Interesting opinions so far...
Social paradigms are changing
One parent families are on the increase for a variety of reasons.

To the Op, get the agreement in writing and notarized... Particularly financial responsibility and access to your estate even after transition to help protect your other children's inheritance. This is not fail-proof but provides some major degree of protection.

Co-parenting is another option but will entail financial and emotional investment, sth that you may not be keen on given your previous comments.

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HBD

Kudos to the gentleman for his act of benevolence.

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All is fair in love and ...

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ExBanker:
Do you know that turtles have the biggest penis in the world compared to their body size?

Try google it and be shocked

Of all things to point out..



On a lighter note, big doesn't denote great productivity ........ Compare population sizes.


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King44:
I am really concerned I don't give a f about the country anymore, now I am getting concerned for us as people, our stupidity and hypocrisy is getting worse by the day

Last time ordinary paster krest case, a case that most of those people criticising him or her were not witness to, something that happened in maybe 90s or early 2000 some idiots organised people to stage protest

Black lives matters, we joined them and police are killing people everyday like we operate a slaughter house as a country, no protest just rants

Where are those useless hungry lawyers who gathered people to protest krest case last time?.

Now this case that might send many of us to jail unnecessary and silence us finally till Nigeria turns Pakistan is being taken as something that is not serious

We may be under a particular curse of stupidly if a proper check is done

Its a shame...

I see the reason behind the statement.. Bad leaders are a result of bad followers/ populace.

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King44:
we are too docile in this country but if na pastor crest rape case stupid people won't stage protest, these law makers are daring us

If it is black lives matter that does not affect us you would see some idiots masturbating over it

Land tax bill and this bill are wrong, if this scale through grazing bill that has been kept there till we are docile about it would be passed

Its incredible how mumu-fied people have become?

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Benbellamor:
I hate when fools don't know what they ve got Until its gone..They now started crying

Saraki and Dino would have uphold people's wish. The same saharareporters keeps distracting him with Allegations

Mumu people keep saying that Saraki is blocking Goodies from Buhari

Oya enjoy goodies especially packaged for you.....freedom After speech NOT GUARANTEED..Gbammmm

Saraki won't have allowed this.

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TheGuyFromHR:


50,000 pounds??!!!!
Difficult to believe.

Easily done

If shackled under by very entitled relatives.

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Yummmmmyyyy



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Cutezt:


Yes, reports says he is safe and well

Thanks.

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Hope he is safe
Looked like he got hit by a boulder


RIP to all the casualties

And also to the casualties of "genocide" in North Central and N.E. Nigeria.


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BigBashiru:


The buying power of Nigerians have been affected by the greed of Nigerians - use covid-19 period as an example - nigerians increased prices of even face masks - Shoprite and spar being fairly priced items with a return policy compared to nigerian retailers - so its the nigerians themselves that are responsible for a poor currency valuation - nigeria can have a good currency valuation if the people wake up to their responsibilities as good citizens and stop waiting for Buhari to do everything for them. Is there poor police? Let the citizens create community policing - poor purchasing power? Let the citizens form pressure and lobby groups to work with the government. Nigerians hardly take personal responsibility for things - all they do is fasting and prayer and blaming the President - dont get me wrong prayer has its place and fasting but its not what got China to become a super power....

There's no demonstrable overarching business viewpoint.


Selfishness has taken away that sense of collective responsibility or community.its the underlining principle behind senseless corruption.

With no community-focused deep thinker, there's no recognised macro-economic voice ... But squeaks
The occasional squeaks are treated as terrorists rather than major stakeholders.

Question...

Where are the heads of the chambers of business, leads of Directors Guilds, heads of Labour unions or other workers unions..

Once individual pockets are settled, the status quo continues.


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Luckydubby7:
. For jumia I have worked there I must tell you that jumia have been incurring loses since they started.

For Shoprite, I'm currently working with a company that supply all supermarket equipment from shelves to refrigerator to accessories. Competition is just too much. Everyone want to own a retail store.

How is profit achieved... If articles are obtained legally and not smuggled in??

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LadyExcellency:


It's all about competition. Southeasterns meanly the Igbo's dominate the market in Nigeria. Shoprite can't compete with Igbo merchants who are not only conquering and dominating commerce in West Africa but are expanding into the heart of Sourt Africa.

Igbo merchants believe in profit generated through turnover rather than per sale.

Please explain profit by turnover rather than per sale

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Martinez39s:



Despite these laws, some men, after getting divorced once, twice or even thrice, still keep on getting married and looking for love. I just can't understand what is happening here.

Manufacturer's defect

"Missing rib" theory

Or the" female nurturing role" transposition effect.


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HML

The c and her chuchu..

Upgrade to couple therapy



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Who remembers Zeena the warrior queen

What am I even saying



HML to the couple!!

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wink2015:


GOOD NEWS !

Key senior personnel of the AFDB will be sanctioned from attending American organized conferences, fairs and seminars.


AMERICA RULES THE WORLD !

To the 1st, I say yes!!!

To the 2nd, I say...no as very irrelevant.......

Their workers aren't from the backside of some country looking to beg for entry or work visas in the States.


