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Zigzagman:
At this point, ive just realised that nobody cares

It gets better

rent prices are inaccurate. They've gone up

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great article

OP, you're being gamed. Watch this video: How to skillfully reject the beggars in YOUR life without triggering hatred and jealousy .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPk4YT3ta_4

Pay close attention to what the women in this video say. Here, you have everyday Nigerian women,[b] many of them with huge savings confessing to shaming their colleagues to constantly keep paying for their food and transportation. [/b]One even confesses to topping up her account monthly by always sending requests for 2K to 100 of her suitors. So you're getting broke and she's saving up millions.

The good thing is , once you spot people's strategies, you can prevent it. Many of them have formed the habit of eating free off men who are toasting them, and once they now have to pay for their own food, it has become a problem

DOn't let anyone maga you. Thank me later.

So in essence, you're asking how soon should he start paying?

Guys, learn to avoid ladies like these. It never ends well.




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Zigzagman:
it's all good

Just realize it's how wolverine has said. People do what they need to do to survive.



Just pray that you won't face temptations bigger than you.

Hmmn

OP, you have to mend your marriage. It doesn't matter whether you wanted the child or not, the child is here and has to be raised well by both his parents.

I don't care whatever the sidechic tells you, she doesn't care about you or what happens to your family and children. In all likelihood, this is how she thinks about you and your wife:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU



Women do NOT love men. They see men mostly as utility- an implement/instrument that can be used. If the outside lady sees you finish like your wife has, she too will start to misbehave.

Also, when women have children, they are forced to change. Raising children especially below age 5, is extremely stressful. Your wife will have sleepless nights and she won't get enough rest. Better adapt and seek support of family members in childcare. It seems your wife is experiencing parenting burnout. She needs your understanding. You both need patience.

OP, you can still repair your marriage. Go to your wife, plead with her to overlook your indiscretions. Tell her it was a moment of weakness. And work on getting your family back together. Don't let your children suffer the consequences of growing up in a broken home.

These are tricky love decisions. I wish you all the best.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk

Now watch people breakdown their living expenses in Lagos, Nigeria


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM_5QXrPiIo

A guy I known developed what he described as spiritual setbacks after having sex with his ex:

Hear him in his own words:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPfBJDqUY4o

ideamonster:
there's nothing that works for everybody

That's true

This is the average Igbo man's opinion of his woman exactly what this guy has voiced in the first 30 seconds of this video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

Correct me if I'm wrong.

OP, look no further. I won't tell you what the women are like. I will show you and you're free to make the decisions for yourself.

It depends on what part of Nigeria. To get into the psyche of Nigerian women, it pays to watch four videos that best illustrate the average young Nigerian woman's views to marriage and dating:

1. Career women and their dating problems


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR3MCsqxBvA


2. When women earn more


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ


3. Love, money and control


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdgb4cIcgec


4. Who pays on the first date?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhvLmz8F7NM


These four videos above should be considered essential viewing for any man who wants to marry a Nigerian woman alive today in Africa.

Each woman in that video is an archetype of what today's woman of marrying age looks like. Pay particular attention to what the women say, and how they express their thoughts.

You can thank me later.

pansophist:
Survive or escape?

Seems like you don't know the antidote to your problems.

If you want to escape Nigeria, here's a video that helps:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAiqIyuG0hM

These are warning signs of a relationship coming to an end:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrXVbs-1fhA

Know this and know peace.