ForeThinker:
Going after a dream has a price. It may mean abandoning our habits, it may make us go through hardships, or it may lead us to disappointment. But however costly it may be, it is never as high as the price paid by people who didn’t live.

Goodmorning y'all ♥️

Nice graph there....
Need to add intercalation of spreadsheets with 6sigma apps whilst balancing with EQ/AQ/IQ modelling on juxtaposed research-development needs vis-à-vis wellbeing growth as a ratio of operational growth!!!!


Sitting just before complex numbers at a high level managerial role life stage.



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seborrhic:

Trust Nigerians when things go wrong here,they seek for perfection,that is not even obtainable abroad,and forget consent is signed for a reason.
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Also anyone that died cannot be entirely proved to be her fault when an autopsy was not performed.The fatal case may have been as s result of the underlying health issue the patient had,which d Dr couldn't have forseen.
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Her business may have been ruined for now,but jail or conviction is not likely.

Disagree with your premise,
The difference between a surgeon and a charlatan is the careful examination of the patient,identifying all possible risks and complications, documenting these contemporaneously and in the event of risk outweighing the benefit, advising against surgery.


The scanty evidence before us suggests a paucity in this approach.

2ndly, as a death with other moderate complications have been reported, it goes to the MDCN (regulatory body) and not the NMA (political association) as someone stated earlier.. The case for manslaughter or negligence has to be fully investigated.

She may bribe her way through but the above would have taken place, if the rule of law is to be observed.


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kikero:



The problem is, sports fans, that the woman is in a lot of trobule.

If MDCN and the Guild start taking a closer look at her qualificaitons or lack thereof, she's going to be in a lot of trobule.

Also, you do not let a plastic surgeon who makes the kind of mistakes she made loose on the public.

Finally, Stella Obasanjo's plastic surgeon got one year in jail plus suspension of licence to practice.(as per the laws of Spain)

Based on the patchy evidence, she's NOT qualified to perform these surgeries..

She will be lucky if she's only suspended by MDCN ... Without serving time.

People often get false confidence from attending these charlatan courses , and start to take on procedures only fully qualified and certified specialists should be performing.


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XXLMANDIGO:



Good for her and long overdue. Arrogant and quack cosmetic surgeon...

Is she truly a qualified doctor
And postgraduate trained or just amassed a few certificates beauticians can access and opened this centre??

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Follygunners:
I think it's her butt hole that stinks of poop not, her vjay jay.

If you know, you too sabi.

Agree..
Position gives it away.


She might also have a fibroid sitting close to her back passage that moves depending on position...but makes s.ex quite enjoyable for both.

Regardless of her personal hygiene, the whiff or quiff will persist intermittently.

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iLUCID:


Arrogance can hardly be isolated from riches (legit or nay).

Disagree....

It can..

Its confidence, quiet but respectful confidence that can't be untwinned from wealth/ riches.



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There are slums everywhere.
Even mental slums ....
That's what we all need to work against.

A small fish in Lagos can't suddenly become a shark in NYC if inert mentality isn't revised.

That's what we should work towards...not just changing the geography.



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If this was not a media debacle to help hype up his music career...

This Lady should be prosecuted, failing which she needs to publish a public apology in the major dailies for a week.

Major bloggers should help spread her news too as "pseudo-evangelists".



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1st Jairuma and her proteges
Then Omosola

Now deeglow ...and ....ers..


I pity the young men of today...
What am I saying..

Hapless men of today who have poor discipline of eyes and 3rd leg!!



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ZooOga:


the thread is about an unnamed source with no hard cement industry evidence attempting to denigrate Mr. Dangote. I expanded the theme to post actual facts of him employing thousands, and his works to feed millions outweigh the sacking of 3000 ppl if in fact true. we could come back on NL tens years from now and S. Reporters would not have reached employing 3000 Nigerians.

Now let me ask you a question, would you want and take pride in eating a homegrown and produced product or desire an imported food from China on your table?

I understand there's a need to balance his previous actions against this current trend/ news. I respect that. I respect his business acumen and prowess.

However it doesn't take away the gloomy future 3000 workers and their families face now.

That's the issue at hand not his past glories.

Laying off 3000 people with 2 days notice is not done. There may be weak application of labour laws if any exist... In Nigeria.. But that's not due process!!

I wonder how this will sit with his board members... Its NOT all about money !!

