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Romance / Re: I Really Want To Get Married But No Time To Date by doeeyed: 1:46pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
::Andrew::: Personally, this sounds like a recipe for disaster. There has to be some contact, physical, over the phone, internet. This is not say it can't happen and you guys go on to have a healthy marriage, but its often not the norm. I'm concerned that you're in such a hurry, ........... Marriage no be yam, or baby-producing factory either. I wonder as to your complement of social skills That's by the way. Why can't you find a suitable lady in your domain that you can engage in a relationship, with the hopes of marriage? I can concur if time restrictions due to work or other commitments are in effect... but do remember this may have a negative effect in your marriage. Necessary ingredients will be Deep investigation into each other's background Laying bare to one another Taking it a day at a time, though long term plans are for M!! . |
Family / Re: Conditions For Divorce In Christianity, and [Some Legal] Grounds for Annulment by doeeyed: 12:10pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Quite concise.... Hopefully. Clears the air about do's and don'ts. Q1: With Regards to annulment, what time periods are in place?? Q2: A woman initially coerced, unaware of pre-existing children 2yrs into the marriage... will fall into which category?? Thanks |
Travel / Re: Nigerians To Pay Over N290 Billion In Taxes For Travels To UK by doeeyed: 12:01pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
With Dubai round thé corner, duty-free, few visa restrictions, Don't see the need for the rush to the UK. Quite a few products in the top shops are sourced from ..... yep, you guessed right.... China. Only high end or luxury brands may not be as affected. Time to let our feet do the "speaking". . |
Romance / Re: What An Irony by doeeyed: 12:17am On Nov 08, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Hey, hope you're good. Irritated after reading some gob KK, ......I'll take my claws back in apologies to Op. |
Romance / Re: What Are The Diffrient Btw Internet Friends And Friends You Meet Live. by doeeyed: 12:11am On Nov 08, 2012 |
There's a difference....... Degree of situational awareness is less. You meet a person physically, there are things you pick up instantaneously, speech, body language, composure, sometimes aura. You don't have that opportunity online. Having to dig through the presented personality takes some time... particularly where it's a two-faced person. However, its a 2-edged sword as reserved pple are often tagged alongside as having skeletons in their closets. Keeping an open mind and being alert, I think is key!!!! God continues to protect us well. . |
Romance / Re: Relationship Is Like A False Start... by doeeyed: 11:53pm On Nov 07, 2012 |
@ Op Though I agree with most of your deliberations.... There are many exceptions to the case. I feel these are the people who did their homework before delving in. Overall, a thorough assessment and pro-active planning needs to be done. It goes... Those who fail to plan, plan to fail. !!!! Delicate questions need to be asked of self.... and the other. "Why", "what", "where" and "how" You can then personally assess where this relationship is headed..... Saves untold hardship later. . |
Romance / Re: What An Irony by doeeyed: 9:46pm On Nov 07, 2012 |
Stop alluding to generalizations And hiding behind cliches Be a man and go for the woman you want Rather than hibernating on NL Making untoward baseless arguments!!! . |
Romance / Re: Why Do You Ladies Greet Or Call Ladies "Sweet Heart/words" Are You All Lesbians? by doeeyed: 11:24pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
^^^^^ You never fail to amuse!! |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Poor-money Ritual As Solution? by doeeyed: 11:20pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
If she can't love you in penury, How can you believe she's in love with you in riches!! Money rituals don't come without great sacrifices and are not always successful. You stand to lose your soul, maybe health or other unit of exchange just to please a human being who may still leave you for a richer guy!!! Come on man, Fear God, work on yourself and upgrade . |
Romance / Re: Why Do You Ladies Greet Or Call Ladies "Sweet Heart/words" Are You All Lesbians? by doeeyed: 11:12pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
Just accept that's girly behaviour. I regularly call my female clients, sweetie, dearie, cupcakes, honey ....... to get them cooperating. Just sth widely done in my profession!!!! Sometimes I ask permission from the husbands if there's a quizzical look.... But once other members of the team (almost always female) continue using such words.... They quickly realise, its to put the women at ease during a time that's so harrowing and life changing!! . |
