Person don marry still de keep boyfriend which kind life be dis. She got what she bargain for. What a useless woman.
Afonjas and demonic tendencies no be here.. Reason I run from them. They can never get tired hunting for head, skulls and body organs. But not for the timely intervention of the people, this idiotic woman body parts will have gone missing and we will read the sad news on nairaland front page.
I understand wot u're saying. But u know I didn't mean just seating on someone's laps, d guy said it was more dan sat. kisses, touching his joystick, etc (Unless he's not being factual)
It’s clear he overcooked the story, how many females touch a guy’s joystick and go numb when it’s time for sex
Is da to say women has Monopoly of sexual harassment?
Meanwhile, na catarrh dey ur brain. no hard feeling
Of course no hard feelings, this is not a case of monopoly or not. Even it was reversed and the guy says no, which in most cases is very unlikely, the lady should respect that and move on too but either way, you cannot say because a woman came to your house and sat on your lap, you have the right to finger her. I pity some of una with this mentality, una go die for jail outside naija where they take shit serious
Aunty Be more quiet!!! Why would u as a gal visit a guy who has already made it clear da he was bored and lonely, and Sitting on d laps of someone who is sexually active, nd giving him certain greenlight. We are not kids here!
Most times, gals make such claim so u don't see dem as being cheap. Let me tell u, dis gal in question will still go back to d guy to finish her unfinished job. Nothing new. She's lonely too!
Na fufu dey ur head. Lmao. Even if she gives you green light, so far she says no when it’s time to do the do, you gotta bounce mehn. Have some self control
Yhungsarm: This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.
Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.
One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.
This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.
As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.
i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.
She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.
After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.
i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.
So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.
i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers. What do you think i shud do
Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.
You Dey finger babe wey say she nor wan do and you think that is normal because you didn’t penetrate. I’m unapologetic when it comes to people like you, anything wey ur eye see, collect am. If e don turn to drag, na the signal be that, stop that shit
TheOldGods: We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.
So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.
Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.
The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.
My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.
Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?
Chai!! Lmao, which kain relationship una dey keep these days, so because she wants plantain, she automatically cannot help you safe. On top 450naira?. Nairaland been giving me daily dosages of comedy Nigerian women sef, if nor be the laziness and entitlement mentality sha wey don kill una. Can this man take a working class lady say doctor out for a meal and say they should be doing help me safe 450naira?
Philip94: I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.
She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.
Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.
I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.
She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.
B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.
Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.
NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.
Omo I feel for you o. I had an ex gf that had this attitude, and without looking back, I stopped that shit with the quickness, what you are dealing with was what I woulda been facing too. You just have to give her time honestly, let her miss you.
sheanzy: That explains your hatred towards the female gender.
One thing I have observed is that male children that grew up without mother's parental care and love tend to turn toxic to the female gender.
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You are just a bittered soul feeling rejected and worthless cos you have been deprived motherly love, that you choose to vent your frustrations on the female gender under the disguise of redpill movement.
You feel like you are not worthy and can never be loved by a woman and the only way to make yourself feel better is adhere to the 36 LAWS OF POWER;, Disdain what you cannot have.
You are simply a misogynist!
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for those calling me out for being too harsh, check through his topics and you will see how this guy insults and downgrades women, somebody like this can use a girl for rituals without thinking twice.
I believe this guy just needs some therapy. A these name calling won’t change him
forget it.. ..it only God's grace and self control . I don't even want to say what those guys told us in that group.. because it's irritating to the ears.
Being a doctor or whatever don't take away what u are. If pastors can use church to do abominable then doctors are not surprises
Abeg nor listen to anything like it does not exist bullshit. Shitty behaviour like that is not governed by profession, it’s a individual thing, we have animals as doctors as much as we have them as pastors, politicians and so on. It is wverywhere but yeah they do exist
It all started when he was allegedly burnt by stage lights when he was performing one of his songs on stage, he was badly burned, which resulted him opting for series of reconstructive surgeries to save the parts that was badly burnt on his body to maintain his looks as a superstar, and that caused the sudden occasional changes he had during his lifetime. Moreover, he had acute vitiligo that kept developing all over his face and body as he gets older.
