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ben1daEbiri:
You dey yarn dust sha

Hollusilva28:
Please, love is not overrated. If you meet your right partner, this what u will encounter like Peace of mind , happiness, joy, ability to accommodate your fellow relatives. e.t.c.

When theres genuine love, you would pray to God to give you, same partner if u come to this world again.

For example, my mom died 2012, up till now my dad hasn't remarry. I used to think about him a lot, cos I personally can't wait for so long.

Our mothers of old generation always love their husband for better for worse. unlike today social media is there , once she divorce or separated another highest bidder is waiting in one corner to enter, all this won't lead to anything good.

let say you're rich & both love each other. My questions- How will you feel to hear your loving wife has taking so many dicks before you met her? As a man do u think, it's easy. That small mistake can destroy better things.

Don't chase rich men cos you love their money. Nobody is being born to be poor, Let's pray for God's grace. once you're independent, you will definitely have happy home, your husband will respect you more

otemeh01:
make they beg Ned make e remain girls for we wen never marry o.

PS. Does that means that if you have money, you can use girls anyhow? haba.

Hollusilva28:
Not everybody have grace. Some few ladies married rich men and still happy cos, they were fortunate they married their life partner. Grace is not common, what work for C might work for A.

So, too much love of money is hinder a lot of things nowadays. Money is good, but I don't ever mixed love with money. This issue is eating up marriages nowadays cos the foundation was not built on love but was on love money.

Merimental:
lol
"we are just managing ourselves"

can't disagree much but der are marriages dat aren't managing but enjoying every moment of der union 4 years.

it's good to manage urself but beta to enjoy it while u in it.

my Opinion tho.

crackhaus:
That's a fact!
And if I didn't know, I would think you were making it up

I believe I've mentioned this sometime here before, and I expect that most men (married or single or player) would already know it by now – Women nor get any other thing wey dem fit use manipulate/control their men pass sex, NOTHING else...no jokes
Although some may go further to use the kid(s), some might use food if they know the man is the type that it will work for... but overall, their most basic/go-to/first choice tool of control and manipulation is always sex.

However, the moment a man has successfully freed himself from this eternal curse of always needing/desiring pünny like it's the next best thing after oxygen, more than half of his problems with women (whether wife or girlfriend) go disappear especially when they know he is that type of person that can't be bothered to grovel for it.

That one nor mean say we nor go make them feel like the most important people in our lives, but at the same time, a man who values his peace of mind needs to have a body language that makes his partner/wife understand he is not TOTALLY dependent/tied to that feeling of pleasure she can provide for 30mins once she opens her legs... even though she is the queen of his world.

Meaning if she carry dey do anyhow, she go still see anyhow.

5thcolm:
Sisterly, you've moved to this thread now after you reported a false story in another thread. You are really doing the most.
Can you xplain exactly what you mean by democrats rigging.
You need to understand america is not Nigeria.
Mail-in ballot is a normal thing here.
Trump discouraged his people from voting by mailing-in. Democrats encouraged it cause of Covid.

I have friends here that have only always voted by mail-in ballot, so there is no rigging.

Since democrats encourage mail-in ballot, it is only fair that most mail-in ballot results would go to Biden.
Mail-in ballot is what is remaining for counting now so Biden's figure is expected to grow more than Trump's.
Just so you know, the surprise among people i know here is how close this election is. Expectations was for Biden to blow Trump away

Jesse25:
The depth of your ignorance is mind bubbly ....can you just hear your self chaii shame on you....

Crownstar01:
Biden cannot turn around the United States for better. What did he achieve as the Vice-president when was with Obama?

codemaniacs:
It seems you have never heard of the term B:R:I:C:S.... which stands for brazil russia india china south africa...

russia and china are already partners.

Yujin:
Inferiority complex? Who do the Igbos feel inferior to? Mention just one group and state why the Igbos could have felt inferior to those people? Is it in standard of living, level of education, academic achievements on the international level, sports, entertainment or even wealth creation. Is it even in looks or physique? Tell me why an average Igbo man should feel inferior to those that have ran Nigeria into being the poverty capital of the world and a terrorist hotbed where human life is today valueless.
Don't you ever attach inferior to Igbo in your life again.

jagorinho:
you said Igbos are in charge of SMEs in the country, the guy countered you, next you activated your default inferiority complex settings shouting marginalization, marginalization is the most abused English word used by Igbos to gain sympathy when they are at the receiving end of an argument.

NGpatriot:
I've heard this sad and pathetic song a million times, sorry, not interested, confine if to your fellow ipobians.

NGpatriot:
Look at this one?

Must you people think Nigeria starts and ends with ibo people? Your contribution is the lowest in Nigeria and and the last time I ched, your region is the poorest and the most backward and mediocre in Nigeria, it's the dirtiest and the most polluted in the world.

Since you are so mad that Nigeria is not like korea and singapore, are any of your dirtiest and most polluted states in the world that you govern by yourself like korea and singapore?

CSTRR:
south east is suffering the side effects of chronic brain drain.

The best igbo minds are not in the east. They are in lagos.

The igbos in the east are not the smartest in the ethnic, and so they carry out many cringe worthy acts disgracing the ethnic group.

The despicable nature of governance there and the ipob phenomenon is a consequence of this brain drain.

The IQ residing in the east is sub-optimal, and unfortunately, their actions would be used to judge the igbo as a whole, even though igbos in lagos and the diaspora don't support it.

