Business › Re: Burj Khalifa: Tony Elumelu Poses In Front Of The Tallest Building In The World by dfrost: 3:17pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
PotatoSalad: 6'3" muscular, fresh af. The lady is probably going through midlife crisis You get bad mouth, kai! But I really feel for such ladies. Not really easy for them.  |
Travel › Re: See How Lagosians Sleep In Buses On Their Way To Work In The Morning (PHOTOS) by dfrost: 3:17pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
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Travel › Re: See How Lagosians Sleep In Buses On Their Way To Work In The Morning (PHOTOS) by dfrost: 3:13pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
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Travel › Re: See How Lagosians Sleep In Buses On Their Way To Work In The Morning (PHOTOS) by dfrost: 3:10pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
incogni2o: If you are guilty of this, Raise your Hand Uncle, uncle... *hands raised*  |
Travel › Re: See How Lagosians Sleep In Buses On Their Way To Work In The Morning (PHOTOS) by dfrost: 3:03pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: Nah so then dey take enta one chance....... Even dos wey dey stand, don sleep go....
Una sure than neva blow dem powder........  Haba Lexus... You and black man mentality  . Which powder again? |
Travel › Re: See How Lagosians Sleep In Buses On Their Way To Work In The Morning (PHOTOS) by dfrost: 3:00pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
It's 8 hours averagely for adults. See the National Sleep Foundation’s Recommended Sleep Duration HERE We don't need to click and be transferred to your site.  |
Jokes Etc › Re: ₦20Billion Or Your Girlfriend, Which One Will You Save?(Photo) by dfrost: 2:57pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: ₦20Billion Or Your Girlfriend, Which One Will You Save?(Photo) by dfrost: 2:56pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
$20 billion.
If it's wife, then better wife than $20 billion. |
Crime › Re: Princess Polachi Vivian's Friend Speaks On Beating Her Husband To Death by dfrost: 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
Dead men tell no tales. Simple. |
Business › Re: Burj Khalifa: Tony Elumelu Poses In Front Of The Tallest Building In The World by dfrost: 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 12:30pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
AreaFada2: (1) Nothing wrong with housing your sister in a vacant guest house temporarily. - AreaFada2, nothing wrong but since the friend said he is well-to-do, he should have done so from the world 'go'. It reduces the friction. Trust me.
(2) The gym has a trainer who can ensure she actually does her training right. If you said that regarding it being an opportunity to cheat, she could have cheated on the way to do shopping too. Or use her seemingly plenty of free time to cheat. - I was not referring to cheating.
(3) Internal bleeding may not show any symptoms or signs, once checked over by a doctor, admitting might not have been recommended. In fact healthcare professionals are most likely to say they are ok in such circumstances. You are right.
(4) In Nigeria, even lots of working wives keep their money and expect hubby to pay all the bills (food, fuel, kids & family total upkeep, etc), nothing unusual. Some wives live so well on hubby's income that both might find no reason for her to work. - If you say so.
You just cannot blame the guy for all the above. If there are things he was guilty of, we have to hear the lady's version first.
I think the guy pampered the lady too much, they didn't really love each other, the wife had no good relationship with her inlaws, etc.
I can assure you that if it was her own relatives that needed accommodation, she'd have happily taken them in.
I know one thing about Nigerian marriages. Many women are married to men they do not love. They did it to tick the marriage box, the economic security it provides, they wanted to marry like all their friends, etc. A few men also do it for same reason aside that she might be pretty. |
Travel › Re: Danfo That Almost Fell From Third-Mainland Bridge This Morning (Photo) by dfrost: 11:36am On Apr 09, 2019 |
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Phones › Re: Infinix To Launch An All-screen Smartphone With Five Rear Camera Lenses by dfrost: 11:28am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Keep inventing more please so that we can buy the ones that were once expensive at a cheaper price.  95% of phone users do not use the phone to the fullest capability especially task-oriented purposes. |
Phones › Re: Infinix To Launch An All-screen Smartphone With Five Rear Camera Lenses by dfrost: 11:22am On Apr 09, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 11:21am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Oceanblaze: Oh Alloy!!u married a monster What if he was the monster? You can't just conclude.  |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 11:19am On Apr 09, 2019 |
poseidon12: I believe he was giving money to the wife for the family expenses. It's likely the wife is a fulltime housewife mother. See poseidon12, I agree with you. But when one start having extra money on hand without a real purpose, there lies a potential danger especially a full-time mother. These are the potential dangers: 1) Start buying clothes for weddings/burials anyhow (aso-ebi in our nomenclature) 2) Looking for frivolities 3) Paying for side-chicks (side guys too  ) 4) You can add yours... |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 11:12am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Omudia11: Do you know what it means for someone to be culpable?
