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Family / Re: Sad Facts About Modern Family Life by doeeyed: 1:47pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
@ faithin9ja: please stop being pedantic here. There is a difference between a culture where child-brides are the norm as seen during the time of your nanna ( grandmother) and a failing in a system where children fall out of the safety net.... in a culture that speaks against or prohibits child-brides. Your nanna was probably married or had the family support, the 15yr old spoken off, was NOT. Preaching on the need for the modern youth to have an inner sense of well-being and placing them in a position to be able compete on the global platform is not a bad thing, is it There are different models to use. If you feel sending them to sell or "hawk" things will make them understand the value of money, so be it. Afterall, many innovative businesses were built or at least started in some teenager's bedroom. To each, his own. . 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Sad Facts About Modern Family Life by doeeyed: 12:46pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
@ Yomieluv..... I understand the effizy, oppression culture in 9ja. But to use that as a singular reason for the youth jumping on every bandwagon is simply immature and empty. "Empty drums make the most noise" ain't it? Self confidence is not acquired by possessions but by inner development. The ability for the modern youth to do this is watered down by today's media. Thats why good mentors are needed. Long after Mr yahoo rots in some jail or "executed" by his two-faced cronies, the upright man who had contributed meaningfully to his society will be remembered for generations. Lets all remember that, when chasing the "benjamins". . |
Family / Re: Sad Facts About Modern Family Life by doeeyed: 12:34pm On Jul 07, 2012 |
Need I say more to nipeks001: replies from Olowotee and Pauloman have said it all. To faithin9ja: I concur on the fact that change or evolution is the only constant factor. But I disagree on early adoption of changes yet to be "accepted" as social norm. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Its unacceptable for text-speak to be used in a formal atmosphere, till its accepted in dictionaries as proper words. For those chasing fame and fortune via different talent searches, its fine as long as other things such as vocations or education are not left by the wayside. Have a look around for media or sportspeople who have had fortunes squandered, you would understand this piece of advice. Beckham with all his "football money" has to have other sources of income and influence. The arithmetics beat me: you need to beat 100,000 or more to get on some of these talent shows and the young ones find it difficult to beat a few hundreds to make top regional grades. Is it poor application of one's efforts here?? . 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Girlfriend Birthday Party!!!! by doeeyed: 6:24pm On Jun 29, 2012 |
Now the re- aaaal killz returns!!!! |
Romance / Re: I Love My GF So Much But I Can't Show Her by doeeyed: 2:19am On Jun 26, 2012 |
@ Op LOVE her dont smother her. Let her have her personal space.... Might have played a part in previous break-ups. My 2 cents.... **Acknowledge it may be a false presumption** . |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Single Girl With Ceaserean Section Scar by doeeyed: 1:40pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
^^^^^^ Regarding her fertility or fecundity to be precise: a lot of factors apply, outside of surgery. Centering on her previous surgery, more details r needed: Of the pregnancy and process of birth.. any complications during both n thereafter. Seeking advice from ObGyn impartially would be useful. . |
Romance / Re: It's My Birthday. by doeeyed: 1:09pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Many happy returns. Vous avez bonne annee!!!! . |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Single Girl With Ceaserean Section Scar by doeeyed: 12:59pm On Jun 25, 2012 |
Op, What r u really afraid of?? Loss of fertility or need for repeat section?? . |
Romance / Re: I Want To Love Again by doeeyed: 11:19am On Jun 25, 2012 |
Lets cut him some slack. He's got his Dr Phil hat on!!! |
Romance / Re: I Want To Love Again by doeeyed: 10:59am On Jun 25, 2012 |
Agree with Killz to an extent on his Summary. Dont feel she needs to break up with Mr Current to forget Mr Ex. Given his caring, supportive nature despite her " issues" Yes, she may need some space..... but why go hurting another Continues a chain of broken hearts. For others, who feel good se.x Is the answer: u all need to stop generalizing n understand women better. . |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Hello by doeeyed: 6:04am On Jun 24, 2012 |
