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Gistlobby:
Dressing decently for occasions should be one of the priorities of all ladies. However, some ladies seem to dress anyhow for occasions these days.

The woman in your picture has been captured on camera wearing a seductive dress to church. One cannot tell whether she is a singer at the church or she was invited to sing at the church.

However, most social media users after coming across her picture said that her dress doesn’t suit the occasion.

One time Go be One time, We go dey go Nude and Nothing Go Happen:

Shey God is trying to Promote us from Animalistic World into Human Being But We all Find it Difficult to Leave our Comfort Zones which brings War .....

Imagine someone singing Holy and all Men are trying to Suck Breast, Shey Devil no Carry us Double Chance (x1/x2)

PrincessofDSS:
Lol

My dear Brother, I will advise you mind your business anytime you’re in church

Everyone has his or her purpose of coming to church and yours might be entirely different from hers

A word is enough for the wise

Not Just Church:
I realized Our Purposes on this Earth Might be Different so No need to Caution anybody who doesn't ask for it:

Just dey your dey:

dragunov:
You're right! Go and study every hit track of Olamide. You will be shocked at the decline in decency that those songs portend. While the average youth with vacuous minds won't recognize the trend, a more ponderous individual would notice that the above mentioned artist uses his songs to influence the mindset of his fans by planting subliminal messages about social vices. For example, Olamide boasted of being raised by the street and before you know it, every youth, including those who went to Corona, began talking about being raised on the street, as if the home no longer serves as a safe haven for all round development and success. He sang about having goons who had his back and defended him with "bajinatu" (guns). This was a subliminal messages encouraging gangsterism and street cultism. Before we knew it, every youth, began addressing their friends as goons, accepted being called goons and prided themselves in it while seemingly oblivious to the true meaning of the word. All because Olamide sang about it. The "Bashira Ketan" song was designed to make rape and sexual vices a norm. "Ọmọ Abule Sowo" was an eulogy to land grabbers. We can continue on and on about Olamide's songs and we will continue to identify the subliminal message on each theme. What about "Ilefo Illuminati" ( The ascension of Illuminati)? What do you think he was trying to say? Now we have the latest set of vicious lyrics from him when he did "collabo" with Portable. People of all age range love singing it without realizing that the minds of the next generation have been molded to believe that wickedness and lack of empathy is cool.

You know Olamide can be Invited to Play for the President and Dignitaries and Still sing same songs in their presence while their wives and Children dance to it all

Whatever the top Echelon approves connects all Echelons:

When Poverty Abound, People utilise any means to stay afloat:

Cousin9999:
The entertainers are a product of their environment.

And instead of complaining, support good things, good people, and create solutions.

That's the Problem:
They all sit down in the comfort of their Homes, Churches and Mosques to Complain But they will Never-Ever stand up and do something about it:

You can even Join Political Parties and Become a Senator/House of Rep because of Something like this: You don't have to campaign against it even become a President because of this:

Nevertheless, If you are Eradicating Yahoo and Bad Music, You must be establishing a Replacement for the Youths:

Buying and Rolling Benz shouldn't be for Politicians Pikin Alone: if they won't be Holistic Cure then God has served us Well:

Everything happening is the Fault of Everyone:

Bad Ones will stand and Challenge Good things:

Good Ones should also stand and Sack Bad Things:

But Don't Just Challenge without Providing and Championing Better Alternative Course of Actions:

JoshTim:
You can dedicate 1hr daily to it than leaving it till you finish ICAN.

I have other Engagements. It's not Overload but One at a Time for Now: Possibly Other Advanced Qualifications with Data Sciences combined!

JoshTim:
ICAN is never overated. I am writing ICAN and am still learning data science. When am done coupled with the experience have garnered, i will be demanding 800k as salary. E no easy to get B.sc. M.Sc. ICAN, cognate experience and Data Science skills o.

