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idmoore:
hi nairalanders,
i know you all are of great and intellectual fellow pls will want your sincered opinoin. it about my fiancee,will both love each other so much but the problm is when i ask her to come to place for jus spending time together she feels recluctant or only come when she feels like unnotice, she claims will see everyday in skool campus and if will want to spend time and talk we can probably go hang out anywhwere pleasureable to discuss whatever. but where ever we can it can,t be as convient as my room so that we can smooch or ginger ourselves after our discussion.

The reason is because she knows you have no good to offer her other thank sex and I suppose you are not playing your games well. I suspect you are always pressurizing her thus making her suspicious of your moves.
On a lighter note, she intends not coming for now so that you can have more time to study your brighter grammar to improve your grammar .

denex:
If my partner should test me on any level, no matter the outcome, the relationship MUST end.
What kind of rubbish test? Is our marriage going to be an exam?

. SERIOUS WORD

The test is extremely awkward Why on earth would you test someone who is engaged to you and from what I understand in the text whose family must have been introduced one unto another with SEX. I suppose d guy is not capable n needs an excuse to back out because if d girl had said NO dre stil wud av bin troubles. D guy had something up his sleeves.
As for me, I can neva put my wife to a test becos I dont bliv in such things. I love her because I trust her and d truth is dre is no reason watsoeva to dig a pit for her to fall into. If I suspect suspicious behaviours from her, I wil surely come out plain to her becos I am very open n I nsure any relationship (platonic or serious) is open. If I suspect foul play from friends I ask n once I sense insecurity, I will let U know before I call such friendship / relationship quits.

Funny as many of us think on NL as we do not relate things with the economy
D impact r too numerous dan one can think from GROSS UNEMPLOYMENT, HIGH RATE OF CRIME, INCREASED INFLATION, COLLAPSED ECONOMY SINCE THE SECTOR HAS NEVER BEEN EFFECIENT. The solutn 2 d current crises can only b resolved by d CBN. While wat Sanusi is currently doing should av bin done long ago by Soludo by ensuring dis den MEGA BANKS supported real sector growth, it is quite saddening dat Sanusi is takin dis measure witout providin a mechanism for wat he is doin. Banks no longer give credit i.e. no more financial intermediation which is dir major function n we r saying d economy is not shrinking. For me, d Interbank market is not even d problem because it doesn't in anyway improve d economy.
Sanusi n his ad - hoc team shd pls luk into dis wit d view of resolving same.

for me, I wud eida remain a virgin til my wedding nite or Bleep all dicks dat comes my way. In essence, I rada b a saint or a mother fucking bitch 'cos I wud b an xtremist in such things n no fucking only my boy friends or dates.

For me, your friend is just a layabout else, he wouldn't date a guy for 3 months, break up with him, date his friend for 3 weeks n broke up with dat one too and another of his friend is now desperate ova her. I am sure, she is good in bed and doesn't say no. this is the reason y dey all want her so dat dey can share of d gud cake.

What will be urs,will surely be urs.d guy can move on tentatively&d lady might still come back,if they are meant for each other.wait a min,d lady actually wants to go back to her ex.It means she still luvs her ex&its not becos of d ex's mother at all

[/quote]Toba,
D challenge is dat she is agreeing to date him back because of his mum whom she blives she can always report him to her wheneva he misbehaves.

[quote author=izeek link=topic=341910.msg4785935#msg4785935 date=1256301583]whats gone is gone,
there is no point waiting for a train that has pased your station!

Izeek,
True talk but u know its not easy sometimes. Imagine he had already done a very nice hand mada card for her for this forth coming xmas. Although, we may say the cost doesn't mata to him considering his status oweva, it is because he likes her that is why he is doing all that. I am sure he will surely get over this. It's only a mata of time. My fear is he stil blives he wil take her back weneva she comes back not minding ow long dis may be.

Kindly Advice,
There's this friend of mine who was dating a nice chic who grew up in his neighbourhood however, the chic has chosen to return to her ex because the ex mum prefers her to the ex new girl friends. My friend although has let go but he is hoping on waiting believing that the chic will come no matter what.
For me, although the girl is a very nice lady but does it mean that there are no other ladies that the guy doesn't want to date someone else other than hoping for someone else's wife because the ex is planning getting married next year.
Pls advice cos he is a regular reader on NL and dis wil help at least make him see some reasons with his decision.

