Ear. What's Your Moral View On It? by Desusi: 3:03pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Iyanuoluwa007: Just had mine done. So far so good, no profiling of judging faces yet. This side of the world can be funny at times. With all the unyielding religious hype. Men, do you support it? Women, can you let your husband or son pierce his ear?
Deleting soon... Mark of irresponsible. How do you feel in the mist of mixed multitude?especially people who do not share your believe? Great abi? Continue. |
Career › Re: My Boss Calls Me All The Time. by Desusi: 2:58pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
LikeAking: In business the customers are the king, in this case they are the parents of the kids..
Try and understand..
Na ya type they kill biz in Nigeria..
The customer is always right, when u open yours you will understand..
For now enjoy ya attention.. Exactly my brother! These children of nowadays don't seem to understand this. None the less,l see his boss preparing him for future entrepreneur of his own business. As dedicated as he is to his boss,in future, he would put extra ordinary strength to his own too.Besides there's an eye watching him who would no doubt compensate him. |
Politics › Re: Again, FG Invites NLC To Another Meeting Today by Desusi: 3:48pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Prayers Of Many Christians Are Hindered by Desusi: 3:08pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
hopefulLandlord: I don't need his respect either. Neither do I respect him cuz it's hard to respect imaginary beings Yeah! Don't you fear God? Who are you a mortal man! A man for the punishment of his sin? Take your time. |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo May Not Apologise To Oyo Monarchs – Ex-Adviser, Abimbola by Desusi: 3:04pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
Desusi: It ended in praised, because was connected to the matter. Because God's hand was connected to the issue, it ended in praise |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo May Not Apologise To Oyo Monarchs – Ex-Adviser, Abimbola by Desusi: 3:03pm On Oct 01, 2023 |
BarrElChapo: Remember Saul in the Old Testament, the people chose him cos they were tired of being ruled by the prophets, how did it end ? It ended in praised, because was connected to the matter. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses "Hate" Christian Songs But Sing Secular Songs? by Desusi: 11:54am On Oct 01, 2023 |
HISSCRIBE1995: I noticed that the jehova witnesses around me usually feel uncomfortable when a christian song is been played but they are quick to dance and sing along to secular (even ungodly ) songs. They seems not to like hearing a christian sermon but would prefer to listen to sermons from other faith (islam)
Now the question is - why do these people react this way but chose to be more positive to unchristian subject rather than christian subject of which they are already familiar with. It is also a wonder that these people Choose not to be identified as Christians (please if I'm wrong with this assertions you can correct me) I think these organizations need to be studied very well to see why they Choose to be the way they are (their doctrines, and differences in scriptures)
If you know anything about this group called jehova witnesses, or had experienced some of their reactions, please share so that the church and general public can know more about them and their beliefs without castigasting anyone. Hmmm,your observation is correct. Nonetheless, going down to their root,they are the people the Bible described as having the form of godliness but denied the power thereof,a reprobate, avoid them like a plague.I carefully mingled with them many years ago in Germany, here are my observation, though they care a lot,but do not share Christian faith, the do not believe Christ died on the cross,talk less of His resurrection.They have their own Bible that removed a lot of vital information concerning Christ and His millennium reign. They do not believe in rapture and lots of Bible doctrines. My brother, they are far from been a Christian. They are occult in a way. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Prayers Of Many Christians Are Hindered by Desusi: 10:05am On Oct 01, 2023 |
hopefulLandlord: Work hard to make your heart desires come to pass. praying is a futile attempt. there's been no single study that points to prayer being useful. Templeton Foundation (a religious group) ran a study and found out prayers are useless
