These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.
I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.
I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.
Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.
He was probably raised by a feminist mother. Enjoy what you raised alone! Man child!
just look at how foolish young men of nowadays are just insulting their fellow man dismantled by an evil female beast. The evil woman must be hanged , drawn and quattered and her private part and breast cut off!
generationz: Lol, I saw 1Billion Million naira. This is coming from the chambers of a so called SAN.
Dbanj is a clown. First, you sue the girl for 100Million naira to silence her now 1 billion to make her cower in fear.
The most important thing for any sane celebrity right now would be to clear his name and get a public apology but he keeps increasing the money knowing fully well the girl can't pay just to intimidate her.
The way Dapo is going about this issue, he is exposing himself that he is really scared.
I don't believe the girl will win except she has strong evidence but I believe she is telling the truth.
Some men will quote me now accusing me of supporting her without proof but they are supporting dbanj here without proof too. We all have a right to believe whoever we want to.
If you quote me to throw insults, thunder will fire you.
Edited: For the people quoting me, show me where i said going to court was wrong on dbanjs part? It's good to read well before commenting.
You that is a lesbian rapist, how many of your victims have you destroyed their lives, shattering their innocence and causing them irreversible emotional and physical trauma? Otondo lesbian shegoat, it your girl was right and has evidence to prove her allegations, suing her for 500 trillion will not stop her from winning or make her scared! You are the one that is scared because you know that an evil opportunist like you is about to be taken down megally!
Osagyefo98: On Thursday, a portentous National Executive Committee meeting of the All Progressives Congress (APC) was held in the Federal Executive Council chamber of the Presidential Villa leaving in its wake some controversies. In this piece, YUSUF ALLI, Managing Editor, Northern Operation, revisits the pre-meeting intrigues, the drama at the session and the post-NEC politics.
THE ATMOSPHERE BEFORE THE NEC MEETING
The usual taciturn gaze, President Muhammadu Buhari kept everyone guessing whether or not the controversial National Executive Committee (NEC) meeting will hold or not on the direction which the All Progressives Congress (APC) was headed. While the self-styled former Acting National Chairman, Victor Giadom, was overwhelmed with braggadocio, all APC leaders were waiting for the body language of Buhari to manifest. The cat was eventually let out of the bag by the emerging multi-purpose and politicized Senior Special Assistant to the President on Media and Publicity, Mallam Garba Shehu, who seems to have his hand on the till in Villa politics. Armed with his common linguistic fragrance during any testy moment, Shehu confirmed on Wednesday that the President would attend the NEC meeting. From his interface with the media in the last one week, the presidential aide left no one in doubt that he knew where the pendulum would swing beforehand but he kept it to his heart. It was evident he was aware of all the scheming of the Cabal, the antics of anti- Adams Oshiomhole’s governors / forces and the President’s mindset.
On Tuesday when Governor Kayode Fayemi visited the Villa for the second time in the day, he purportedly pleaded with State House Press Corps not to report his presence at dusk and there was a blackout in line with the media script. Although Fayemi only intended to reduce media feast on APC crisis, the leakage of his plea assumed political dimension. Also, the leak made some anti-Oshiomhole governors to change tactics on Wednesday by using different gate to enter the Villa to perfect their strategies for the APC NEC meeting and avoid the prying eyes of newsmen. And on Thursday, there was unwritten media advisory that the details of the NEC meeting must not be reported until the session was over.
Also, plans by some governors to meet with Buhari before the NEC meeting were unsuccessful.
The governors, who are pro-Adams Oshiomhole, had scheduled a session with the President for 11am but they had no access.
It was learnt that the anti-Oshiomhole governors were behind the blockade.
Some of those who wanted to see the President were Abdullahi Ganduje (Kano), Gboyega Oyetola (Osun), Babajide Sanwoolu (Lagos), Hope Uzodinma (Imo), Dapo Abiodun (Ogun), Abdulrahman Abdularazaq and others.
A governor said: “We felt we were deliberately blocked from having an audience with the President by some of our colleagues peddling influence in the Presidential Villa.
“This was part of the game on Thursday. They did not want the President to have a second opinion on the state of affairs of the party.”