Did she say her hands on him? Did she send her siblings to beat him? Didn't you read that there was a confrontation and they started fighting? CULPABLE | meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/culpableculpable definition: 1. deserving to be blamed or considered responsible for something bad: 2. deserving to be blamed or considered responsible for something ... She is responsible for what happened because she reported the matter to the third-party that carried out the beating (be it her sibling or thugs). |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 11:05am On Apr 09, 2019*. Modified: 11:20am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Omudia11: This account is more realistic than the first. It's obvious the writer wrote that epistle in support of his friend. It is more realistic, how? Both are painting pictures to serve their own purpose: support their person. Also I dislike people who raise their self-importance. Does she really need to say she 'owns a foundation'? Will that make us believe her story more or what? |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 10:00am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Divay22: She went too far na  My exact point. That's too far. Even if she gets married to another person, the trauma for the she and kids will always remain the same. |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 9:59am On Apr 09, 2019 |
dominique: Let's ask the narrator if he lives with them for him to have such intricate details on about the couple and what transpired between them. The way he garnished and spiced the story, it's not hard to see that his aim is to demonize the woman. We can't tell for sure if she's guilty or not, but one thing is certain, there are some untruths and half truths in this very one sided story. dominique, at least he was correct on the beating that led to his death. Yes, people will always to paint a story to the best of their knowledge but I don't understand the beating of the man by thugs or the wife's siblings. This is marriage between two people. If she was forced then, at least she has come of age. She should have taken the matter to court. |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 9:56am On Apr 09, 2019 |
opella: This is from her friend
Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years. She is still culpable. That she was released doesn't exonerate her. The narrative above also corroborates the first narrative that he was beaten up. She should have just shut it. Do not repay evil for evil. |
Crime › Re: Wife Hires Thugs To Beat Husband For Slapping Her, He Dies by dfrost: 9:49am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Okay. Flash points: 1) He should have started looking for the accommodation for his sister from day one. 2) Why send your wife to the gym? Create a gym from the guest house. 3) He shouldn't have left the hospital until he got better. He is a medical personnel for crying out loud. He should know better. I lost a friend to internal bleeding last year. 4) Why is he giving money to the wife? For what exactly?  |
Travel › Re: Kenyan Government Clears Blocked Drainage Ahead Of The Rainy Season (PHOTOS) by dfrost: 9:36am On Apr 09, 2019 |
ReneeNuttall: I see no much difference btwn Some parts of Nigeria and Kenyan cities in terms of cleanliness... From what I see this is just a temporal thing sooner or later they will block those drainages with dirt. Typical of African mentality. Renee, at least they are clearing. Are we even clearing here in Nigeria? Government? No. Citizens? No. Common sanitation, everyone in Lagos wants to travel early in the morning out of Lagos, heading to Ibadan for parties. |
Celebrities › Re: Ireti Osayemi Shows Off Her Children by dfrost: 9:32am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Cute kids  . But exposing kids like this can attract the other type of folks. |
Travel › Re: 19 Persons In Search Of ‘Bulletproof’ Charm Die In Auto Crash In Katsina by dfrost: 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: RMAFC To Probe 22 Banks Over Stamp Duty Collections by dfrost: 7:06pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
tunwumi: You can't know the value of what you have until you loose it. I know the value of what I have. Now I want to know the value of losing it.  |
Celebrities › Re: Ibrahim Dauda: Mr. Ibu Had Stroke, He Lied by dfrost: 3:52pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
mosegifted: See wahala ooo person wer get body say nothing de do am you the force am to accept say stroke hold am.... chaiii dis life self My broda the matter tire me honestly.  Na by force make person collect stroke. |
Car Talk › Re: Of What Purpose Was Your First Car: Luxury, Business Or Necessity? by dfrost: 3:42pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Necessity. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Leah Sharibu: TB Joshua Calls For Three Days Prayer And Fasting by dfrost: 1:08pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Danwakae: WHEN IT HAPPEN TO YOUR SISTER, U WOULD BEG PEOPLE TO COME BE RELEVANT, U WOULD NOT SEE
DAN ISKA. Kana huaka? I was not responding to the young girl in question. I was referring to the fasting and praying. There are people that need it also but are they offering it to such people? No. Rather they will look at a national issue and use it for publicity. Please let's not drag ourselves in the mud over issues. Dan iska is a wrong word to be used on me. |
Politics › Re: RMAFC To Probe 22 Banks Over Stamp Duty Collections by dfrost: 12:31pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
tunwumi: You will be the first slave to be taken out in chains. I will gladly join him.  . Has the ship berthed yet? |
Crime › Re: Cult War In Mgbuodohia, Rumuolumeni Rivers State: 8 Killed, Residents Flee by dfrost: 12:30pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Chizi Oboli And Korede Bello Are Lookalike? Omoni Oboli Shares Photos Of Son by dfrost: 12:27pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
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