To the 3rd.... Sadly I must suggest, that era is almost over... Foreign policy mishaps amongst doddering economy makes for an unfortunate combination.



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Icechillz:
Nigerians are just bad luck I swear

Nigerians are beautiful, resourceful, friendly, warm people...Most are, anyway!!

A few may be naughty or bad.

There are bad people everywhere.
Nationality is simply of the garments they wear.


To the story, you quoted.... I take with a pinch of salt that every bad act has a Nigerian as the lead actor. Many people claim the country, have forged passports of the country...
Remember there was a short epidermic of borrowed identities, a while ago in an European country where a lot of "Nigerian" criminals were truly from other African countries and even the Carribeans!!!


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1Alex:
check the screenshot you posted and check this list on the link below and see if the merchandizer or Shirley recruitment consultants is there.

https://dubaiemploymenttips.com/recruitment-agencies/list/

So could Shirley be a small coy, possibly not tied into the Industry code of practice and openly flaunting rules by assumption.. The rules are for employers not recruiters?!?


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OndoFirstBorn:


https://punchng.com/police-clear-dbanj-as-seyitan-withdraws-rape-petition/?amp=1&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter&__twitter_impression=true

Stranger and stranger it gets....

BTW, how long will it take to pay up the 1.5billion naira....


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meobizy:

This is a legitimate concern and she carried out her service regardless. They should reinstate her back to work since doctors are always in demand. Thirty minutes in one of those things will drench your clothes in sweat like a forty-eight minute basketball competition.

Not an excuse to work semi-naked.

Regular breaks on a 2-4hrly time schedule works...... Not this



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Babaibejii:
Oh boy you be learner, you dnt knw while waiting for fruit to yellow ripe well well, birds are eating it from the other side. Dey there

The fruit was already ripe...

The camouflage was discarded accidentally... Hence the R story!


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hotwax:
I met her a virgin and she made it clear from unset that she wanted to keep her virginity till wedding date. I agreed with her, afterall, I intended to marry her.

Meanwhile she is a friend to a man at her office. She even introduced him to me as a friend. When she call me on video while at office, I usually see this man at the background. We call him 'your office father'. January 2020, her workplace where she is undergoing internship organized a 'get-together' party in one hotel at Ikeja. Throughout the event, she did not pick my calls till the next day . It was unusual of her. I just told myself, party don enter body be that. She later off her phone.

Sometime in February, we got playful and we were over the edge to the point that I wanted to penetrate. But I quickly controlled my self. Then she started stoking my dck . I watched her with surprized. She noticed and started pulling me towards her telling me to fck her, i refused to continue and sat. I asked with anger, "so you have been having sex". She started crying that she was sorry she kept it a secret from me. She said she was afraid I was going to kill her if I get to know. She said the man I called her office father raped Blahblah. In the party she took 3 bottles of smirnoff and she sat with the man. Late night, when she was going, the man told her he already book a room that she should not go home late at night. She said she was not thinking straight and it was as if the man used juju. She followed him to his room, while she was sleeping the man raped her multiple times overnight.

It was shocking, I was filled with rage. I asked why she did not raise alarm, why not report to the police? To their HR. She said its going to be shame for her, people r going to mock her. How did she get into a hotel room with a married man. The man's job is also at stake. It took me days to take her back, but I couldnt touch her, because she disgusted me. . She noticed begged me. She tried for us to have sex, but i wont just be in the mood.

Although she is a secretive person. She has been battling various STDs. Virginal discharged, candida e.t.c I do see drugs and creams in her bag.
But now she is battling hepatis B. She was admitted at the hospital and incurred huge medical bill which I was involved. I asked if she treated herself after the rape experience, she said a nurse friend treated her. And I asked if she has been seeing many guys. She said it was the only man she ever had sex with.

1 Sexual encountered spiraled to unending STD and sicknesses. Its painful for me because my dream woman just wasted away like that.
I am not even sure she had sex with only one man.

See format....

She dey play una!!

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Originality007:



Dont forget how a Whole General was killed like a day old chicken

And their ambassador was annihilated in Libya!!

Peace not war!!! Peace not war!!!

Trying to stir up war to increase weapon trade to refurbish the battered economy thanks to Covid!!!


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When is the Lekki airport going to be built pleaseeeeee

He's playing the Naija politics game!!

HBD to Wizzy

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Forgo the money..

Next time, promise to reimburse after goods are delivered.

You need to state clearly what goods +/- services are in question here!!


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Not looking pretty on her arm
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He's set the bar high!

**Nigerian
**Widower
**Rich
**not given to old maxims of excessive/ coercive control whilst alluding to be a traditional African man.
**possibly handsome /charismatic
**Happy to have a 60yr old as wife/long-term mate
**Hopefully stay faithful and not bed-hop from 1 young filly to another under aphrodisiac influence or peer pressure.....in order to shake away the fear of decreased sexual mastery that comes with age...!!!!!


I wish you goodluck!!!



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kuntash:
the Govt should focus on fixing roads and boost support for their hospitals ..

Development should be spread to all areas of the economy.

Particularly areas providing some degree of revenue and employment.

Good initiative this is.

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