Same Qualifications Here But Data Sciences is Suspended until My ICAN is Completed:

GRAMMARJAMES:
Why na . It's not o. I've been writing AUDIT for over 2 years now, still I haven't passed.. only paper keeping me to be qualified.. I wanted to give up when results came out yesterday but looking at how far I've came, I'll just Keep pushing hoping I'll make it come November Diet..

My is CR and CS oo:
November Diet On God's Grace:

angelfallz:
Lol you're focusing on the shoe instead of the man that went to the market.
The essence of that site illustration is to show that intentions can change.

My Focus is on the Man:
The Shoe can't be hurt by the Man's Decision-Making and Changes: The Man could only Hurt Himself or Make Himself Happy!

But Your Decision on fellow Human or Animal would lead to someone getting Hurt or Happy:

Just Like Law School:

All Accountants Should(not must) be Chartered:

If You ain't Chartered, You ain't a Full Fledged Accountant Yet:

angelfallz:
Very true. However, apart from the sister that slept with her elder sister's man, the rest did not act on their feelings.
What about the sister that entertained her elder sister's man while elder was out? She did not act on her feelings. But the man preferred her to her elder sister.
The truth is that these things happen.
I'll illustrate with this. Adamu goes to the market to buy a red shoe, but on getting to the market, he sees a black shoe that he like more than the red shoe, Adamu then buys the black shoe instead of the red shoe.

What did Adamu do wrong?

Shoe has no feelings nor Emotions Bro: Shoe don't get Hurt nor Get Happy

Even Animals will be Angry if you feed your chickens more than Goats

Ruby458:
Yes, most times we may not be able to control who we fall in love with, after all, the heart wants what it wants, but we can certainly control how we act on such feelings/emotions.

We are humans, and as such blessed by God with self-control and discipline. It's only animals who do not have self-control, and we're definitely higher than animals.

Those sisters actions are wicked, you can't justify it biko. I just pray the affected sisters would be strong, stand up, and find love again. There are good men everywhere. They can still find love even at 47.

This is absolutely Great Piece But Little Opinions from me:

We are all Animals.

Higher Animals differentiated by Higher Intelligences/Intellectualism are regarded as Human:

Not all Human are of Higher Essence regardless of Status thus Some Human are still expected to behave lower than Societal Higher Value Systems: Who Doesn't in one way or the Other Only few do not flout rules!

It can Happen to Any of Us, Me too:

Thus:
Nurture, Protect and Defend Your Own By Yourself and By God because Even Your Mama can Betray You while You can Also Betray Yourself:

Life can be Funny, Rude and Sweet:

Spiff20:
I think you are just talking to sound smart and you're probably not a woman. Even me as a guy, I will avoid any woman that's close to my brother. But you want to sound modern but you're sounding stupid.

Kai, You are very Harsh

Why not correcting her in simple terms:

Jaqenhghar:
I know of one. Her friend was supose to help connect her to this guy , next thing the girl got pregnant for the guy, they got married.

One guy back in Uni,his babe came to visit he wasnt around. Ot started raining, the neighbour saw herwaiti g outside and invited her to wait for her guy in his room. Next thing we heard is the neighbour and the babe are official

Is Love not Wonderful ... Humanity with Drama is better than Humanity with War:

But Drama leads to War if not Checked:

This is very funny to me

okoroemeka:
I don't think they are the initial target,this is simply the theory of okafors law no 2 been proven again,it states the inconvenient truth that:

"if you have a woman and you are treating her well,you have a high probability of also dating her close friends,sisters,aunties and even in some cases the mother,many women are expressive and like to boast about how generous ,rich and also the sexual prowess of her partner, indirectly feeding the fantasy and subconscious of her friends with an erotic image of a father Christmas in shining armour".

Gbam

meobizy:
Her government failed her. Imagine if she was fourteen years old back then. It would make her twenty-two years of age today. Her husband threw his life away yet lives through the child. She can emotionally abandon the child but will see him to adulthood. It's not like the father would have amounted to much anyway.

