₦airaland Forum

Forrkke:
Thanks for this


I understand it’s difficult to believe a female in issues such as this. There’s no denying that she messed agreeing to something like that. However, the lies the boy told should not be left unaddressed

Uwc
To me, I believe it’s just common sense for to anyone mature
A simple question as this:
Would a teenage girl rape her age mate when she’s a guest?
The boy definitely started having urges cos they shared space together
The mother of the boy knows this truth
She’s at fault

Tbh, if I was the girl in question, since they don’t want good, I would deny consensual sex, accuse the boy of rape then join the mother as accomplice
That She knowingly and deliberately groomed her (the girl) to be raped by her son at her vulnerable state by insisting that she lives within the same space with the boy
Let the mom now swear that her son was good
Since they don’t want peace, it’s war mode turned on

I have no remorse 🥺

lebron7:
You must either be insane or an illiterate
Was it the girl that killed him
Read the post before spewing trash in my mt

But you sef, you’re trash spewer as well; if you read carefully you’d see the ss3 student’s elder sister
As quick as you were to call someone else insane
I hereby proclaim that you have a very low IQ

uvie66:
the issue here is not whether the kids are fake or not. When chatting with the other person as once they declare that they are minors you the adult seize all form of communication.

You’re very wise🤝
Once you start talking to someone, just to be sure, ask age if you’re not sure, but just ask tho any age below 18
Stop immediately
Hit the ground and run, don’t pause to think about whether age of consent is 16 or 18
Don’t even think of being patient to groom the said human
Just continue running, don’t stop.

Adapted from PBAT’s Modus Operandi🙃😜

yemmit90:
Is like you don't know women? He convinced her my foot, you should know it is all lies the moment a woman tell you she slept with a man without her consent but not a rape. From your story, I think I believe the guy more than your cousin, what would he gain by lying against a girl he beg to sleep with after 8 years.

There’s a reason & why I choose to respond to you
Your comment showed either you’re not educated or you have low IQ, that you quickly resorted to gender based hate opinion of the story.
If you read the post well, you would realize that the male cousin has lost it all, frustration, waywardness has caused him to devise these great lies, especially as the female cousin is not back on track with her life.

To inform you more, the female cousin may have quickly obliged just to put herself in the good books of her host, then she may have considered it a sacrifice she paid just to get herself another chance
You don’t condemn people when you can’t share in whatever the person is going through at a particular time and sometimes it’s wisdom to watch your words before spewing it, people like you make the male gender look biased and unreasonable.
This is enough moral lessons for you on a Wednesday
Please sin no more🤝

Back to OP, I suggest the female cousin tries to get a family meeting to clear herself, where you can speak on her behalf to veto her part of the story which seems very logical and reasonable.
However should family members refuse to cooperate, I suggest she uses high level Police Officers to roughen the boy till fear is instilled into him

Her softness and cries may cause her integrity which isn’t worth sacrificing.
Everyone have sinned, there’s always another chance that’s why there’s a new day each day, another chance to correct the wrongs of the previous day

Shalom👋

pocohantas:
Women and men are going through shege in Nigerian marriages, but the difference is, men are brazen about the shege they dish out. Women are hardly ever that brazen because they know the odds are not in their favour. I can't say the same for the sons of Nebuchadnezzar.

When a man sees shege, he is encouraged to get a divorce or side-chick for balance and he would most likely do that. With or without shege.

When a woman sees shege, she is encouraged to wear red pant and pray. This has never been a proven way to let out steam, so they become toxic and depressed with receding hairlines. Waiting for their kids to grow, then they go there to disturb the future daughter inlaw and the son who has failed to ask his mother why she is running from her own husband, would indulge her. Or maybe he knows why she is running. After all he saw it happen.

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I am not moved by all the divorce topics in the UK or wherever. The problem is not the UK. The problem is the foundation of Nigerian marriages. We are a dangerous people. Home and abroad we are the same. Any country we enter en masse must start looking for how to close her borders. That is how dangerous we are. But we would hardly ever reflect and change. Instead we blame feminism, blame NATO, blame a Youtuber and blame Tinubu. Very anyhow people...

You’re a wise lady but it’s very necessary to point out that whatsoever happens to these women are caused by themselves
I’m not saying it’s bad to desire good things but you can’t eat your cake and have it
Most Nigerian ladies always want it all or are often foolishly in love with the wrong person in their prime, thus making mistakes and when married to a man who has his on idea of a dream family (which I am sure he must have shared with the lady during courtship), the lady now wants different things and boom💥 another lady has been victimized
Free the ladies gang enter full force

Quick question:
What stopped a med doctor from discussing about her career with her prospective husband during courtship 🥺
Or daughter of Zion wanted a diamond ring and Alexreports kind of wedding and doesn’t want to remain at home and look after family after getting such🤔🥺🥺
Most Nigerian ladies feel entitled 😠
You were jobless when I married you, and we got married, boom you now want to work nights all of a sudden without adequate dialogue and allowance of enough years for son of man to adjust accordingly
How are we unsure that being jobless med doctor was what attracted the man in the first place ? 😒
Who do some Nigerian ladies think they are for goodness sake? ☹️

jackcanfield:
Wishing them a blissful life .. at least they are courageous to come out and dey their dey...not wasting a gentleman's time

You’re a good man

Sangoamadioha1:
We know the Nigerians with this sort of behavior and we also know their political mentor.