Prior to these, the Villa had witnessed many advisory shuttles in the last six days. The Chairman of the National Assembly, Dr. Ahmad Lawan (who is also the President of the Senate) was with the President on Sunday; the Attorney-General of the Federation, Abubakar Malami (SAN) allegedly led a team of six legal giants (Senior Advocates of Nigeria) to give legal advice to the President; and anti-Oshiomhole governors, (including Atiku Bagudu (Kebbi), Simon Lalong (Plateau) and Abubakar Badaru (Jigawa), on Monday submitted their position to the President. None of the forces either encouraged or allowed the President to hear from the other side of the crisis at hand. And having been associates of the President for years, Buhari had no cause to doubt their pretentiously honest advice.
A top source said: “There was a plot before plot in the Villa by some governors to regain the control of the party and shape the direction of 2023 politics in APC. Some of these forces actually worked in connivance with some kitchen cabinet members and some strategic persons closer to the President. They formed a ring around the Villa to shut out pro-Oshiomhole colleagues.
“And they succeeded in winning over the President who eventually accepted their arguments and opted to attend the NEC meeting. I think those governors and ministers behind the appointment of a Caretaker Committee covertly behaved like Young Turks who moved against Ottoman Empire in 1908. They surreptitiously aligned their hidden agenda with the desires of the President, especially his refrain of “I belong to everybody, I belong to nobody. I think they are long distance runners because they have been on this APC agenda in the last 15 months.
“What aided them most was COVID-19 pandemic which forced pro-Oshiomhole governors to stay mostly in their political domains. Being products of the cabal, the plotters have unfettered access to the Villa.”
The source confirmed that it was at one of the Villa sessions that the decisions reached at the NEC meeting were compiled.
ISSUES AT STAKE IN APC AHEAD OF THE NEC MEETING
The crisis in APC has triggered many litigations and contradicting court rulings and judgments. There were cases of abuse of ex-parte injunctions too in some instances. The pronouncements of the court in Abuja, Kano, Lagos, Port Harcourt, Benin and others have put a stain on the progressive and democratic credentials of some APC leaders. Both the Federal High Court and the High Court of the Federal Capital Territory became the shopping centres of political judgments and rulings. One of the court orders made the erstwhile Deputy National Secretary, Victor Giadom, Acting National Chairman of APC when he was not the plaintiff before the court, even when the plaintiff denied applying for any order to make Giadom the Acting National Chairman, there was no reversal
The Chief Judge of the Federal High Court, Justice John Tsoho, felt worried and he had to revalidate a previous warning. He said: “It is of common knowledge that elections will be held in some states in Nigeria in the nearest future.
“The normal party conventions and primaries with attendant political manoeuvring have already commenced amongst various political parties, which very often culminate in the institution of cases in the courts. In this regard, your lordships are strongly advised not to grant ex-parte injunctive orders in any political matter brought before your lordships. Furthermore, your lordships are equally advised not to entertain matters of which the course of action had arisen from outside your judicial divisions.”
Heating up of the polity over the retention or the removal of the suspended National Chairman, Comrade Adams Oshiomhole
In the last seven months, the crisis in APC has caused much tension in the country to the extent that a party expected to bring change was in charge of change. Governors, who were hitherto united, became foes. Many cells sprang up in APC following recourse to their pre-merger fault lines. Slight matters were seen in the light of the cells or camps a leader belongs to. Some forces in the party felt Oshiomhole was no longer loyal to the party but to his benefactors.
Polarization of the NWC. Out of 20 members, 17 were on one side, two (Giadom and the National Vice Chairman (North-East), Comrade Mustapha Salihu, moved decisively against Oshiomhole and one was floating in anticipation of a slip which could make him the National Chairman of the party, Alleged relegation of the governors, Edo crisis and Governor Obaseki’s factor. Although the Progressive Governors Forum is not a statutory organ of the party, its political, moral and financial muscles are weighty. The governors were excited that one of them was elected as the National Chairman in 2018 but the anticipated leverage and concessions, including the determination of the direction of issues in the party at all levels and nomination of candidates for 2019 poll. There was a total breakdown of trust between Oshiomhole (who wanted to do things differently) and the governors who sought to maintain the status quo. The technical loss of Zamfara State and Rivers State to the opposition PDP was an unpardonable sin listed against Oshiomhole. The adamant posture of Oshiomhole on the governors’ demand for the Right of First Refusal for their colleagues, Obaseki and Akeredolu, who were seeking second term ticket, triggered the revolt in APC. It was easier to co-opt first term governors into anti-Oshiomhole’s campaign. But Governor Babagana Zulum stood out as a governor who could die for Oshiomhole for giving him the governorship ticket on merit without collecting bribes.
