Eriokanmi:
Very heartless and he even had the audacity to display them. Where is our culture/conscience? We're trying hard to behave like whites that We're not. This generation scares me seriously and if care isn't taken, they may turn things upside down. You have been blessed by God with 3 good-looking children yet, you still prefer addressing the mother a baby mama when you're not an animal? Such people don't even recognise or acknowledge God in the first place. For him to have labelled the mother a baby mama. He's fornicating with other ladies obviously. God has a way of dealing with people like him.

Shut your basket mouth, last time I check sef, nor be say Adam and Eve marry o

oluseyiforjesus:
Calling the mother of your children baby mama is an insult

That is what it’s called when you are not married sir. Moral police, na u go tell am wetin to call hin partner mtchewww

OLAADEGBU:


It was exactly what a family should be like. And yet this was surely the most repulsive family on earth.

A true targayrean

Road2Success:
Nairalanders, Please I am really scared right now. I saw this mark on my neck and I don't know what it is. Today I was surprised when I saw it on my wife back as well and then this morning on the neck of his brother who is living with us.

This is the first time I am seeing this mark and I don't know what it can be. My friends said it is eczema that it will go soon but I am curious to know what it is.

Doctors/ anyone here who know knows what can cause this mark should be tell me what it is please�

Moderators please help me move it to front page to get more response.

It’s a fungi infection called pityriasis versicolor commonly and wrongly regarded to as eczema by Nigerians. Take some antifungals and get a topical anti fungal cream too

Road2Success:
Please is it this one?


It's a fungal infection either through unwashed bedsheets, pillow case or towels.
Get antibacterial antifungal creame that would help. I can see it being redish which shows signs of bacterial.
You can add Bichamp antibiotics for 7 days to clear the spot.

How can you call something a fungal infection then go ahead and start prescribing antibiotics. Antibiotics for what exactly

Flamemignon1:

It's far much more than PDAs,PDAs are not allowed for straight couples too. It's about human rights in general. I'm just telling my queer friends who are football fans to steer clear from GCC countries

You have given the right advice. Cos at the end of the day, their law is their law.

Teaser4:
shey you be GAYY ni? I’m not homophobic tho, you can’t live here and be homophobic, I just look away and mind my business, I no kuku fine like that, so nobody go toast me.

You funny I swear

Flamemignon1:

Ladies and gents,I present to you "religion of peace". You do realize that there are gay players in football and bigots like you are the reason they can't be their true selves but religion of peace,do you know that the same "who allowed all this gay rights ideology in football?" Is the same energy white racist had for black people with the "who allowed this anti racist ideology in football?" But y'all will be mad about racist calling y'all the n word but will support hate on another minority. Religion of peace more like religion of hate. Y'all are mad about racism in sports but low key supports homophobia in sports,make it make sense

Lemme ask you a question based on this whole issue, do you think the lgbtq rights to displaying public affection at the World Cup trumps the UAE’s right to abide by their own country’s rules? I’m not saying lgbtq don’t have the right to go see the World Cup or love who they love but if the nation says no public display of anything, why don’t they just follow the rules.

Meektunz:
Please married men tell us the truth because it is now I know that marriage is no child's play.

Mine is 20k but sometimes when there is no money we dey manage anyhow anyhow ooo.

Na why I neva still marry be this, all this 20k weekly stuff na beta struggle. How I go struggle as a child con still continue struggle. Make I still go face hustle, I need my kids and wife enjoying to the fullest when the time comes

Tregmas:
a man is supposed to carry the load bro. Woman is a helper that is nature design.

Please come off that shii!! We are in 2022, as much as men will carry load, women should support, there are women earning more than their husbands, make the man still carry all the load?

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

I can sense a high level of maturity in you, it takes more than just physical strength to still be able to hold on , I commend u for that however, holding it in will be the death of you, if u know you are willing to forgive, then just tell your wife, let’s hear what she has to say. Paternity fraud nor be child’s play o

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Too much of a risk you are taking. My prayer for you is I hope y’all escape giving birth to an SS cos you see that seperation you so much fear? That will be your reality if such happens

virginprincess:
Mtcheeeew,most Nigeria men don't deserves love because usually take it for granted.