Take it, Grab it and Snatch it😊

nlfpmod:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/05/14/efcc-cadet-beaten-death-superior-officers-refusing-engage-corruption-buried-amid-tears

RIP to a smart looking guy
Truly the average Nigerian is wicked and corrupt

Moral of the story: I stress it’s unsafe to be the only sheep among a pack of wolves, they’ll eat you one day for dinner
When you’re in ROME be like the Romans
To my younger & talented friends, focus your energies outside this country
Nigeria belongs to the wolves and the main owners are around, be careful for they are extremely wild and dangerous

Eg take it, grab it and snatch it😂
That’s the motto in Nigeria
Hilda is taking the record, she’ll grab endorsements and subsequently she’ll snatch some billionaire husbands soon😊

Na Loud Dey Mek me wise, follow take am
But shun kolos, that’s the devil’s cigarettes 🥺

buygala:
Personal advert at its finest..

By the time she finish now begin pull G-Wagon and buy houses in Lekki and VGC, we are all to assume it's from endorsements and stuff from her being a Guinness World record Holder ... Even tho we know World Record holders aren't paid a dime for their efforts...

Well played Hilda...Perfect update

She for begin Dey call her lawyers to divorce the present hubby cos senators i’ma come calling
FFN be licking his phone screen but Alas she’s ebony, not his spec tho🥺

CHIOMAEZEH:
Lol... If to say money dey involved... Nigerians for Don break all the records...

You’re very wise😂 some records for Dey smashed
Aboki wey Dey trek interstate no for cook for 1 week?😂 or abi Bro Chinedu Oyetola wey Dey carry cocaine for Ethiopian Airline no for vex shun drugs importation instead face record kill Dey record sef collect all the cash 🤔

joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?

To be honest I feel sad when I see posts like this
People be giving themselves unnecessary issues to cause further unknown issues
As a responsible man, what if your wife sees this post? How would she feel
Try Dey tek Loud Mek una brain open up, dem no gree🥺
Weirdos everywhere, weird thread🥺😭

Algold:
Do you hear yourself... You are so heartless... Quietly poison human you can't make...may God have mercy on your soul

Shun bro,😎 my soul Dey alright
Na my body you for pray for
On kolos Don give you idea, it’s better to go choose the right alternative
Be ye not only a hearer but a doer of the word which I speak unto thee
Shalom

VTJN:
if you carefully read you will realise OP himself need help. He's working in pure water factory. Pure water factory that hardly pay 25k

Op was just unfortunate to come from a poor family. He's a good brother to that his eldest bro. He can't help him because Op himself need help. He was only showing concern to his brother predicament

There’s no need to have a heart2heart talk to someone when you can’t help😞
Why bother the your brother if you can’t help him yourself, unluckily for him, age is against him, his IQ is low, he’s got zero willpower
Best thing to do is🤔
Recommend him as a security guard to somewhere even your factory OR you package him, give him orientation, take him to church, one of those choir sisters will fall in love, you help him do confirm love potion juju as backup, his story will change 🙃
Or
Quietly poison him, he dies, your mom is healthy, less burden on your shoulder
otherwise let him have peace of mind 🥺Life hard💔💔

IyaebeTheGreat:
He's a selfish husband. Two househelp no go do me sef because I won't have strength for any other thing aside breastfeeding my baby. He's a selfish and wicked husband

Who be your kolos plug ni🤔, e hit

Houseofglam7:
You picked a suitable username 😊

You’re a boy or girl?
Your wisdom is top notch

Angrygoat:
When. U know u can't take it complete. Why u no just mol vewi small quantity ,mix am with bohem or jedi. Smoke am once,your bodygo chest am,u cone rush go take v12 engine,for inside 4 plugs car. Na death na straight. So no decent pics of him. We'll he wasn't looking healthy all along sef.
On kolos,on kolos,is now below

You’re a very wise man
In everything, start with the recommended dose first
Wetin Dey give man joy another man take am go the world beyond🥺🥺
Life

Biodun556:
And some parents are celebrating their yahoo children

This is terrible

Even in yahoo, there will be ethics, these boys are greedy, it’s blackmailing, blackmailing is a mortal sin
This isn’t yahoo, it deviated just for $300

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

If you be chic, na you be David twin sister
Oil Dey shine for your head, have a blessed Thursday and May everything flow well for you

Omo see as honest & simple good opinion sweet my heart, good thinking

Jennyclay:
The most funny thing about this Hakimi saga is that broke, poor and wretched men that don't even have single property are the ones putting this matter on their head like gele . #1 they don't have, they can't even send common 5k to their girlfriend/wife to buy common body cream.

