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Scientists:
Sorry if i board you with long story. Just Be very careful when you are helping. If not for that military guy, i would have lost.

She was wasting my time so as night will draw near then me because of the money I withdrew, will the leave that one for her in fear of Armed robbers

Serve you right! If it has been a man that approached you for help, I am very sure that you will never help him!
How I wish she succeeded!

lalasticlala:
Ivanka Trump's personal assistant has tested positive for the coronavirus, according to a report by CNN

This comes after a President Trump's valet and Mike Pence's press secretary also contracted the virus.



Source: https://edition.cnn.com/2020/05/08/politics/donald-trump-staffers-coronavirus/index.html

There is a plot to kill the President by seeding all his unassuming aides wit the virus, in the hope that the virus will eventually get to the President and kill him.

jumia1:
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/11570696/inside-hotel-thailand-king-coroanvirus-lockdown-20-girlfriends/amp/

Royal Idiots!

Genesils:
You can't figure out what that is?
If she deletes chats... She's not loyal... She's not faithful.
She's got a sideman

Must it be a side man? Most of the girls are lesbians! Another girl is seriously sucking her pussy!

nairapark:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/pregnant-woman-kills-husband-over-phone-call-in-nasarawa/amp/

Nobody should be surprised! Since courts in the land headed by foolish idiotic and cursed judges has been setting women murderers free the incidence of women killing their husband has been on the increase!

Those judges has just emboldened women to kill !

Clap for yourselves asshole judges!

bukatyne:
You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.

no!no!no!! it is not well. Op if you dont divorce that woman, you will die early and she will rejoice over your demise!

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

Foolish very very foolish women! Now see how you are responding very gently, you are also part of the problem. Let me make it clear trying to be a gentleman with women do not work all the time. Sometimes you have to be a Tiger. No woman I am dating can make such offhanded accusations against me and the relationship remain the same afterwards!

Now you see that most women are are demons in female clothing!

Whatever you do, do not allow the accusations to lie fallow.

let her know that she crossed a line.

that will be the end of it.

zakim:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/nigerian-troops-eliminate-134-terrorists-apprehend-16-informants-in-borno-dhq.html

Nonsense and ingredients! Bring back the Chadians!

It depends on how much they will pay me for the sex. And it must be with condom!

nairaobserver2:
The wife wrote;


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https://www.nairafame.com/2020/05/fashion-designer-husband-trends-after.html

If you see how many lesbians are salivating at the sight of this woman, Walahi, you go shock!

SlayQueenIG:
How sure are you?

Leg chain or is it leg Chains!

SlayQueenIG:
BiancaMathew

Heavy lesbian!

Give me girl no 2. Best experience possible

olabrinks:
im already married. Thanks and love.

No, you are not. And you know it.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

And your wife never poisoned you all these years?

Anyways, thank God you have decided to retrace your steps. For those who feels that his motives for retracing his steps are not genuine enough, remember that the prodigal son only remembered home when his money finished and he started eating with pigs! If it was in todays society some people will try to convince God not to welcome the prodigal Son back.

Back to our modern day prodigal son. O boy na woman and kids you offend so it is going to be a lot difficult to win their love back!

Meanwhile winning their love back should not be your focus for now. Your focus for now is concentrating on being the best husband you can be to your wife and the best father you can be to your kids.

Dont say anything to anybody, just change.

Take your kids out with your wife.

Enter the bathroom together with your wife, bath her thoroughly, wash every part of her body. No kissing and no sex. Just care take her to bed.
Then take them out to any nice eatery or Garden let them enjoy themselves.

Buy gifts for your wife.

When she asks you why, just tell her she is a queen and deserves the best gifts money can buy. Dont ask for forgiveness, just change.

With time maybe after three months, you will now make your moves and formally apologize to everyone.

