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fieryy:
I think she's a female, but a confused one. This is not the first time she created controversy threads about rape. She's just so.... clueless

CanadianNaija:
Lol...this woman you’re funny sha.

Your husband is busy sleeping with everything but you, yet na you Dey run up and down looking for solution.

I really feel for women like you sha, maybe one day you’ll have sense.
Nobody jazzed him anything, he just doesn’t get hard for you anymore.

micbjrex:
When I objected, say I told them to eat some fruits or salads, they would go eat it grudgingly, but if there mum is home, she gave in to them. So they could read between the line that we were not on the same page. So, they would rather ask their mum for any food than me.

Lastly, we disagree a lot about all of the above as it has become a recurring issue. What even got to me is: today, my wife wanted to drive me to the ER because I was ill. My oldest kid came to tell me that she had asked her mum that she would be going with us. I told her we would not take her with us that no kids are allowed in the ER unless they are sick.

Singapore1:
let's see what season 2 bring in 2021
you have been respectful in airing your opinion which is scarce online these days

oweniwe:
Yes ma.

One stripper suya mallam.... He strips sells suya at the junction club.

One evening, he went to sell suya at the junction.

People gathered around his booth.. they watched him as he stoked the charcoal flames. The stripper suya mallam even flirted gave people some people suya to taste.

Late in the night, the suya mallam carried the suya on wheelbarrow and went home to sleep without selling suya to anybody

Twoclan..s dp sef... If your mama see that dp, she go flog u o

pocohantas:
Depends on the style, any style that touches the edges is a NOO! Sadly, that is the type they always make these kids.

Very mature hair styles! Gosh! I hate it ehn.

Anyway, I get doitforyou's argument. A Nigerian mother has a very tight schedule, you don't wanna add daily styling from an uncooperative kid to it. When I have my baby girl (who would definitely look like me) - I will be making her that fulani hairstyle. The one that starts from the center and falls round the head. E no go pass 10, we would count it

blesoh:
You are right, my daughter can't stand the pains immediately I try to comb she starts crying the best thing is to plait it, hair textures are not the same

Ryan03:
abeg leave those ones who have never handle kids hair before. I am a guy and a stylist, I braid for kids and I can tell you your post is very correct

nnekaike:
You are right, my daughters hair is so stubborn to the core,I have bought and used countless hair product and its still the same,the hair can only be combed or styled when its wet and greased with enough moisturizer but once the hair is dry it will be so bad,the only solution is to make the hair once in 10days.NOT every hair can do what the OP just said,I recently cut off her hair but comb it and see it in 5minutes it will be as rough as u can imagine,the only solution now is to barb skin cut.

Surrey2Bimshire:
I was about to type the same thing .

PeacenLove2:
Some hair textures na die o. No comb fit run through them. If you like put all the grease inside jar. Seriously speaking some people have very soft scalp that cannot be put to the torture of daily styling. The best option is weave or braid to last a week or two cos even with low cut, running combs through them every day is still a menace, unless you want to he visiting barber weekly to make it very low.

Just make sure you find a good hairdresser who is used to making children's hair. Some hands have that magical touch, just do well to remind them to be easy on your LO.

fieryy:
Thank goodness, I'm not the only example then.

fieryy:
All textures can sustain a daily maintenance of a bun. I used mine as an example, but all you had to say was 'That's your hair'. Buns are one of the easiest low maintenance hair styles, especially for natural hair

fieryy:
I am not attacking you, but simply correcting you. A bun is sth every hair texture is capable of doing. It is as simple as that.

Hair styles a parent decide for is none of my business, as long as the child does have to go through any kind of pain.

It does not matter if they choose to braid the child's hair weekly or pack it in a bun daily, styling your hair shouldn't be painful.

computergeek:
The write-up isn't about style or unstyled. Cornrows can be done without pain for school.

No one is judging anyone, the point is that no responsible mom should sit and watch her daughter endure pain for hours to look stylish with these over-do hairstyles.

It has no go-around. No justification for letting your daughter cry and fall sick because of hair.


Shave the darned thing off till she's grown up.

fieryy:
Water, leave in and oil is all what you need. I packed my hair in a bun/puff almost everyday last year. The daily styling itself took me ca. 5 mins. What had really been time consuming was the weekly washing and conditioning

fieryy:
And I quoted you to tell you that the most kinky hair texture 4c, and the straightest 1a, and everything in between ARE ALL capable of being styled as a bun.

You literally just pack your hair up

fieryy:
The style in the second picture is very much realistic regardless of hair texture and pain is not sth. that should be felt at all, while braiding or even combing your hair. A lot of Nigerian hair dressers are too rough with hair.

In addition to what the op said, edges should be braided and cornrows etc shouldn't be too tight

computergeek:
She should never go throw any pain at all until she's old enough to decide that she wants to do it.

And by old enough, I mean 18.

cococandy:
Also prostitution is a real job. Sex work is legit work.

And sex workers deserves respect just like everyone else. Just thought I should add that while we are on the topic.

Dan2000:
We dated for over 5 years before marriage, I actually started dating her while I was in 3rd year in the university, whereas for her being on low cut was never an issue then.
The only thing I realised is that women do change after marriage.

Dan2000:
I actually shunned off the issue of working under anyone immediately after her NYSC POP around this year July just for the IELTS preparations.
So when I requested such a favour from her and she declined it, I felt bad, like I am here in a remote location working and saving money for the family.
I felt bad like, I should have migrated alone instead of waiting for her to be through with her studies.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You're very right about your last paragraph. I guess there are less sane people here to render some advice. It's really pathetic.

I even get scared to talk to people about my predicament many times because they really do not get my drift.

bryanarchie:
dad is really really sick, can't travel the distance

Pussywar:
Not everyone is a patriarchy princess.