As for me, it depends on both parties. I am not a mummy's boy but most of my friends and colleagues see me as one and most times I really do not care about their feelings.
I need not displease myself to please a lady as such, all those points to bother me. In my opinion, people should be truthful and do things because they want to do them.
Wash his clothes becos U want to wash them and not becos it is a duty, cook his meals becos U want to help him to afterall, if U r not around he still eats. D lady xpectin d guy to fix everything seems absurd. He can foot d bills for dem n do d ones he can. U dont xpect me to be a plumber, mechanic, electrician all to please U because dat implies U telin me one day to be a chef all to please U and so many other things all for U.

Hello,

Well, I want to say categorically that there are jobs for you if only you blieve in yourself. I want you to know that there is nothing to cry over in your making a 3rd class. that is past and it is what you make of the present that determines the future. therefore, write some professional exams like ICAN, ACCA, CIPM, CIMA if you are in the arts or social sciences or CISCO, CCNA etc if you read any of the science courses. Worst case, go for your PGD. Your ability to defend yourself well enough in an interview is what will get yu the job irrespective of the circumstances that surrounded your making a 3rd class. Once you can convince your interviewer that you made a 3rd class as a result of your playful nature, ignorance or whatever reason and that you have learnt then the better for you. However, if you decide to go in search of sy(em)pathy at your interview, I assure you that you will only be ridiculed. brace up to life and face the challenges. Own up to God and he will see you thru.

Hi all,

This topic really seems interesting to me. However, in actual sincerity, I do not see reasons why the lady should act in that manner. Though the guy may not be romantic but I expected the lady in question to have been a little patient. Someone she dated for 4 years must have been someone he is used to. He could just have been the shy type and as such might have thought of how to put it and getting it straight. All the same, she has done her worst. The guy will surely get someone who understands him better.

Ade

Hello,

Please can someone advise me. I bought ABC transport at 5.15k and it dropped today. Please is the price still going to go up or I should sell it off?

Hello,

All I will want to suggest is that be the best in what you do and if the opportunity comes, then you move.

Besides, wherever you are, unless you don't want to be an active player in that industry that is the only situation in which you won't improve your qualifications. Therefore, I am of the opinion that you start building a career in a unit of your choice and write every necessary exams that leads to advancement in that career.

Finally, if it is for the money, then I will want to disappoint you by saying it doesn't make a difference. The reason is because, irrespective of how much you earn, you may still remain poor. To me, poverty is a thing of the mind and not the amount of money you have. This in essence implies that, if you do not have a good savings and investment habit, irrespective of what you earn, your status remains same.

Remember in economics, for a closed economy model without gouvernment intervention,
Income (Y) = C + S where C = Consumption and S = Savings, also

(Y) = C + I where C = Consumption and I = Investment,

equating both equations above shows to you that S = I. (Though in an open ecomomy there are some differences as both are dependent on different rate of interest and marginal propensity).

Therefore, with the little money you are earning, learn how to save and invest as such, in the nearest future, you will be able to stand tall beside those who earn more irrespective of the differences in the physical cash.

Hello all

Please who has an idea of how much a clean Gulf IV will cost me. I have the money handy and will so much appreciate your suggestion.

Thnx so much.

Things have gone worse cos the girls people said they don't take their children with pregnancy and yet they don't want her to have the baby. My parents will be back on Sunday and daddy said he won't mind sueing them. But I am quite scared because of the picture this might have on the family image.

Hello all,

Things had taken a worse turn around.

The woman who brought her to us came yesterday and said the girl's people said they don't take back their children with pregnancy. I wonder what is wrong with these Benionese as though we forced their daughter into it. She dey sneak go out for night go chop sweet things, she foregt say sweet things dey kill.

Please advise as the lady that brought her is suggesting abortion which i am very sure my parents won't support.

Thanks for the responses so far. But the issue is getting more complicated. Mum just called and I explained the situation of things to her. she said she is going to call the family doctor to come put her in the custody of his hospital.

Thank God I am free from unnecessary worries cos I am still trying to imagine why the silly thirty something year old bros will do that to a girl below 18.

Guys, please lets be more mindful before we do it.

Hello all,

Please Help me cos I am confused as per wat to do.