Romance / Re: Seriously Are We To Fear Xtain Sistas More Dan Worldly Sistas? by doeeyed: 11:04pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
It's not the religion per se It's the degree of honesty or openness in your relationship.. If everytime you meet, the award of the ability to quote the most bible verses is what you're after, then you're probably not open to one another!!!!! There are pretenders irregardless of religion.. You're not without blame in this scenario..... You couldn't talk sex with your GF but can do so with another girl....... Hmmmm!!!!! . |
Romance / Re: Why Do You Ladies Greet Or Call Ladies "Sweet Heart/words" Are You All Lesbians? by doeeyed: 10:50pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
As alien as it may sound to you. Women are full of endearments whilst addressing pple. It's a girly thing, something some male cerebella may find difficult comprehending!! It's not a lesbo thing to hold hands or speak words of endearment to another sister. It's being sisterly in a 9ja way. On the streets in a developed world, this may be viewed differently and participants viewed with derision. Hope u understand, Tingz! . |
Celebrities / Re: Photos From Juliet Ibrahim’s Halloween Party by doeeyed: 1:21pm On Nov 06, 2012 |
It's Halloween?? Right What's Batman n the girl in the night shirt n shorts thinking Don't, won't celebrate H...... give me a good reason Agree wt Sagamite.... these guys will promptly say no to an African diety worship which is similar to the ethos behind H. . |
Romance / Re: The First Thing You Look At Before Marriage? by doeeyed: 11:15am On Nov 06, 2012 |
Goes without saying CHARACTER! |
Romance / Re: RICH Man In A Wheelchair?? by doeeyed: 11:13am On Nov 06, 2012 |
^^^^ Well said..... She did mention the guy treated her right! Can understand the issue of shame with regards to his physical disability, given today's undue focus on cosmesis.... But there are ways to overcome that, I should think. |
Romance / Re: RICH Man In A Wheelchair?? by doeeyed: 9:40am On Nov 06, 2012 |
FortuneTeller: My friend has met a handsome man with a great job, home, car, no children, and according to her he has a large koboko stick. however he was in an accident many years ago that injured his legs. he is unable to walk, but he is completely independent. he is now telling her that he wants to marry and have children. she says she cares for him and is pleased that he treats her like a queen, but she is unsure if she would be happy being married to him because of his handicap. i have been silent on this because i do not want to sway her decision in any direction. does anyone here have any experience with this type of relationship? if so, please give your input on this matter. He's relatively independent.... His character speaks for itself.... He likes n treasures her... No issues of subfertility What does she want . |
Romance / Re: I Want A "Divorce" by doeeyed: 9:32am On Nov 06, 2012 |
^^^^^^ Now you're sooo funny..... '"Keep sharp things away.." Hope you're good! |
Romance / Re: Sighs When Relative And Friends Know My Fiancee Is A Yoruba Girl by doeeyed: 9:28am On Nov 06, 2012 |
Genius100: Are you really this stupid? Even if your people are ignorant, how about you that has been dealing with the girl? You are in the best position to evaluate the girl. All yoruba girls are not the same. All Igbo girls are not the same. All South South girls are not the same. YOu have to know the individual you intend to marry and make the necessary decisions. on point!!! |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Fall Prey To Heart-Breakers by doeeyed: 9:13am On Nov 06, 2012 |
samfibby: Guys just want to play around b4 finally settling down. Is there anything wrong with dat There's a lot wrong with playing around with girls hearts and bragging about your victories.... The girl(s) liked/loved you at the time and gave you her all, after all your promises....... only to be dumped by the wayside. You want to play.......ko Play with another player.... Like for like, no be so? It's only a bully that picks on a weaker child!!!!! Not a vulnerable young thing who simply craves love, sometimes from the wrong places. . |
Romance / Re: I Want A "Divorce" by doeeyed: 9:03am On Nov 06, 2012 |
Mynd_44: So you actually gave a girl you don't itenf to marry you FB username and password? Ha ha... Op. Need to sit her down and firmly reign her in!!!! Otherwise, she faces the consequences. In the absence of change then..... |
Romance / Re: When A Man Loves A Lady...... by doeeyed: 8:57am On Nov 06, 2012 |
Rhymes!!!!!!!!! Going by that, few men have actually ever been in love!!! . |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Behave Better Abroad Than In Nigeria by doeeyed: 8:48am On Nov 06, 2012 |
onila: he feels more proud 2 have a pretty nigerian girl as his girlfriend or wife abroad Truth be told.... You may be wife no 2/3, if you're lucky. Do your research. Caveat Emptor!!!! . |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Behave Better Abroad Than In Nigeria by doeeyed: 8:46am On Nov 06, 2012 |