Politics of 2023 and power shift. Some forces in APC, with their eyes on the presidential ticket in three years’ time, do not want Oshiomhole. Those nursing presidential ambition or whose political life felt threatened by the continued stay of Oshiomhole are Governors Atiku Bagudu; Kayode Fayemi; Rotimi Akeredolu; Yahaya Bello; Nasiru el-Rufai; Abubakar Badaru; Simon Lalong, among others. They alleged that Oshiomhole was beholding to the National Leader of APC, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, who crowned him as APC National Chairman. Some of these governors have political disdain for Tinubu for no just cause. They are determined to curtail his influence at all cost. Part of the dummy they sold to the President in 2019 was that without Tinubu, they can win the South-West. Power shift. Since it is inevitable for power to shift to the South in 2023, some Northern elements are still routing for a President from the North because of alleged inherent 12million votes of Buhari in the region. They said with 25 per cent votes in at least 24 states, any political leader from the North can win a presidential election. A former governor from the North said: “Let me tell you the truth, the underlying factor for the removal of Oshiomhole is the desperation of some governors from the North-West to succeed Buhari. How on earth will a Northerner be thinking of taking over from Buhari? “And any time we ask them to put Nigeria first, they have always said it is doable for another Northerner to succeed Buhari. They are already following this path without Buhari suspecting their plot to set this nation on fire.”
WHAT TRANSPIRED AT THE MEETING
On Thursday, APC entered a new phase in its seven-year old history when it held a virtual NEC meeting at the Villa with some members, including governors, boycotting and others merely fulfilling all righteousness to defer to the Office of the President. It was an emotional session where the fate of the suspended National Chairman of APC, Comrade Adams Oshiomhole, and his National Working Committee (NWC) members was determined. But President Muhammadu Buhari kept to his script and did not throw it open for debate in order to avoid another rancour. There was however a tinge of drama at the session after the President announced the dissolution of the National Working Committee. It was learnt that the self-imposed Acting National Chairman, Giadom, was rattled when the Speaker of the House of Representatives, Rt. Hon. Femi Gbajabiamila, gave him a birthday gift by asking him to step aside since he was no longer an NWC member.
Another reliable NEC member said the decisions of the organ at the Presidential Villa to put a Caretaker Committee in place were premeditated.
The source said the meeting had no agenda but President Muhammadu Buhari only read out some recommendations which became binding on NEC members.
The source said: “We were shocked that there was no agenda. All the decisions purportedly agreed at the NEC session were from a meeting held on Wednesday by some anti-Oshiomhole governors and others.
“The President just came in with their recommendations. We thought they were going to throw issues open for debate as expected in a democratic setting but there was nothing like that.
“The plot was already signed and sealed to the consternation of everybody.”
“It was an ambush”, one of the party leaders at the meeting said.
The NEC member also added that Giadom got more than he bargained for from the Speaker of the House of Representatives. He added: “Speaker Femi Gbajabiamila was the only person who raised a Point of Order at the meeting. He said based on law and APC Constitution, there was no basis for Giadom to continue to preside over the NEC meeting after the NWC has been dissolved.
“The President concurred and quipped, “Oh yes, you are right.” This earned instant applause from NEC members. The President directed and the Chairman of the Caretaker Committee, Governor Mai Mala Buni, to immediately take over.
“Giadom later left. Even after the NEC Meeting, he joined Governors Bagudu and Buni to brief the press but he could not be part of the session because he had no locus again. He later left the briefing hall with his personal assistant.”
WHAT BUHARI SAID
For the second time in about six months, Buhari used the NEC session to warn about the path of self-destruct which APC was treading. He announced the following steps which he felt could restore sanity. They are:
immediate discontinuation of all pending litigations involving the party and its members; ratifying the primary election conducted in Edo State; dissolving the current National Working Committee, and appointing Caretaker/Extra-ordinary Convention Planning Committee. The President said: “The directive had been issued before, unfortunately some members failed to heed the directive. Thus, at this time, it must be made a Resolution of the Party which must be effectively enforced with dire consequences for members who choose to ignore the directive.”
