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Food / Re: The Poor Meal Man Got In Ibadan N10k Per Night Hotel by DirtyGold: 6:59pm On Dec 04, 2020
Complimentary breakfast at that price in this economy is rich! They should have removed it quietly sef.
Go out to a nearby restaurant and they'll serve the same food but in a better plate grin grin

When airlines increased their fares and removed the complimentary snacks inflight because of covid, didn't we continue to fly?
Enjoy in peace and stop complaining.

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Education / Re: Man Calls Out Teacher Who Always Flogs, Vows Never To Forgive Him by DirtyGold: 6:34pm On Dec 04, 2020
I don't know why some teachers think they are gods - as if they invented the knowledge they are imparting.

I can read the pain from the write up and I can only recommend psychotherapy because issues like these need to be addressed.
IMAliyu:

Is therapy even a thing in this country?
There surely is. Ask in the right places and you will find it.

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Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Date This Guy? (pictures) by DirtyGold: 8:59am On Dec 04, 2020
And he'll be forming hard guy o... grin grin
Well, I'm not surprised at the underwear judging from the colour of his tshirt
He must have been raised by a very tough woman

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Romance / Re: Man's Money Humbles The Wife And Bring Peace To The Home by DirtyGold: 4:47pm On Dec 03, 2020
Marry a slay queen at you own peril
Nuff said!

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Business / Re: Two Bullion Vans Moving Cash Without Escort Impounded By Police by DirtyGold: 3:17pm On Dec 03, 2020
Operation share the money has been interrupted grin grin
And somebody will say there's no money in the country...

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Romance / Re: Reasons Why We Find It Hard To Be Faithful In Relationships by DirtyGold: 2:02pm On Dec 02, 2020
We live in a liberalized world and everybody has a smartphone. Women are free to do whatever they like now without shame (call it feminism)
Discipline isn't a strong personal trait people posses these days

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Celebrities / Re: Adetutu: "I Have Uterine Fibroid And I'm Scared Of Surgery" - Tribal Marks Model by DirtyGold: 8:47pm On Nov 30, 2020
Eyah... have the surgery once and for all
Stay strong

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Business / Re: Court To Restrain GTB From Deregistering As A LLC To Avoid ₦32 Billion Debt by DirtyGold: 6:03pm On Nov 30, 2020
GTB however rushed back to the Supreme Court and applied for an order setting aside the Supreme Court’s judgement dismissing its appeal against the above judgement. However, the Supreme Court struck out the motion on Tuesday, November 3rd, 2020.
Will GTBank return again to the supreme court and make the same appeal?
The lesson here is, never take anything for granted!
Always show up and defend yourself as soon as possible and also play dirty to match your adversaries wherever necessary

Seems Gtbank has lost this fight.

Inside life!

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Car Talk / Re: My Experience With A Man I Bashed His SUV Yesterday. by DirtyGold: 12:27pm On Nov 30, 2020
Next time you offend someone, try to keep calm and follow their lead in resolving the matter
In your small mind, you could fix the problem with the small money you have... forgetting that a simple apology goes a long way.

Apart from the "where are you rushing to lesson", also realize that you just benefited from the goodness of the world either from what you've done in the past or from a goodness the man received. Don't forget to pay it forward as well!

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Career / Re: Meet Ebere Asonibe, A Graduate Who Is A Native Doctor by DirtyGold: 5:33pm On Nov 28, 2020
Slay wahala. You can't break up with this one cheesy

Since the gods talk to her, she should ask them the herbal formula for real problems like cancer and HIV. If she can get the cure to just one, she will really blow cool

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Kenyan Dead Man Screams In Pain As He Is Cut In The Leg During Embalming (Pix) by DirtyGold: 9:33pm On Nov 27, 2020
Hilarious story cheesy cheesy

May God save us from nurses and quacks that'll handle life and death matters casually, amen.

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Romance / Re: Can A Man Have Stroke, Due To Too Much Doggy Sex Style. by DirtyGold: 1:50pm On Nov 24, 2020
As funny as this thread may sound, sex can be a strenuous activity especially when you choose to ride a Ferrari when your normal level is the old VW Beetle grin grin.
Sex requires a healthy activity of blood flow which affects the heart. Cardiovascular disease is more common than people realise

I've even heard that doggy brings bad luck cheesy
Who has heard it too?

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Romance / Re: Dear Men! If Your Woman Behaves Like This She Is A Wife Meterial by DirtyGold: 10:11am On Nov 24, 2020
If she's under 25 and does all these things, you could believe her with about 60%
More importantly, watch how she treats her younger brother and other people especially when she thinks you're not looking.

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Family / Re: Marriage Price List In Benue State - Igbo Lady Shares Brother's Marriage List by DirtyGold: 7:11pm On Nov 23, 2020
Total amount looks reasonable.
They shouldn't have itemized the list though.