E pain you? e pain am well

JackDaAlienz:
I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family.
Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys.
My uncle warned my dad not yo try it.
I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes.
For some reason he didn't adopt again.

Fast foward to 20 years later
That my father's friend is living in hell,
He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim.
They even beat him up and steal his money.

Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption.
Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling
It's a huge mess.
This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all

Are you a kid? Your level of reasoning baffles me a lot.

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Women get attention from endless scores of men na, if u nor continue to apply pressure, dem go out u aside face who dey put in that call. If nor be your girlfriend, wetin u expect you can’t take it personal, call when u need something only too, life na back and forth

Sweetplum:
yes it's do or die

Go and die in yours if need be. Leave him out of such practices. Na why people dey so bleeped up in this country.

Sluacoast:

Let me tell you something. There's a lady who lives in the next street after mine. But kasala really scatter for this women matter. She think say her husband no go find out. She went for a wedding and because of traffic congestion on the way. She couldn't return back home and she spend the night at her colleague house. But you know. Things always turn around so quick in a tickle of an eye. When they were in her colleague house. They were both obviously drunk after taking a lot of drink's at the ceremony. To cut the story short.. she was given a room to pass the night. Her colleague is married and she lives with her husband. Do you know in the middle of the night. She got out of her room completely naked and I don't know what I'll call this. She was probably sleep walking. She walked in the sitting room and her colleague husband was obviously watching tv. Something led to another and they had sex. Some men can never control their sexual urge. How can you take advantage of your visitor who came to spend the night at your place. The both had sex and she was pregnant o. Just like that sharp shooter lol. She knew something was wrong ever since so she confronted him and he told him. And you know Ladies. She hurriedly maybe had another sexual pleasure with her ownhusband to cover her footprint but after the child was Born. See where matter cast. This man and his 3 kids has small eye's yes I Said eyes. And he was kind of surprised how come his New child come carry Big eyes. If you see this man eyes and that of his kids. You don't need to asked if he's the Father of his children. He did DNA test and the results shows he wasn't the father. So sometimes all this women cheat not because they enjoy cheating. It might occur accidentally just like this. Thanks

See rubbish cappings. Accidental cheating?

Starz825:

He said he doesn't want divorce...
That's the reason why he can't cause violence....
If he wants violence..he will call the two families..he will take his children away and leave her with her last born...


But he doesn't want divorce and he doesn't want his children to leave without their mother and without him ....
...and the woman too can't leave her last born

No be everything be violence....
They can solve it ....

It happened when they seperated..

You will have to consider his children....he is thinking more of his own children not the woman....
That's a very good thinking.....
It's not easy to raise children alone....

If e happen when dey were separated nko? She suppose con force the baby on him? It’s his decisions like you said sha, but a broken marriage is a broken marriage, if dem like make dem force demselves inside. Na wetin dey Bleep children up be dis, when children grow up in a home where there is no love, e go always tell

Sweetplum:

Bad decision. Who ll take care of your other kids?
Broken home is one of the major causes of BD kids behaviour out there.
Return the child. Ask if she ll still be with you. Count your loss and appreciate the remaining.

Ask if she’ll still be with you? For what? Broken marriage dey kill?. Is marriage a do or die affair in this country ni

Islandlady:


Says a broke, fraustrated and hungry boy... waiting for his Mama's food! Better return your mama phone and stop forming Alpha mail oshi online!

Go get a life dude!

pained much? You sef choose abroad men na

fuckwell2080:
Stupid boy dating a PROSTITUTE,WHORES,CHEERFUL GIVER,COMMUNITY DOG calling her your GIRLFRIEND.You bettet get SENSE dont be a FOOL.Rather be an ALPHA MALE.it very clear the BITCH is FUCKING AROUND DIFFERENT DICK.That day saw her very tired one BOBO don Bleep her WIDE WET TOTO to NONSENSE, RED make BLOOD commot.You better leave the BITCH before will hear say you don commit suicid because of one ROTTEN ASHAWO.Those BITCHES has no REMORSE when FUCKING around.Be wise and be ALPHA MALE instead of been a FOOL.very soon she go give you BASTARD you run enter schecter.Be wise folow my ADVICE have peace of mind.Your ASHAWO BABE not worth CRYING for.