“We must be alive to the time and the task that is before us. As we all know, we are immediately confronted with the upcoming gubernatorial elections in Edo and Ondo states. Therefore, this is the time to get our acts together.
“Fellow party members, this is a very crucial moment in the life of our party and it is with a deep sense of concern that I stand before you today to speak as the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria who has been elected on the platform of our great party – the All Progressives Congress.
“The issues currently confronting our party at this time are such that should worry every party member. At the moment, our great party is faced with internal wrangling; there are on-going litigations amongst some party members and we cannot clearly ascertain the status of certain National Working Committee (NWC) members.
“There are other associated disputes as to the legitimacy or otherwise of holders of certain National Offices of the Party. The Party is also contending with Judicial claims and counter-claims, orders and counter-orders and indeed judgments and counter-judgments that are predominantly at cross-purposes.
“Confronted with these issues, it is obvious that the fortunes of the party are currently in jeopardy, administration of our party is becoming impossible and there is consequently an urgent need for intervention to immediately arrest further drifts and internal wrangling which may lead to total disintegration.
“What we see clearly emerging is that we are beginning to self-destruct. This, my dear party members, is not just regrettable but utterly gut-wrenching.”
WHAT BUHARI LEFT UNDONE
Most leaders of the APC were in disbelieve that the President opted to obey a court order which asked Giadom to act as the National Chairman of APC without taking into consideration a similar order from a court with coordinate jurisdiction. A Rivers State High Court sitting in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, on June 18, restrained the former Deputy National Secretary of the All Progressives Congress, Victor Giadom, from Acting as the National Chairman of the party. Justice Florence Fiberesima also granted an order of perpetual injunction restraining Giadom from parading himself as a member of the National Working Committee of the APC
Also, the President gave much latitude to anti-Oshiomhole governors without hearing from pro-Oshiomhole governors who were shielded or frustrated from seeing him. He might not know what was going on behind the curtains but since APC was an amalgam of parties, some leaders of the party ought to have been consulted before arriving at any decision. A Senator said: “The President should realise that APC stands on a tripod, we all have a stake. Consultations should be broadminded.”
Despite his plans on how to resolve the APC crisis, the President should have also asked for input from NEC members on the options available to the party. Maybe his decisions could have been richer. The NEC session was bereft of a democratic setting. The entire NWC was not consulted but it was dissolved by the President.
Explorers: Two out of three sisters who killed their 'rapist' father after suffering years of sexual abuse and torture at his hands must stand trial for premeditated murder, Russian authorities have said.
Mikhail Khachaturyan, a 57-year-old alleged mafia boss, was killed with his own hunting knife and a hammer by his daughters Krestina, Angelina and Maria then aged 19, 18 and 17 in 2018 in what their supporters say was an act of self-defence.
The three sisters say they acted in self-defence when they killed their divorced father after suffering years of toture and rape.
Pictured here with two of the girls when they were younger.
The girls are lying! Stop believing anything oh read assholes! Because tomorrow, a girl can kill and claim rape! What is wrong with some men self! Haba! Those girls should been thrown into jail!
Toks2008: Well, the simple answer anybody will give is a resounding NO....but should a man marry a lady who has no job?... I guess that is a norm but wait for this...what if a lady marries a man with a job and then the man losses the job afterward?...will she leave him?.... Now you thinking...
Don't get it twisted...it makes no sense for any man to go into marriage without a job or a means of livelihood especially when a man’s potential is harder to see than the number of commas on his bank statement forgetting the fact that wealth acquisition is progressive, a continuum aided by hard work and determination...
I strongly believe that the reason why there is so much emphasis on a man's financial status as a criterion for marital suitability is because of the financial dependence mindset of many ladies on their men. In my opinion, when it comes to making money, there is no weaker sex hence I see nothing wrong with a lady who has a job or means of livelihood getting married to her man even if he has no job at that point in time...Job will always come and there is no guaranty that the one who has a job won't lose it. A lady who finds it cool dating a man that has no job and happily performs wifely duties for him should not have issues with marrying the same man? Simply have a low key wedding and work hard together with him to build finances before making babies rather than allow yourself to be used as an intimacy gadget by the ''jobless guy''.