Why I said that you should not apologize first is that they will suspect that it is a ploy to get them lower their guard so you strike.

just treat them very nice, and gradually they will come to accept and forgive you in their hearts.

fulaniHERDSman:

Oga the only thing you deserve is to buy sniper and swallow. U r not fit to live.
You didn't repent. You got played and then remembered home. Just go hang pls

Fulani Heardsman, the Sniper is for you, drink it and die!

olabrinks:
When I see what some women go through in the name of being a wife, I thank God for my life. God forbid bad thing.

The only reason why you’re going back to your wife is because your side chick has failed you. You are a disgrace please. Your wife will have the last laugh in Jesus name. God will heal her wounds and place her above all her enemies.

Yes, she may forgive you, but you must definitely face the consequences for your actions.

You are an evil woman with a horrible heart. may you never marry in Jesus name, Amen.

bolaayenimo:
https://www.independent.ng/how-obasekis-former-chief-of-staff-was-blackmailed-into-resigning-from-office/

Taiwo Akerele, Yorubas and betrayals!

Lordsonn:
Greetings to you all. I want to go straight to the point. I opened this account because of my marital problems.

From the day I met my wife, she was after marriage. In less than two weeks of meeting her, she started pressurizing me to meet her family members which I succumbed to.

These are what she told me at the beginning of the relationship:

1) She had HND from Kaduna Polytechnics
2) She has Diploma in Computer Science
3) She is a professional cake baker
4) She was three months pregnant
5) That she was 27 years

My discoveries after marriage:

1) She doesn’t have any HND, infact no good WAEC result
2) She cannot even connect laptop to printer and print. She don’t know much about computer at all.
3) She doesn’t know how to bake cake. I discovered that the cake I asked her to bake for me, she gave the contract to her friend.
4) She was never pregnant. She had fibroid and that made her tummy big
5) She was 33 years.

NOTE: the reasons why I believed all she told me at the beginning was because she was a prophetess in her church. She speaks in tongues and prophesy many times and most of the prophecies came to pass.

I was even surprised that in less than two weeks of our relationship, she made move for sex and we started having sex. I did not even think of pre-marital sex because I thought she was a holy woman.

The problems after marriage: several people began to beg me to forgive her and continue with the marriage. I find it difficult but she was still living in my house. I was just being forced my her family and her family members persuaded some of my family members to beg me too. I tried to love her but hatred for her was just building in my heart.

The fibroid surgery was successfully done and she got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I thought the coming of the child may make me to forgive her but I could not recover from her betrayal. I even hate her more.

She wrote WAEC last session and got nine credits but the memory of her betrayal is giving me a lot of psychological trauma. I love an educated woman and cannot see myself glued to an illiterate woman in the name of marriage.

Major problems that made me sent her out:

1) She refused to go to my church. She always want to go to her church and even want me to join her there which I refused.
2) She doesn’t like education at all. She hate going to school and will never carry book to read.
3) Anytime I have disagreement with her, she will call her elder brother. And they will come and talk to me, sometimes in a very condescending manner
4) She is not submissive, very arrogant and talks with anger, authoritatively.
5) She is a societal woman, she loves joining several associations of women and be going to meetings every sunday which I don't like.
6) She value clothes more than human being. She can use any money from the family purse to buy Hollandis, lase, George etc just to dress to her church for show off. I am introvert but she is extremely extrovert.

I sent her out of my house three weeks ago. She is trying to come back in the disguise that she doesn’t want her child to be only one, that it will make the child suffer in the future but I told her I cannot allow her to my house again. I love my little child and I cannot live with such a woman who is full of lies and pretense. I just have hatred for such kind of people.

What do you think I should do?

The only way you have peace is if you divorce her! Forget any other thing else you hear here. If you dont divorce her, you will live the rest of your life in regrets! And that is If you are even alive to tell the story. A word is enough for the wise.

This is stupidity at all levels! Whats the money for? Is that the money to Bleep her or what? Young men of nowadays are just so foolish! Imagine paying 150K to eat Davidos leftover or is it speak with Davidos leftovers!

