TRUTHISLIFEE:
So I met this girl around my area and I kind of liked her. When I approached her, she was playing hard to get. After a long while, she told me that the only condition for her to date me is if I will not interfere in her relationship as she has been engaged, and that I will let her go peacefully anytime she gets married.

It was a difficult one for me but I gave her my word not to interfere in her relationship and to let her go. Even my elder brother warned me not to spoil that relationship.

We started making out and I kept my word of not interfering in her relationship. Most times we are together and the guy calls, I tell her to pick his call, if their conversation is getting longer, I will simply excuse myself from the scene to allow her talk with her guy freely.

There was a time an old acquaintance of hers showed up and asked her out, She lied to me unknowing to her I was tracing her to the guy's house. When they entered, I called her on phone to enjoy herself that I know where she is. I also let her know that I pity her man as I have nothing to loose in this whole thing/

Fast forward to today, she came to my house and asked me my plans for her, I told her I don't understand as she is engaged. She told me to forget the engagement that I should not use it as an excuse. I told her I will keep to my word and she left angrily. since she got home she has been calling me to agree to marry her.

Make UNA see me see wahala.

Let’s even set aside your stupidity for now, and face this lady. Where do you people jam loose girls like this? I mean does she lack intergrity on her own part two, is it hard to say no and face a relationship that is already at the gates of marriage? Karma just dey pursue all of una like usian Bolt, your breakfast is on the fire, u go chop am real soon

eldoradoxx:
Rather than telling me that u have multiple girlfriends and therefore embarrassed with my open show of love to you, you chose to come here to embarrass yourself thinking you are seeking for advice. It is over, you are a cheat. I used the pix to ensure that all your other girlfriends become aware of my relationship with you, but obviously you are a fool !

Uh oh!! Wey the nearest exit from here

OMOJOHN001:
Our relationship is just three months old, she she has used my pics as her DP both on WhatsApp and FB for the past two months now, Its irritating and I don't even feel any vibe from that shit.

She can't go a week without posting my pics on her status and now too many people already knows that I am dating the babe.

How do I even stop her without making her feel silly. She is loving me too much, Like the love is choking me for real.

why posting all the time with captions like..Forever is the deal. for better for worse, Ayomi I will not leave you even at the point of death.

I am scared I may even break her heart sooner,
please advice me how do I stop her from putting much hope on me. To her she has found her husby but Me I am not even ready for that marriage shit in the next three years.

Just sit her down and talk to her. Make her understand your view about all this. Communication is the key brother

30naira:



Lol, I can relate. I'm a nurse who ventured into programming. I'd be happy to coach u for free. (It helps keep me up to speed) . send me a pm, I organise free classes over zoom

Are newbies allowed in too?

Testtest0:

PM me

Baba I wan learn too o, in fact me na complete jjc, I know nothing so far

PataAlhajaKeji:
Pharmacy and Coding are worlds apart ... utterly different in their entirety.

Choose one and stick to it. Stop letting your village people play with your destiny.

Use your brain.

Don’t tell people how they choose to move with their life. Go rest bros

Brunicekid:
Nairalanders, how many of you have taken Garri with blocked water? See combination ooo...

I was literally drinking the garri that day, without having no chills for the block to melt!

Tha Bleep is a block water?

saphiere:
Dear men, may I know what joy you derived from sleeping with minors?

This is what I always tell every mother that comes my way. Never leave your girl child in the custody of any man be it her father Most rape culprits are the people so close to us.

If the meaning of rape is having sexual intercourse against a person's wish, then all Nigerian men are rapists. Permit me to say so.
Why will a guy call his girlfriend to visit him only to force himself one her?
Most people think rape is when a stranger beats a person tear her clothe the force himself on her.
The refused to understand that having sex with someone against the person will is rape. Whether you sweet-talk a person into opening her legs, you use force, you use gifts as bait, it is rape as long as the person's initial intention wasn't to have sex with you.

Please choose your words carefully, you cannot just open mouth and waaaa.... talk about all nigerian men are rapist. Please talk about the men in your life and leave the rest of us.

Ginaz:


You’re such a fool , deranged and I spit on you. What the hell is wrong with men of these days? You are married ! You are fuvking married for God’s sake ! What on earth do you want? Is your wife not giving you pusssy? Doesn’t she kiss you? Doesn’t she moan and suck your useless dick enough?

You are a full grown adult and a grown man , ain’t you supposed to put your emotions in order? You want to whoreeee around with a jezebel in a disguise of “attraction and stupid feelings

Ask yourself and please put yourself in your wife’s shoe , if she was the one doing all this with an old flame , would you be happy? Why do you want to make This woman go through emotional trauma? Why did you marry her if you knew you couldn’t get control of yourself or won’t behaved like a grown married man?

