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uuzba:
His age and wisdom is beyond your understanding!

The person I quoted is a female
And yes, I'll love to learn from the wisdom

tochez24:
Lol it's wrong to ask a woman her age because most of them are already expired, hiding behind heavy make ups, butt enlargement and cairo whitening cream⚠️

Next time, be more gentleman and go for a virgin!!!!💯

A virgin will offer genuine love, loyalty and a juicy creamy tight pussy non of these bitches everywhere can give you💙💙

True but you're looking for the wrong things in a woman

IconicR:
Nothing is wrong
But a casual person has no right to want to know her age.

You're right, how old are you?

Both are bad and both are worse.
Although it seems masturbating has "lesser effects" compared to premarital sex. The argument of no STDs, no spending of money/resources, no girlfriend problems etc seems to place masturbating on a better scale compared to premarital sex but If we look at the end result or consequences of masturbating, it's like a self destructing habit, it's addictive and can destroy mentally and in many ways. Although many will argue that in moderation, the side effects are lesser or non existent, we all know many people caught in the web of masturbating that wished they never started it. That tells you how bad it is, if you're still masturbating and you've not started experiencing these negative effects, it's because you've not gotten deep enough yet. When you get deep enough, you'll want to come out but your will power will fail you. I have helped a lot of people overcome masturbation through different methods and ways, maybe one day I'll resume again when I'm much free.

Premarital sex on the other hand tends to have more physical consequences than mental, the fear of unwanted pregnancy, single /baby Mama, STDs, girlfriends trouble, spending limited resources etc.

In summary, masturbation or premarital sex isn't the issue at all, we are looking at the wrong direction. The basis of all these is energy and masturbating and premarital sex is misusing this energy, and energy wrongly applied will lead to death. If you can find a way to transform this energy into a positive and more benefiting form e.g through Meditation, you've overcome masturbation and premarital sex forever.

SMJay:
Modern marriage is a living death for men.

I loved my wife for a while and she adored me and we had three beautiful children and still it slowly descended into tedious, grinding, soul-crushing misery. Endless nagging, constant complaints, ungratefulness, squandering money, walking back promises about shared goals, cheating, selfishness, deranged behavior, everything every man tries to avoid. It finally imploded after 8 years when she commenced a legal battle that cost us over $50,000 in attorney fees. Our children are scarred for life. We despise each other with a red hot hatred that I never would have thought possible. The real kicker? I thought I had gotten lucky when I met her.

Here’s the awful truth no one teaches young men:

The voluntary, love-based, monogamous marriage is impossible for the vast majority of people. Evolution favors variety. Deep in our unconscious brains we are programmed by evolution to repel each other. Marriage, at its core, was never about love. It was about survival and social stability and gender-based division of labor in a pre-modem era when the lives of everyone in the family unit, especially children, depended on that bond. Men are polygamous, women are hypergamous. We come from an alpha male/harem of females evolutionary dynamic, as do the vast majority of social mammals. Geneticists have proven we have several times more female ancestors than male ancestors. Such societies are inherently unstable however. Marriage was the solution to this problem that allowed us to create civilization.

Now marriage is irrelevant. Modern technology and the police and welfare states have solved all the problems marriage was designed to solve in the first place. Now it’s unnecessary. The practical origins of marriage are utterly lost on modern women (and a lot of men to be honest). We have replaced it with an unworkable, fantastical, imbecilic model based on voluntary commitment and romantic love WHICH DOES NOT WORK. Marriage’s days were numbered with the onset of the industrial revolution. In the 1960s and 1970s the religious and legal and social constraints that held most marriages together were dismantled. Worse still, we now have an antiquated family court system that punishes men but rewards women. Add in birth control and abortion on demand and smart phones and social media and dating apps and failure is practically guaranteed. Women are never satisfied. It’s in their DNA. Briffault’s Law is real. Marriage must be externally enforced (law, church, etc) for it to survive in the VAST majority of cases. Women are, by nature, materialistic and erratic and solipsistic and duplicitous and malcontented and emotionally disregulated and irrational. When it comes to men, a woman’s “love”is both opportunistic and extractive. No matter how much attention or money you give her it will never be enough. Just ask Will Smith or BIll Gates or Jeff Bezos or Brad Pitt (ETA: or Sylvester Stallone or Tom Brady). I don’t think it is biology possible for a women to be content in a relationship. It makes perfect sense from an evolutionary perspective. Lasting love (which is different from romantic love) cannot exist without trust. Men simply cannot trust ANY women given the current family court system and modern women’s ridiculous expectations and women’s underlying nature. When divorce became an option for every woman, at any time, for any reason, marriage became risk prohibitive for every man. No sane man would sign a modern marriage contract if he really knew what he was getting into.

