agarawu23:
she knows about your past relationship and she still open up to you ,then I give her 3 gbosa!!!

1. her story might be false to know how much you care because her boldness for telling you such is what's strange to me

2. Guys are adviced dis days to make sure your wife to be is at least 1month pregnant before you start marriage arrangement(that's if you are financially ready to settle down)


ladies and abortion these days

what if she gets preggy and it comes down after the wedding?, you are not G*d. Some ladies prefer to enter a relationship based on trust.
What of people that were never wayward and yet Go*d decides to test them with long wait.

the permanent job will be better as it will allow u more time for yourself and also give u more rest of mind as it is permanent

this boy wan kill him papa.

selectedhero:

i quite understand your point especially if you are an APC supporter but you see this "siege mentallity and hate filled idiocy" is most observable in the north where APC is dominant. staying in kano for hw long i have has shown me that even if you remove ur head and drop it in the name of hard work; the moment sentiments for one reason or the other are raised you become a gonner -overnight. honestly tell me that the north even considered Jonathan to the extent of even 15%. even after all the infrastructure
he provided there. i have traversed the north enough to confirm to you that no administration has ever done as much for the north as his. but because there had to be alignments for sentiment sake. mind you i am a northerner and was also in the north during the elections. the slogan was "remove the kafir", it did make me wonder though.

Can you please mention the things Jonathan did in the north.
Lets not talk from the pages of newspapers cos the papers make their money from the advert business.
Mind you, i am not a member of any party and i was among those who voted Jonathan in 2011. i lived in the north all my life.
the only people Jonathan helped were the corrupt politicians, the millitants in ss.
Most of those things they claimed to have done were only visible on the pages of newspaper and not on ground.

chi, thanks for the mention my love

Rachaelfrancis:
hi mamas...I am 6 months pregnant and have some challenges. God has been with me sha but I feel contraction each time I do hard labour at home,like washing of toilet etc. is this normal? Also,each time I cry as a result of my husband hurting me,i feel pain in my tommy/waist. lastly is I have been having some rashes in my vjayjay(I no shame to talk am,una no de see my face..lol)...I have taken antibiotics they gave me from de hospital,I have used dettol and hot water and salt to wash off but all to no avail..pls is there any cream that can clear this rashes? it really is annoying me and I am scared all this will hurt my lovely baby

hi dear, it may be braxton hicks you have when you are stressed but try reduce the stressful work and also talk to your gyne about it. Prevention is Always better. having pain whenever you cry too should be complained. talk to ur dh and lets see if he can make you stop crying, also if he doesnt change, develop a thick skin, my dear, your babys life is worth the sacrifice.
the rashes, i have no idea. dont use too much dettol for ur vjay for now. salt solution is still ok but talk to ur doc. they know better

beedam, I grab the course. but I still dey do omoge. if beevan catch you with that ur prayer, lovinam and lyndaroyco no fit save u oooooooooooooo

lovinam:
Dhabeautyjas don load again na. Abi she no tell u? Oya babe come confirm

Julieni! Nkemella! Chifreke! Lyndaroyce! Tobigal! Beevan! Byvan!beckytunde!opeolukoya! Juliebest!

i never load o, my dear na work and dd dey make me zoom

rexbuton:
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

wow, so really true

could this be true?

beedam:


Madam de madam,how your side? Una dey hear from dhabeautyjas so?

U and tchiwinnie, una head dey there. Not easy I must say.

thanx so much for checking on me . i dey jare. na zooming things.
how are u and urs

EUROBOMBER:


We are sorry.

you are one very matured man that i respect so much. I hope your brothers will understand and don't start what they can't finish.
in as much as i don't support what the oba said, i also do not support claiming right in another mans land.
In ibo land, your people forget one nigeria but use that slogan in lagos. its well. all i want is peace.

thirdi:


Let half of the yorubas go to the east build houses and have businesses. I will vote them as governor. Any day

if you guys agree to as much as sell lands to them.

hayatou27:
I served in the south eastern part of the country, Igbos are not as friendly as we are to them, they need to respect the other tribes in Nigeria, the hatred is just too much , They are too tribalistic to even head any government parastatal, Lagos has given igbos more than they can give anyone in their own land, Igbos have a serving commissioner and also key officials in Lagos civil service from PS to directors in Ministries, a lot of Sec./Pry. school principal (state owned) are igbos, we don't discriminate against you guys, Dear Igbos don't bite the fingers that fed you.
Oba has spoken, let is sink into their skulls , Lagos is a Yoruba state not a no mans land, because you are permited to stay due to the friendliness of lagosian, don't take us for granted.
if any Igbo man complains about tax or other policies of this govt, Have a rethink, this policy affect all not the igbos alone, so we should stop the saying that this govt is targeting igbos alone.

Eko oni baje....Eko atesiwaju oooo

u are very right. i served in that side too. igbos are the most sentimental in nigeria, yet they are yhe ones that have enjoyed from north and south west mostly. they are allowed freedom to establish and hhave properties they dnt even sell land to no igbos so i think they should br more accomodating and not take ppl for granted where they are allowrd. the oba did wrong for threatening if its true.
if we want one naija, igbos should be hospitable in their land.
you cant deprive ppl in ur place and want to rule in another man land.

wow, so interesting. me likey

i prefer himas education minister, he has been there, he knows the problems, he is a stright-forward man that can handle crritical issues.
with him, private universities no go sell cos the govt ones will be very good.
with quality education, nigeria has a better chance of moving forward

Zikkie:


U wash your hair everyday? Are u on a low cut?

when i decided to treat it, i didn make my hair till i cleared it. am not on low cut

supermarket

i really understand u. i used acid cidar vinegar. i do wash my hair every day and i apply acv (its peppery at first and reduces as d dandruff reduces.