See as you just type in capital letters full ground, u must be talking from experience

Matix222:
Apologies for the long write up……..

I have been dating this girl for like 2 months now and the relationship has been affecting my mental health that I can’t think properly.

I do love this girl but recently I have been having this feeling that she is seeing someone else and caught her to a point Yesterday. She couldn’t deny……

Firstly, yesterday was my birthday, she was supposed to come see me in the morning and spend the day with me, this girl didn’t show up after calling her like 17 times… had the feeling she was with a guy so I decided to go to her house.

On getting to her house, I saw her she was very weak. I asked her what she has been up to. She said she went to the farm. Then I asked who was aware that she went to the farm, she couldn’t say and was speechless. She later contradicted her statement that she didn’t go to the farm that she just strolled out and went to her cousins place thereafter all which are lies…..

I’m thinking of leaving the relationship for my peace of mind and sanity but she is begging we still stay..

I’m just confused right now

Is this your relationship your first one? Because the level of mistrust and misery I see here is baffling. The babe sef suppose leave you for her sanity, you dey run towards undiluted craze with the way you dey go so

Ablemed:
I'll like to make my story short as possible without much introduction tho. And also a lesson parents/ new couples should learn from my ordeal, Pls read to the end.

Alright So I'm the only male born of my parent among 4 girls, i also happen to be the last born at it. my problem started when growing up, cause my parent aged bfr getting a Male child which was my Dad and his parent cravings, I was pampered when growing up such that my parents would never watch me do stressful things, dictate when I go out and who I moved out with (My mum's own was even worse cause when growing up, if I want to go out, she'll always send me back inside) even during secondary school they had to get a school very close to our house. my sisters were only the ones that would go to mum's shop and make sales while mum would either stay with me at home or if I eventually go the shop sef I'll always sit and just watch. Literally, I'll say I was denied the right to be exposed to lotta things and real issues about life.

And cause I was not the sociable type cause I'll literally stay at home, watch movies, eat and my movements limited, I was exposed to pornography and masturbation at a very young age and I battled that bad habit thr my University days (Did I say my Parents also dictated the University I went to cause it was close to our House to and any small riot in school then the next hour they'll come and pick me back home till every thing dies down)

So guys over time, I've grown to be this boring guy who is shy, timid, suffering from low self esteem and can't give vibe even when gisting with my fellow guys, in which most of them just relegate me to this small boy level. Did I also say I've never had a Girlfriend all my life cause the truth is ion always know what to say or how to maintain talking vibe. At first I decide not to care and just always console myself with I was created like that and just continue my boring life, it has now gotten to the point I'm not rated in anything at all, most people just make friends with me cause of what they can gain from me, I'm not even good in anything, I can't speak clearly, I'm kinda literally mentally dumb and ion see me useful for anyone or anything, perhaps maybe God only, No business sense, no work skill or experience, no trade experiences to

I'm currently a Corp member serving and before then I rebelled against my parent cause they wanted to dictate the state I serve which is our state of residence so I go to my ppa from home but I told them No and even got to a fight to my Dad cause of this issue and we din speak for like 2weeks, he eventually called me and we settled. But the issue now is guys I've got less than two months left for my POP for service and you don't expect me to return home useless to my parent house again?? Tho sincerely thr my service year, I din touch my allowee so I've saved up to 270k so far. the issue is ask me what I want to do with the money? I've got no idea, what business sense or idea? Nothing is coming to my head, infact I don't know. The funny thing is, my roommate is exactly my opposite, very outspoken, bold, full of vibe and bring back different female friends each day, this guy is not really financially buoyant but you see girls cook and travel all the way to give him for us to eat. I just wish I was like him, i wish i had the vibe

I'm 24years now and at this age, no idea bout my future, bout life, I can't even relate with people, I'm just so sad, depressed and frustrated. At the moment the only job coming to my head is the military cause I served in a military barrack cause I choose it myself but most of the junior officers are trashing my interest by telling me not to waste my time say I no go survive am with my nature, that military needs tough people and endurance bla bla and on the other hand, my mum is saying Never she'll never allow me join the military not over her dead body and she's bout recruiting my Dad to and Sincerely I'm frustrated and my depression have taken another turn that over the past weeks I've been thinking suicide and it's getting really high, I say I should type this here bfr the worse happen cause if I can't be useful for myself what really is the point living??