Will you die if you delete that jezebel’s number ? Will your useless dick stop functioning if you do away with her? I spit vehemently on your soul and see let me tell you, you will get your karma soon if you don’t leave that bitchhh alone who wants to ruin your marriage and cause emotional trauma for your wife.

That bitch will burn in the hottest part of hell, alongside you. Spit!

If you have a very unhealthy relationship /marriage soro soke ode,Nor they use aggression hold matter wey nor call for it moreova you are not his wife. He came here to solicit for help not your temperament. If you don’t have anything good to say, shift na

nwekeugochukwu:
Previous threads: https://www.nairaland.com/6553172/priscilla-ojong-missing-3-weeks

https://www.nairaland.com/6553606/priscilla-ojong-im-not-missing

https://www.nairaland.com/6554520/priscilla-ojong-still-missing-friends

https://www.nairaland.com/6555643/father-priscilla-ojong-daughter-still

All these small small girls, na so so boys matter full their head, there is about only 2% of them that actually thinks about their own lifes. They live for men, just imagine this one, talking like person wey nor get sense, people are actually concerned about your whereabout, you dey talk jargons about them doing rubbish. You cover that kain distance to go lash

quentin06:
Only 1 month? She has to heal, knacking your wife 247 is not a occupation? There are other kpekus to sink your cassava if you can't control yaself.

Una get problem for this country

Abagworo:
Three months is okay depending on your size of manhood. Those with biro can start in one month but Gbola is 4 months.

mumu

Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up sha but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??




Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers

Hold body small, u nor fit? Go gbancha

Freestainworld:
He left the whole of the East to set up a university where terrorist wine and dine together, next time he will think we'll.

You are just completely brainless, I mean, is this how you really think?. My God!!

SUPERPACK:
This is not Waya but his driver posing in his parlour. Chai upon the money he still looks funny with his dress sense.

Nor mean say he nor go collect your girl . Money is the handsomeness , the rest na story

pocohantas:
On the 29th of April, a Twitter user @Umohuduak1 raised alarm over her missing friend



https://www.nairaland.com/6531273/lady-goes-missing-during-job





Few minutes ago, her friend @Umohuduak1 that raised the alarm just posted this on Twitter.


https://twitter.com/Intel_PoolNg/status/1388765446455930883?s=19

Why are humans so wicked? Why!!!

I pray her friends and family find the strength to bear this loss.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqxYPsm4EF0

This is so sad. My God!!! What kind of country is this?

ZimD:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.iol.co.za/amp/news/south-africa/gauteng/nigerian-man-who-turned-12-year-old-girl-into-sex-slave-to-hear-his-fate-f26f9371-8653-4eb5-b4ef-d46540ab51f0

I think if South Africa decides to start busting nigeria people’s ass this time. It’s better we just shut up about it over here. These ducking bunch of idiots will never stop shitting up everywhere they find themselves

zagorakis:
This looks like scam to me especially that part saying you should confirm your "Availability ". which genuine firm does that.

Companies do that these days

BadRadio:
its hanging on my oesophagus bro... I m choking... can barely breath... help !!!

Try to induce vomiting while on your way to an hospital. If anybody is with you there, they should browse heimlich maneuver and do it on you

[quote author=Rosement post=101208094]I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.[/quote




There is nothing to do sister, you keep breaking up till you meet someone that’ll agree with you. You can’t use love to change a leopard’s skin, a man that wants sex wants sex finish.

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

How old are you by the way because ehn I just want to pull you close and woze you

Jerrick:
This is very recent!! Pardon my errors and mistakes please.

What do women really want? Everyone is really jealous one way or the other and our degree of jealousy varies but I wasn’t the over jealous type and would even let go of some things to avoid issues. So I was wary of my GF recent behavior; I’d send her text she would not reply for hours or even till the next day while she was online. I called her attention to it and she was acting like nothing was wrong, it actually got me mad that I overreacted and went as far as blocking her. I knew I made a mistake, I unblocked her back and apologized and we were fine but funny thing is that the same day we settled our dispute she repeated the same thing of not replying me which is very strange to me because throughout the years we’ve been together She’s never done such. I became worried so I decided to play games with her. Below is the chat of the person she thought she was chatting with.

I’ll upload more of it when this hits front page because I want to know if I did overreact ending things with her or not.

You are just looking for a reason to break up with your gf, because ehn, this is beyond stupid. Literally tempting your gf, the babe should run very far way from people like you.

Sodiq3:


https://m.guardian.ng/news/nigeria-needs-more-varsities-197-not-enough-says-minister/

Mehn, this country is doomed with all this non-intelligent bunch steering the wheel of this nation.

DamnnNiggarr:
A US-based Nigerian give reasons why Nigeria is better than the US. Do you agree with him?

A US-based Nigerian give reasons why Nigeria is better than the US.

- Can anyone in the US use $1 for breakfast? No! But in Nigeria, 500 will give you breakfast and lunch.