Reality is beginning to dawn on these marriage-money making people cheesy cheesy

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Romance / Re: 15 Brutal Truths About Life. by DirtyGold: 11:26am On Nov 23, 2020
Life is suffering!
dasall

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Romance / Re: Is There Any Consequence With Marrying A Person With Same Surname As One's? by DirtyGold: 4:57pm On Nov 21, 2020
Tall tales!
If a girl says no for whatever reason, respect yourself and leave her alone.

That's how you will be loving "your girlfriend" jejely and boom... her husband will come and marry her! cheesy cheesy

The girl for you will look forward to marrying you. She wont be looking for lame excuses to run away.

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Celebrities / Re: Davido Celebrates His 28th Birthday (Throwback Photos) by DirtyGold: 8:17am On Nov 21, 2020
Davido is the perfect example that you can be anything you want if you have the money. Even with a bad voice, he still became one of the biggest musicians in the country.

I prefer the younger David though and happy birthday to him

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Properties / Re: Red Flags To Look Out For During Property Inspection by DirtyGold: 8:09am On Nov 21, 2020
All these ones are secondary.
Location, security, power supply to the area, access to household and emergency purchases etc should come first before agreeing to even inspect the house. Anything else can be easily fixed in a few days

Nice post though.

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Romance / Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by DirtyGold: 8:52pm On Nov 13, 2020
Magnoliaa:


Pfft. What you said was opened to interpretations. There's a limit to which a paltry sum can sustain a family. That's reality, no matter what their values are on, and it could cause frictions from time to time that'll threaten their stability and love.
Madam, everything isn't about money! Anything (including intangible things) can cause friction in any relationship


I'm literally not on about this. Never been.
Okay.

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Romance / Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by DirtyGold: 7:37pm On Nov 13, 2020
Magnoliaa:


Lol... So love can fully thrive in lack/poverty? And there's the possibility of those lower class couples who truly love each other in the sense that you say moving up the social ladder. I do not think material acquistions can change that base.
See yourself? I never said poverty. People working low end jobs still have families, they have roof over their heads and can afford food and even dare to have multiple kids. Their happiness is tied to basic thing, simple pleasures... content and happiness are things of the mind. They don't know or care about iPhones and shits the woke generation hinge "living the life" on.


I think exceptions do apply in some cases. Exceptions. I can't tell how common... There are women who aren't about all those qualities (I'm not one). And depending on other qualities of his... A man might just be all that and yet be a beast or an empath that is emotionally intelligent in his private dealings.
Like I said, a woman's choice of a man depends on her internal wants, needs, desires and experiences. And a man's job is to like a girl, approach and see if she likes him enough on her own without trying so hard to 'win' her.

No p. We agree that different women and different men can find love, irrespective of labels and societal classifications sometimes.
Sure! There are always exceptions to every rule because we are human beings - not robots. But, there are better easier ways of achieving fantastic results and as far as the topic of the OP is concerned, the author is right.

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Car Talk / Re: Governor Sanwo-Olu Unveils First Electric Car In Nigeria (Photos, Video) by DirtyGold: 5:44pm On Nov 13, 2020
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Romance / Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by DirtyGold: 5:13pm On Nov 13, 2020
Magnoliaa:

Let me make this clearer, has nothing to do with the initial OP: It's just a question for you:- If you're saying the bolded - the love of a woman - it means women can love unconditionally, and they have the capability for loving, yes?
Why not? It is men who can afford a "polygamous" nature of loving two or more and keeping the balance. A woman was not originally designed to be like that but, today's women with liberalism are living like that now.

And it is possible for a regular guy (e.g., a simp) to get that kind of love by being himself (not sexually exploratory, not controlling and so on)?
Sure... and the love is more true in this sense. Men who do the lowest jobs enjoy the loyalty of their wives more than people in the proletariat and upper class. But, you and I discussing here don't live in that world. Ours is a showy, gliteratti, paparazi world where everybody is fronting a perfect life and wanting the extraordinary. A man that is with a woman that truly chooses him wont need to be anything other than his true self to keep her.

You're saying women can love men for who they are, and I'm trying to draw your attention to the fact that that claim negates the claim that women are drawn to only certain kind of men.
That women can love men for who they are in an ideal world does not preclude the idea of women being drawn to certain kinds of men. Which woman doesn't want a strong, intelligent, rich, confident man?

A man who is quiet, nerdy, passive, etc., can attract the genuine love of some woman out there... A man who isn't actively trying to be dominant can have/experience the love of a woman... (that is) not coerced, forced, seduced, lured.

Do you get it?

There are different standards of an ideal man for different women.
This takes me back to my earlier post wherein I said, the thread is about finding the woman worth committing to. A woman knows what she wants in a man and some qualities rank higher than others. A woman's personality will inform her choice of who her ideal man is. Her love language and a man's ability to speak it well can rock her world. Her previous experiences also plays a role etc.

The job of the man is to find a woman that likes him like that before committing to her. An average girl will agree to date and even marry a presentable, comfortable man who is showering her with attention but her heart wont necessarily be with him which is why the OP's test are valid though not foolproof.

