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@ op,

U wl b committing a criminal offence punishable by years in prison.
Common man, be a man.
U re the adult, u repeat this event to her in 8 yrs, she'll laugh, saying its a little crush if she remembers at all


Think wt ur m. Oblangata not ur j, stick peeeeeeleeeeeassse.

@ op,

Hardly prescriptive, as several variables are influenced by location-specific indicators.

Works better as a poem or rap.

My 2 kobo.

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What does that mean?

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U talk true.
Pls op, Left her alone for her husband

Thanks,

sent u anoda

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Sure bout that??

Meant the NEPA pole u walked into whilst looking at ikebe.

@ sauer, commend u on ur aspirations. N shedding some light regarding michelin89's comments.

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Agree about that trad family role,

have reservations re: same sex scenarios particularly if no gender change has taken place.

But in the absence of a balanced hetero scenario, a loving environment nurturing his potential
has to be acceptable.

M44,
Which kind advice u dey give abelraph.
Send discharge leta to him wife.

How for do?
The mere fact the woman dey tell am say only one thing,,  "old boi do something na, n quick too"  .
She still is keen on him otherwise she go don find real person dey do it for am.
I agree the way she's going about it is rather silly, but maybe she don talk tire.

At least if after a formal setting, there's still a problem, at least its on record, he made an effort

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Haba

   

My backside or the nearest NEPA pole ur checking out.
U neva sent a reply.

Comes in
No answers
Whistles on

Agree wt wislet,

Good guy anyday.
Remember a good guy can still be macho, firm etc.

No baddy, baddy at al.

When younger, a lady might be attracted to the baddies, as women mature faster. Baddies tend to exude a mature worldly wise aura.

But on getting older, wanting a long term commitment, na good responsible bobo she go to find o.

My thoughts exactly!!!!!!

He's concerned that his friend may fall into the laps of a delilah.
He tells his friend of her previous dalliance at the peril of losing the their friendship n friend still having a failed relationship.

So set her up to determine if she's really changed, never know.

Wish we all had friends watching our backs like u.

@1st citizen,

His cuteness is only an endearing factor. I did mention he was intelligent too. Of course, he is no hamster. He's a little boy that needs all the love, hardwork n sacrifice needed to give him a better future.

I'm not oblivious to the fact, its a huge undertaking. But I prefer to take it one day at a time, otherwise the very thought would scare one off.

It's a journey hopeful of ending at an excellent pre-determined destination, one I hope to enjoy whilst on the way, and on arriving at the endpoint.

@ sauer,

what age would you consider well past infancy, 2ndly would u adopt as a single person

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Disagree.

Chances are due to the nature of their jobs n ensuing effect on the marriage, they r yet to have a proper discussion.

My advice will be for op to organise a weekend from home,
If its difficult to do so, try involving her work colleagues in the surprise.
Organise child-care as that might be another excuse.



Leave town, check into a lovely hotel.
Let her be and soak in the lovely surroundings.
Let lovemaking be the last thing on your mind, remember you are to there to talk in a conducive environment


Identify the reasons behind your love for each other.
The current pitfalls and remedies.
Write up an action plan if she's still game, albeit informally.


Then top it up with your carnal pleasure if she's game.

Where's ur evidence?

Remember, the rich also cry,

Happy for the couple, Not being a hater

Haba

Want to test her ''love",

simply set up a boy F to seemingly draw her attention of boy D
Have boy D observe the ensuing tango.

For all u know, she may genuinely like boy D, n not fall foul.

@ sauer,
What might those terms be , if I may ask.

Really,
That's a u-turn

Wolfetone,

You have come to a forum whr ur desires may be fulfilled.
Cultures r different but very family-oriented. Despite all the stories parading the various news stations, nigerians r lovely hardworking people.

Obviously observing all internet protocol, this forum is a place to pick up slangs n meanings, mentality, different twists observed in different sub-cultures.

Food is varied but quite spicy. We have a local version of guiness aka palmy, a good quality vodka aka ogogoro.

Traditionally, you Irish have large families ( catholic influence), but the numbers don't come close to that of Naija parties.
Have a 'small' party, they simply turn up without invitation.  Expect about a 100 pple, so make allowances.

There is a similarity in sectarian politics. You have Sth to talk about.

S, ex, the saying goes, once you go black, you never go back. (Oops)

Hopefully these are useful tips to use and adopt as u get ur African/ nigerian queen.

Welcome on board, honorary 9ja ( means nigerian).

Woodcock,

Convoluted thinking,
want to give the child an opportunity of a better life, u dey think winchcraft r juju
How dat one enter tori,

Tell us da truth,
Na so u go do, if e na bi u, wey dey 4 d tori.

Yes in certain communities.

Pple r changing in response to their prevailing circumstances

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Where is it?

Merci.



Im not forcing the issue. Just get irritated when pple make out that the womenfolk are so heavily disadvantaged.

The men have their own waterloo too.

@ pendo89,

Hope u r bearing up, following that. Must be quite traumatic.

I totally agree wt the idea of " right thing done at the right time ".

Thanks again.

@ claremont, I agree with you.

Previously I was comfortable wt the idea of fostering. Not necessarily adoption due to the legal implications on my genetic children.
But having met this young toddler that timely intervention could potentially prevent a spiral down a world of drugs et al, heart strings were pulled.

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What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Rich chief commanding short term spatial attention of babes,,,
Rich suga mum commanding the same of any willing rentboy, junior colleagues, houseboy/ gatemen:
whatever suits her fancy.

Just as chief may not necessarily settle wt the aristos, so the same goes for suga mum.

If It's to marry, she attaches herself to some power broker, at least that way she gets it all:

Young love peddler, Mrs politician/ powerbroker, gets her contracts coming in too.

Don't have a messenger, just the hmail.