In a more deeper view of this, this is just low key racism. No info about banning flights from Belgium and the European countries with confirmed cases but naija wey nor even follow don dey sidelined. African leaders are bitches
dre11: Governor Babagana Zulum of Borno State has stated that an employee verification exercise uncovered names of babies in the payroll of Shani Local Government...
nairafame: Popular Nigerian male Barbie, Bobrisky is now threatening Zfancy for pranking him and sharing the video online with his consent.
Bobrisky said this online and also beg his fans to report any page they find the video of her being pranked by Zfancy.
I think Bobrisky is pained because the video really shows how his face actually looks without filter.
"@zfancytv pls take down my video off all ur platform ASAP else I will get you arrested. You didn't get my permission before you sent out my video."
Wahala just plenty for this country, everywhere you turn, something dey sup. Bob you cannot be a problem for us, go rest. Nigerians deserve to just rest from all this persistent bullshit every single day. Like dem use this country pant do ritual?
When to be the president of a nation is written boldly in a statement where the topic is hustle. Then you know clearly, that for this bros, that seat is just one of many hustles, it’s not exactly to serve. And this is how so many people view political seats, na hustle. We are bleeped in this nation
Interesting15: This is a generation where God is raising women (especially young women) that He will grant great authority and power to enact great influence in various spheres and sectors, with the aim of bringing Glory to His Name and establishing the Kingdom of God on earth. Don't allow any randy guy hinder you from becoming the Queen you are destined to be. Worship God in spirit and in truth through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Just tell all of us to worship God men and women likewise.
All baba fryo is saying is that while he was in dire need during his mental health episode, he reached out to DAVIDO but Davido never responded and...
NOW, he is SURPRISED that the same DAVIDO is now the same person giving out ₦250M to orphans who he (Davido) does not know personally while ignoring him a colleague in the business.
MIND YOU, Baba Fryo said (in this video) that there is nothing wrong in Davido helping orphans but he should start by helping fellow performers (who are currently without funds) in time of need.
THIS IS NOT A THING OF ENTITLEMENT BUT A COLLEAGUE HELPING ANOTHER IN DESPERATE TIMES.... after all, charity must begin from home.
Honestly, he should have called him than saying this online or rather say it then. No matter how he dressed it, still sounded like a bitter person. Dem owe am money? Davido sew a seed and it was paid back, maybe he should have sewn some when he was relevant. I wish him good things tho, helpers inclusive
Moreign001: Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.
I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.
I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.
We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...). We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..
She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.
So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.
Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites. Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".
Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.
This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her. Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys. Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.
100% my brother, that’s all they pursue, majority of them anyway. It’s a circus, a joke. It’s disgusting how even them, abuse one another with marriage yarns, things like ‘ she never marry at her age’, like marriage is a goal outchea, we have problem here o. Anyway, sorry brother, hurts like a bitch, but you’ll move on.
You people and all your nobody holy stories. Sorry, there are decent people in the world. I'm sorry this is news to you but some people try very hard to be holy and succeed at it.
Should it give a yardstick to be judgemental? No. And it's not on that basis I was responding. I didn't ask why she was having sex with a man she wasn't married to, I didn't ask why common sense didn't allow her prevent marriage, I didn't say anything about abortion being a sin.
But I responded on a decency basis. And yes, I didn't read about her boyfriend rejecting rituals with human parts. She didn't mention that when she posted first. Also, she used juju man for the person her friend, not neighbour recommended to her.
Black magic Alfa or ritualistic or babalawo or yahoo or yahoo plus, all of them are not just right, not decent, nor acceptable.
She wished she didn't come in contact with him because she wasn't rewarded for being his support system. His family never came to see the child she had or show their support. She didn't see what she did as morally wrong. And thats where the problem is. If that man had rewarded her with marriage, all young ladies like me will read is "Support your man when he is down".
So when I say, there is no lesson here, that's what I mean.
If this man comes back, she will take him back. If she meets a man who does yahoo and promises to marry her, she will offer support all over again.
You have said it all. She doesn’t recognize what she did as bad , she only felt sad it didn’t go as planned. It’s what we call karma
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..
I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.
On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.
We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.
I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..
I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already.
He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream
I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.