Again, then, cases of racism and blacks stars not fully accepted in the white dominated country also contributed to that effect. Michael lived a depressed, restless and a hideous character away from paparazzi when he is off stage due to the troubles he was passing through at that time, apart from the aforementioned ones, other troubles he encountered was the alleged child molestation cases that was in court which almost ruined his character and life and so on.
Furthermore, inasmuch as Michael Jacksons were the biggest artiste then, he was and is loved by many fans all over the world, sold out countless concerts, had millions of dollars plus numerous investments, his life away from the spotlight were characterised with so many unexplained Controversies, indeed he was a tortured and restless soul, that explained why he constantly took high formulated drugs for him to sleep at nights.
Away from all the negative parts that accosted him while he was alive, he was the greatest entertainer ever lived. His childlike voice is unmatched, he made the world dance, he brought so many creativity in the world of music which inspired everyone and most particularly to millions of music and creative artiste all around the world. He was and is a legend, king of pop music as fondly called. He left his footprint on the sand of time, which made him and his music unique and timeless.
Where did u come up with this story? He had vitiligo , a skin condition and tried to correct it. Talmbout burnt by stage light, just hear story sha
Aderewah: Destroy Ukraine. To all idiots quoting me. You think Ukraine cares about your black ass? You're supporting racist nazis pretending to be victims. You're supporting NATO presided by US that has enslaved the world with dollar hegemony? You're against Putin, the only European leader who supported Gaddafi when Western hyenas came for him? Putin who opposes climate change bullshit which the West wants to use to stop Africa from ever industrialising? Some of you are irredeemable imbeciles.
Even though there is sense in some of the things written here, there are also no sense in some. Climate change? Industrializing? Abi u nor get sense ni?, you think the threat of climate change is fiction, you think Africa will industrialize if given the chance sef? With this una mumu illiterate and superbly corrupt leaders and coward ass citizens? Abeg shift, talk another thing for there And I ain’t speaking about ongoing war, just about your rationale on reason for preserving the climate
That is what the fight is about, don’t you get it. Russia does not want them to join, they’ll become less powerful. You cannot join my enemy as my neighbour. Thing is , NATO and Russia did have an agreement way back in the days not to extend their reach into Eastern Europe but NATO wan bite small for there , na wetin dey cause fight now
Nigerians living in Ukraine cried out through social media after Russia attacked Ukrainian cities early on Thursday morning. They claimed the Nigerian embassy in Ukraine had earlier given them assurances to be calm that nothing was going to happen.
On the contrary, they started hearing explosions and gunshots today and they no longer feel safe.
They were able to make it to the train station but they are now stranded as many people are attempting to leave the city at once.
These guys still dey Kharkov? They will mostly likely see a way out by night if they can risk it. I remember travelling through Ukrainian army and pro-Russian seperatist army too in 2014, scary stuff. Took my ass a whole day to find way back to Kiev, jumping from trains to buses. God dey with una, make una comot street
engrrichie92: I'm a tech bro, I currently do 1.5M Monthly in Nigeria and I just got a job offer last month in the UK for 4K pounds monthly(after tax)
My guys there be complaining about bills and how hard it is to save and all over there
So, If you were me, which would you pick and why?
Modified: will also like to hear from those in the UK; what do you think guys?...Now that you know how it is over there, what would you advice?
@lalasticlala...please help push to front page for more engagements
I think UK holds the best for you o. Think about future opportunities, networking and all that. So many things like electricity, internet being available without hassle. Think of how smooth your work can go and how easy it can be to transition in your profession. Babami, japa o. In other news, are in into coding-tech or non-coding tech?
Patrioticbreed9: It all started last year November when my lil sis called me jubilating about how she got 90k with just 30k in just 3 weeks.
I asked her how and she explianed. In her words. I met this guys some weeks ago and they talked me into crypto, at first I declined, but I finaly decided to play along with them by staking a token of 30k with them.