A few more details to wet the palate |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Hello by doeeyed: 6:04am On Jun 24, 2012 |
A few more details to wet the palate B |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: My Heart Is Broken, I Need A Mature Lady (doctor) For A Nice Heart Surgery. by doeeyed: 6:02am On Jun 24, 2012 |
What r ur preferences? Cardiothoracic Open heart Interventional radiology ( stenting or ablative surgery) Pls choose!! |
Romance / Re: She wants to get married by doeeyed: 5:51am On Jun 24, 2012 |
@ Op:. She has made her mistakes n hopefully learnt her lessons As long As she effects character changes, which Op testifys of The rest is btw herself n her conscience. You Pharisees, BACK OFF!! Who is without sin, should cast the 1st stone!! Being conversant in GUM / sexual health field, its amazing the number of girls whose option of TOP appears to be their mode of contraception for a host of reasons. I do NOT support TOPs But let's be empathetic here. Regarding the option of marriage,....... Is it necessary, a society wedding should be done Whats wrong with a Registry wedding or small close family thingy? Leave owambe for later, once money is abundant. I want to believe they love each other based on Op's accounts. There is a saying........ paraphrased..... Marriage will have its trying moments It may be in the morning........predating or early years afternoon...... after 10-20 years dependent on spouse longevity nights............ typically unexpected widowhood or vice versa, divorce after 30 yrs In essence, simply brace up and fight for ur success!!! Once convinced you are on the right path Prayers must always be offered to aid the success of their union. Its not the wedding celebration that counts,.... the successful marriage is the goal. For the 2 men offering marriage,,,,, scrutiny of their true intents backed by prayers is needed. Goodluck!!!!!! . 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Could Ther B Something Fishy Going On Btw Him And D Girl. by doeeyed: 1:10am On Jun 24, 2012 |
@ Mynd: I dey campe: terribly busy!! How dey go dey go? Hows the proj going? |
Romance / Re: Does Love Take Nonsense? by doeeyed: 12:52am On Jun 24, 2012 |
As there are no absolutes in life. Need to get more data on this "slapping saga". In my books, that is a very serious offence...... even in the face of great provocation How've, Justice should be tempered with mercy Once the possibility of having a ill-tempered, mannerless woman on board has been excluded. . |
Romance / Re: Go by doeeyed: 12:42am On Jun 24, 2012 |
The song says........ "Reach for the skies........." No be so!! But next time he complains, just use style connect ur backhand to his cheek!! If he takes offence....... Tell him, you are trying to kill the mosquito making noise near his mouth!!!!!! ** Btw no be me send u oooo** |
Romance / Re: Parting With Half Of Your Wealth During Divorce. by doeeyed: 12:34am On Jun 24, 2012 |
Haba, Baba Shoe-mae may win the lottery or come into an inheritance tomorrow. No condition is permanent!! Seriously Killz, u got a point. But if there's any doubt bout the true intent of the "love"... Its a useful option @ Ijebabe, Judges tend to be sympathetic to the wife that has sacrificed for the well-being of the family and also being cheated on by the husband. With children in place..... child support in addition to alimony is paid. Its not always a bad outcome . |
Romance / Re: I Am On Nairaland To Find A Husband. Month Of June And Still Not Married by doeeyed: 12:14am On Jun 24, 2012 |
@ fhl: Patience is a virtùe you must have. Despite the family pressure: pls marriage is serious business.... Not to jump in and out of. Just meeting someone n marrying him just in order to say you have a husband Not because you love him (after communicating n understanding each other) is a poor foundation to build What hopefully will be a lifetime commitment on. Wetin, na 32 u be. Worried bout ur fertility: freeze ur eggs. Girl!!!!!!!!! live life fully...... engage in new activities, travel the world.., enjoy different cuisines, learn new languages. Do new sports activities. Whilst having fun n being at peace with yourself, u tend to fall in some good chap's laps. Chances of being maltreated is reduced cos u r comfortable in ur own skin... Not needing a man to validate you and being left to his mercy. Shake body n begin to chop life jare!!!!! . 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by doeeyed: 2:09pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
@ Mynd.............Well said!!!!! Couldn't have said it better. How u dey? Let's wait for more contributors with "Its a man's world" mentality come up with damning comments. |