There should have been transparent continuous efforts on the part of management to minimize this significant loss of human potential.


Someoneelse on this thread testified to the job loss, in response to your comment about this being fake news.


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longnida:
The Ten Commandments of Dating (and more!) by diaskeaus
1. Thou Shalt Get a Life
Unlife: people who have put their life on hold
1. Desperation
2. Dependence
3. Depression and loneliness
4. Detachment
5. Coping with un-Life: Media-Bation


How to Get a Life
1. Get Grounded
2. Get Grouped
3. Get Goal-Oriented
4. Get Giving
5. Get Growing


Some things to do while growing:
1. Learn a new language
2. Learn to play a musical instrument
3. Pick up rock-climbing or skydiving (for the brave at heart)
4. Take dancing lessons
5. Learn to paint, draw, or write poetry
6. Starting hunting or fishing
7. Improve your public speaking skills
8. Play your favorite sport or pick up a new one
9. Continue your education
10. Pick up sailing, skiiing, or scuba diving
11. Learn about another country and culture and then travel to this foreign land


2. Thou Shalt Use Your Brain
Three Drives of Romantic Love (scary!)
1. Emotion-driven dating
2. Hormone-driven dating
3. Spirit-driven dating


A Brain is a terrible thing to Waste
1. Balance the Head and the Heart
2. Refrain from physical intimacy
3. Analyze your past relationships
4. Include others in the process
5. Never neglect opportunities to evaluate


Some questions to use:
1. Do I enjoy this person as a friend?
2. Is there mutual giving and sharing?
3. Is there any aspect of his or her personality that I can't tolerate?
4. Could I enjoy spending time with this person if we abstained from physical contact?
5. Do I feel encouraged, affirmed, and challenged by this person?
6. In what ways do we benefit each other?
7. In what ways do we hurt each other?
8. Does he or she have a bad temper or an overly large chainsaw collection? (Refer to Commandment 9, "Thou shalt not ignore warning signs)


3. Thou Shalt Be Equally Yoked
Unequally Yoked Relationships
1. The Missionary Relationship (looking outside the church)
2. The Mother Theresa Relationship (going after broken people)
3. The Exotic Relationship (radically different)
4. The Sugar Daddy Relationship (substantial age difference)
5. The Dennis Rodman Relationship (out of rebellion)


The Equally Yoked Relationship
1. The Spiritual Connection
2. The Physical Connection
3. The Social Connection


Important issues associated with family background:
1. Holiday customs
2. Family rules
3. Expectations about spousal roles
4. Finances
5. Rearing children
6. In-laws
7. Domestic responsibilities
8. Work ethic
9. Resolving conflict
10. Religious beliefs and practices


How to relate:
1. Social skills
2. Level of social involvement
3. How to spend free time (hobbies, interests)
4. Desire to be in groups/social gatherings
5. Gravitation toward similar types of people
6. Communication style
7. Intellectual compatibility/educational background


4. Thou Shalt Take it Slow
Three reasons:
1. You do not get to know a person in a short period of time.
2. You need time to bond. (1-Scouting Stage, 2-Infatuation Stage, 3-Honeymoon Phase, 4-Reality Bites Stage)
3. You protect yourself from getting attached too quickly.


Seven slow-motion dating strategies
1. Make the two-year commitment (Hezekiah 4:35)
2. Make your first date short and casual
3. Don't volunteer too much information up front
4. Delay physical affection


Men are looking for CAR:
C-Someone who is a Challenge
A-Someone they are Attracted to
R-Someone they can Respect


5. Stay connected with your friends
6. Do not pray together
7. Don't mention the "M" word (marriage)


5. Thou Shalt Set Clear Boundaries
How to Stop people from running over you
1. Your body belongs to you
2. Your emotions belong to you
3. Your thoughts belong to you
4. Your actions belong to you


Four lies people believe about boundaries
1.Boundaries are walls
2. Boundaries are selfish
3. Boundaries are controlling and manipulative
4. Boundaries are insensitive and rude


6. Thou Shalt Save Sex for Later
Why so many singles are having sex
1. All you need is a condom
2. You've got to have it
3. Sex equals intimacy
4. If you are in love, it's ok
5. You must sample the goods
6. It's just a physical thing
7. Everybody's doing it