Shame!! Shame!! Shame!!!!!!

A typical woman, be behaving like babies, as she saw that that all evidences are pointing back at her gender, she had no other option but to rant back at the other gender Mek dem no press her neck
Aunty poor and broke men are just discussing lessons learnt so that when e stew, we’ll all be as wise as Hakimi

PS: this Hakimi saga is points how selfish and manipulative a lot of women are, yet first to cry victim these are End times but las las God of Men Dey

ArcFresky:
Lol, simp for life.

The Chinese society is different bro
That may be his last chance at happiness cos Chinese have very poor social life

cejaypriesty:
Many years ago I took tramadol 500mg two tabs.I vomited everything inside my stomach my eyes was getting dim my gf then was very scared according to her I look dead still alive. I remember as I was struggling to live I called a pastor and told him everything then he prayed a simple prayer for me and I dozed off by the time I woke up I was completely fine that was the last time that I tried that nonsense .

God gave me another opportunity to live and I'm not gonna waste it being tribalistic and insensitive on nairaland .

How can you take 2 tabs of a 500 mg drug at once? Are you a lab experiment?
You took it disrespectfully
It’s a sacred drug
Best option should have been you start up with 1 tab of 500mg, then after hours you add up
But why take 500 mg when it’s better to take 250 mg and keep adding
Life is all about wisdom
I’m happy you’ve made a resolve to stay away from hard drugs, it’s a harmful vice

baralatie:
All the guys that I know of taking tramadol is for the knacking of kpekus

Your guys ain’t updated boss
1. Pvssy ain’t worth wasting tramadol on, sex is supposed to be a game not a race, there are other ways of boosting sexual stamina including reducing intake of carbonated & energy drinks
2. Tramadol is a very sacred but very harmful vice
It is highly wise to Stay away from all psychoactive substances except Loud

AngelGabbyShara:
Ekiti Laywers Storm NSCDC Headquarters,
... Seek Justice for assaulted member.


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02eyF8QZ72r7Nfyf3kef8SMWq8tPShhjcvUwKh2bEEtkLpq9Yn1pKUF8FCM2xNY6tul&id=100000223680706&mibextid=Nif5oz

What’s the benefit of this story now on front page?

Mogajunior:
Do you use the drug?

No sir, why dare I use

baralatie:
That is how one big wanted to kill himself on top of trying to perform.
Boy took tramadol in excess the next thing boy no get himself again o
Babe just jejely varnish

The present use of tramadol isn’t wholly sex related, the youth presently use it for its memory skipping effect aka cruise ; it’s ability to keep you alert and at top performance of every activity
It’s use as sex enhancer is on a gross decline

ibrutex:
Moral of the story,....


Go outside your apartment to take your tramadol with your Nigga..

Or don’t leave your druggie partner in your house
We real niggas stand outside
Take outside
Part ways outside

Too much wisdom my bloda

fidelmarshal199:


I will never forget the first time I took tramz, Its over 11 years now but the memory is as fresh as yesterday's news. It was just 250mg but it felt like it was 1000mg, I almost vomited everything in my stomach including my intestine. It was my first and the last day of taking it sha

Are you sure my bloda

EriMma1:
Please, people are criticizing this prankster for doing this. Is he to be blamed for the girls looseness?

How can you be doing runs at your place of work and now everyone is saying the guy did wrong. Me I don't see any wrong here. If the girl was decent and well trained, she won't fall for this. So cheap. All her is on the money. Kai! Girls!!! who do us like this?

Let them keep getting disgraced until they change and begin to live a decent life.

Just watch how this girl was disgraced.

https://fb.watch/jMV-UYy__7/?mibextid=jf9HGS

Can’t you see that your opinion is myopic
This is a blackmail case, whoever made this prank should face the law
Don’t be sick

hart12:
These are the miracles that amazed me the most.


Moses pathing the red sea, jesus turning water into wine, and abraham having a son in his late 90's


Let's gather and discuss

Turning water into wine

dedonfranco:
Babangida said He is happy Tinubu won......This world.

Am very sure our president elect will do better

Abiola & Tinubu vision.

Who’s the richest politician in Nigeria and why won’t he be happy ?

DenreleDave:
Productivity has reduced in Igbo land.... It always happen anytime Igbo loses...

So I guess you people are used to it

Another good example of when they say common sense isn’t common
To such a person ethnic bigotry is banter and cruise catching
Indeed the Black man felt so proud and superior when he returned from slavery bearing marks of colonialism …
-the slave mentality

JASONjnr:
Omo, I just weak and I totally lose interest in everything....

Been very inactive at work and my bosses are beginning to feel my slowly moves.

One begged me not to leave.... Omo, I just the contemplate to leave this country....


There's no hope!

If you can leave my dear please do
Nigeria which was once a great nation has fallen to the dogs
The poor will keep getting poorer and the rich get richer
The gap between the two social classes will widen
Yet illiterates and the poorly educated will keep supporting the outcome of the concluded elections
To them it’s a mere tribal/ethnic superiority
Having 1999 mentality in 2023