Stephenomozzy:
Go beg for giveaway joor.. Don't vent your frustration on me. Rubbish

Wasn't expecting anything reasonable by way of answer from you, seeing how your brain is filled with stinking pussy!

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Na una type women dey stab to death! Ugly, low esteem man who has sold his integrity, self worth, intelligence to pussy!

Imagine trying to win back a serial cheat!

May your wife continually cheat on you until you kpeme from your stupidity!
Foolish idiot!

WalkerMichael:
windscribe. type on google and download to your pc. currently using it

please did you download to chrome or windows?

O boy I love your book. Don't be discouraged by the response from most men here. They are just jealous! Yeah you heard it, most men are jealous of the success, intelligence of other men!

They attack men who are more successful with women, they attack men who are more handsome than them!

If you doubt me, post a very handsome picture of yours here now. The next thing you will see is the same, jealous, ugly, insecure men will stat calling you names like, Gay, ugly etc!

So ignore them....

opportunes:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/if-boko-haram-leader-shekau-surrenders-we-will-accept-it-military.html

Know it Today, there is clearly a pact between Buratai and Shekau. Both are Kanuris! Shekau would have continued his pillaging if not for the brilliant Chadians. But now that the Chadians have embarrassed and exposed Nigerias incompetence, Buratai has nothing else to ddo but succumb to pressure to stop Shekau. Buratai is a businessman not a soldier.

BonPatrick:
Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.

She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?

So, to you a woman sending nude video to you shows you how much she loves you? Oh God, deliver young men of nowadays from foolishness!
Sending nude video is a sign of prostitution and waywardness not love, ode! And I bet you have been spending money to show your own love? Foolish fool!

Hackportal:
TRENDING VIDEO : Father Unleash Ultimate Anger On His Sons After Paying $21k Tuition Only For Them To Fail Woefully In Exams.

Father infuriated his son didn’t show up for Maths and English exams, but passed music after he spent 21k USD on his education in Lusaka!

Twenty One thousand United States Dollars!
https://i1.wp.com/loadedpulse.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/IMG_20200422_233627.jpg

The results from the over $21k Zambia school – Maths and English showed absent.

https://i2.wp.com/loadedpulse.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/IMG_20200422_233646.jpg

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The kids also failed to write their Maths and English exams, and the school located in Lusaka, Zambia cost over $21,000.

click and Watch the video Below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QglFY1V86yk

https://loadedpulse.com/trending-video-father-unleash-ultimate-anger-on-his-sons-after-paying-21k-tuition-only-for-them-to-fail-woefully-in-exams/

I told you guys most male children these days are becoming more and more foolish and stupid! Go to social media, the same foolish son who can't pass anything will be busy defending women! Bunch of idiats!

Trayceey:
I should drop his number so u can ruin our relationship. Fool. Do u think I'm dumb like you? Gutter mouth

My dear you are not in any relationship with him. You are just deceiving him. Dump him and become a lesbian so you dont need to waste your money on any man . As a lesbian you can comfortably spend on your fellow woman and be happy since your problem is investing in men.

Please set the young man free so that he can meet someone who truly deserves his love. You know in your heart that you dont deserve him and that he deserves better.

May God never send anyone like you across my way.

Trayceey:
well. If u say so. Sent you a pm

For some reason PMs dont work for me... The email I used for it doesnt work anymore, just send it to this my email. barangresources80@gmail.com

Trayceey:
story.

Don't bother, just send it.
I don't want to waste my time arguing with you here, it will serve no useful purpose. Even if you give him now, it makes no sense, the heart of the giver is what God looks at. My first Contract after I left school was facilitated by a girlfriend, yeah you heard it, a girl friend. That job set me up to become who I am today.

Don't bother with your poisoned 40K.

If for anything I totally understand his situation, just sent it.

Please just send it.