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RomanceRe: Dating Terms You've Never Heard Of! by Dimaya: 4:25pm On Jul 24, 2023
DyshApp:
Lol you're right 😂 but you can still learn some other terms in the link in my bio
the links in your bio are deactivated bro
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Broken Up A Relationship To Later Want Him Back? What Do YOU Do? by Dimaya: 4:20pm On Jul 24, 2023
ideamonster:
these grandmothers sef
grandma feeling funky
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 60K Job Offer after 5,000 Applications and 2 Interviews | What Would YOU do? by Dimaya(op): 3:46pm On Jul 24, 2023
MondayOsunbor:
jesus! private business!

customs job interviews will be close to a million application
It is what it is. If you have a job, be grateful for it.
FamilyRe: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 3:30pm On Jul 24, 2023
Tayorshd87:
Incredible
What do you disagree with?
RomanceRe: Dating Terms You've Never Heard Of! by Dimaya:
Now we know. In this video: tricky love decisions, everyday Nigerian women learn how to transform their situationships into marriage -worthy relationships.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2ulJMb_pk

Thank me later
CareerRe: Inflation: Why Are Salary Earners The Hardest Hit? by Dimaya: 12:42pm On Jul 24, 2023
Hear from those who are currently struggling to meet their bills


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iL6V8U9yoeQ
RomanceRe: Why Dating Is A Scam* by Dimaya:
This is why dating is a scam:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhvLmz8F7NM

You need to clarify expectations
RomanceRe: Dating Young Nigerian Women In 2023, A Few Hard Realities by Dimaya(op): 12:34pm On Jul 24, 2023
Jeffyblaq:
A Kenyan lady of 26 years of age has actually said dat shit to me in one of my outings.. Like WTF ☹️

Told her to correct herself and rephrase the word she used earlier or take a bounce for real.. POLITELY!

She said that I'm rude!IMAGINE 🤔Shits didn't go well with us as she left immediately..

No room for nonsense or to welcome any silly attitude. NO LIE!
It's called hoeflation
RomanceRe: Girls Can You Date A Boy With This Kind Of Dentition? (pics Attached) by Dimaya: 12:26pm On Jul 24, 2023
czarr:
They will date if he is a yahoo boy!
Tell them
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Broke Up With Me For Becoming A Keke Napep Rider by Dimaya: 12:09pm On Jul 24, 2023
You're not the first. Yours is much better. This dude's girlfriend broke things off because he left working in an accounting firm to become a teacher.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU
RomanceRe: Make Fiancée by Dimaya: 11:07am On Jul 24, 2023
grin
TravelRe: How Much Do You Spend In A Day For Transport by Dimaya: 10:44am On Jul 24, 2023
Here's what fellow Nigerians are now spending on food and transportation


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM_5QXrPiIo
FamilyRe: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 10:40am On Jul 24, 2023
Still waiting for Kobojunkie's approval on this one 😅
FamilyRe: Where To Start Again by Dimaya: 10:39am On Jul 24, 2023
Here's how people are coping


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iL6V8U9yoeQ

Thank me later
FamilyRe: How To Make Friends And Influence by Dimaya: 10:33am On Jul 24, 2023
Here's why women are desperate to make friends after graduation


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIeLf5U0mYQ
FamilyRe: Marriage And Finance by Dimaya: 10:24am On Jul 24, 2023
More details explored in the video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdgb4cIcgec
FamilyRe: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Dimaya: 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2023
NOETHNICITY:
Regret is a human trait. And since God isn’t human then it is not possible that He makes mistakes. In my religion we believe that God is omniscient - the ‘all-knowing’.
Some betrayals are needed. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
FamilyRe: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 8:19pm On Jul 23, 2023
Saintmary:
If for any reason you, as a woman, ever find yourself wishing for your ex back, it means you have not done any work on yourself.


You are in a rut.


You are betraying yourself.


This is why: Something must have pushed you away from that guy, an intuition that something is wrong somewhere, even if you can't see it clearly.

Now, turning around to eat your words makes you a double minded person that can't be trusted to keep to your words no matter how painful the journey becomes. If you can't trust yourself, no one should trust you.



This is the closure you need: your ex found a woman who can tolerate whatever it is you can't tolerate, let go.



Face front, be a better person, make better money, and see how exes will become like poop in your eyes.


Bye.


P. S. If you're a male and you feel triggered by this post, don't quote me, just go and drink your beer jejely.
Great submission
FamilyRe: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 8:11pm On Jul 23, 2023
There has always been hard times.
RomanceRe: I Just Meet A Girl Online Not Upto 1day She Is Already Asking Me For Money by Dimaya: 6:44pm On Jul 23, 2023
Justbehave:
So what are you implying? That what the op is saying doesn't happen?
grin
FamilyRe: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op): 2:48pm On Jul 23, 2023
Creamcrest:
You must be a buffalo.