You would have the same success praying to a milk jug as you do praying to god -- the milk jug sometimes answers your prayer the way you want to, sometimes not and sometimes the answer is delayed. See the problem here? If things turn out the way you want them to, you say it was because you prayed. If not, it's because god knows what's best and you didn't pray for the right thing. Or, if it happens 10 years later you say god answered your prayer, it was just delayed. This is nonsense. You would have the exact same effect doing nothing. It takes Gods mind to understand the mind of God.l observed you're a Free thinker..You better discover the truth before it's too late. God has no respect of persons. |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo May Not Apologise To Oyo Monarchs – Ex-Adviser, Abimbola by Desusi: 9:51am On Oct 01, 2023 |
BarrElChapo: Is or was Obj ever anointed to rule? Is he a prophet? Abegi these men that fornicate with deities should not be criticized, lol As long as he was voted by the people to rule the nation,he is God's choice and they are never a terror to good works. Any act against leader appointed is against God.Be care, l don talk my own. |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo May Not Apologise To Oyo Monarchs – Ex-Adviser, Abimbola by Desusi: 4:41am On Oct 01, 2023 |
I have been observing the way people criticized senior men in this platform, men of renowned of the past ( whether religious or political) and present without any iota of respect or honour forgetting that God hears it even if they have goofed or made any mistakes.The consequences are terrible, men and women beware,God has no respect of persons.Remember Miriam and Aaron who criticized Moses in the bible. |
Politics › Re: Indefinite Strike: Radio, Television, Others To Shut Down by Desusi: 3:14am On Oct 01, 2023 |
Betanaija42moro: The strike is long overdue. That's the only language that the Government understand I agreed with you brother! |
Politics › Re: Indefinite Strike: Radio, Television, Others To Shut Down by Desusi: 3:13am On Oct 01, 2023 |
Vinnie2000: Hmmm.
Druggie and his USELESS APC Party wan Finish Nigeria Kpatakpata! 😕
Atiku, Apply more PRESSURE please! 🙏🙏😒😒😠😠 You mean atiku is a minister of pressure? |
Politics › Re: Indefinite Strike: Radio, Television, Others To Shut Down by Desusi: 3:10am On Oct 01, 2023 |
Bugatie: I see Tinubu making a pronouncement and the labour union postponing their planned strike More visions! We have many prophets in nairaland.Tell us more,what will happened after the strike. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mass Suicide Bombings At Two Mosques In Pakistan. 60 Dead, 100 Injured (graphic) by Desusi: 1:45am On Sep 30, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Mass Suicide Bombings At Two Mosques In Pakistan. 60 Dead, 100 Injured (graphic) by Desusi: 1:43am On Sep 30, 2023 |
garriAndsugar: I know he must have shouted allahu Akbar before detonating the bomb Before nko?False beliefs. |
Politics › Re: Save South East From Collapse, Okonjo-Iweala Tells Governors by Desusi: 10:06am On Sep 29, 2023 |
Taylor92: I heard Alex Otti is planning on opening a seaport in Abia state
I don’t know how’s he’s gonna do that considering SE been landlocked but for him to say it then he knows better
I pray he succeeds So eyes are on Lagos this much? My brothers, Lagos has come to stay and there's nothing you people will do about it.Lagos is the city of excellent, the If Alex Otti succeeds in opening a sea port in Abia state
Lol house rent, land prices, economy, IGR, I mean everything that makes Lagos state is gone So eyes are on Lagos this much. My brothers from east,Lagos has come to stay and there's nothing you people will do about it. She is African pride,the centre of excellent,the commercial hub of Nigeria. Lagos na baba! |
Politics › Re: Lagos State Closes Ladipo Market For Environmental Offences by Desusi: 8:33am On Sep 29, 2023 |
opalu: Oppressed at home, Oppressed outside. May God help, bless and multiply the Igbo businessmen. Dorty that is everyone on Lagos roads...... Now you're digressing the issue into tribal sentiment. Is it only Igbo that do business in ladipo? |
Politics › Re: Breaking: Tinubu May Not Come Back If CSU Has Released His Documents by Desusi: 8:46am On Sep 28, 2023 |
2BabaNairaland: Dey play !
