expatinmalay: Recently I (with some friends) went for a jungle trip to Cheng Wong forest in Malaysia (located in Krau Wildlife Reserve). The original inhabitants of the forest are the Orang Asli people. The forest size is about 61,000ha (bigger than the size of Singapore), The journey was 14km trekking into the forest from Lanchang village (East coast Malaysia). The trek took us between 4-5 hours but with 15mins rest after every 1 hour trekking. We slept in the jungle (camping) for 2 nights and set up our tent in the open, we took out bath in the stream, had to drink and cook with the water flowing from the stream.
Our tour lead is Mr Zali, he is a former VAT69 leader (a sand colour beret member), he is tough and a serious lead as he doesn’t like people complaining.
Here is a brief about the Orang Asli people:
The population is about 1000
Their major religion is animalism They are the smallest tribe in Malaysia The leader of the tribe is Quan he is more than 90 years old and very strong man The name of his wife is Wan, He has 13 children He was had opportunity to go UK but he rejected the offer as he didn’t trust anywhere outside the jungle They are heavy smokers and starts smoking as early as age 6 They are largely hunters and fishermen They don’t engage in business or sell things to themselves A professor came from UK to spend 20months in the jungle to make a research about Quan and his people in the 80’s
The trip was really interesting.
Here are the jungle rules: 1. No cutting of trees of plucking of leaves 2. no killing of ANY animal or insect in the forest 3. no littering of the forest (we had to move all our trash out of the forest) 4. no destruction of lives or reducing the population of the forest 5. Special permit is requested/required from the authority before going into the forest (the permit takes about 2 weeks to get approval) 6. Everyone is required to sign a letter of indemnity before going into the forest (meaning you are OYO if anything happens to you) 7. You are to submit a copy of your passport and go into the forest with a copy as part of your luggage
The rules above applies only to forest/jungle guests, it does not apply to the inhabitants
Pic 1: setting out for the trip 2: lodged in Lanchang village 3: into the jungle 4: Mr Zali (he doesnt like pictures)
This ain’t a forest you just wasted my time, there are no lions, tigers, very wild animals even a single ghost Nothing at al
Babara1994: We met on Facebook, exchanged numbers and few days down the line, she asked for a date.
Fine, I obliged, but she didn't know I'm always on Dutch mode when it comes to dates. LOL
So we got the place. A very expensive eatery. She was well-dressed but was all bleached - a big turn-off. I actually like light-skinned women, but not the bleached ones.
Okay, fine. She ordered a plate of rice, a bottle of champagne, a cup of ice-cream and three pieces of meat-pie. I began to wonder if we came for national eating competition. Anyhow sha, I ordered a plate of rice and a bottle of malt.
When it was time to pay, I paid for mine ONLY and told her to settle her bill. It led to an argument and all eyes were on us. I left the place and insisted she settled her debt.
A big lesson to all women out there. If you come across me, I won't pay a dime until you're my wife. Why should I act like I'm your husband when you aren't my wife?
And if you're a guy reading this: Spend what you're OK with and don't make yourself a fool. If you go broke tomorrow, you'll be forgotten.
PS: I'm not a redpiller and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human. Humans THINK.
Your ego is bad, I think you don’t have common sense The world should be rid of psychos like you; you kept quiet when she ordered her meals only to want to split bills after and you’re here boasting of that shit? I’m ashamed of you. She left what she had to do and joined you for a meal, courtesy demands you tell her your budget, but you didn’t. Took her to an expensive place just to give her an impression when you’re either not ready to afford, guys like you are the scum of menfolk Only low self esteem can make sir/Ma whoever push this news to fp
Obi ruled Anambra -- today they are cutting people head there and even threatening to kill the sitting governor Tinubu ruled Lagos -- today, Lagos is the 7th Largest Economy in Africa, where millions of Anambra people are thriving while fleeing their Obi-tuorey region.
A choose who your next leader is.
And Lagos was a former capital city with it’s lion share of slums well distributed Slave trade mentality in modern age
Truly the black man’s brain is indeed an obstacle to his liberation and development
Redoil: all i can see is mixing different chemicals together and call it food
this type of food is fit for making sacrifice at 4 juncture to the evil spirit of the night
Omo even if I be evil spirit I no for near this kind sacrifice even if na for T junction dem drop am This kind food na Wetin we Dey use as Sniper for the spirit world
Gucciblog: https://twitter.com/YarKafanchan/status/1592486004606177280?s=19[/quote]As a wise man, it’s a common knowledge that even as Peter Obi may never get the opportunity to lead this country, but Charles Soludo’s comment further supports the theory that for most human brains, after the peak of their intelligence is reached, it’s closely followed by a rapid descent of lack of wisdom Please note, to avoid this; all wise men are required to take a recommended daily dose of Loud for maximum unlocking of the brain cells
DonMavin: Has anyone tasted this kind of yummy green fried rice with fried beef.