Please this advice is to parent and intending parent/couples, pls and pls expose ur children to life, don't over pamper your kids, work on them to make them sociable and outspoken, I swear you'll be doing them a great favour. For me I thought my parent loved me, I thought they were trying to protect me but they've put me in a deep mess I have to face alone and just I pray I get the opportunity to make things right with me

Damn, so sad. I’ll employ you to see a therapist, you are on the right track for been able to recognize ur issue sef

Holiness2100:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BwijVHb-t0


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11163705/amp/One-year-old-girl-killed-4in-HAIL-STONE-horror-storm-Spain.html

Global warming taking full effect

Ehismarkninetee:
Before you start to judge me, remember that the girl you are sleeping with now is also someone’s Ex. Well I cannot say I am totally in the right for sleeping with my friends Ex girl friend- They broke up 2 years ago.

So coincidentally she rented an apartment close to my house. As I was driving I saw her on the way I offered her a ride and that was how it started. That same evening she called me that she is coming to know my house and I accepted. When she came I noticed she was giving me the green light. I took the opportunity and slept with her so good.

Now she cannot get enough from me. She asked if we could date officially. I told her it will be difficult since she was the one who broke up with my friend. I will not lie to myself I have developed feelings for here. And I think I will give Love a chance.

You never date or Bleep your guy’s ex. It’s an unwritten rule. Don’t be a mumu

Ammishaddai:
Nice one. Shebi all these worthless hungry girls like rolling with the rich bad guys because they thought the good guys were broke , boring and quiet . Now see where it has led to. All the suya ,recharge cards, 150k allowance ,and Brazilian hair all led to this painful exit. Anyway, RIP to dead

Y’all talk too much nonsense. Because to me, this isn’t about being rich or poor. It is not written anywhere that broke men are not wife beaters too. Just jargons.m, you’ll say anything to justify your being broke and why girls nor gree date you, nor go hustle

Mide1data:
Abeg, let us try to support a team in NPFL, We nigerians love football so we can actually show love 4 d league.

If u get time and money, u can actually watch a match live. And if u don't, u can check up their matches on livescore and goal.com. We can also do well by following their social media handles.

Yes, we all know the league is not at its best, but let us try and do something.

My current team in the NPFL is SHOOTING STARS F.C, Also known as 3SC.

Match played. 24.
current position. 11th.

Next match, against sunshine stars on may 1st.

Drop the team u might be supporting as 4rom now..

Sunshine stars, we are surely whooping y’all ass next match

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

Ehn dey go na

MALIGNANTGuest:

I have a simple question for you and it goes;
How did you know the Baby in the womb is SS?
Where were you informed of it?
And how did they arrive at such?
With this I can advise you..
Mind you, I hate Lies a lot!

It’s detectable, called amniocentesis and chorionic villi sampling and very much available in Nigeria. So it just might be true

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

As disgusting as it is for me to say this, abort that pregnancy if you can, you are definitely not prepared for what’s to come if that baby comes.

itchie:

Sharrap nobody eats human flesh in the east, just because of one story of cannibalism by some miscreants is what you want to talk about? Have you heard any of such incident again in the east since that time? unlike your God forsaken region of abominations where skull mining is a culture and everybody is a potential skull miner. The current rate is one week, one skull and it will soon get to one day, one skull in the God forsaken region full of evil. Spits!!

Morafuka, y’all are getting killed daily over there over simple things like going outside your house and you are here talking trash effortlessly. You reek of utter disgust, tribalistic bigot. You are dumb, uneducated and quite honestly I have nothing but pity for you. It will be hard to move ahead in life with this much hate in you

itchie:

Very stupid people and they will be claiming sophisticated.

Just like your name implies, your brain is itchy, take your meds mumu man