So you found what you and your bf were doing as a righteous act, a hustle, a means to success abi nor be so? And u now find what was done to you bad? Karma got your ass real good and your bf is next. Una forget say people wey dem dey dupe sef get God wey go fight for them
Emuforlife1: Any Doctor that wants to Work abroad should school abroad. Simple. You can't take our cheap education to go and work abroad. If you are not comfortable with the policy, you can as well drop out of the Medical school and create space for those who want to serve thier FATHERLAND. This is akin to the OKOROS that are earning a living in the North but will cowardly always come online to spew trash/fallacies about tge North. Sorry mate, the pple you just mentioned above can't even help themselves. They are currently cooling in their respective dungeons
See the way you dey talk like who drink emu. Even Uk citizens trained in UK are moving in numbers to places like Canada, US and Australia to practice with their own dope medical system. Who is Nigeria? With una shitty health system. Talmbout free, if you cannot afford to japa, leave people that can do it for the sake of their family
Kobojunkie: You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again?
Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg...
Honestly, the guts to even come here and say that kinda stuff. The kinda of people we have these days ehn, the babe beta japa
I’m happy you survived this country. I say it countless times, this country is out to kill people, people die avoidable deaths in this nigeria and there is nothing anybody can do about it. What a nation!
U get problem sha...so because she's a nanny then u feel u are better...You are part of the family already,why stress over who's madam and who isn't?...u better don't make dem see u as the enemy and face your business...Start planning on how to have a happy ending instead of all this...nanny is a woman and a human like you...afterall,even your husband has no issues with his father's decision...You should aim peace instead of superiority.
Honestly ehn, unless the woman has been wicked to the nanny, then she shouldn’t even make a fuss about it. If person wey get papa say no problem, wetin be ur own there, even to the extent of crying and writing up a 300words essay in the name of ‘I need a suggestion’
A logical response, and @bolded, I'm glad you see my point that selfish traits has nothing to do with a particular gender but humans generally, no man or woman will be happy seeing his father getting married to their maid, no man or woman will be happy seeing his/her mother get pregnant and marry their driver,
All these idiots coming online, opening their dirty mouth/typing with their hands, making it seem as if being unconformable or going against what is not the norm is a woman thing of hating each other, are fools I have to say, fools too stupid and ignorant to accept reality to know that it is okay to hate what you hate.
Ignorance is your major problem. Nobody is better than anybody, circumstance is what differentiate us, the fact that you just spewed all this trash confirms the idea that you women look down on each other and people in general. If the so called woman isn’t married to the man, you think she will be privileged as she is today? If the papa is happy with his decision, so be it, let a nigga be. Highest let her tell them it will create awkwardness around the house so they move out. Just imagine the stupidity, you want to tell another person how to live their life? Person wey nor even be her husband? Person wey nor be ur papa?
I currently work in a company and my monthly take home is 210k. A friend helped me to apply for a Job in Canada, I did the interview Last Month and I was sent a congratulatry message Yesterday from the Company to start work in Canada.
Am having little fears, have not been to Canada, I don't know how they operate, I don't have family there, my friend that applied for me stays in New York.
What if I go and things didn't work out fine, I lose my 210k job and lose Canada job.
Pls should i do. Help
Is 210k a job to you? If you cannot suffer for a year in Canada to find stability, just dey naija o. If I get job for Canada, there is no single second thought, I already have it in my mind that I’ll suffer for my first year there, it can only get better from there. See this guy sha, wetin be 210k. You’ll make 3 times that in a month in Canada if not more sef
It started three weeks ago. my mum, who was walking normal with no problem suddenly could not walk. Her left leg began paining her severely that day. My mum was all in tears... She was rushed to the hospital where it was discovered that her sugar level was on the high side. The hospital gave drugs which stabilised it, at that point my mum was very weak, couldn't eat, each time she eat she throws up and also had some pain in the leg still. After a week in the hospital, we were then referred to a teaching hospital after a test showed that creatinine in her kidney was high.
The teaching hospital tried their best and I can say my mum is now okay. Except for the left leg. She can't still walk on it, the leg feels cold to touch with a little discolouration above the foot.
Doppler test showed that blood isn't really flowing through the leg. And they said they will need to amputate the leg to prevent the infection from growing to the other parts of the body.
Please I want to know if you know anyone who had similar condition and amputation was recommended but was later healed without need for amputation.
Please share your recommendations. I need my mum now more than before in my life. We are confused on whether to allow them to go on with the amputation or seek other alternatives.
Thank you very much.
Pls note that as at now, her sugar level, creatinine and other things are normal.
