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You still dey trust people online especially for here?
Na scammers full here, especially all those claiming to buy crypto or pi, sope otilor

oyatz:
And it seems the concept is limited to Yoruba and perhaps few other Southern Nigerian tribes.

There is nothing like Spanish Russian or German 'Akudaya'

Very possible

DonroxyII:
That's Because Majority of Men are Wash in My Own View .... Once a Manager Lose Control of His Captain, You Will Lose Control of Your Team Definitely....

A Man's Duty to Me is to Find all The Plays In the Book & Off The Book to Ensure His "Home" Works .... But Na ...

Fvck is Cheap Nowadays, We all wanna fvck Aside & Still blame same women we re fvcking for the Consequences of Our Actions ....

You're right, marriage is hardwork

pansophist:
But why is it only Nigerian ghost that have these stories? White people die once, Nigerians die more than once.

Why?

I tire oooo.
Nigeria and superstitions

woginid967:
Hacking and Loopholes

These things are simply loopholes in the spirit realm.

When a person dies before their time, it can happen.

Sometimes it is their second chance.

Other times it is spirits that use their form to roam on the earth and experience human vanities.

Being prayerful will protect us all from such

Even the spirit realm is not completely perfect and bugs do happen. Interesting

SyrusdeHansome:
I'll drop more than 4 of these kinda stories. The life we live is very deep.

Alright boss, waiting

It's possible.
In Yoruba they're referred to as Akudaya

siofra:
As if it's only women that do it😒😒

Don't mind them, everything woman, woman

Ai picture?
Not interested. All of my pictures are natural and unedited. Infact, I don't even fancy studio pictures. Humans tend to fall for the halo effect. If anyone's appearance tend to appeal to us, we become vulnerable and lessen our guard towards then and we become subject to their manipulation.

The saying, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed is very much valid.
Dress like a madman and you shall receive the treatment of a mad man

DonroxyII:
Kai, Imagine from Men Who are the Pillars of the Society...

Which one is not advantageous?

There are good ones around but make we no lie, majority of marriages are just wash.

DonroxyII:
You dress like average but Your look doesn't add up ..... Once I'm Approaching Police I simply Wear Innocent Naive Look like a Bookish Jolojolo Nerd.... I have never been accosted by any ... I also give them due respect by responding "Yes sir" to every of my last statement....

Dem dey smoke Igbo Pass Area Boys...

True, many people compliment my looks both guys and girls, so maybe the policemen think I'm ajebutter. Me wey be confirm ajepako.

That respect is important ooo because those guys can become trigger happy at anytime. May we not fall victims

yahoodetector:
Women!

When they are in good terms with you, they will willingly give you their coochie but once things turn sour between you and them, they will come out to claim that you forced them into having non-consentual sex or that you tried to get them laid but they refused hence you got angry and decided to severe ties with them.

They do all these all in a bid to blackmail you and get sympathy from society. Tueh!! 🤮🤮

God forbid these animals!!

That's how they do.
Playing the victim mentality card. That's why as a man one has to be careful with the lady he has a fling with

IconicR:
Dontrulee is this true?

Very true.
Most Doctors are randy.
For me, I try not to mix work with pleasure. Majority of ladies I had a fling with never knew I'm a doctor. I do that to avoid stories that touch

Breech of work ethics

kunleiky:
Lol
@Dontrulee, I replied your mail already.
Shoot please. I will attend to it

Thank you Man, God bless 🙏

IconicR:
You sef
I'm just looking at you with side eyes

Amma decent guy and you know that already.
Just not ready to settle down yet. Marriage is a dungeon

FalseProphet1:
You Could be Going Through a Lot and Still be Hórny....Why?

Na to ease stress na.
Worry and overthinking no fit solve problem

Your sense of entitlement amazes me. When things were good, you were enjoying your bf till he became broke.

I've always known that ladies love to monkey branch and many of them are subject to hypergamy.

You already know what you'll do, you're only seeking for validation here.

Let me tell you what you'll do and your end.
1. You'll definitely leave your broke boyfriend and date other guys willing to spend money, you'll probably have sex with them too as a form of compensation.

2. If you're not street wise, these guys will use you and dump you. It doesn't get better.

3. If you're a little bit wise, you'll ammas enough money to set you up, ensure you don't destroy your present because one day it will be your past, and real men don't settle with ladies with ugly and dirty past.

4. If you allow your emotion and confusion to control you, you'll eventually self destruct.

5. I'll advise you leave your current boyfriend alone, is insecurities and sense of overprotectiveness is a bit too much. Staying with a frustrated broke guy can be draining emotionally.

6. In the end weigh your options well and settle for the one that will give you long term benefits and not just short term pleasure or else you'll end up frustrated and broke like your boyfriend and start ranting that men are scum.

End.

IconicR:
How does it work

Life is a variety and any combination is possible.
Decent + decent
Indecent+ decent
Indecent+ indecent.

If you want to be ahead and safe, know what you want and you're game

Try Fairmoney, Branch, Okcash etc

Normal thing na .

Marriage is not worth it at all.
It's very disadvantageous to the Man

IconicR:
You had other people's wife for free so don't be pained, it's a cycle.

Only decent men deserves decent women

Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way Dear

I'm so emotionally downcast
I go touch down fast
I go pray and fast
Baby, why you dey do me this and that.

Being 26, a female and wanting to end it all. I can guess you're not having it good with guys.

You can change your life if you want to, it starts from the inside. I wish I can help you but...

Rubbish people.
I remembered one time I was traveling from my ex place in Saki to Ilorin. It was few weeks after my graduation and some policemen stopped the vehicle and asked me to come down. I came down and the foolish police man was asking me irrelevant questions like, is she your wife? Is she your gf? You dey Fvck am? Which work do you do? Bring your bag I want to search it. Where did you see money to buy iphone 12? Very crazy and irrelevant questions that I was so pissed off. I eventually left unscathed without giving a dime as I had mastered the art of whining policemen and other armed forces. I don't know why police would always ask me to come down and search me despite the fact that I dress very simple like an average guy. That was then Sha

DaddyCoool:
Not really. A guy has needs. When you think of the pleasure she gave you, while the stingy one gave you nothing, you bound to develop softness for her. There's also the little matter of pregnancy!

True, but only in minority of cases. If a lady opens her legs for a guy, she's already disadvantaged as many guys just want to hit and run.
The best thing for a lady to prevent that from happening in the first place is to close their legs but the ladies wouldn't listen unfortunately

DaddyCoool:
Easier said than done. Meanwhile another lady can snatch your guy through opening her legs, while you seem stingy and heartless. Unless there's agreement among ladies not to open legs without marriage!😁

True but if a lady doesn't open her legs, there's no way she will loose in the end if the relationship goes South. If a lady snatches your guy through sex, then count yourself lucky because such guy is a philanderer and lacks self control

DaddyCoool:
You have a point. Some guys can play so sincere tho. One scoundrel of a guy actually told me he wanted to bed this babe so bad he went as far as meeting the parents, knowing fully well he wasn't marrying her. Soo how's that her fault?

That's too extreme of the guy though.
That's why I advocate ladies to close their legs until marriage so they wouldn't loose in the end

DaddyCoool:
Who is at fault?
The deceptive guys or the "generous" girls?

Both are at fault but the female is more at fault.
Girls know that majority of guys just want to chop and clean mouth, so if they fall into the trap that's their undoing

Omo ajinomoto, ajigbawire.

Iwo ti gbera, On God!

Rest in peace Man