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Seriously guys, if Buhari was to show up in the front of your house seeking for employment as a lesson tutor for your kids, would you employ him??

How could you endorse somebody who cannot, under normal HR screening, be selected to tutor secondary school children as your president??

Let's examine this more closely...

1. A tutor must be qualified.

So here is Buhari telling you that his certificates are with the military in 2003, and in 2007 and in 2011 and in 2015 and then in 2018 he brings you a new attestation of result.. Not a certificate oh.

First, he told you it was Cambridge SSCE he did in 1960s then he brings a WAEC certificate.

Would you still let him tutor your kids??

2. A tutor must be consistently improving.

Buhari has been vying for office since I was in my teens and now I am 30+ and Buhari have not added a course to his CV, not even using the learning by proxy method. Yet in the same time, OBJ has bagged a doctorate degree. Common...

If not because I promised facts only campaign, I would have dared to say that I am sure Buhari have not read a complete book since 2003.

Just from this two points, Buhari has totally failed the interview for a lesson tutor (not even a classroom teacher oh) and you want him to be president?

As a Bonus, I present a third point...

3. A tutor must have knowledge of the subject.

If Buhari is to teach, he must have knowledge of the subjects he wants to teach and if he wants to govern, he should have at the very basic, an understanding of what governance is.

Governance "includes the mechanisms required to balance the powers of the members (with the associated accountability), and their primary duty of enhancing the prosperity and viability of the organization."

Please note the words, 'prosperity' and 'viability' of the organization in the definition above then ask yourself 'Has Nigeria prospered in the past 3.8years?' Has Buhari through his inflammatory speeches and provocative actions increased or decreased the viability of this country?

Now you see exactly why we insist that there should be a shifting!


Afterthoughts and References.

One of the many unanswered questions that seems running through the mind of an average concerned Nigerian is why President Buhari should present a '2014 affidavit' instead of copies of his academic credentials, especially after almost four years in office as president, a position that affords him opportunity to retrieve copies of the credentials from the military.

Certificate Saga
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/military-board-and-buharis-certificates/

Cambridge WAEC
https://www.tori.ng/news/109409/reawakening-the-dead-certificate-saga-of-president.html

The Man Buhari
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muhammadu_Buhari

kestolove95:
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Show us some sample of the sites you have created.

And when you say marketing blog, what does that really mean?

is it the yoast plugin that you use?


Well, I am so very interested but the information here is not enough to make an informed decision.

just in case

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TonyeBarcanista:
First, RIP to your dead! I am deeply concerned

Secondly, I don't think it was cool.to say such of Jesus. However, I'm not saying you shouldn't defend yourselves but please, let's not drag Christianity into it.

Be assured of my prayers, love and support

Thank you for your reply

Sorry about the statement. it was wrong of me to drag Jesus and your mother into the conversation. i reacted in the heat of the moment and I don't know how to delete my comment on nairaland.

So I will just apologize to all Christians and Non Christians, Nigerians and non Nigerians here. I'll make a thread containing my full apology. God's willing!

cc. PMIcon

TonyeBarcanista:
Why not execute his views and see what happens next?

with all due respect bro you do not do justice with this write up.

children of 3 years old are being raped and butchered in southern Kaduna. the fear if the people no be here.

We said in our last community meeting, Jesus had no wives and children that he must protect. but we do.

if the killings don't stop till April, we will do worse than oyedepo thinks or imagine

I am from Southern Kaduna and I have spoken..

if you are claiming Christian, Christianity was spread by blood. Jesus said time has come to sell your cars and buy guns. I guess you know the time is here.

I love your writer ups. I even follow you but please don't write this trash again until you bury your mother without her head.

RIP Maman zyanba

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smithsydny:
Praise God

my guy... I dey watch you for 3D

Nightie:
d guy is cute congrats to 'em

And you are cute too
Have u finished school?
we can write our own story!

fumisko:
Am not denying he has high libido. But if I know my man has it. I must prepare mysef for extra work in my head. Let me ask u is bathing two times a day work anymore for u? No. Because it has become part of me. If giving my husband a BJ or Hand job twice a day wld stop d nonsense he does that I don't like seeing...why not...I wld do it. 20min of 24 hours is too much for 2 sessions sef
So Wats d big deal...wld add it to my routine for d days we don't get to have sex.period. It would be like gaving my bath.That's all am saying

I pray for my self that my wife would reason like you.

maybe add a little boob action in there.

as a matter of fact, I am following you to continue getting these wonderful pieces of wisdom you are dropping

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

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I know you must have gotten a ton of advice but here is one that will work.

first, recognize that this is your hubby. Not some guy you are with. It is for better, for worse. so it is better to make decisions that will bring the better and not the worse. (hope you understand)

Secondly, you should talk to him. Let him know that his behavior is disrespectful to you as his woman and it disgusts you. Don't be judgemental here. But truly acknowledge that the ease of access to porn will definitely be the reason for his act. blame something else not him

thirdly, ask him the real reason behind his actions. you may need to be wise in deciphering some hidden/untold reasons. Most times, people don't know why they act the way they do. But he may feel inadequate with you. He may feel his dongle is small for you. All these reasons are just in his head but they may push him to porn where of course the he owes the women no obligations..