Discombobulated!!!!!! apologies to SK if wrongly spelt..... Grass is not always greener on the other side, midear!!! Each area has its territorial issues. Some of which are Naija.... poverty, in-laws/ out-laws, aristos, patriarchal mentality..... ??benefit: tribal inclusion: family involvement to help sort things out at times UK.... poverty, men living off women, club girls/ "chavs", prevalent "easy virtues attitude", system excessively in support of women conferring no long term solution.... ??benefit: national inclusion... the Diasporan elders, sometimes church leaders in the absence of family and relatives may help out. US ..... competition from the "once you go black, you never come back" chicks prevalently around the successful, savvy men; and other African and Afrocarribean sisters, men with wives in different states or countries, broke-ass thinking....... international inclusion..... left to your own devices... no strong support network, prevalent in cities or towns with low levels of Naija migration Won't go into Europe or SE Asia Sis, look at the picture again . |
Romance / Re: Can You Introduce Your Wife/husband To Your Ex Whenever You Come Across Him/her by doeeyed: 11:31pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
sexkillz: "Honey, this is the lady i told you about, my ex. If she hadn't left me, i wouldn't have had the pleasure of meeting you, my true love". . . Simple! Exactement!!!!! You have nothing to hide, why not!! |
Romance / Re: Wat Ve U Reserved For Ur Life Partner Only by doeeyed: 11:25pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
FB'd |
Romance / Re: Who Do U Think Really Owns D Man? The Mother Or The Daughter Inlaw? Pls Reply by doeeyed: 11:16pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
Hallo Thanks for the blessing God bless you too. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Fall Prey To Heart-Breakers by doeeyed: 11:12pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
dmcdad: Plain and simple... Because they go into relationships for the wrong reasons. And if you dont have the right reasons for going into a relationship, how do you expect to find the right person for it..? If you dont know where you are going, people will lead you to where they are going. They also look at the wrong places. I don't think that's a fair assessment. Yes some girls should choose better mates... But guys do them little favour ....by pretending and telling lies all the way..... If every chap that came along was treated with disbelief or disdain..... You guys will say...."she too dey form".... Let's play by the rules ....... Don't like the girl... don't tell her you "love" her, the first week you met!!! Be gentlemanly enough to keep your zips up ....and not think with your 3rd leg!!!! Remember Karma can be a biatch. . |
Romance / Re: In Love With Yagazie Chukwumerije by doeeyed: 10:43pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
Exasperated!!! he hasn't come after u all these years, maybe its time to change strategy!!! I said, Get an anonymous name and follow the guy... U git!!!! Then drop the onions and see if he gets it. Keep it anonymous cos onions stink!!!! U git ?? . |
Romance / Re: Why Women Like Women by doeeyed: 9:44pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
Baseless reasoning Didn't some of the gay chaps not feed off their mothers' bosoms? Deliberate on proper reasons behind the trend in 9ja. Not bringing some 1/20th baked reason here. This lack of critical reasoning (if quite generalized) shows a potential reason for girls sticking to their kind..... at least one can hope to have some reasonable conversation!!!! . 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Who Do U Think Really Owns D Man? The Mother Or The Daughter Inlaw? Pls Reply by doeeyed: 9:36pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
^^^^^^^ Haba why not me Nothing against God blessing my papa sha! |
Romance / Re: The "Right" Reason For Entering Into A Romantic Relationship by doeeyed: 9:24pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
Sweetie, that's a cliche....... It's like ..... can't be bothered to figure out or tell the shortcomings that led to the breakup!!! Reasons are varied and are made right! ..... jointly by the parties involved. |
Romance / Re: In Love With Yagazie Chukwumerije by doeeyed: 9:19pm On Nov 05, 2012 |
gorgeousity: Still too shy to tell him. That's why I am saying it on a faceless forum. At least the burden is off my chest. Its left for Universe to cause him to know or not. This is Ms Universe speaking....... "Eehmm. Best get off your horse Check if he's got a significant other If yes.... nil point!!!! If no, follow him on Twitter / Facebook Anonymously let him onto the fact, you've always fancied him And await events..... Then you have allowed the universe to work for you. Till then, the universe awaits your contribution." ****** silly twerp, don't you realise how busy I am************* . |
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