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Family › Re: Youth Corner: How Negative Peer Influence Can Derail Your Dream by Dimaya: 5:09pm On Jul 26, 2023
Okay
Family › Re: Will You Take Your Wife Back If She Cheats On You? by Dimaya:
you can wife a ho, but why would you?

If she's cheated once, she can do it again. And there's probably more secrets she's hiding.

Just like these girls


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc
Family › Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 5:00pm On Jul 26, 2023
ideamonster:
Amen !
Na so the thing dey pepper you 😂
Romance › Re: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 4:58pm On Jul 26, 2023
Zigzagman:
At this point, ive just realised that nobody cares
It gets better
Family › Re: NOW And THEN Life. by Dimaya: 4:35pm On Jul 26, 2023
grin
Family › Re: Is This Updated Cost Of Living In Lagos (Food, Housing And Transport) Accurate? by Dimaya: 3:25pm On Jul 26, 2023
rent prices are inaccurate. They've gone up
Celebrities › Re: P Diddy, Camilla Cabello And DJ Khaled Watched Messi's Second Inter Miami Game by Dimaya: 3:18pm On Jul 26, 2023
grin
Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Parents See Pidgin English As "Bad English"? by Dimaya: 3:05pm On Jul 26, 2023
Family › Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Dimaya: 3:01pm On Jul 26, 2023
Christianity Etc › Re: “Any Girl Who Asks You For Transport Money Is A Useless Girl” – Pastor Mildred by Dimaya: 2:55pm On Jul 26, 2023
TV/Movies › Re: Doyin To Ceec: I Never Liked You In Your Season, But Now Understand How It Feels by Dimaya: 2:53pm On Jul 26, 2023
Romance › Re: True Men Like Big As* But Here's What No Man Can Resist by Dimaya: 2:49pm On Jul 26, 2023
grin
Romance › Re: Is He Right Or Wrong? by Dimaya: 2:47pm On Jul 26, 2023
grin
Romance › Re: The Last Temptation by Dimaya: 2:45pm On Jul 26, 2023
grin
BigBasher:
Ride on.
Career › Re: Here's How They Escaped Unemployment, Fake Job Scams And Poverty by Dimaya: 1:24pm On Jul 26, 2023
great article
Romance › Re: Why Are Some Women Like This? by Dimaya: 12:57pm On Jul 26, 2023
OP, you're being gamed. Watch this video: How to skillfully reject the beggars in YOUR life without triggering hatred and jealousy .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPk4YT3ta_4

Pay close attention to what the women in this video say. Here, you have everyday Nigerian women,[b] many of them with huge savings confessing to shaming their colleagues to constantly keep paying for their food and transportation. [/b]One even confesses to topping up her account monthly by always sending requests for 2K to 100 of her suitors. So you're getting broke and she's saving up millions.

The good thing is , once you spot people's strategies, you can prevent it. Many of them have formed the habit of eating free off men who are toasting them, and once they now have to pay for their own food, it has become a problem

DOn't let anyone maga you. Thank me later.
Romance › Re: Name 5 Sweetest Things Or Experience On Earth by Dimaya: 11:36am On Jul 26, 2023
tongue
Romance › Re: How Long Do I Need To Wait To Start Billing A Guy After Saying "YES" To Him? by Dimaya:
So in essence, you're asking how soon should he start paying?

Guys, learn to avoid ladies like these. It never ends well.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cDlZcHVK2Q


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhvLmz8F7NM
Romance › Re: To The Men, If Your Woman Dumps You This Period Please Take It In Good Fate by Dimaya: 10:15am On Jul 26, 2023
grin
Family › Re: Can Your Marriage Survive Japa? by Dimaya: 8:50am On Jul 26, 2023
Zigzagman:
it's all good
Just realize it's how wolverine has said. People do what they need to do to survive.



Just pray that you won't face temptations bigger than you.
Family › Re: Bribery In Parenting! by Dimaya: 8:45am On Jul 26, 2023
huh
Family › Re: How should you be Postured for Marriage? by Dimaya: 8:43am On Jul 26, 2023
Hmmn
Family › Re: My Younger Brother by Dimaya: 8:41am On Jul 26, 2023
huh
Romance › Re: Yoruba Kwenu by Dimaya: 7:28am On Jul 26, 2023
grin
Romance › Re: Married But In Love With Someone Else by Dimaya:
OP, you have to mend your marriage. It doesn't matter whether you wanted the child or not, the child is here and has to be raised well by both his parents.

I don't care whatever the sidechic tells you, she doesn't care about you or what happens to your family and children. In all likelihood, this is how she thinks about you and your wife:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU



Women do NOT love men. They see men mostly as utility- an implement/instrument that can be used. If the outside lady sees you finish like your wife has, she too will start to misbehave.

Also, when women have children, they are forced to change. Raising children especially below age 5, is extremely stressful. Your wife will have sleepless nights and she won't get enough rest. Better adapt and seek support of family members in childcare. It seems your wife is experiencing parenting burnout. She needs your understanding. You both need patience.

OP, you can still repair your marriage. Go to your wife, plead with her to overlook your indiscretions. Tell her it was a moment of weakness. And work on getting your family back together. Don't let your children suffer the consequences of growing up in a broken home.

These are tricky love decisions. I wish you all the best.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk
Romance › Re: Sad But True Realities Of Life (my Observations) by Dimaya: 7:02am On Jul 26, 2023
Now watch people breakdown their living expenses in Lagos, Nigeria


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM_5QXrPiIo
Romance › Re: Have You Experienced Something Negative After Sleeping With Women Before by Dimaya: 6:56am On Jul 26, 2023
A guy I known developed what he described as spiritual setbacks after having sex with his ex:

Hear him in his own words:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPfBJDqUY4o
Family › Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 1:07am On Jul 26, 2023
ideamonster:
there's nothing that works for everybody
That's true
Romance › Re: Igbo Men and girls by Dimaya: 12:23am On Jul 26, 2023
This is the average Igbo man's opinion of his woman exactly what this guy has voiced in the first 30 seconds of this video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

Correct me if I'm wrong.

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