But She is Part of the Child at 50% and She Carried all the Burden:

The Child is the Reward of Her Captivity and Escape and the Husband shall be refurbished through the Child to Serve His Mother for Ever:

She is Nurturing him for Greater Rewards as Her Efforts and Sufferness shall never be in Vain, Amen:

God bless the Baby and Mother:

MisterGrace:
I'm glad she's safe now. The demonic abductor would be husband is now roasting in hell.

If only she would be flown far away from Nigeria where she will undergo therapy sessions to cleans her mind.

She Needs Therapy(Psychotherapy) to Unbundled Her Minds:

See the Veins on Her Hands: She has been Malhandled for Years with Hard Labour:

Almighty God shall Helps us Against Abductions, Amen:

Ready100:
chai , I don follow bad generation enter bus

The Generations have never been Good: Same Stories Since Time "0"

You would have Preferred Slave Generations

This one will also Come and Go:

Then we Shall Come to Fully Technological/Digitised Generations and One Fully Global Village Ruled By Technocrats:

After which Humanities shall reset to Ground Zero to Re Evolve again:

Nothing Much:

Rastaramsey:
See as food small sef....

Omo he no satisfy guyman ooo

Make them bring hot eba and ewedu soup

It's high time One Pre-Order 3meals on a Long Haul Flight and all the Plane attendants needs to do is make the Provisions Available:

What is the big deal is Providing Semovita and Okro to the Passengers who wishes:

Omicron007:
The Boiling Ring(Heater) is a very common household electrical appliance in Nigeria. It can be adapted for various uses like boiling water and cooking light meals.

The Heater has caused a lot of disasters and even claimed lives in homes due to improper usage.


Back then in School, I and my roommates used this heater to prepare roasted chicken. When we kill a chicken, we remove the feathers and all the intestines and other necessary 'removables'.

We then insert the heater through the orifice created at the anus region and plug the heater. After some minutes, the chicken becomes fully roasted. We then order some Budweiser Beer to use and wash it down.

Share your experience(s) using this electrical appliance.

When I was a Kid in Primary School, I always Wonder how Boiling rings plugged to Socket makes Water to Boil since it's Neither Stove nor FireWoods:

Where is the Fire Coming from

My mother was boiling my bathing water and I stepped from my Camp Bed and take like 5steps to the Heater Points and Dig My Fingers inside the Water with Plugged Boiling Ring:

I Felt Some Shocks and Found Myself Back on My Camp Bed, How I got back to the Camp Bed I dont Know till Date

zicoraads:
I know premarital sex is a sin, but some of these things can be solved if the two of you had had sex during courtship. Your predicament reminds me of my ex sometime back. This was the single reason for our breakup. Seeing that I couldn't keep up, I ended things myself.

There was no need pretending. Her sexual drive was not something I could keep up with.

I don't have any advice for you.

Sex During Courtships might not Solve Nymph tendency which can develop at any point In relationship due to one or two circumstances:

Reminds me of the girl i was gonna marry first but didnt end well,she was super fire ,u say,she was quite young,her first time but the way she was going about it,i kept wondering if it was her first time,daddy am not okay,daddy this ,daddy that, omo she is not getting enough of it ,fear grip me cos at some point ,i was scared of killing someones daughter , I was not sure she even understand whats happening,my brother ,igbo is not sexual enhancement,if u cant smoke igbo,use it to cook ,both of u should eat from the food and get high enough,then add red wine,just high up enough,am giving u solution now, both of u should high up,let her be very high as u ,then try it once more.. preferably,buy monkey tail ,

Someone is trying to Kill Some people here:

Klass99:
So.....leg and waist dey pain you people, but una always want to knack. Somebody cannot even cuddle you people small to watch TV together, your gbola must rise and the next thing is to start pushing for knack .

Nature is very serious about Reproduction thus on Impulse the trigger of Seeds must respond to Duty:

Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.