Wisedove:
You need to crawl before you can running or flying as the case maybe, the same principle is applicable to the political field too

Opperwezen:
Power can never be wrestled from APC or PDP, at least not in this generation!

justscorchone:
Lies, if you want to know if a girl likes you, do the opposite of this things, try it for 6 months if she still stick around then she’s a keeper, new age women are not attracted to kind, polite and decent men anymore. chivalry Is not appreciated anymore.

lexy2014:
When u learn to love people in general, loving a woman won't be a selective project like building dangote refinery or a new airport. It will just be as natural as eating or sleeping. Let's learn to love everyone around us beginning from those who are most dearest i.e. our family. From there, it wouldn't be difficult to love outsiders which include GFs or BFs. That's why they say that charity begins at home.

Lastly, practice self love. Very important. If u don't love urself, u can't love anyone. No two ways about it. because woman wey no like u, no like u no matter what u do. Showing too much love & care to a woman signals a deficiency in self love

FanOfMyself:
E be like say you get sense oo and different from most of them here

Dede1:
Which world are you talking about in the above post? USA automobile industries have hard time satisfying USA, north and south American markets talk less about the world. Europeans and Asians depend on USA market to sell their vehicles. It is funny Nigerian hungry masses still demand American spec vehicles. European and Asian auto industries must build vehicles to USA spec or else they close factories.

Dede1:
Nigerians have tendency to compare oranges to apples. What is AFDB compared to WTO? USA just gave token opposition due to complaints levied against the president of AFDB by some people from member nations.

Bimpe29:
Bleep US.
Whether they like it or not Auntie Ngozi shall lead the WTO better than the Korean insha Allah.
The same way US was disappointed recently at AFDB by having our own Akinwumi Adesina reappointed, so shall it be at WTO come November 2020.

Dede1:
I wish Ngozi will get the job and good luck but is very unlikely. It is either Ngozi or WTO. Once USA withdraws from WTO, that is the end. Did China, Russia or EU bust the economic sanctions USA and Trump administration imposed on Iran?

kayjay69:
I can understand why you believe what you typed but to think the Trump Administration is a force of good vs evil globalist forces out there is to admit how limited your knowledge horizon is. I will suggest you read more, learn more and have an open mind rather than spend all your time on white supremacist websites who are masquerading themselves as well meaning christians.

There are advantages and disadvantages to Globalism as there are to Nationalism. One is not necessarily better than the other. I could even argue that globalism is responsible for some of the things you as an individual enjoys today. Are you aware that corporations run the USA, and I mean both parties in the USA. Please how do you think corporations became so rich and powerful, you think it was by supporting nationalist ideas? It is sad that you cannot see Trump for who he truly is; a conman and a racist disguised as a populist and nationalist. If he did believe in his nationalist ideas, please tell me why would he be trying to setup hotels across the world and sub-contract some of his own company's manufacturing to china? Before you label me an anti-christ, go and read, learn and keep an open mind while doing so.

Now I get that you are in love with all things Trump but then every once in a while it never hurts to understand what you are supporting. Do not just listen to what is retorted, read and make up your own mind.

Karleb:


I will advice that you hold your peace boss!

You've done a great deal of justice to the issue at hand. No be everybody you go dey reply.


Let them keep opening legs for irresponsible boys, the consequences is for them to bear.

nenyewrites:
You are the one with negative mindset and attitude. And you won't even by mistake attract good things to your life. If you had read the last part of my paragraph, you won't be here vomiting like a pregnant woman.

bdchange:
There will always be irresponsible fellows no matter how sane a society is designed. We can't also neglect the facts that mistakes happens in relationship in which you might mix up with the wrong partner. Great men and women have ended up being single mother or single father due to so many factors. Yet I hate to admit that in this generation, majority of single mothers find themselves in this situations because of their own greed, selfishness, naivity and the likes. @Toks2008 has been ditching out lessons to them for a decade now, yet they don't listen. @Graxie has pointed out a possible solution to avoid the overload of being a single mother, yet they won't listen. I can continue with so many posts that has been distributed here over time to learn from, yet they just read and continue in that part. I have a relative that is a single mum and I can't withstand the stress she goes through in training those kids, she is not left out as well. What makes a man responsible is taking charge of his actions and don't run away from it. As a woman when you see one, you will know. You don't need a sorcerer to tell you that.

bdchange:
They are exempted because they are already irresponsible and a nuisance to themselves which is why they left their sons/daughters with the woman and ran away without looking back. And as for the lady, that is the consequence she get by romancing with a lowlife man. Most of them see the signs but continue in that route regardless. Being a single mum should not make you bad except you are already a bad person. There are always exceptions which I believe has been explained above.

nenyewrites:
Why women like embarrassing themselves in front of men is something I'll never figure out. If they didn't ask this fool for money, he won't have the guts to say this rubbish.

I've come to the conclusion that 99.9% of men are selfish. They will only do things that favour them, it's never about the other person, but themselves. That is why I don't blame one girl on video that advised women not to come out and protest. She said they should leave the men to go out and protest and die because they are the ones that kept the country in this state. Very selfish beings!

The only way you can get something from a man is if you deceive him! Even if you are not feeling the sex, just moan or shout I'm cuming, so he will be happy. Even if you are a single mother, pretend you don't have a child and he will marry you. Even if you are ugly, bake your face with makeup and he will follow you like a fly to the grave. Deception is what they like, yet they pretend they hate deceptive women.

Even in marriage, very selfish beings. Stingy! Waiting for saliva to finish from their wife's mouth in the name of begging before they give her one naira. I just like how my sisters deal with them when they get old and down with all kinds of diseases, both hbp and prostate cancer. Their wives ensure they work hard and save their money, and because of this long term accumulation, they always have enough at old age, while the wicked, stingy men who have either been sacked from work or too old to continue business will be left penniless and live the rest of their years less than a man!

The only men who live a happy old age are those who channelled their love to their children or loved their wives wholeheartedly and were never stingy! So, for the young men supporting Reno, continue. Women will always find their way, but you guys, if you don't die before 40, will live the rest of your lives as slave to your wives!