How do you save sex for later?
1. Celebrate wholeness
2. Receive forgiveness
3. Set clear boundaries
4. Stay accountable


7. Thou Shalt Not Play House
The real reason people live together
1. Fear
2. Sex
3. Manipulation
4. Immaturity


8. Thou Shalt Fight Fairly
Top four harmful responses to conflict
1.Peace at all costs (avoidance)
2. Win/lose (Defensiveness)
3. You Don't Count (invalidation)
4. All-Out-War (Intensification)


Five fair-fighting techniques
1. Dial down
2. Set the tone
3. Shut up and listen
4. Use "I" statements
5. Negotiate and compromise


Practical guidelines
1. Identify the problem
2. List possible solutions
3. Commit to try one or a combination of possible solutions
4. Reevaluate your choice at a later time


9. Thou Shalt Not Ignore Warning Signs
The seven deadly signs
1. Abuse


Types of abuse
1. Physical abuse (use of size, strength)
2. Verbal abuse (use of words to control)
3. Emotional abuse (use of action/lack of action to control/demean)
4. Sexual abuse (sexual behavior harmful to another)


2. Addictions
3. Infidelity
4. Irresponsibility and immaturity (The Peter Pan)


Characteristics to watch out for
1. Lacks goals, direction, and purpose for life
2. Doesn't take care of self (poor hygiene)
3. Is indecisive about many things, even trivial decisions
4. Constantly puts off doing things until last minute (procrastinates)
5. Is often late for important engagements
6. Regularly misplaces significant personal items like a checkbook or wallet
7. Waits for others to initiate social activity or relationships
8. Has difficulty keeping a job for a reasonable length of time
9. Has poor credit history
10. Keeps house or apartment looking like a disaster
11. Forgets important dates
12. Has careless spending habits
13. Constantly bounces checks or is overdrawn at his/her bank
14. Often borrows money (mooches) from others


5. No physical/sexual attraction
6. Emotional baggage
7. Denial


Top five reasons why people ignore red flags
1. It's familiar to them
2. They don't deserve anything better
3. It's better than nothing
4. They have the same problem
5. Fear of the breakup


10. Thou Shalt Choose Wisely
Barriers to discerning true character
1. First-Available syndrome
2. Fooled by the externals
3. Blinded by sex
4. Going too fast


Qualities of character
1. Faithful
2. Honest
3. Committed
4. Forgiving
5. Giving


Helpful hints for discerning character
1. Crisis reveals someone's true character
2. Character is who you are when no one is looking
3. Friends are a window into a person's character
4. Look back on prior relationships to determine patterns of behavior
5. Give it lots of time


Five questions to discern character
1. Can he or she demonstrate loyalty?
2. Can he or she be open and real?
3. Can he or she hang in when the going gets tough?
4. Can he or she let you off the hook?
5. Can he or she put you first?


11. Thou Shalt Take Action
Advice for taking action
1. Take a look at yourself
2. Take responsibility for your relationships
3. Take back what you lost
4. Take a look around you
5. Take time out
6. Take these laws seriously

Well written....summary



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zexy2030:
Let me tell you why; if u get some people just to call you to eat their food, sleep on their luxurious bed and then make love with a touch of body worship, and finally when leaving u r handsomely paid for what u enjoyed. If u r fired from that kind of job, would any other interest you?

These ladies select whom they fek, majority of them wouldn't want to touch their salaries, they may be paid 100k at their offices but end up making close to a million subtly monthly.

For instance u met a girl and u told her u wanted a short time in a good hotel and she agrees, u will buy her food or drinks then she moves on to have sex( naturally women hardly get tired of good sex), u pay her 5k or 3k if she collects 3k from 3guys in a day , thats 9k * 6 = 54k, 54k*4=208k, +100k salary, she earns 308k/month while she goes on to get rents in lekki of 200k per annum. she gets shoes and clothings, buy creams, attend clubs and shows from the 208k while she saves 100k.


In short it is sweet for them to be paid for what they enjoy so much.

Ogaaaaaa

Haba

3 a day, 6 days a week, 52 weeks a year, no holidays nor study leave ---- that's a working prostitute..

