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Romance › Re: Nigerian Couple’s Transformation Photos Causes Buzz Online by Dimaya:
Thats why men need to outearn their wives. Otherwise she'll outgrow you. That guy is experiencing what was being described in this conversation: when women earn more



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

It's quite obvious that she has better income sources than her boyfriend.
Romance › How Has Your Childhood Trauma Shaped Your Adult Love Relationships? by Dimaya(op):
Dear Fellow Nairalanders,

How has your childhood affected you growing up?
Recent psychological evidence points to the fact that past trauma particularly in childhood strongly affects how we form relationship bonds in adulthood.

In a recent conversation with young people across Africa, they revealed that daddy issues, childhood rape, childhood sodomy, absence of their fathers and abandonment by parents shaped their views of love, romance and family.

If you're struggling with such trauma, this conversation: How trauma can shape you is worth listening to.

Pay particular attention to the stories told by the young women, and hopefully you will find strength to heal.

It gets better. Don't give up


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifSuF7gL5ik

How has your childhood affected you growing up?
Romance › Re: Can Past Relationships Traumatized Someone by Dimaya: 9:14am On Jul 28, 2023
It definitely gets better
Romance › Re: Can Past Relationships Traumatized Someone by Dimaya: 9:14am On Jul 28, 2023
Past trauma particularly in childhood strongly affects how we form relationship bonds in adulthood.

In a recent conversation with young people across Africa, they revealed that daddy issues, childhood rape, childhood sodomy, absence of their fathers and abandonment by parents shaped their views of love, romance and family.

If you're struggling with such trauma, this conversation: How trauma can shape you is worth listening to.

Pay particular attention to the stories told by the young women, and hopefully you will find strength to heal.

OP, it gets better. Don't give up


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifSuF7gL5ik
Romance › Re: My Wife And Side Chic by Dimaya:
Romance › Re: Choose Your Partner Wisely by Dimaya: 8:52pm On Jul 27, 2023
grin
Romance › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Pretend They Like Nigerian Women by Dimaya: 8:51pm On Jul 27, 2023
Because of billing
Romance › Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 8:49pm On Jul 27, 2023
Karlifate:
This is why these women will keep sharing one man, as rich men are not much to go around.
You can say that again
Food › Re: How Much Should A Single, Unmarried Person Spend On Food Daily? by Dimaya(op): 8:45pm On Jul 27, 2023
obinna58:
With the help of my apc agbado ewa ID card I was able to acquire 2 plates which is favoring me and my family
You're hilarious. May this 700 naira per liter favour me and my family in Jesus name grin
Career › Re: How We Survived Unemployment, Fake Job Scams And Poverty by Dimaya(op): 8:44pm On Jul 27, 2023
Zigzagman:
At least we're better than Niger republic that just had a coup
Can you imagine coups in this century
Family › Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 8:43pm On Jul 27, 2023
ImaIma1:
Just live your life and be busy with things that matter while developing yourself. The right person will find you.
that's actually terrible advice. The only person who will find you will be PHCN bill collector
Romance › Re: Dating A Lady Without Plans Of Marrying Her: Is It Usage? by Dimaya: 8:41pm On Jul 27, 2023
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Romance › Re: What Can You Tell Me About Married Life That Most People Don't Know? by Dimaya: 5:57pm On Jul 27, 2023
grin
Romance › Re: What Can You Tell Me About Married Life That Most People Don't Know? by Dimaya: 5:56pm On Jul 27, 2023
It's hard
Romance › Re: A Nice Lady Unknown To Me Picked Me Up When I Was Trekking Today To The Office by Dimaya: 5:54pm On Jul 27, 2023
Romance › Re: New Secret About Badoo And Tinder Girls. Guys Come In by Dimaya: 5:36pm On Jul 27, 2023
Do you mean just like these girls


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc
Politics › Re: Lai Mohammed Bags UN Appointment by Dimaya: 11:35am On Jul 27, 2023
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Family › Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op):
ImaIma1:
Just live your life and be busy with things that matter while developing yourself. The right person will find you.
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Romance › Re: A by Dimaya:
Travel › Re: Ibadan In 2023 | Touring The Biggest City In West Africa | History Of Ibadan Nig by Dimaya: 11:06am On Jul 27, 2023
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Politics › Re: Sit-at-home: Ekpa Writes EU, US, Demands Visa Ban On Gov Mbah by Dimaya: 11:00am On Jul 27, 2023
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Romance › Re: The Sex You Must Not Have. by Dimaya:
Romance › Re: An Empirical Research On Why Marriages Fail Today by Dimaya: 11:12pm On Jul 26, 2023
To summarize, marriages break down today due to three things:

Love, money and control.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdgb4cIcgec

You can run around in circles but eventually, thses three things as discussed in this video.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Man That Cannot, Read, Write And Not Working But Give You Peace Of by Dimaya: 11:02pm On Jul 26, 2023
OP, What did I just read?

That's like asking if you can hire a footballer without legs, Or a Surgeon without hands.

The role of a husband is to provide. No man can give you peace of mind unless he can provide.

This video breaks down the basic cost of living in Lagos Nigeria. Ask yourself if a man with those qualities you've described will be able to meet the expenses being discussed.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM_5QXrPiIo

A man is only loved on the condition that he provides -chris rock.
Christianity Etc › Re: Parish Priest Sells Church And Its Land Leaving His Members In Disbelief (video) by Dimaya: 6:45pm On Jul 26, 2023
The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWqppErCr60
Family › Re: Will You Take Your Wife Back If She Cheats On You? by Dimaya: 6:44pm On Jul 26, 2023
Things we do for love
Romance › Re: A Life Of Eternal Boredom Or A Life Of Etetnal Pain? by Dimaya: 6:33pm On Jul 26, 2023
huh
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Broken Up A Relationship To Later Want Him Back? What Do YOU Do? by Dimaya: 6:30pm On Jul 26, 2023
Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo
Do you realize that you're spamming all the threads?
Family › Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 5:35pm On Jul 26, 2023
GboyegaD:
The only advice I will give to anyone will be to be themselves at all times irrespective of who is watching.
Even if the person has a terrible Character?

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