Next, you nay want to start providing replacements fr porn and mastubation based on the reasons you have found. it may be as simple as verbal reinforcements or as complex as acting like a porn star once but you have got to give him reason to prefer the real thing over the digital one.

if he still continues, he clearly has no regard for you marriage. we will talk of that one later.

for now, try these. I know it seems much for a woman to do for a man but don't forget that in the day you said I do you became his mother as well. help him heal dear.

Good morning Nairalanders

I just read a thread on here about Maheeda's marriage turning 13 years(traditionally) and 5years( white).

The Ish got me thinking that maybe we are too quick to label people 'Good' and 'Bad'.

If Maheeda whose privates is everywhere on the internet can keep a home for 5years and Tiwa Savage who is somewhat more decent cannot keep a home for a year plus then "what really is decency and does it have a role to play when looking for love, happiness and a wife?

Could other Nigerian bad girls the likes of Beverly Osu, Chidinma Okeke make better wives than some of our so called 'decent girls'?

Matured opinions only please...

This is an official Nairaland Poll.

Miriam19:
Father Lord locate the remaining girls, and bless the Nigerian army for the great job (protect my bf too who's currently in Bauchi)

Bauchi is peaceful dear. Relax!

2dugged:
I have tried so hard to convince myself that maybe it's just my environment, maybe there are faithful married men in other parts of the country. 95 % of married Nigerian men cheat on their wives atleast once, while from the 5%, 3% have not cheated because the opportunity has not presented itself yet, and only 2% are actually faithful to their wives. I often hear statements like "men are naturally polygamous", a nairalander once said "if you can't bear your husband cheating on you,then don't get married", but I ask myself just how much do you have to bear?, a distant relative lost her life because her husband infected her with hiv, she knew he was philandering, but what could she do?,now both her and her husband are dead, it's been years, sometimes I see the kids and i just feel awful, if a man cheats, women have always have that big heart to forgive and move on,but when a man gives his wife disease, it means that man not only lacks self control but is STUPID as well

The bottom line is that we already have a gender divide. Men and Women don't need each other; especially not in this thing called marriage.

Most men cheat and they do so openly but many women cheat too but theirs is more clandestine and planned.

I'll advise you my dear... look for a friend that you both can grow and actualize together and just let things happen.

One of the Nigerian men that was reported to have killed his wife in the US was known yo me and his story was open for all in Benin to see...

The lesson i took from his story is "Women look for opportunity not love and men look for sex not love"

None of thus is obtainable in a marriage. The sex goes downhill and the opportunities are limited to the one your husband can provide.

The solution is however simpler: Redefine marriage or scrape it totally!

My 2 cents

toyetade:
Bit this is good for world peace and the way we see people in the other religion. All the followers of the Emir will now see Christians as friend now

All the followers of Sanusi who are hostile to other religions are not on the internet. Lol

forlahkhe:
Anytime i have disagreement with my husband, he would always tell me that "I WL GO OUTSIDE, PLENTY BABES DEY OUTSIDE DAT NEED MEN AND I WONT EVEN SPEND MUCH B4 THEY OPEN THEIR LEGS". I always feel hurt by this statement because I believe that we should BOTH be committed to make our home work. If i wont go out there to look for men why should he?

My marriage is just 2yyears but i have never enjoyed 1month happiness. My hubby would prefer to stay late @work because he doesn't want our baby to disturb him with cry cry. I'm a sit @home mum, I resigned my marketing job because I want to have time for my baby but now my husband would not give me money anytime we have misunderstanding, not even for my baby too.

I have called his parents' attention to this but his people call me "ABOKOKU". That because he is married to me doesnt mean he should not enjoy himself, afterall, there are times someone is tired of eating rice and you would want to taste beans and other varieties. His father (57yrs) still has concubines which his mum can't do anything about. But the truth is that this thing is wearing me out emotionally.

I AM MARRIED BT LONELY

I understand what you are going through and I am deeply concerned for your happiness. in this reply, I'll reply you as though you were my stepsister.

Firstly, you msy feel bad about the condom discovery but look at it in a different light. Since you feel he is doing things out there, then begin to live an independent life. If your baby is grown enough, start looking for work. Also get a side-hustle before the work comes. This will keep you busy, give you some change and allow you to meet other people whose story may encourage you.

Don't report him to anybody at all. you can discuss your situation with your mother or sister but don't report him to them. Report him to God then find time during one of his happy days to clearly and assertively communicate tour displeasure about his habit and every every

After that continue to seek happiness in the little things you do and in your baby. Don't offer yourself to him but allow him to demand for you. and when he does, resist slightly this Reenforcing tour displeasure with his behaviours.

Remember keep yourself clean, smart and busy and he will drool over you and soon start to bend over for you too.

Oh... Plea see don't forget to do the things that you guys agreed you will do as a wide no matter how busy you are. Cook daily at least for yourself.

hope this helpss.

PS: My stepsister did just that after confirming her husband is cheating. she never told him she knew but she got him to recommit even to the point of taking his vows again.

ificatchmodeh:
Op.
I concur..funny how he took those decisions without any economic plan..or alternative where necessary..
When it backfired..they remembered previous administration.
And turn around to blame..


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Ymodulus:
Am even making mistakes on account numbers. So many mentions. Want to be sure i am not sending back to those i sent before. I think i just did. Please if you recieved money fro me twice refund 5,000naira back.


However as planned. still 35,000naira to go

Baba

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DanielPop:
U well so?

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matoyeh:
were ni e

Actually, the full news is that Madueke refunded money up to 50 billion dollars to the efcc.

The CNN app reported that earlier today!