How she fit manage regular job with that


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ZooOga:


only a few short years ago 9ja was cursed with poison or inferior food imports. celebrate positive progress.

a few NL titles from 2016-2018

All You Need To Know About PLASTIC RICE This Christmas - Food - Nairaland

Plastic Rice Floods Nigeria, Experts Explain Tests To Detect Fake - Food - Nairaland

"I Have Been Eating Plastic Rice For 2 Months; Be Careful" - Lady Cries Out - Food - Nairaland

Sorry, I don't quite follow...

What's plastic rice got to do with 3000+ people thrown into the job market in this Covid era......


Let's be humane ....
Its not always about the money

Consider
reduced hours,
Reduced hourly rate
redeployment into other emerging roles given the longstanding effect of this virus.
Retraining
Creating franchises
Restructuring pensions or gratuities if any

Meet with the heads, brainstorm, identify new strengths that can be explored
Give warning shots in a timely fashion


Then you create value -- not just monetary but in people + resources.

Certain Aliko knows this but underlings are too busy to look good and beef up the books!!

Corporate social responsibilities -- poor



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Ikjosh04:
You can put a lien on an account without a court order. Court order is only needed to sustain the lein after some days/wk of restricting the account and this is purely a scam case. I believe the person that told you, you need a court order is just a mere staff or customer care.
80% of staff's working in a bank know nothing about financial laws/investments and the extent of a bank power.

since this is weekend the best solution you can get is to locate someone preferably a permanent and senior staff of any bank, they will tell you what to do Asap. My advice, go on LinkedIn and seek for help. You can do this by either locating various banks pages or comment on a post of a senior staff profile(target the people with cybersecurity in their profile)

Thank you

Such great advice!!!


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ZooOga:
Not related to this cement gist but the Dangote Group is helping to feed the nation.

Dangote Tomato Processing Company resumes tomato processing ... link is too long to post. pls do your googles.



Dangote Food Division


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C79-MLOvQ1Y

And equally increasing the number of unemployed....

What happened to redeployment etc rather than an outright sack

Safety concerns increase if Engr Basil's experience is to be true!



Swerve jare!!!!!



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A lot of dem say dem say...

Let's await investigation


3 things....

1. "Super story" to increase Dbanj visibility, not with new music on the air.

2. Likely false allegation. The police muscling in which may be false - as suggested by the girl's friend AKA love-vendor - questions his innocence. Or was he worried that incriminating evidence of a likely consensual event may be used against him in the event of a divorce??

3. Unlikely rape of a daft groupie impressionable girl



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Landscape is beautiful

But buildings are not very edgy


All in all...

Looks good.



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Ritualistic m.o

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Raeheemwayne:
I'm yet to ascertain how REDPILLS correlates with this.
Nice Invention though - but, nothing beats a well shaved cunt, two dangling bo.obs with an experienced tongue - Dear Goddd.

Overrated!!

Casper21:


Bro don't compare fvcking a pussy with artificial cup. Having real sex with body contacts secrets serotonin,pheromone, oxytocin and improves man power, increase testosterone, make you manly. That masturbator cup is the same as masturbation. It will only make you feel less interested in girls and can harm your relationship. I say no to self service. Go out there and bleep that girl. There's a vibe to it


And also with that, u'll be ejaculating lyk everyday due to the cheap access to the device. Which can depletes your androgen receptors, remember that

Brossss, that your physiology no hold.

I'd agree with the psychology that a total reliance on inanimate objects can bring out poor functionality within relationships and maybe a regression in Emotional quotient..

But given today's drama surrounding #rape , as a young black man, your word is not taken into account.. You're deemed the predator just by your very presence st the scene or not...remember the alkeged rape of a British holidaymaker by a group of Israeli boys, some of the alleged perpetrators weren't even at the scene!!!

Complicate that with the lies of a Jezebel who fails to recognise a transactional act or relationship, and wants to effect revenge or just to gain clout as a result, .....................

a good self-service keeps trouble away...whilst understanding the terrain to enhance your success.


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FeliciaOja:

so u want to use 2nd hand plastic pussy another man has used and cum inside ?

What about the women trading 3-100th-hand smelly p..ssies..

given the average number of yearly partners, a girl will own up to!!!

Your comparison is not valid..

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FeliciaOja:

for girls it is different if a guy resort to using artificial vag then something must be wrong either op has a very tiny tool.or he has infection he is hiding?

Most times, its not the above..

Its simply looking for a nonjudgmental, partner who is not out to nag and extort them for the latest i-phone, human hair wig, expensive clothes they can least afford whilst about to orgasm.