I am the 1st child of the family and I have 3 younger ones (A guy n 2 girls). Our parents had to travel out of the country on Wednessday and won't be back till next 2 weeks Friday.

However, it was discovered that our maid was pregnant on Tuesday and mumsy called the person that brought us the maid. She promised coming to pick her up for now but she is yet to come. The problem I am having now is that she is seriously vomitting and my younger ones are going back to school on Monday and I am never at home because I don't come back most times till around 10pm.

My youngest sister said she begged her for money yesterday which she gave her and she used the money to buy a small bottle of chelsea. Now I don't know what to do since she claimed it was my neighbour's nephew that impregnated her. Funny enough, the guy is a tailor and it's been a long time I last saw him. Sincerely, it was hard to believe when I heard cos she was always asleep whenever I get home and besides, I am so sure there is no means by which she can see the guy cos they have a busy shop in front of their house and the shop doesn't close earlier than 10pm daily as such, how could they have been doing it?

I am of the opinion that she goes there ever morning or probably I take her to the hospital the family uses and keep her on admission till my parents return 'cos my mum couldn't afford to loose her trip since it was her leave period and dad went on business purpose.

Please advice me before I make a wrong decision.

Regards,
Adewale.

Good evening,
I may not have much to say and may not sound reasonable to all but I want to say I will advise you rather go to school. The truth is your education will surely open doors for you. I want to let you know that there are jobs out here its just that we have a fewer qualified people. Qulaification not in the class fof degree but in the individual. The truth really is you are what you see yourself to be. And that is why a whole lot of graduates are roaming about because they never believe they can get the rightful job.
However, if you feel you want to explore the part time option then I will rather advise that you go for a degree and not HND. Feel free to contact me for more information either via this site or mail me through dm.

Good Evening,
Sorry this is coming late.
Sincerely with your qualification and years of experience, I want to let you know that you should be thinking about nothing less than 9.6m per annum that is if you know your way. I will suggest you send your CV to the top shot in the oil firm and you will be surprised as they will be bargaining to get you.

Can someone please help me.

It all started with my neighbour back then in Secondary school. He lured me into having sex with me and since then whenever I see a male, my dick rises especially if I can view the dick form the trouser. I want to believe I am not a full gay because I like girls and besides, I do not like the gay sex. However, my major problem is that I have a small dick about 6" when on. There is a girl I am dying for and yet I cant open up to tell her because I feel insecured about my penile size and that is what is making me remain in this funny gay mood.

Please how can I quit being gay?

Please, I need good responses and not curses.

hi all,
its sometimes painful and saddening when we decide to leave the issue at hand and run after shadows. why not lets all see mcchno's comment as a mistake on his path rather than insulting one another.
i will want to say its not about the grade but rather the individual. if access bank for instance says they wont admit those below 2:1 into their school of banking dont we have 3rd class holders in many other banks? besides, dont we have enough 1st class graduate still searching for jobs?
let us all therefore focus on God and hold to an high esteem what we have afterall, some of our mates were choked out of school. for 2:2 graduates and HND lower credit minimum graduates, we wlcome you whole heartedly in intercontinental bank. Oceanic bank also does same.

Congrats bros!!!!!
Indeed I will say welcome to the world of Access Warriors. Sincerely, it is not as bad as people exergerate it. If God could help us then there is no one he can't help. I ewven know a set whose least score was 77% at the end. The only thing is that you need be more focused and rugged. All the same, I have left. My set was far ahead of when they began the bond thing. I still have friends there in Access and we still communicate. Every bank is the same. I can tell you that Intercontinental is not easy either. Besides, UBA, Ecobank, Oceanic to mention a few none of them is easy. You know s a banker, I have friends in almost all banks and we gist a lot.

I REALLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY. HOWEVER, I AM OF THE OPINION THAT A GIRL REALLY NEED NOT ASK THE GUY WHAT HE EARNS BEFORE HE DISCLOSES IT TO HER. IT SHOULD BE NOTED THAT WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG ENOUGH AND HEADING FOR THE ALTAR, THIS ARE THINGS YOU BOTH WILL DISCLOSE TO EACH OTHER BECAUSE I BELIEVE MARRIAGE IS ABOUT "TOTAL unclothedness[color=#000099][/color][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]" NOT FOR SEX ALONE BUT IN EVERYTHING.