So you are giving ladies expo on how to marry in this shege promax season? huh
grin i'm an equal opportunity employer
FamilyRe: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op):
4. Commit yourself to the idea of getting married
If you reach age 30 and want to get married, you have to make finding a husband a primary goal. Again, finances have made it harder for most young men to consider marriage. And once all your female friends start getting married, they are less likely to have an active social life with you. Don’t be the last person to withdraw money from the ATM. It may NOT dispense o.


5. Keep in shape, watch your weight, and take care of your appearance
Men are attracted by the physical, but marry character. Dressing appropriately sends the message, “I am wife material.” In other words, don’t dress like a runs/hookup girl. Men see a sexy outfit as an invitation to have sex particularly since many girls are into hookup business nowadays.


6. Time is running out—use time wisely in your search for the marrying man

Women who make an effort to seek out the company of single men are more likely to marry i.e. you date more frequently even it’s Mr. Wrong, participate in masculine activities, make lifestyle sacrifices (i.e. changing jobs or moving) to meet eligible men, develop an active social life and go out on Friday and Saturday, when other single people go out.

Hope this helps


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5A3ReRdJzI
FamilyThe Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya(op):
This post is in response to yesterday's frontpage article about things they will not tell you about marriage.

see here: https://www.nairaland.com/7773611/things-not-tell-marriage

The author practically scared the men and didn't offer any solutions for those women yet to get married, so here are a few things to consider particularly if you're in one of those long-running relationships where one person is having fun, and the other person isn't. More often than not, women tend to be the ones who want a relationship to become a family with children, yet are afraid that any talk of marriage will push the man they're dating, away.

So what do you if you're in this situation: According to this video: How to ask the marriage question without threatening him
, there are six basic guidelines for women to get married


1. Insist on it.
If you want to discuss marriage, you’re going to have to bring the subject up, because many men never will. The economy is bad enough to scare men away. If you keep quiet, he'll be fine with your silence


2. If you find yourself in a dead-end relationship, move on.
When a man says he isn’t ready, it usually doesn’t mean he will never marry. Often, it’s because they don’t have enough money. So you need to factor in the the financial readiness of the man you're with particularly with the current high cost of living. If he's unemployed or even worse, If he's still in school , he will not consider marriage until he has been working and living independently for several years.


3. Love yourself first.
Avoid eternal bachelors i.e. men who string along women but will never commit. To filter them out, insist that he commit after six months. Then stick to it, no matter what excuses he gives.
RomanceRe: I Just Meet A Girl Online Not Upto 1day She Is Already Asking Me For Money by Dimaya:
just like these girls



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3-QfauWpew



hungry girls are everwhere
RomanceRe: MY EX And Large Percent Of Naija Girls by Dimaya: 12:42pm On Jul 23, 2023
SPRINCE001:
Reducing myself to your level will be an indult on my personality. Next time Read and Understand you FUUL.

Where in my post was I trying to have sex with a married ex or where did I indicate that I had sex with a married ex? Oponu omo.

Exes that I didn't even see face to face, Are they the one I am having sex with? Arindin.
You say you're an oap. If the husband discovers your chats/video calls, he will kick the woman out of the house and put you on full blast. No matter how low budget you are, there's no sense in messing with another man's wife. When he finds out, he can have you killed. This your experiment is a very stupid one.

Don't scatter these women's families
RomanceRe: MY EX And Large Percent Of Naija Girls by Dimaya: 12:35pm On Jul 23, 2023
SPRINCE001:
I know some may say I am jobles, No I am not.

I work as a journalist and O.A.P on radio and lives fine at my age.

Guy's, I swear I did all these just to confirm something about these OKAFORS LAW I have been hearing about on NAIRALAND and in street. MAY I NEVER SEE ANYTHING THAT WIKL LEAD ME INTO SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED WOMAN IN JESUS NAME.

Please what could be the issue with most of our Nigeria ladies, What's is really happening.

So if truly i wanted to have sex with these women(ex) that's how I would have slpet with them.

Could it be that,it's because I am a Low budget celebrity on radio? Or it's just about their lifestyle to cheat?

NOTE::😞😞 Those exes that told me they now have serious relationship still meet up with me ooo and I do knack those ones with no remorse.
RIP English
RomanceRe: MY EX And Large Percent Of Naija Girls by Dimaya: 11:43am On Jul 23, 2023
If you don't stop sleeping with other people's wives, what happened to the guy in this video will happen to you




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPfBJDqUY4o
RomanceRe: The Last Temptation by Dimaya:
The Last Temptation

He suffered setbacks after having sex with his ex. Hard to watch


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPfBJDqUY4o

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