Hell is a wife. Marriage ruins men’s lives. It will destroy your dreams. A wife will eat your soul. Being legally and financially at the mercy of a woman’s emotions is an exhausting, grinding, slow-motion horror I can’t even begin to describe. Marriage is nothing but a loaded gun pointed at a man’s head and the woman gets cash and prizes for pulling the trigger. I’ve had cancer and I’ve been married to a woman who loved me and cancer was preferable. At least I didn’t have to pretend to love the cancer as it was slowly killing me. At least cancer went about it in silence. At least cancer’s behavior was comprehensible.

Until the laws change and society reverts back to a rational model for marriage that is enforceable, NEVER, EVER, GET F-ING MARRIED IF YOU’RE A MAN!!
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I think I'll agree with you.
Marriage is hell if you marry the wrong partner.
Marrying the right partner doesn't guarantee a smooth marriage. Marriage is more of roles and obligations rather than Love, it's a form of security for women and a load of work for Men. It's the stress of marriage that causes many married men to run after single ladies or other married women( this is very wrong though).

The few marriages you think is working has defects in it, some are just enduring instead of enjoying the marriage. Marriage is overrated but it's important if it's done well

The problem is that you're an adult and you've stopped reasoning like a child, you've lost your childlike spirit and innocence.

I relate more with children because I still retain my childlike spirit. Your child is 4 and he's transitioning into another phase of awareness and consciousness, disciplining him should be from a point of Love, reduced voice shouting to the barest minimum (though it appears to give a fast result but it's destroying the child's future in the background), ensure your communication is heartfelt i.e heart to heart communication and not just words of commands or rebuke all the time. If you want a child to change, you've to come down to the child's level and see from his/her perspective, a child can never see from the perspective of an adult, it's impossible but an adult can see from the perspective of a child because the adult was once a child.

In summary, your child is in the right path, what he's saying is not wrong even if you find it embarrassing, teach him what "private part" entails, tell him about modesty and dressing. The mistake many parents make is giving nicknames or less raw words to "private parts" telling them the real thing from a young age wouldn't corrupt them if you train them well.

If you chastise your son in the wrong way, trust me he'll remember this incidence when he's older and he'll find it difficult to implement such standard teaching like this one as he grows older. In the end, you're the one in custody of your child and you can train him as you deem fit but do not dampen the spirit of your child.

It's funny how many parents think they know how best to raise a child, you'll agree that your parents raised you well or maybe they didn't but they tried their best but despite that, you'll find defects in the way your parents raised you. You'll find mistakes if you're observant in the way your parents raised you. That's the same way your child will see your mistakes and errors in you raising them up, it's just the nature of Life. Raising children is unique and although there's a standard to aim at, the paths are different. Oh, how I love Children, such wonderful souls.

TheFreshVanilla:
It's because you don't have. Most of you guys talk from a broke perspective. Wait till you have enough.

Even if I have more than enough, shishi I will not give any lady. I'll rather collect from them sef if possible

Everybody get their own broke limit.
For some, it's when the account is virtually empty and there is little or no hope of extra cash coming in.

For others, it's ten thousand, 100k, 1m etc.

For others they're broke if they can't afford certain things at the moment.

In summary for everybody, you'll be broke when your expenditure is more than your income or cash flow.