- Insurance in the US is $280 and that is almost100, 000
monthly. In Nigeria we don’t pay half of that

https://twitter.com/CoolFMNigeria/status/1379699416890810370?s=19

- Majority of people's monthly house rent (self-Contained apartment) in the USA is $1,000 and above... and that is your own 2 year's rent.

-Says he pays 40,000 monthly for phone bills or else they will block his SIM. Whereas MTN can be there for months without recharge.

https://twitter.com/CoolFMNigeria/status/1379700408420012034?s=19

- When last did you work on Saturday and Sunday? This I do compulsorily and on regular basis.

Don't get me wrong, the US is better than Nigeria,
depending on which angle you are viewing it.
But many people in Nigeria live a more fulfilled life than
those in America

https://twitter.com/CoolFMNigeria/status/1379700771135098881?s=19

If you are black they will kneel on you, and you need many jobs to truly live well.

Is there anything you don’t agree with in what he
said?
Drop your comments below

https://twitter.com/CoolFMNigeria/status/1379701188430548993?s=19

Just open mouth and waaaaa

lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?

Gbogbo wa lama je breakfast, e don reach your side Lala?

profilemessages:
lucky a richer cuter guy is not yet around the corner



when she is through with you she go dump you


i pray we still wont be reading SHE DITCHED ME
on nairaland




love still exist dont get it twisted


but just dont sleep with two eyes closed

That ain’t love, that is obsession. You don’t want to find yourself in that space

elisha820:
Happy new week everyone.
I decided to bring this up on this platform cos I want candid and lucid advice. I be brief on this.

I am a Pharmacist working with one of the government owned health care centre. There's this girl I've been with for more than 2years now. She is a law student in her penultimate year in university. Like most Nigerian relationships, we started with lot of distractions and lacked commitment but over time it remained just the two of us.

At the beginning of this year 2021 we made relationship goals and decided to be transparent to each other. We shared every secrets, went through each others phone and asked questions where necessary. All went well until last month when I went to check on her in the university, asked for her phone as usual wanted checking her whatsapp. She didn't let me, said till she comes for weekend when we'll have good time for that. I was surprised, had my doubts but let it slide. She later came for the weekend, I acted as if I don't care anymore and that was it.

Similar event happened last night after she went through my phone (whatsapp, facebook, twitter etc) cos she has my password but I don't have hers. I unexpectedly asked for her phone too, she said it's late and we should leave it till am back from weekend call later in the evening. I kept my cool last night but was bent on seeing her chat this morning not until she bursted into tears. I ain't perfect, have my flaws but I am free spirited whenever I am around her. It normal for a lady to have lots of guys in her dm, but I think it's a problem when it becomes secretive to your partner.

Should I play along, start having secrets too or what's your thought guys.

NB: I skipped so many things, decided being straight to the point.

Lalasticla...I remain loyal, hoping you'll do the needful

What kinda relationship are y’all niggas on these days.... this relationship has been designed to fail from the start, na insecurity go kill you if you are not careful.

saphiere:
It will never be well with Davido if he does not do the needful.

This is for every girl out there to learn a lesson


Davido has daughters. May this he has done to Chioma and many more be upon his daughters in Jesus name I pray Amen.

Davido, I redraw peace from you wherever you
are. You shall have no peace until you do the needful.

Pele o, drawer.See mumu, carry paracetamol dey use for another person headache

SATANICALLY:


https://thenationonlineng.net/chioma-deletes-all-davidos-pictures/

Gbogbo wa la ma je breakfast

Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?

Please refer the first class lady to me, if she fine sha

Wisemfon:
A lady I referred for a bank job in the first week of June got a call this morning to resume work at an Uyo branch of the said commercial bank. She was fortunate to be among the few applicants that were shortlisted from among a large pool of graduates who got interviewed for the jobs.
No, but she won't be resuming!

She finally lost the opportunity because of a phone call.
She had received the call in the early hours of today, 10:00am precise. It was from the HR department of the bank.

But she didn't say "hello".

Her first remark when she picked was "who's this?"

Before she got any other reply she added "how did you get my number?"

The HR person goes "Am I speaking to Miss xxxxxxx?"

She felt the question is unnecessary! And she gave her final response.

"Please if you don't want to introduce yourself get out of my phone" that was her final word!

I got a feedback from the HR by 12noon today and I listened to that conversation. Those kinds of phone calls are always recorded for reference purposes.

Aunty lost the job because she lacks Phone Conversations Etiquette! I listened to the recorded version of that conversation.

She lost the job because she believes every unknown male caller is a "chyker".

You see? After all it's not always because HR people are "despicable" as they have been labeled by Nigerians!

Why would a Homosapien answer a phone call like this in the year 2020AD?

Watch out! Your next phone call might be your breakthrough! But your ill-manners could cost you the miracle

So what if she was in a bad mood on that very day. HR too should be able to introduce himself, it’s the logical thing to do after she said who’s this. Pride and ego don finish una for this country