Failure to pull out is then tagged rape.

His gist +/- face is spread all over the INTERNET.. He's targeted by other people for harm and can potentially lose his job if his employer is social media savvy.- without hearing his own side of the same events. Worst case being imprisoned falsely. I know of such cases where the falsely accused has died in prison.

Armchair critics take over calling for him to be castrated or killed. Not dissecting the case using criminal justice laws/acts carefully to identify mitigating and aggravating factors which would impact on his sentencing in a proper unbiased justice system.

It's laughable that life imprisonment, death or castration is called for carelessly on this forum where some developed economies have a maximum sentencing of 20 years incarceration.


Your online rants are no different from people who lynch others on the streets after hearing "ole,ole"!!! Without giving the accused opportunity to defend self or allow for proper investigation!!


Let the ladies no...women out there who think the wind is in their sales to keep the extortion up whilst blackmailing our brothers with made-up rape charges, the joke is on you.. The guys have found willing partners.--- yes they are inanimate but they are not extortionate, crafty in nature. They are fully paid up and will not throw charges of domestic violence, coercive control or rape and it's many cousins at them...

1,last thing, when the law of diminishing returns sets in, they can get a new tight updated model...





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HisSexcellency:
LUTH always having issues of misunderstanding with patients. Are their staff challenged in communication skills
Same LUTH that made the news some times last month when a lady accused them of conniving with her mentally challenged brother's girlfriend to defraud him of his money and rendered him incommunicado.

I think its unfair to make a sweeping generalisation based on 2 stories that appear fabricated at best!!!

Wetin concern agbero with overload..

It would appear that the woman was looking for free PEP and on realising she had to pay, quickly shouted out.

What's needed here is to clarify points of collection , family planning organizations that offer free/ discounted PEP. Rather than give an organization, a bad name.


For all we know, this confabulation may simply have resulted from Madam's personal need for PEP as the maid in question was never seen.


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Major Mike Giaquinto looks like Prince William.

jidestroud:
Quite unfortunate the people involved are well known. Same girl who later on, went into the porn industry some years back. Though, that doesn't justify the rape.

The Real Gist
They were both having an affair. This didn't go down well with the boyfriend of the girl on campus. He confronted the girl, she said she had to give in to the lecturer's advances after much pressure. They both came up with a plan.

Gist also has it that, the lady in question happens to be the lecturer friend's daughter

Its here where rape is equated to indecent proposition or molestation.

It soon waters down the main message when ill-managed transactional s. ex acts or relationships are called rape.

Then the real victims suffer once again because of these clout chasers.

"The centre can definitely NOT hold_ as things have fallen apart a long time ago."



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mustyguy:
Bayero university is a federal university in Kano state, having 17 faculties and 108 courses, BUK is one of the eight universities with distinction in NUC grading in Nigeria, it is the only university with faculty of computer science offering (software engineering, cyber security, information technology, and computer science), it is one of the four universities offering mechatronics engineering, it has the most accredited courses since 2007, and by 2019 it is occupying the third position of the universities with the most accredited courses.

It is the first university to award doctor of pharmacy in Nigeria, and now in the process of awarding doctor of physiotherapy, BUK is occupying the fourth position in Law accreditation, behind ABU,UNILAG,and OAU respectively, though OAU is having problem with law accreditation in this recent years, BUK faculty of law is the biggest faculty of law in Nigeria, and second in west Africa.

It also have the biggest moot court in Nigeria, BUK is arguably occupying the third position in MBBS accreditation with Uni Ibadan and UNN occupying the first and second position, the Aminu Kano teaching hospital which belongs to BUK is the hospital to record first kidney transplant in Nigeria, it is also the hospital with the most successful kidney transplant, making it the most successful teaching hospital in Nigeria.

Pls correct

Uniben is the 1st to offer Pharm D. Not BUK

Definitely not the 1st for Kidney transplant and not the best teaching hospital


Please do a robust research with data rather than regurgitate personal opinions or anecdotal evidence at best.

Thanks.

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Those actions speak more than the POTUS..


God bless them.

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Her facial injuries and arm contour are not in keeping with her story.

This is a clout-chaser using makeup or if she's to be believed, had a few slaps or punches BUT no Kicks as alleged.



She should provide hospital records entries or cctv records.


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