Honestly it depends on the degree of tissue damage, there are many needless amputation that has been done in this country, but that’s majorly because of the our medical system. Either way mehn, I’m sorry for your mum’s predicament, and I wish her speedy recovery, my advice would be to seek multiple opinion however should be done very quickly as gangrene spreads fast, anything that makes it gets to the bone means the leg gotta go , no matter what
drizslim: Sincerely speaking I have no advise but I suggest u guys try different specialist hospitals b4 conforming to amputation.. Nothing works in this country be it government or public health workers
Afrogist247: Ogun State Governor, Gov. Dapo Abiodun has given OAU Best Medical Graduating Student, Miss Joy Oyinlola Adesina, a Five Million Naira Cash price, a Bungalow from the state Housing Scheme and a Residency Scholarship at Olabisi Onabanjo University Teaching Hospital, Sagamu Ogun State.
At the event were, Oyinlola's parents who couldn't but thank the Governor for the gifts and her Dad prayed for the state while mama dey cry for joy. E no easy abeg. The girl finish them for the faculty this year. She come Beautiful join.
This is a cheering news for anyone that appreciates and Value Academic Excellence. No be every time we go dey hear them give Best student 100k HP laptop and in some more laughable ones, you receive Handshake.
Ogun Governor, you do well on this one. This one will be proud to say school no be scam atleast.
This is what I’m talking about, nor be to dey give handshake , motivate people to excel in their schools too, everybody don turn yahoo boys and girls for schl finish
Mood11: Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days... Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you? Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders
For those quoting me, I have no response for you..
You dey mind this kain people? To go to hospital and spend money on themselves for consultation na war, na to come nairaland for free consultation dem want, when they get an awful one and it gets bad, then they go to the hospital to frustrate them there. And that’s even asides the fact that some things just need to be between you, and your doctor finish
JIREN01: Vacations aren't a big deal in Europe. You can travel to 3 different countries for vacay on less than 150 pounds, which evidently is affordable for a minimum wage earner. Visa isn't required for travel and air ticket is ridiculously cheap.
And that is exactly why I said they are good relatively, as a Nigerian living in naija, you can’t do this shit if you nor hold bar. So if a country already ticks several boxes in your life, what else are you looking for. Abi you think say na every immigrant fit carry bag for Europe say hin wan go vacation even for the neighboring country with hin nigerian passport?
The term doing well is open to interpretation, a country where my kids are systematically shoved towards more technical Education when the blond hair ones go into financial studs and more economically viable disciplines is not where I would want my kids to grow up. Somewhere a Nigerian finds it hard to set up something as easy as a Nursing agence nahhhh PASS>
Is this about Germany in particular or the western world in general cos if this is about western world in general, I don’t know what to say o, I’ll just prefer my own kid grow away from this area at all cost
Olam09: What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.
LiegeMan: Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country, I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
OBUKOMENA: Good evening nairalanders! I hope you had a good day?
So, let me just go straight to my reason for opening this thread, and I hope I would be able to convey my thoughts impeccably:
It seems like some of our people who travelled to Germany aren't doing so well after all (I stand to be corrected, though!) I have a friend over there whom I am preparing to go meet. This guy has been there since 2017. He hardly calls me on normal call. He would rather call on WhatsApp. Reason being so that he could get in touch cheaply. The first and only time I asked him to send me something, he told me pointblank he didn't have. Just this afternoon, I heard a colleague's father just came back to Nigeria from there after 21 solid years! He had abandoned his wife and children here in Nigeria. If he was doing so well over there, would he not have arranged for his family to come over and stay with him - at least?
I have been worried, even before I heard this colleague's father thing: I don't know what I am going to meet at the friend's place; I don't know what life is like over there - how to cope in a non-English speaking environment. I don't know how long it's going to take me to make it over there and reconnect with my family. This news about my colleague's dad also increased my worries.
So, I decided I would come on here to ask: Aren't these red flags as regards traveling over there, especially with the hope that when i get there, after 2-3 years, I would bring in my family. Anyone here knows about life in Germany?
Unlike you, i know of nigerians doing relatively okay in Germany, wey dey go on vacations often( not a sign of wealth but at least they are good). You determine how you thrive in a place, not the country will determine for you. Nigeria is a good example of that
We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.
Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.
The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.
A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.
(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)
Please how do we the children handle this issue?
Sorry is it a sexual relationship or just chilling with another woman because if it is sexual, I don’t think there is anything you can do o. Adults that age are like kids, they are very stubborn, they’ll only stop doing certain things when they learn lesson from it
JackDaAlienz: I went to pick her up from uni then drove her to my house. We chilled drank wine then bleeped well After sex I decided to drive her back to school. On our way my back tire brake just lock The wheel stopped rotating. I had to Shell out 10k to repair
2nd time with this same girl yesterday night we had sex This morning I got a message that the items I planned to ship from Canada was cancelled.
Why do I experience these badluck events after having sex with this girl
Na toto go kill some of una, I sha hope u don learn to cut out like dat
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