Trust me it's very delicious.
Exactly the kind of rice worth sharing in any BATIFIED Campaign for BAT’S urchins Sorry I’m supposed to be apolitical but i couldn’t help connecting this sickening & weird meal to it’s ideal useful point
Life2020: Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.
The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.
The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.
Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.
Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.
I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.
Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.
Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids
Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.
An uneducated woman is indeed a poison But a proud and uneducated one is a sniper itself
Not taking sides, but your post is drenched with pride, lack of manners; your ideas sound naive Indeed your hubby must have realized that you’re indeed a local bomb
lordm: you sound like the dumb person. How can you not read terms and conditions before accepting a loan. You defend your ignorance if you want
Quick to speak, slow to reason Is that autism or Down syndrome Whichever one, a medical professional can handle that, better you take my advice for a dollar
lordm: don't you have friends or family members to borrow from. Did you read their terms and conditions before borrowing. Blame yourself first. Upon all the stories you have heard about loan sharks, you still went ahead to borrow from them. You people never learn
This comment made me realize That not only are some humans dumb but the ability to keep mute over lack of what to say is indeed a virtue
omo this op food wer he cook Dey like sacrifice he even use sprite sef join, I weak If chefs & cooks prepare wetin you just do so, na you go first complain, Dey wail Alaye, throw away that food, go buy something nice & appetizing chop, I no too know who you wan impress
In a bid to secure their future and give them decent living, a 24-year-old Accounting student of University of Abuja, Queen Obiamaka Enweluzor has sent twin orphans back to school in Abuja.
The twins, Precious Ibrahim Nengak (female) and her brother Praise Ibrahim Nengak have lost their both parents.
They are 11 years old.
Abuja Press gathered that Obiamaka who was recently crowned the Queen of Peace Nigeria 2022 saw the twins on Monday 17th during school hour where they were learning trade.
Upon enquiry, they told her that there is no one to send them to school as they are orphans.
She immediately took them to Junior Secondary School Area 11 Garki where they were registered to commence study.
The 200-L student trounced other contestants at the pageant show hosted by the Federal Capital Territory Administration Abuja
Born March 1998, she hails from Enugwu-ukwu in Anambra state Nigeria.
OP said “Imagine saying for instance that he employed 60% Of Anambrans In the Anambra Brewery he invested in. Bros think am, how many people dey Anambra wey a whole 60% dey one company?” I don’t think OP is intelligent What that employment phrase meant was that 60% of the brewery’s labor force are indigenous.
BRATISLAVA: Anyone who read that post really is bored. After the first paragraph, it's easy to see why the wife is tired of him.
Omo fear that kind guyman wer fit write Nairaland statement full 20 pages cos he go fit nag full 30 hours Asin dat kind hubby & parrot weda who for nag pass?
MY RESPONSE. First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.
Well, I am here to set the record straight. I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.
To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)
For the readers, what happened is this :
You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.
I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.
In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)
I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.
Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.
Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.
Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !
I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.
Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.
Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes! 5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.
Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.
Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.
How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.
I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.
Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.
I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.
Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!
I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!
Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!
Omo abeg how many pages this post go be for MS word?
Most nigerian movies can be so meaningless. You can even fathom the message they are trying to pass. Always acting meaningless scripts with funny titles.
We also have a TV in our bedroom, so my wife was watching a Nigerian movie while I was working on my office files.
I can't even puzzle out the excitement in that movie. All I was hearing is some lousy actors making noise and the poor suspense sound track. You need to see my wife looking so tensed & serious, flapping her both hands like a bird that is about to fly while screaming “enter the car drive! drive! drive!
I said Aunty easy o, Then I asked her the title of the movie, she said "The pregnant ghost". I said pls came again, you say? She didn't answer then I picked up the remote to check the title then booom!! The pregnant ghost
I was just laughing seriously, I've to capture it. then I asked her whether she have seen a ghost before not to talk of a pregnant one? And she said what! If I want to know if ghost dey carry belle that I should join her and watch the movie too.
I jejely carried my office files and my laptop, walk straight to the sitting and continue my job. Because if I talk otherwise about that movie na problem for me and I don't want her wahala this night.
Then she asked where am I going? I said this movie is so interesting and it's making me loose focus on the work I'm doing, so I'm going to the sitting room were I can concentrate.
Abeg, those of you that watch this kind of movie, please what are the moral lessons?
Op sir, I know that sometimes it’s weird but the truth is This life hard, if that movie puts a smile on her face in this era, please let her enjoy the cruise, as far as it doesn’t interfere with your lifestyle. No need for moral lessons Life no balance to learn at all, if I Dey lie Oya na go ask ASUU
JackDaAlienz: I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family. Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys. My uncle warned my dad not yo try it. I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes. For some reason he didn't adopt again.