Ladies have equal opportunity to be financially independent just as the men and every lady must strive to be financially independent so that she can be with any man of her choice rather than marry a man simply because he is financially capable and also avoid using a job which can be there today and be gone tomorrow or financial status which is subject to change as a yardstick to being with any man.
I love how you raise issues that make people think. If you say a man should only date or marry when he has a job, then what happens when he loses the job as a married man? The wife should now leave him because he is jobless? Having a job for the man is not a prerequisite condition for marriage. It is a fallacy, invented by funny people!
simplexity: Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.
My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.
The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.
Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.
It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.
Should I report to the police or what? Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.
Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused
Transparent: In what we come across on the Internet, Some beautiful photos of a female carpenter and Instagram Socialite have been spotted on Instagram.
The female proud carpenter who is identified as Adzigbi Nana Ama Esime Comfort is a Ghanaian lady causing confusion on Instagram.
About some days ago, the video of the Instagram Socialite went viral on the platform.
In the video, she could be seen Twerking to a song while cleaning the window.
As usual, there were massive reactions on the clip she uploaded.
However, from what we gathered, The Instagram Socialite is not really the type that twerk or dance anyhow but I guess she does that to attract more customers to her profession.
Meanwhile, We have some photos of her here and we believe you might love to see her.
LadySarah: Demonic perversions! Wetin I no see for boarding school that yr.Breeding ground for homosexuals. You will be sleeping and be hearing moaning or is it the social nights for only senior girls.
If not for family's prayers and determination.
But why are you women very easily deceived into lesbianism? It is so easy to decieve ladies into lesbianism. So easy!
BeautifulWoman: I was curious for many years about my sexuality if I was a lesbian, bisexual, or straight. At a point, I fell in love with both a lady and a man. I liked the company and warmth of a girlfriend but also enjoy the strength and safety that comes with a male.
I am happy I chose one lifestyle and my heart is free.
You chose lesbian that's why you didn't mention the exact orientation you settled for! Your own stabbing is coming soon! Idiot!
PrecioussB: I am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating maybe because of some failed relationships, I rather stay on my own.
I remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. Ealking to the store, met some guys you know how they toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly replied i have one or just joke along.
Now I'm thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but don't have the strength.
Shouldn't I enjoy all those things now before I start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.
You are coded hardcore lesbian and you masturbate a lot! You can lie all you want but the truth cannot ever be changed!
I have a little problem and it's really killing me.
As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.
Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.
But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.
Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.
She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.
I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.
I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.
Please any advice?
Sorry to say this, but your younger sister is already a hardcore lesbian!
That's just unfortunate! Did she attend an all girls secondary school? That's where most of them pick up this life. And they are all unable to stop!
Let me shock you, an Honorable member got married to a hardcore lesbian without knowing it in Abuja. But he noticed something unusual. The wife was always very happy anytime he is travelling and wont be back for a few days! Initially, he was happy somehow that his wife is not the too clingy type. And she has this female friend she refers to as her bestie who will come around even before he travels. And anytime her female friend is around, his wife who doesn't talk much will instantly become animated and excited. He didn't pay too much attention to these things. Lest I forget, he also realized that his wife prefers watching lesbians scenes in a porn video by far more than normal male to female sex! As a newly married couple, sometimes, they watch porn together to get in the mood. And madam love pussy licking die!
How did his world shatter?
One lazy lousy day he decided to watch and review his CCTV footages. He was just alone in the house and bored to death.
My brother, words cannot adequately describe his shock when he saw his beloved wife fucccking two women at once! He was transfixed as he saw several amorous scenes with three women and he immediately recognized one of the women as his wife's bestie! He saw his beloved wife furiously licking a pregnant woman's pussy and at the same time fingering her best friends pussy with her free hand. His world stopped cold!
My brother, it is already too late. Your beloved sister is already a lesbian!
Confront her and show her the lesbian porn links she download in your phone. Accuse her of being a lesbian straight to her face. She will deny it vehemently! That is how they do. They lie a lot! But stand your ground and she will break down and gradually reveal the truth to you. Then you can now counsel her. But that doesn't mean that she will stop. She will never stop! Well, most never stop, they only become more secretive.
