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Gwan2:
Since the advent of feminism the marriage institution had suffer gradual collapse...Unfortunately, it might never get better again. I came to Nigeria after my stay abroad, I actually had the intention of getting a girl that I could start a relationship with the intention of marriage in my mind. A nigerian friend in Germany where I was gave me the number of a certain girl in one of the nigerian university, he told me they are friends. I didn't go into detail discussion with him about the girl. When I came back to nigeria, I invited the girl and pick her up to an open pub. She declined ordering any drink, food or meat. I order a bottle of drink and initiated a conversation with her trying to inquire about her background, personality, studies etc...I don't normally engage in lengthy discussions especially if my intension is to just have a fling with a girl, but as i said earlier I wanted a relationship and this girl was young 22 years, though not very pretty but her personality could make up for that if she had a good one.

As I was chatting with this girl I realised her gesture wasn't so responsive and she look at her wrist watch occasionally, at some time she asked..Didn't my friend tell me about their friendship, I said no...again she ask what do I want from her...gosh,, unsuspectedly because this girl looked so naive and innocent..I said I wanted us to get to meet our selves on this first day and see how things will play out..she then said she is going...I said ok and told her to wait for some few minutes outside before i come pick her, I was still on my drink then. while in my car she asked again,, what do I want from her..at that point I begin to sense where she was driving to..I intensionally played the fool by not answering directly until she asked again..you want sex??...I then said yes..lol. She then ask So if i didn't say it you wont have said it yourself right? Next thing was so how much do you want to give me...Gosh. At that time i became weak. I played along and said 7k, she declined saying even 10k she wont collect. She open the door of my car and told me to reach her when am ready...I called my friend and told him..he said she wanted romantic relationship with him but due to distance that only chat and make phone calls.

Another one that was proving difficult to get for God knows why...I sent her a text saying as a lady she should be skilled enough to know when a guy is serious for relationship or settling down...That one just landed in my hotel room asking me what is the meaning of the text I sent her...That night she gave me all the best banging she could to impress me. At a point she was whispering in my ear "I know you didn't enjoy the sex"..I just told her I did.

Now these sort of girls make up a very large percentage of the average girl you see on the street especially in Nigeria. How do you expect marriages to last in this era

aaahh we are truly finished....the world is truly coming to an end....I am truly sorry for all the bad experiences so far, I am very sure that u will eventually find what you are looking for

Mymynd4u:
Thank God.. I tot it was Simi and adekunle oooo.

I wud av just find a 10 storey building and jump and die.

Those two must nt break up irrespective of anytin oooo


Dr sid and Simi, u guys shud fix ur marriage

Shout out to aro1 Josephmumu03 logobenz luminouz seangy4konji poweredcom philip0906 Sunkyphil

I feel ur sentiment

Asculd:
They are broke

abi? People are not even looking at it from that angle.

BestAccessories:
Do whatever makes you happy but you can never EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT.

You can't have it all in one package. Even DStv packs stupid channels together for us to pay subscription. What do you need 120 TV channels for when all you need is just SuperSport 3, 5 & 7. Some people only need History Channel, NatGeo, other just need CNN, SkyNews, BBC whereas what some people like is just Telenovela (abi na telemondo sef).

If it's beauty you seek, go after beautiful ladies but have it at the back of your mind that BEAUTY is a vanity metric for marriage or long lasting relationship.

Beauty fades, that's why several makeup and beauty products flood the market. Every gal want to be beautiful, want to look gorgeous and want to turn heads.

There is no ugly girl, except she doesn't have the necessary cash to translate her dream beauty to reality. Have her visit a professional makeup artist or beauty salon where they make her a perfect her or recommend a perfect fit wig, makeup, clothes, bag and shoes.

You would see wonders and would never ever believe it was the same girl.

She wouldn't be beautiful forever, believe me. No normal human being is FOREVER YOUNG.

If you don't value all she can give and all you seek is beauty, stop wasting her time, energy and resources.

Stop pretending, stop faking your Happiness and stop giving her fake hopes about the future.

magical response.....loved every bit of it

rentAcock:
No offense bro, when I read the part about you not having a laptop I thought I could gift you a laptop I have sitting around. But then I decided to check out your previous posts just to make sure you aren't trying to use style to get free stuff online and I noticed you spend most of your time on Nairaland romance and dating sections.
If you are really trying to broaden your skills and increase your online revenue, I swear you will be on fiverr, upwork and several other freelance threads right here on nairaland. If you are really determined, you can find people willing to teach you for free, some are even willing to raise money for a basic laptop to get you started but instead you spend more time on romance threads where the OP is asking for girlfriend.
My advice to you is to browse freelance threads on nairaland, join facebook and whatsapp groups with like minds, take cheap classes on udemy and Lynda. I kid you not, I know several guys earning over N5,000,000 a year just on freelancing sites. You may start out making just 80k a month, but it gets better, it sure beats being dead broke.

rentAcock wehdone Sir, I saw this reply to the guy and was impressed....my opinion on the matter is simple, if u really want to help the guy with a free laptop then help him out without necessarily adding conditions to it.... everybody goes to the romance section including my humble self..... that doesn't change the fact that he needs help...help him and let God be the judge of his actions afterwards � thanks.....by the way I am a great fan of your profile name rentAcock, I even screenshoted it the first time I came across it,cool!!!