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Romance / Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by DirtyGold: 12:26pm On Nov 13, 2020
Magnoliaa:

You have said nothing in response to what I asked... My point still stands.
You proved it, in fact.
What was the question and what is your point?

If it possible for a lady to be lured and tAkEn from you,
That possibility is forever present as long as she remains a "functional" woman.

then there's no way you can really keep her to remain with you, no matter what.
Exactly! That's why billionaires still get cheated on! Even if you donate a kidney to her and spend N50million on the surgery, her loyalty cant be guaranteed.

Do you believe women don't like to hear the truth? And they cannot be with an ordinary, down-to-earth guy, with "nothing"? (In terms of experience, money, looks, etc.)
Only few do in this generation of slay queens that want instant satisfaction. If you cant say yes or give right now, there's always some other guy (who has shown interest) on the side that they can ask.

If you believe the above determines whether a woman choose you or not, then you can't say there's a woman that can choose you for who you are. Without pretenses, etc.
This seems to be where you're confusing yourself. The thread is about testing a woman to see if she is worth committing to which in other words means, trying to find out if she considers you an ideal man that she willingly loves. The love of a woman should never be bought, lured, convinced or pressured.

The point is finding a woman who has her head in the right place, has the right attitude/personality and has made you her king. Keeping a woman that has chosen a man gives the man peace. But, if for some reason she still leaves, at least the man will have satisfied his conscience of playing the game right, staying true to himself and trying to be with the right person without the pressure of doing stupid things in order to woo or keep her.

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Romance / Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by DirtyGold: 9:06am On Nov 13, 2020
Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.
That's the main point of this thread. If she's for you, you wont even have to try...
And then pray she doesn't get pulled to some other guy that seems better than you

Magnoliaa:



Contradictions upon contradictions everywhere. Buh well, you are saying, in other words, there's a possibility for another OG with better games to snatch her, yeah? After all, men need to practice... Another man conquering another man's adds to his portfolio and all, abi?

That means you'll have to keep your pets on a tight leash - 'cos they are mindless and swayed by illusions, sweet words.

I wonder who is the controller and the head here.

Hmm. "The things we read here," like someone said.

My view does not contradict the OP. If you like a girl, make your interest known. If she truly chooses to be with you, you wont need to stress at all. With such a girl, you can tell her your church mind anytime and she wont run away. She'll commit her effort into making it work including making excuses for you when you fall short of expectations.

However, choosing you is a choice (her choice) and a normal girl (including married women) gets regular attention from other men. If for some fascination she unwittingly gives some other guy attention and the excitement or vibes of a new relationship overshadows her present relationship, then the pre-existing relationship starts developing a k-leg... what was nothing suddenly becomes a major problem and before you know it, she's pulled away to that "better man" even if what suddenly looked better to her was an illusion.

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Romance / Re: Nigerians Disgrace Lady Who Said She Rejected N150k An Admirer Offered Her A Dat by DirtyGold: 9:47pm On Nov 09, 2020
Bitćh got served!
She must have cried a lot for this clout chasing foolishness cheesy cheesy

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Romance / Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by DirtyGold: 5:35pm On Nov 09, 2020
Shotgun wedding is loading for this op cheesy :
SatisfyOG you sef, why you neva marry?

There must be an air around you that makes people ask you that... maybe you behave like an old man grin

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Autos / Re: Lexus Rx350 2016 Model (foreign Use) by DirtyGold: 4:07am On Nov 09, 2020
lekkys:
u can private chat me.
Nothing private yet. If you know, just give me a range so I can have an idea about it
Thank you

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Autos / Re: Lexus Rx350 2016 Model (foreign Use) by DirtyGold: 4:28pm On Nov 08, 2020
lekkys:
The car is full options clean in and out features include:
*360 degree in built camera
*DVD and CD loader
*Hitech factory fitted air condition
*mouse
*V6 Engine.
*In built Microsoft system on screen etc
The price is N16m,slightly negotiable call or Watsap me on 08179484015 or 07016465417 for more details.
Cool ride.
Please, do you know the average cost of clearing it (2016 RX) at the Lagos port?
Both accidented and clean?

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Religion / Re: Apostle Suleman: Joe Biden To Be Impeached For Harris To Be President (Throwback by DirtyGold: 8:11am On Nov 08, 2020
No need for impeachment.
Biden looks old and fragile already for something natural to happen to him

He is too soft to commit an impeachable offence.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Biography, Net Worth Of Kamala Harris, The US Vice President-Elect by DirtyGold: 8:58pm On Nov 07, 2020
First female president loading...

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Family / Re: Reno Omokri: Bride Price Is Only Paid For Virgins, Scripturally by DirtyGold: 4:09pm On Nov 07, 2020
This naughty pastor shouldn't let village people hear him o....
He wants to spoil market for those people that like to draw up long lists for intending grooms to settle

How many virgins of marriageable age are left in this entire world sef?

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