You need to work on Her Mindsets: She might be troubled in the mind that she's too Opened for Saturations to be achieved:

Check other aspects of her life if she behaves with Extremism, Fanatism or Perfectionism then it ain't just about her sex life but Some Disorders Inhibiting her Saturations and Closures:

Talk to her before she leads you to the bottom of the Earth and Depth of Oceans:

Olajydeey:
I once traveled from
Ibadan to Ago-iwoye to visit a long time friend, she's a student.
She's dating someone in that compound, she told me "he's just a friend "
She told her date, I am a cousin of His(I knew this weeks later)
When night dawned,I couldn't go home ,since it was too late
She went to sleep @ this guy place & left me to sleep alone
Came back very early in the morning, we bleeped
Then I left, b4 12pm

I

...
She is the Real Player !

naija4life247:
Olosho is surprised. No free dicck again. If you want a dicck, you must work for it.

I never ever touch any lady that visits me even if she spends the night. Not until she touches me. It's a strategy that I have been using since around 1990. Even if she spends 30 nights with me, I will not touch her. I can wake up early in the morning and go and get another regular bedmate for sex, but I will not touch a new girl until she touches me.

Satan taught me that strategy, and I have used it for over three decades. It's not discipline, it's a very strategic plan to make ladies relax totally and have a wrong trust in you.

You just dey stress yourself:
Your Head go just dey hot waiting to be touched:

zionmde:
That guy is a real man
Any man that has total control over konji has already positioned himself for success. A man of respect and dignity

Not these cheap guys who call him a simp yet keep simping for their 3rd legs

But the guy is not on Konji:
She said he slept off immediately!

Controlling Konji also has devastating effect on the Mindset: You are Inhibiting Body Orders: You can kill your Sexual Wellbeing that's how many become Frigid:

Notwithstanding Promiscuity is not Good for the Mindsets too:

Twoclans:
Guy it is not about banging for one hour straight .Are you hitting the right spots .The spots and frequency Roborobo will get to can a man get there.

Mr Roboto can not also get to the Spot and Frequency a Sensual Man gets to:

Toy can't fvck You in the Brain and that's where the Real Pleasures and Climaxes is located...No Braingasm No Orgasm
You will troway all dem toys:

I love the Story:
No doubt 90% of Women in Sub Saharan Africa are Suffering from Sexual Insatisfaction and the Consequences is Margaret Thatcher Effects:

A Sexually Fulfilled Woman is a Happy Woman: Happy Women is Happy World:

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

Drop his As.s He insecurity will Hurt You:

Medianna:
No.
But a good number of them are.

Not Many People can handle the pressure from Opposite Gender Especially when You have Brain and Beauty to Offer:

Hypergamy Straight until Market Finish for Shop for Women but Men Beauty and Brain last even till 80s:

Apination:
One 30 year old like that asked me what are the qualities I want in a woman and I told her, just be submissive and guess what she went on to tell me, hope you know I'm a stubborn person. For my mind, this one never ready

You Dont Demand for Submissions, You Earned it:

Toks2008:
No matter how sweet a lady may seem to act towards her husband and no matter how a lady thinks it's best to express love to her hubby, if she fails to respect him then all she does will be efforts in futility

TO MEN, RESPECT IS LOVE...any other thing is secondary.

If You want Respect, You Create it and Earn Your Rewards: I don't expect to be Respected without creating the atmosphere of the Respect:

So "Love" First then Respect Follows:

Love in 2022 be one Kain: I say Responsibleness first then Respect follows: If she fails to Respect Up Your Game so as to be Man Enough to court Her Respect that May Involves some Discipline Measures and Psychological Moves:

Most Brain are Open Source if not Flush out the Freezes therein and Install You inside there

Man's job is to lead your woman and she takes it from there: If You can't catch Up, bounce Out and Don't Complain ...

Go get your match and Vibes:

SmartPolician:
Nigerians know how to exploit the grey areas of every law

I think the law should be amended in a way that they must provide a running mate before official campaigns start.
This is more reasonable.

They will still circumvent this:

What about If Tinubu and Ameachi should resign their Candidacy just to pave way for Osinbajo in order to surcharge the Delegates

The Laws can't be Absolute but the Spirit of the law is the most important which Human will always Hack