Gjrich: Before you start ascribing blames to any one over the gunshots in Aso Rock, you need to know what truly transpired in Aso Rock between the First Lady, First Family, Aso Rock Security, Chief Security Officer to the President and the President’s Personal Assistant, Yusuf on the 12th of June, 2020.
It all started when the Personal Assistant, Secretary and Cousin of President Buhari, Mr. Sabiu Yusuf returned from a journey from Lagos State to the Presidential Villa, Aso Rock. The problem started when two of the most powerful relations of the President started checking power, a power tussle. The Wife of the President, who holds the key to the President’s heart and partly his life and the deepest vein of the President, his cousin who is at the same time his Personal Assistant and even his Personal Secretary, created a scene at the Villa last night.
Returning back from the trip, the President’s Wife Aisha Buhari and three of the President’s children; Zahra, Halima and Yusuf together with some security personnel led by the Aide-de-Camp of Aisha Buhari, Mr. Usman Shuabu, kindly went to Mr. Sabiu Yusuf, who just arrived from an interstate journey, just to spend the weekend alongside some five girls from Daura, Kano and Abuja, was kindly asked to self quarantined himself in his residence inside the Villa so as to protect the lives of everyone; the President’s inclusive.
Aisha Buhari enjoins him to do this because she, Aisha Buhari believes that he, Yusuf may have unknowingly contracted the virus because she has Intel that Mr. Yusuf had met with some of the contacts of the late Former Group Managing Director of Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, Mr. Maikanti Baru, who recently died of COVID-19 complications. The President was in the villa and the First Family must do everything in their power to make sure his health is not compromised; also the Security Personnel’s top priority is to protect the First Family, majorly the President. Thus, they told Mr. Yusuf to go and self quarantine himself away from the Presidential Villa. Instead, Mr. Yusuf, who is absolutely, one of the richest youths and definitely the most powerful youth in Nigeria today, decided to wave away the instructions and forced his way into the Presidential Villa to see the President.
The First Family, especially the First Lady became so angered owing to the way Mr. Yusuf defied her order and primarily the NCDC’S which states that anyone who has traveled interstate, should compulsorily self quarantine. The First Lady then told some securities of the First Family, to forcefully, if need be, show Mr. Yusuf his way out of the Villa.
The scenario birthed a heated argument as the Personal Assistant to the President, Mr. Yusuf claims that his wife just delivered in Lagos and he had to go see her. Moreover, he claims he was not the only one who travels to Lagos, in defiance to the interstate lockdown order. Mr. Yusuf tells the first lady that, she knows that the new Chief of Staff, Prof. Ibrahim Gambari does travel to Lagos State, virtually every weekend. Yet, he was the only one that was victimized of the accusation.
Still, all force was applied on him and when he showed too much adamancy, the ADC of the First Lady, Usman Shuagba, in an attempt to apprehend Mr. Yusuf and throw him out of the Villa, allegedly fired a gunshot, which cause disarray in the Villa. As for Mr. Yusuf, he quickly finds his way of the Villa and immediately went to the Inspector General of Police, Mr. Adamu Muhammed to report the incident, which later led to the arrest of the ADC of the First Lady.
Currently, all the securities of the First Family who were involved in the gun violence had been nabbed by the Federal Police Force and they are in the Police Cell. They were all arrested based on a principle in their code of duty that no matter the provocation, firing the gunshots in the Presidency Constitutes a “Security breach”, which they are guilty of. The wife of the President has taken to her twitter account to ask for the release of her securities.
In your own pool of opinions, based on the exclusive information that you have consumed on what truly transpired in the Aso Rock, between the Powerful Forces from different tents, the Tent of the First Family, which constitutes the wife, children and securities of the President and the Tent of the onerous Man, most powerful youth in Nigeria, who at the same time is a Cousin to the president, a Personal Assistant and a Personal Secretary of the President. Which tent do you think is at fault? The First Family’s Tent who applied force which later resulted to gun violence to protect the lives of the Residents of the Villa, including the President or the Personal Assistant and Secretary of the President, Mr. Yusuf who breaks a lockdown order on the basis that his wife allegedly gave birth in Lagos, which the First Lady seems to dispute as he was accused of spending the weekend with some girls from the aforementioned states and haven met the contacts of a Former Coronavirus Patient, refused to self quarantine himself when he got back?