5chrisade:
Anyone that says betting is a scam is ignorant. With good money,good source of games, tested strategy and discipline, betting(sports investment) is bliss.

guy, I won about #158,000 in the month of December 2019 staking about#70000+....so I know what I am talking about....when u consider the sleepless nights and the propensity of big teams to mess up coupled with the anxiety attached, I can confidently tell u dat it is not worth it....there was a time I staked a 3 odd game with about #10000 guess the match that ruined the ticket? Juventus drawing 1:1 with sassuolo at the Turin stadium.... bros Las Las betting na scam....I have played it long enough to know

Davash222:
10% Returns in two months
Some people are truly gullible.

So, if I invest 100K , I have to wait after two months before making 10,000 Naira.
If I use that 100K and be playing 2 odds every weekend, that would be 100 times better sef.

2 odd wey no sure..... brother betting na scam

thunderfirebubu:
Let me share a story with you op. I dated a girl for like 8 months or so, this girl seemed a very honest girl bcus she lets me in on almost everything that goes on in her life, truth be told I wasn't really interested cus I didn't see the rship leading anywhere even tho she was a good girl. So there came dis guy she became friends with, the guy knows abt us. The guy na dis holy pass guys, he started drawing my girl close to God so she claimed. It came to a point we had issues and we decided to call it quit. After breaking up I found out that she had been sleeping with the said guy from day one. My point is not every one who appears honest is actually honest.

God bless you for letting these guys with little or no experience know....women are tricky customers

Tallesty1:
What in fvck's name did I just read?


A Nigerian girl in love is usually honest to a fault dude.

from the little I know whether she is in love or not she would only allow you to know only what she wants you to know... nothing more, nothing less

bukatyne:
What has sexual satisfaction got to do with kids?

A woman can steal a random man's sperm and insert it in her vjay to get pregnant.

So how does the number of kids relates to the wife's sexual satisfaction?

And people's bodies/tastes/likes change: what turned you on at 20 might have no effect at 30.

what women don't understand is that the reason the marriages of our parents lasted so long in the past is not because the men were superman or they were all exceptionally good in bed. It was because they quickly realized that there are a lot of things in life other than sex....I have no problem with good sex....she is not even considering the impact of her decision(s) on her 3 kids, that to me is foolishness....a mother should place the welfare of her kids above all else....a lot of women would give an arm and a leg to have a man who would adequately provide for their kids....

seunmohmoh:
That's a very risky surgery. The best way to clean the eyes during eye surgery is with scent leaves.

pls don't mind my asking, where did u get this scent leaf information from? It sounds kinda funny...

My guy, I appreciate your aggressive marketing strategy but, always remember to emphasize your WhatsApp contact .....some people are just too shy to share their problems on Nairaland..more grease to ur hustle

One of the miracles of modern living....online relationships... some of it work, others not so much....don't think I can attempt it though, I believe in the principle of seeing is believing

oyatz:
The unfortunate man was scammed QED!


The issue is NOT whether men are good or bad or whether it's desirable to look for virgins or not.

The issue is that the guy paid for a new product but a fairy used product was delivered to him under false pretenses despite five solid years of reassurance.


Marriage under deceit is a ground for divorce. Such a woman can kill the husband.

God bless you brother....5 years would have been used to collect his own share too.... instead it was lies, lies, lies....how some ppl expect the man not to be angry is what I don't understand...lies is bad, period!!!!

Born2Breed:
Were you a virgin too?

She didn't scam you but told you what you wanted to hear.

Did you marry her because of her virginity? So she has no other attributes you are proud of?

Bros, nor let 20% make you loose 80% oh!

I am guessing dat if u were a man then you would understand....the man is angry about lies, not her virginity....why didn't she lie dat she did it only once at least? After waiting on a lie for 5 years only to discover the truth soooooo painful....just say the truth....give the man the option of accepting or rejecting you on his own....lies hurts

AIIah:
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I am just too ashamed of people like you.....a commander In chief says the herdsmen killing Nigeria are libyans and you don't see anything wrong in dat statement....Buhari has been a monumental failure...but am happy to know that his time is slowly coming to an end

Keepem:
what's eating up this wizkid guy?

Indian hemp

pDudd:
My own plenty.

There was one classmate of mine called Henry Ogige who lived in Ojuelegba. He used to always talk about porn and fucking prostitutes. One day he brought a porn magazine to class and me and a few other guys decided to go to the library to look at it. In the library, na so Henry Ogige dick started to charge and one of us had a ruler and decided to measure it. Mehn, imagine a JSS3 student's gbola measuring like 8 inches. We were all in shock

The day I decided to bounce my hand off my Igbo teachers yansh as she was passing by because I had been fantasizing about her. Na so my hand bounce off the yansh and she just turned, looked at me, and walked away. Thank God she didn't react

One day one of my guys invited me to his house to watch how he will bang one girl he was toasting that was my neighbor. Me too I liked the girl and decided to let that not to happen. Na so as he was kwaving the girl and wanted to start the show, I busted into the room and told him that he should lets go to game center to play game.