You should have said that about Niger' President on the 1st January, 2023. Only God cannot be touched. Man ability is limited,do not make him another god.If God would take him away tonight what can he do about it.Of a truth,Mr president is immune from impeachment. |
Politics › Re: Ex-President Obasanjo Prostrates For Olota Of Ota by Desusi: 3:27am On Sep 28, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Customs Intercept Live Parrots, Hawk Worth ₦6 Million by Desusi: 3:17am On Sep 28, 2023 |
Badb0y4lyf: Lol watin concern custom with parrot bird, I don’t think the customs is empowered to do this bird that can fly from Nigeria to South Africa by it self South Africa is close now.we have history of these birds leaving Nigeria for united kingdom. A case in point is hawk leaving unibadan zoological garden for London zoo.This was later discovered through the label on the bird.ln all,they were sent back to Nigeria. The earth belongs to God and the fullness thereof, just as men migrate from place to place,l think animals should not be denied access to other world .There are people who have never set their eyes on parrot before. |
Family › Re: After Dna The Child Is Not His. by Desusi: 4:14am On Sep 23, 2023 |
UncleKoboko: DNA TEST SHOULD BE A MUST IN THIS COUNTRY. I WANT NATIONAL ASSEMBLY TO PASS THE LAW ASAP.
One can no longer trust all these generational coded SLÚTS and OLOSHŌS.
They said 1 out of every 4 DNA TEST in Nigeria is usually negative...
You can't marry a girl that's:
Not a virgin
You don't know her sexual history
You don't know her true bodycount
You don't know if she's done abortions etc and still be trusting her! ARE SOME MEN CHRONICALLY AND GENETICALLY DAFT?
As long as a girl is not a virgin, NEVER EVER TRUST HER OR ANYTHING SHE SAYS ABOUT ARE SEXUALITY. IT'S USUALLY 99.9% LIES.
The earlier men wise up, the better.
The thing we need to start doing to make all these lose hōes accountable for their promiscuity is to START BEING TRADITIONAL.
A girl that's not a virgin does not deserve bride price! What are you paying bride price for? Her father raised a hõe and does not deserve any respect as bride price. At worst, FIND OUT HER TRUST BODYCOUNT ) VERY DIFFICULT), and divide her bride price by the number of her bodycount. If her bride price is 100k and her bodycount is 10, WHAT SHE DESERVE AS BRIDE PRICE IS 100K/10 = 10K.
2, If you didn't marry her as a virgin, YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE REST OF MIND UNTIL YOU DO DNA TEST ON ALL THE CHILDREN SHE MAKES FOR YOU. Even if you marry her as a virgin and you suspect or see signs that she might be misbehaving, PLEASE DO DNA TEST! DNA TEST IS NOT AS EXPENSIVE AS IT USED TO BE BEFORE, WITH BELOW 200K, IT CAN BE DONE AND YOU'LL HAVE REST OF MIND FOR LIFE. A man who comes to this difficult and struggling world to raise another man's child because he was deceived is a complete failure and disaster to existence.
3, Cheating has never and can never be a mistake. Cheating is also different for both genders. When it becomes normal and legal for woman to have multiple surnames, then you can start forgiving them when they cheat. One of the worst thing a man can do on this earth is to forgive a cheating wife. It's a suicidal and no man should do it. The moment she cheats, everything you ever have with her should completely end, even if you have children with her. You can take your children and take care of them or get another wife... BUT NEVER TAKE HER BACK.
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.... Just like that? This is a new doctrine coming from prophet,........ ? How about the biblical standard? Traditional standard? etc,etc |
Travel › Re: Nigerians Abroad. Share Your Experience With Racism And Discrimination by Desusi: 1:46am On Sep 22, 2023 |
CandidAdmin: Nigerian based abroad, please share your experience with racist or when you are being discriminated because of your color.
Note: This is not an Anti Japa thread. Even in Nigeria here, there's discrimination talk less of white man's land.Those who wear the cap feel it.If you have not live with these white imperialist, you cannot understand. Let the sleeping dog lie. |
Politics › Re: Taiwo, Obansanjo’s Wife Begs Obas, Yoruba, Says ‘Forgive My Husband’ by Desusi: 6:26am On Sep 18, 2023 |
illicit: Yes
Obasonjo can be likened to Nabal
And his wife is Abigael
Wise woman You must be a bible student. Who knows the mischievous act this action of baba may brought upon his children and generation to come by these oriades? Truly, the woman is wise and highly intelligence. Most of the battles that fight man are directly from his own hand.l hail your comment my beloved. |