Romance / Re: Could Ther B Something Fishy Going On Btw Him And D Girl. by doeeyed: 4:50am On Jun 23, 2012 |
^^^^ What would u advise, given the current state of affairs? |
Romance / Re: Mature Minds Please by doeeyed: 4:39am On Jun 23, 2012 |
^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thats relative and may be the case for the time. If no deep convictions are found on further investigations, The ability to swing her from old thinking formats lie in Op's hands. . |
Romance / Re: Does Love Take Nonsense? by doeeyed: 4:32am On Jun 23, 2012 |
Want to define the nonsense!!!! Yes, you are more tolerant of quifs et al No 'soldier' attitude |
Romance / Re: Parting With Half Of Your Wealth During Divorce. by doeeyed: 4:27am On Jun 23, 2012 |
I would imagine that a spouse looking to get a significant part of the "soon-to-be ex"'s wealth which pre-dated their relationship would be labelled a gold-digger. What was the inducement for getting into the relationship initially? Money or love?? . |
Romance / Re: Parting With Half Of Your Wealth During Divorce. by doeeyed: 11:18pm On Jun 22, 2012 |
Correct my Impressions...... Pre-nups r to prevent the very thing u quoted: aint it. Of course dependent on the clauses included. |
Romance / Re: Mature Minds Please by doeeyed: 11:10pm On Jun 22, 2012 |
She is only telling it as it is........ particularly the God bit. The culture thingy may be more apprehension. Its your onus to explore the deep seated reasons if you r interested |
Romance / Re: Jagged Edge (romance, Fiction) by doeeyed: 3:57pm On May 07, 2012 |
We want more, more, more, more, more, more, more, more, more, more, more. Lovely story-telling there. Why not do a sequel on Ibro's family accepting her despite her background?? Getting u set as a serial writer: keeps ur fans keen n wanting more. Well done, again. |
Romance / Re: Jagged Edge (romance, Fiction) by doeeyed: 12:16am On May 06, 2012 |
Wow, I have to say the suspense has kept me on the edge of my seat. Well done NS..... really got it going... really good for that matter. Keen to see how this all ends. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 35 - 45 Yrs : Lets Hook Up by doeeyed: 9:43pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
Welcome on board Bayfam, What would u rather talk about? You are welcome to start ur line of conversation. You did say u liked art. What type if I may POLITELY ask..... Merci, |
Romance / Re: Someone Please Tell Me Am Wrong by doeeyed: 9:21pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
Bros, Abeg softly, softly, little immature she appears. ........... Vocalizing bout her offering her affections to the highest bidder. Are u aware of any of her mentors who can relate your difficulties n attempts to overcome them to her BTW, is it set in stone, she will marry you Her affections seem rather fickle at times. :-( |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 35 - 45 Yrs : Lets Hook Up by doeeyed: 5:30pm On Apr 12, 2012 |
Hey emofine, No worries re lateness. I have to say that my knowledge of African art is limited to the widely publicized Ife, Nupe, Benin bronze mask. In recent times, there haven't been any intrinsic art group or movement, I think...but stand to be corrected. What seems to be more prevalent is the art of Africanized Europeans in the Senegambia, and thanks to the struggle from Apartheid, along the Southern African subcontinent, (consistently) on the international platform. What seems to be more popular is our oratory traditions, be it the singers from Mali... forgotten his name, Folklore poetry n re-enactments of ancient worship as seen by the Yemoja priestess ( incidentally the chief priestess is not Nigerian) in Ife. Springing forward to modern day authors....Soyinka, Saro-Wiwa, Clarke, Adichie, authors from Kenya n Ghana,..... As mentioned before, our art has not flourished due to a multitude of issues leading to poor appreciation and hence poor patronage n funding. What do u think?? |
Romance / Re: Who Owns The Man: The Mother Or The Wife? by doeeyed: 3:05pm On Apr 12, 2012 |
The true worth of a man is the ability to know his own mind, Making decisions from a balanced well-researched angle. It defies logic in todays world, to compartmentalize a person in just 1 box. A mark of maturity is being able to carry effectively your different roles. You are you, then, a son, a brother, a husband, a worker ( in whatever capacity) Same goes for the woman. YOU own yourself, owe urself the victory that comes with living a balanced life, NOT any punny, u "popped" out from (PERMANENT) or presently "banging ". (CHANGEABLE OR TEMPORARY) PS: the wife clamouring for ownership with her mother-in-law, is yet to pass Marriage 101 course. Need to re-sit the course/ exam. 1 Like |
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