I went to one of my classmates house to play game and then saw his housegirl was one Calabar girl with big yansh. Na so I go kitchen go ask the girl for water, as she turned around, I just pack the yansh with hand. She just smiled and didn't say anything. Embarrassment wan kill me because I don't know the devil that moved my hand to do that.

There was one new student called Daniel who transferred from another school and used to love to bully me because he used to boast about how he used to fight. One day while he was bullying me and pushing me around, I got fed up and attacked him with fast blows to his face and body. Next thing na blood begin commot him mouth with swollen eye before people came and separated the fight. From that day on, he started respecting me.

One big heavy dude in my class used to make my life a living hell. His name was Charles and he weighed almost twice my weight. That how one day I got fed up of his shiit and told him, "Just wait for me after school today. I will fvck you up". That was a challenge and people were happy that they were going to see fight after school. Before I know it, other classes had heard that I was going to fight Charles and there was no backing down from it.
Now in those days, if you challenge someone to a fight, it is your obligation to carry out that challenge. If you don't carry it out, everybody will give you rushing (everyone will gather and beat the living shyt out of you) for backing out after issuing a challenge to fight. Now as school hours started drawing to a close, I started remembering all the past fights Charles had been in and how he massacred his victims, I began to picture myself being massacred. Na so fear begin grip me. And I couldn't back down at this point or else na community rushing I go receive. After school, everyone gathered in my class and started saying, "oya come and fight". They cleared all the lockers and desks for us and created a space in the middle. I was like, " Hold on let me finish copying my note". After like 10 mins people were tired of waiting and took my note from me and pulled me up to fight. I started to shake like a leaf. Then one classmate of mine called Akinwale saw my fear and said, "No, he is a Christian and Christians don't fight. Akinwale was like the class pastor and everyone respected him. Na so Akinwale grabbed my bag and grabbed me and left the class. Chai, because of Akinwale, I was saved from a severe beating that day. Akinwale na God go bless you forever

akinwale the superman.....guy u have been a very naughty boy

Patrioticman007:
GMB has been using Amotekun for suya, since 1960, ask Mannbq grill's for tasting.

beast of the savage ....you guyz are just simply amazing...no dull moment....the only problem I have is with that good for nothing , very annoying character.....but anyways u guyz make my day

[quote author= post=86012911]What kind of stupid and foolish question is this?!

Hope Kemi is aware that she has a child for one of these 2 men already?!

A fool @ 50 will surely be a fool forever.

Shame on you Kemi and to all the Lazy jobless youths that will start voting for this foolishness,
same sets of youths that never came out to vote during election and choose their reps
Failed people everywhere!


GBAMsolutely!

We Wonder what she has against the Adelekes from day one! [/quote]please enlighten me, if someone decides to conduct an online poll to excite people and get them voting on any issue no matter how trivial, how is that your problem?

onlyboyson:
FROM NICE PICS TO
LOVELY PICS
THEN TO SEXY PICS SMALL TIME HER KPEKUS GO HUNGRY U
YOUR SACK LETTER HAVE BEEN LAMINATED
your plan on your boss have scattered like that of this trousers

hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahaha...

Fyngal1:
This sounds like something from AY live. You comment on your madam's status, she reports you to the housegirl, housegirl reports back to you and you are here asking NL what to do?

Why not ask the housegirl?

brilliant!!!!

shogsman:
Vice versa my boss almost fired me for always viewing her WhatsApp status without commenting,she said I'm treating her like just any other person in my contact,now It's my job to tell her how hot she is when she post picture. The nonsense we men experience at work.

for real!!!

Amalekki:
Pls sue Nairaland if you get fired. This place is responsible for you not understanding the virtue of minding your own business.

dope!!!!

majamajic:
go to the next pics , write ' can't wait for u to be back


Don't worry work plenty for Lagos

wow!! I have seen savage replies online but you my friend have the most savage reply of all....I can't stop laughing...damn! Nigerians won't kill me

lonelydora:
I thought they said rich people have 1 or 2 kids?

Why is MJ giving birth like Iya Basira, the pepper seller?

lol,the thing tire me sef

I am waiting for the day Messi retires that is when Barcelona will begin to realize what football is all about......right now, most Barca fans are living in fools paradise....

eni4real:
You will have a Balloteli career!!!

SAVAGE

DenreleDave:
If to say na rapenaldo, he go don msg the babe rape her sharpaly... Rapenaldo fans over to u ooo

fool, leave ronaldo out of ur shit

Astark:
Ronaldo would have raped her. Fact

Penaldo fans stop crying in my mention

()Bleep off loser... whenever a loser like u mentions the most popular footballer alive then be prepared for the heavy backlash....respect a legend, fool