They called me today (3 weeks later) saying that crypto market has crashed! BUT before it crashed her token was able to tripple! that had it being she invested earlier that it might even be ×10!. I was happy for her. I asked to invest again but she said that the market is down, but they will let her know when it rises.
January 10th this year they called and asked her to invest again. She wanted to invest 50k but they adviced her to invest with a big money, so should it case it the market didnt last long and it only double or tripple, there will be no problem. She called me and explained everything to me, being a novice in crypto, I just asked her to be careful. Am coming guys..
You sef na mumu o. I mean seriously? But in other news sha, if your sister still wants to get you that ps5, I sell, even na even ps4 she still fit manage buy for now, I get, and I go do you discount based on post traumatic stress level
ben10th: A plastic surgery-addicted social media star who boasts 'the world's fattest vagina' has revealed she identifies as a gay man named Sebastian Pickles.
OnlyFans model Mary Magdalene opened up about her gender identity during an Instagram Q&A on Tuesday, and also said she's considering silicone implants on her legs to achieve a more muscular look.
Slynation: If you date ladies with no means of income, then be ready to spend and carry some of her financial needs...!! That's how it works here in Nigeria!!
I tire o. Lmao. He’s actually surprised, what a clownass.
FreeStuffsNG: Their chickens will come home to roost someday They should ask the oversea-based doctor son of late Dr. Mailafia , former CBN deputy governor. When his late dad collapsed and he was on frantic calls attempting to give instructions of intervention to revive his dying dad, he was ignored. If you are trained in Nigeria and you head overseas, Guys who stay back to serve and build Nigeria do not take you serious.
They ,especially those trained with tax payers money but who immediately eloped overseas, should enjoy it while it lasts or just do themselves a favour, take your parents along for the time being
For those of you from non-dysfunctional family background, my advice to you is; do not join them on a voyage that usually end in regret. Some of them are moving to stay far away as possible from their dysfunctional family background and most times most of them never return or return until hardship,hunger and lack of care as a result of abandonment of their parents eventually terminate the lives of their poor parents.
There is a reason why despite all the 'green pastures' they see and claim to recieve overseas, no single one has made it to the Forbes list.
You can not cheat the tax payers that their resources were used to train you and wishfully think you can build a sustainable wealth from cheating them, it is a lie. You will lose las las and one more thing; Your children will abandon you too and reality will hit you hard.
The Cuban healthcare professionals are one of the least paid in the world yet they are very patriotic and they stay back in their country for the love of their parents and their fatherland.
Here is why I blame FG, you use tax payers money to train them and allow them transfer your resources they held in trust to the service of another country and for years now being watching these ungrateful ' exports' return home with regrets, spent and even behind their class mates who stayed back to avoid the "curse of the taxpayers" .
Whoever wants to take the next flight overseas can go tomorrow,but for as long as you were trained with tax payers money and you did not return the value of the sweat of the taxpayers invested in you, you will lose las las. Yours will be another statistics to be added to those who embarked on a voyage of regret. And you will still not make Forbes list like the others that cheated taxpayers before you.
In fact, your own case will be worse than that of some folks I know. You can not cheat people and get away. Karma will definitely catch up with you
Jargon!! It’s not you that will tell people how to live their life. You can stay in naija, nobody is saying you will regret it, not everybody can stay in this overcrowded country. Divert your energy into better things. How many home based doctors are in any list talkless of Forbes, you talk too much rubbish. Go and study medicine and stay back home if you love it so much here
Kobojunkie: And also teach them of methods available to prevent unwanted pregnancies and STDs too.
Temptation happens to us all and we all know from experience that anyone can fall victim. So it is wise to equip our kids with STD and pregnancy prevention tools than to wait to blame them afterwards.
underpinna: My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.
She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.
I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.
I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.
I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.
Make una leave these kids alone, let them be. All you can do is talk to her about sex and why not to have it. But if na issue of bf and gf, forget it, u will only become her enemy for this one wey u wan do
Crime / Re: Rituals: Married Woman Carve-up By Boyfriend In Ondo by Dextre(m): 9:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 