Fast foward to 20 years later That my father's friend is living in hell, He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim. They even beat him up and steal his money.
Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption. Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling It's a huge mess. This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all
For listing yahoo as a vice; I think that you’re a very disrespectful fellow Why do you downgrade what you dunno
Do you know the only thing that can give a young boy of a humble beginning, great hope & prospects that he can drive Range Rover and be the leader of tomorrow he sang as a nursery rhymes?
ebubeson: You that is jumping from one empowerment program to another, have you made the money?
Real money does not really come by speaking business grammar, talking about vision, going to business seminars, being motivated by insights.
The deepest wealth is spiritual. It is a gift from God. That is why you see someone who doesnt or hardly read books on business idea, controlling wealth.
Please do not go into rituals to prosper. It is useless. Pray to God to show you your real wealth and the mystery to accessing your wealth fast.
The process of the prayer itself isn’t it rituals?
Pells: Can they release a movie of how Queen Elizabeth was killing many innocent people and starving African kids too
The feeling of ingratitude is the reason why the black man always thought he was marginalized. not that these things he ranted about always were false, but others better survived similar scenarios yet they would happily show the Queen some respect. Our forefathers who survived those humiliating memories to set a path for you, it was a sacrifice un-erasable from the sands of time; but what do you do! Cry and rant and insult the blessed soul of the Queen whom your forefathers sacrificed to bring her attention down? This entitlement Feeling Spoilt child
Evilblackman: So our language is shit to you ? Why is English not the language of the russians or the Chinese and koreans? We were forced to learn their language so it would be easy for them to communicate with us not because they care about your forefathers black ass What didn’t you understand by association? Mobile phones were created like a century after colonialism... how clueless are you? Globalization was going to happen with or without colonialism Do you think everything was invented in england?
The only reason I’m able to understand your opinion and write back to modify your views is because the Queen developed the interest to force you to read her language while she was tapping your resources Also, In the course of her tapping your potentials, you became aware of what to do with what you have The Queen was the best mom ever, no matter however her methods was, the end still justified the means And here you are A product of the queen’s wisdom
Evilblackman: Did the queen invent the mobile phone You are just foolish sir Sorry but you don’t reason
Lol The queen created your enlightenment Otherwise, you wouldn’t have known how to spell the word foolish At worse, you’d have been preparing to head out to your village square by this time Show the late Queen some well deserved respect She deserves to be immortalized
uncleck: You can never be a good history student and not share the same sentiment with this woman. Queen Elizabeth and her family have committed unprecedented evil against humanity. I can't even begin to type the kind of damage they have done to world.
Is it the destruction and the disorientation of African people and their culture? Africa was self sufficient until they came with slave trade wherein they adopted and exported our young main overseas. When they embarked on industrial revolution, they made sure that they replace our food crop production with cash crop production. This singular act ruined Africa.
They brought fake religion that severed Africans from their ancestors thereby making them to lose their history and identity. They made us believe that all our actions are sin; we need a Jesus to justify our sinful nature. Accepting Jesus won't stop us from sinning, but out sins would now be forgiven. Crazy if you ask me!
They drew up the map of the world with blood, cutting families away from each other and joining strangers together. They extol nationalism but condemn tribalism. For goodness sake, tribe is to Africa what nation is to Europeans.
They give freedom to their own on request but suppress any voice of freedom in Africa.
They imposed strange political and education system on us that would never help in addressing our peculiar challenges.
I'm tired of typing
But the queen is the reason you own a phone and can type this classless opinion of yours Otherwise, you’d be a peasant/bushman/nomad etc The black man has always been very ungrateful, greedy but quick to blame his misfortunes on others that’s why he was ever ready to sell his kin just because he wanted the white man’s money
doggedfighter: Why's is her face contorted like that ?
Most of our young male hustlers here wish they had married this older oyinbo.
They don't mind dying by the knife of a foreign older woman with red passport.
A nurse nurtures life.
I am still trying to wrap my head around
A nurse and stabbing.
Sounds so unreal .
That passport is gold The promise land For it is written Verse 1: Certainly the end will justify whatever means taken Verse 2: And yeah I know the thought I think towards you , a thought of good and not evil to give you an expected end (Red or blue passport)
LIVE08: A man is set to leave his girlfriend homeless and give her property to charity after he caught her cheating.
A Twitter user who is a neighbor of the couple, said the girlfriend is currently on a trip with her friends while the boyfriend is plotting his revenge.
He shared a photo of the lady's belongings the boyfriend is giving to charity. See his tweets below:
Travel › Re: A Trip To Cheng Wong Forest In Malaysia (with Pictures) by DollarSigns(m): 1:23pm On Nov 28, 2022
you just wasted my time, there are no lions, tigers, very wild animals even a single ghost 