Drop your comments below; let’s know who is at fault.
Is this even a question to ponder? Na wa for una oh!
1, Who is Aisha Buhari to give orders to the Presidents appointee? Is she even elected? The best she could have done if she really had the Presidents health at heart was to reach out to her husband. 2, Is Aisha Buhari now an Official of NCDC to determine who should be quarantined or not? Couldn't she have reached out to somebody else to do this? 3 From the foregoing, it appears that she does not have the husbands confidence. Which says a lot about her character. That woman is just too immature.
In all these Aisha Buhari is 100% wrong and make no mistake about this. It is not about the President's health, this is all about control/political control. She is not in any way enjoying her husband's confidence.
phelonrays: Magistrates’ Court sitting in the Yaba area of Lagos has acquitted and discharged a 15-year-old girl accused of murdering her father’s 51-year-old friend who tried to rape her
Made4naijalove: A Nigerian lady has attracted attention on social media after being seen in a viral video getting a tattoo of her boyfriend's name on her face.
The lady who reportedly did this to prove her love to her boyfriend, had "Anjola my love" written on her face by the tattoo artist.
ZeroShenanigan: I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.
As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.
I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.
Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result. From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.
My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.
Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments. After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.
During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby. I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.
I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler. Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?
Did I hear you well? A woman threatened to divorce you and you collapsed into her scheme? Haba na!
OritaIbadan: I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women. Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did. After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend. I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter? Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it
This just goes to show you that most young men of nowadays are very basic they are not decerning at all. One look and your wife knew she was faking it! But you otondo couldn't notice a thing! That is how most of young men of nowadays marry lesbians without knowing! And start suffering in marriage! Imagine a smart woman fucking 5 different fools and all of them thinks she is loyal! Because they are all so distracted by her pussy and breasts to use their senses properly. Idiots!
Back to the topic. Why dont you want to come out and admit that you want to Bleep the girl too? If not what is your business?
So I decided to test my faith with my girlfriend i have been dating for 6month now, this girl have all the quality of what any good wife should posses, she do keep very little friends around her and she's not to exposed to worldly can of life maybe because her mom is a pastor her mom own her own church, am not saying my girlfriend is a church type of girl, she doesn't even go to her mom church. she has been into two other relationships before we started dating. she's spoilt to an extend and very beautiful girl. I would say the relationship is still at the early stage because of distance between us.
She stay in Abuja and also school there, while am schooling in owerri, she's 21 years old am 24. we started dating prior to the coronia saga, I couldn't travel to Abuja because I wanted to, so all we do is to chart on social Media and call each other.
I sincerely love this girl and i have intention to marry her when am settled, I also want to marry early. am also not left out with the love she do show me very caring, sometimes I feel am been tripped, I have even intended breaking up twice with her not that she did something, I was just feeling maybe because of the distance it might not work, although it wasn't possible because she won't see reasons in any thing am saying, she would always come up with the talk of doing something to nasty to her self if I should break up with her, always calling and begging saying She's sick bla bla bla.. When ever she do stuffs like this I always see my self crewing back to her
Knowing fully well my intention is to marry her, but still haven't told her all my plains I have for her She is a virgin with morals even though she came from a broken home her dad doesn't live with her mom, so its been the mom and her step dad training her and her siblings.
I Decided to bring up the topic with bae last night knowing fully well she's a virgin. i haven't had any decisions with her about our sex life before, yesterday night would be the first time for about six month we started dating, she wasn't comfortable with the question's I was throwing at her though, I was a different me yesterday night
ThankGod I got to know her stand which didn't go down well with me, this same girl doesn't hesitate to ask me for money when ever she's of need and I do give her and now see what she's saying.. You guys should help me settle this matter Am already thinking of braking up again
Some girls doesn't deserve to be in any relationship
She is a Lesbian, she is just manipulating by of for money. Thank me later.
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithwful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground . S Thoughts??
Otondo! Please leave him oh, so that that he can be free! Go and look for a man that has money because it is no longer about love which you hypocritically professed for him but all about money!
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