then i cover d hair with shower cap for like an hour. i rinse out with warm water.
then once every week i damp my scalp with enough cocnut oil and cover it for 2-3 hrs.
it took like 3nths for it to show effect

tayoxx:
na wah o....but it has been resolved now

yes, they used the register

tayoxx:
dem don accredit am?....We no get light for my side o

not yet. its only his and his wife the readers are rejecting

why is it only there its not working.
i observe the reporter there is not been
straightforward. also why didnt they do anybody
before jonathan?
i smell foulplay

why is it only there its not working.
i observe the reporter there is not been straightforward. also why didnt they do anybody before jonathan?
i smell foulplay

opeoluwa2:
To every mama in this beautiful thread, i hail oooh.
Where are the old mamas, reading thru this thread makes me feel like a stranger.all I se are new mamas, pls old mamas show face small naw
Congrats to everyone who has put to birth especially sayoberry,iya beji of life.
Chifreke, dhabeautyjas, fino,tobiegal,beevann,lyndaroyce, lovinaM, twinmama,kai my brain no remember again
Mamaabike and all the new mamas.
I love you.
I ve officially joined this thread again.
But I don't know how far I am gone. Didn't see my period when breastfeeding. So couldn't tell when I took in.
Starting ANC soonest.
Just want to holla you guys.
Pls keep safe during this election period.
May God deliver us from election violence.

dear, i dey like dele giwa o.
ahmanin, God knowa best and he will give u a precious one that will stay just take heart dear and remember u have a family u can lean on here

phrezzz:
A housewife forgot her bank account ATM pin which is a 5digits number but luckily she remembered some hints on how to recall the pin. here are some of the clues.
1)the first pin digit is the square of the 2nd
2)the sum of the 2nd and 3rd is 10
3)the 4th is equal to the 2nd plus 1
4)the 3rd and the 5th makes 14
5)the sum of all the digits is 30 what is her pin number?

this has been solved

https://www.nairaland.com/2188910/what-atm-card-pin#31489544

Janedoe26:
Having read the entire post (yes! I took my time and read every single comment), I have a new prayer point "God please I don't want a husband with a poor mentality".
If you die as a Man and your wife re marries. So what? Often times, most women never re marry but Men do and hell its ok.
Secondly, I can deduce that many people marry for the wrong reasons - if you do not trust your wife, or love your wife why marry her in the first place? If she changes after marriage y remain with her?
Thirdly, did u come to this life to fend for your siblings. If your wife is not important enough for you to entrust your wealth y did u marry her? I mean, unlike your brother, you had a choice and you picked her. That should count for something.
Assuming like she said she contributed to the House even if its 10% (for those who can't fathom that a woman can contribute more than a man) isn't she entitled to some benefit?
Even if she has no issue...if the man dies, won't he like his wife to have something from him after all, aren't they supposed to be one?
Marriage is not by force. If you can't find someone to trust and love, forget it.
The only justification for me is if those forms and will were made before marriage.

my dear, the thing tire person. most people marry for the wrong reasons. women should just shine their eyes,

NOTE:
this doesn't mean every man is the same, if your husband is a loving, caring and understanding man that takes his responsibility serious, you shouldn't hide anything from him. so for those reading comments here, don't just act based on this story for all me. you know ur man and how best to you handle yourselves.

ITbomb:
Talk with him and discuss the implications which is that you will start your own savings, withdraw your pension contributions and start your investments.

Again the question, do you have a son?

Excuse me, must it be a son, what if he has a daughter? doesn't a daughter have a right to her father's property. the question should be Do you have a child?

BritneyStacy, hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, its well.
this has 2 sides to it.

1. you are a supportive wife with lots of moral value, then he is wrong. Most of our men these days believe their siblings are their immediate family, I don't know why, but if this is the case abeg, start saving for your self and ur kids if you have any.
try talking to him but if he an egoistic man, your talk cant do a thing, once such men make up their mind, there is nothing anyone can do.
when did you guys get married?
if its not long, then maybe he is yet to change it from before marriage

2. you feel you are supportive but you are too extravagant, then he is doing what he feels is the best for his kids (that is if he and his brother wee brought up with so much love.

so where you belong will determine how you will handle it.

biggjoe:

Yea. He already did. We have a lovely boy (our first issue) who was concieved without any issues. The miscarriage was our second attempt.

Ok good to know. He will bless u with other ones too.

93747 is the pin.
solution attached

biggjoe:
My sister in law and the husband had the same problem. Theirs lasted for about 4 years before they successful birthed one lovely chap they named Kamsi on October 23, 2013.
They didnt have to do anything spectacular to get it right. Though they have gone to so many prayer houses and doctors and taken many drugs but what appeared to have worked was that they simply stopped sex immediately allowed the lady to have an extensive bed rest in the first 12 weeks from when she took in. When I said bed rest, I mean BED REST! The type that the woman just lies on the bed and hardly do anything. No, walking about, carrying things, cooking, sweeping, walking about and infact practically doing anything. Even that is not an easy task but they had to do it.
Miscarriages are painful. My own wife miscarried about 7 weeks ago and the evacuation part appeared to be the most painful part.

May G*d console you and your wife with beautiful kids.

worriedhusband, I wish God will console you,
what is your wife's rhesus factor and what is yours?
please try and find that out before trying your next conception.
Also do some more fertility tests and I suggest you use government hospital as they have many experienced docs as well as more facilities.
so you will know if her womb has the strength to carry the baby or you guys may have to go for ivf.
what ever it is, God will take control.
May Almighty wipe your tears with beautiful twins that will be by you for the rest of your lives.

yes am watching. very interesting.