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PerseDew:
After about 20 yrs, those ones that didn't allow their wives to work will use those achievements their friends told them about their wives to taunt their own wives..asking her what has she achieved.

OP, some have said it already, your parents failed you. His reasons are enough for you to be adamant and make sure you find work or start a business.

Many have mentioned how you should be dependent on him if promises a salary or joint account. I say don't fall into that trap not only because he might use it as a means to subdue and control you but because life is too uncertain to depended on anyone. As long as being the sole bread winner does not make him immune to death, sack letter or incapability of any form, fend for yourself even if the profit is meagre. Also, as your child grows to pre teens and in teenage years, nurture any talent they have or you help them find what they like doing and develop it. Try as much as you can for them to enter Uni not just with brain but with a skill.

djon78:
No they think its by gra gra.
To get real sweetness is serious sense, gentility.

Women are very easy to handle
Women are like children, lead her by example. Show her you are worth her leadership, and she will be forever loyal. Even the very stubborn ones, can be easily managed

But they think na gra gra, I am the man.
Honestly many of our men need to get some sense

Desric:
Already if you're not aware, I am. A lot kids will be raised in broken homes, it's already happening so my advice is before you come into a relationship especially marriage these days define your terms and conditions don't bring your feminist movement into a poor man's life in the name of you're civilized and educated otherwise just look for somebody to impregnate you if bearing kids is your reason for marriage or better still do the IVF thing and be fine.

Hueyreckless0007:
Four weddings and a funeral

cococandy:
I wish them both good luck.

I don’t have anything negative to say...yet
Until we know if he’s one of those “black women are ugly. Team foreign babes. bla bla bla” kind of men.

CHoccolaTE:
Like I said before I find it hard to believe this guy's account of how things went. A woman will not just get up and leave a guy who has been a loving and responsible husband because he fucked_ up once. I smell lies and omission in this story.

MrBrownJay1:
and the above is exactly where my beef is in this issue:
A) these people make a sextape/nudes
B) lady fully well knows that dude will show/share it to all his mates (for bragging right)
C) the lady has absolutely NO problem with the above point B
D) when they break up, suddenly it is an

cococandy:
This part is my favorite.

1) The view into the dining area.
If you look closely, you can see the garland on the arc that leads to the kitchen.

2) and the family of reindeer at the end of the driveway.

That’s all babe.

You have to add ornaments to your tree , put a reindeer or elf on the shelf.

I got everything from Lowe’s, Costco and TJmaxx.

cococandy:
@Doitforyou.

1) I have an elf on the shelf by the TV (he goes wherever you need him )
2) A Lampadaire in the corner of the dining and
3) the Christmas tree in another corner of the dining

cococandy:


I thought I was going crazy. When people argue for Trump. Argh

MrBrownJay1:
i beg to differ. the sextape may have been released against her will but she was a WILLING PARTICIPANT in this home video, and certainly not a victim.

MrBrownJay1:
the law is just as important as prevention... believing that only a law can fix such issues is wrong IMHO.

MrBrownJay1:
but how do you prove who did what?what if the person was ok with releasing the sextape and then...

MrBrownJay1:
thats a different issue entirely, because the crime here is not "releasing" the sextape, but making that sextape without your knowledge..

MrBrownJay1:
i think the source of this issue is simply people willing to put their nudity on display on film AND THEN putting such pics/tapes in the hand of people that they shouldnt trust. whether the law threaten to send someone to jail or not, is irrelevant in this issue as we all know that jilted lovers would do their worst, whether punishable by jail sentence or not.

when you cross the street, didnt your parents teach you to look left and right?!?!?! i believe that the same mindset should be used before making a sextape etc ... and if you are willing to put your face on a sextape, knowing fully well that your sex partner has as much right to do what they please with this tape as you do, then you should accept whatever outcome comes from such foolish gesture.

here is a simple clue: a person can have your sextape in their phone, claim to lose that same phone before releasing the sextape/pics etc and have some stranger at the end of the world releasing your sextape.... and nothing will happen to them.

cococandy:

So me and and you are almost the same.
If not for my DH, we wouldn’t have much by way of decorations. I love them but I can only do the low hanging ones. No climbing to fix lights and all that stuff for me.
But why no ornaments? Those are fun. Try it.

Okay. I will share pictures with you later .

At work now.

MrBrownJay1:
as much as revenge p0rn is a big deal these days (and very difficult to curb), i dont understand how someone believes that they will ALWAYS be cool with their bf/gf, to the point of letting them have your nudes.... i dont get it.

MrBrownJay1:
release the nudes yourself, and take away any power that person has over you... then learn a VALUABLE lesson in the same process: never have your face/tattoos etc that can be recognized on any nudes/sextape

cao:
Well, their stupidity was Fox's gain.

abduleez1:
Yep, after your V wars comment, I looked it up online, but it didn't catch my fancy much as it's more of sci-fi. A disease turning people into Vampires ain't palatable to my ears. Almost sounds like Zombie (which I'm not a fan of).

Yeah, I watched Bitten, Alaba copies though, it was pretty good. Too bad it was cancelled after season 2.

Laurene:
exactly! There he will have a fair trial

abduleez1:
Wow, unbelievable. WB always having silly and clueless execs since Genesis.

abduleez1:
Best villain was Deathstroke closely followed by Ra's Al Ghul.

cococandy:
I’m last to take down too. I just like Christmas too much

Mine’s artificial. I plan to use it for years and years.
We’ve had it for like 4 or 5 years now.
Do share some decorating tips when you have the time. We are not done yet.

cococandy:
Yes dear . it is And some other decor.
We put them up before thanksgiving because we went out of state for thanksgiving and I love my tree to be up on the morning after thanksgiving.

How about you?

sinaj:
Celebrate his freedom when the case hasnt been dismissed

Well this is naija and I wont be surprise if the case gets swept under the carpet.

koboko69:
Mtcheew. Incoherent piece of shit!

You really sound like a Trump supporter

No wonder he loves the poorly educated.

Obviously u dont even know what u talking about..

Laurene:
he will make himself available in the senate.

abduleez1:
And that's probably cos I'm a sucker for mythic fantasy especially Vampires and Werewolf lore.

abduleez1:
Lol, it's same thing with me too. I followed Flash until I quit after season 3. Arrow after season 4. The 100 season 3, Legacies couldn't even get past premiere season. Batwoman didn't bother to since the negativity surrounding it was too much. Supergirl and Legends, I no waste my time.