Whether side chick or main chick, shishi I no dey give. I don pass the stage of Mr. Generous

If I talk my own, you guys go think say na lie.
I don go far in this game

Op, why you delete the post?

True, I agree with Op.
Majority of relationships today is just "similar experiences with different bodies" girls act similarly, men act similarly too. Mutual benefits and understanding is rare, the one who loves more and cares more is disadvantaged, the Mr.nice guy is heartbroken by the bad bitch and decides to take the red pill, the good girl is preyed on by the bad boy and decides to be a slay Queen. It's just a round cycle that seems to have no end. Good people are turning bad and bad people are getting badder. Almost everyone has a problem, just choose the one who gives you more peace and less problem because your partner will stay with you for a long time. Unfortunately, when you "fall in love" your view becomes biased and you'll accept things that are ridiculous. Many people just marry for marry sake, the love is very superficial and few years into marriage problem arises. If you want your marriage to last, develop conflict solving abilities but even that is still not a guarantee!
The complexities of relationships but if you can simplify it, it becomes easier for you. Know your red flags and exit ASAP there are billions of ladies out there, there are billions of men out there, you're never at a loss even if the most important person in your life leaves you, at least you still have you. There are still beautiful men and women out there inspite of the many wicked and evil men and women out there. Like tends to attract like in the game of life and doings "birds of the same feather flock together" but be careful, don't be overly good for you'll be preyed upon and will be disadvantaged. Garnish your goodness with a little wickedness, that will give you a more balanced Life, yes the good and bad has to go together, and the bad entails knowing what you don't want in life and relationships and avoiding and hating it with passion. I can say more but let me stop here for now. Gracias

JimmySwaggart:
Yes that's true, that year when you was a Zimbabwean citizen, before you now migrated to Nigeria and Sense finally located you. Because that rubbish you wrote up there only happens in countries like Kenya, Zimbabwe, Uganda and some other useless countries. Those you slept with dint tell you their Ward's were running a low budget brothel. I trust Naija parents too much. Them too dey too religious to be painted stupidly as you did up there.

It happened in Nigeria joor and I'm shocked their parents allowed it too

Many men don't even need a reason to cheat.
They just cheat as if they don't know what's controlling them.

vincenteger:
Please be civilized wit you lie

I swear to God, I'm not lying seh. Why should I lie about something that didn't happen.
Thinking back, I was shocked just as you're. The thing is I love travelling and meeting new people (especially girls). That particular year, I decided to meet with some of the numerous girls I was dating online and they invited me to their parents house. I kid you not, none of the girls agreed or let me stay in the guest room, I slept in their rooms and their parents didn't complain! I thought it was a coincidence when the first two happened but Omo, ten different girls and similar experiences. I don't know why their parents didn't talk though

LeeSmart:
Wooow
E for good make u create thread about this ur exploits oo. Abi how u see am?

Yeah, I'll probably resume my diary or start a new one

Menclothing:
More student should be admitted
More schools should be given license of medicine

It's not helping matters.

Many hospitals are lacking house officers at the moment and yet, the portal isn't opened. Many recently inducted medical doctors are just wasting away or doing PP or locum awaiting for the portal to open.
The whole system is whack. Sorry to say [center][/center]

I recently got an offer on a twelve month contract to be part of a 20 man team gynecologist to neighbouring west Africa with a wage of 3,500$ per month with other benefits and major expenses paid. Such a nice offer but I refused it because of other engagements I have for the following year

The health system in Nigeria is very bad, right from when I was in medical school, my consultants and professors advice us to leave Nigeria. It's getting worse by the day. Just few days ago, a whole CMD assaulted a medical officer on call. That's barbaric and uncalled for.

Good points

Luckysbab:
Was this abroad or in Nigeria?

Nigeria

LeeSmart:
Brother lie small small now, haba

I'm virtually telling the truth Bro.
Even me sef no dey believe the exploits I dey do at times. I have more crazy experiences though.

There was a year I was very crazy.
I was dating close to 15ladies if not more and I visited ten of their parents home and slept over. Funny enough, I bleeped all ten of them in their father's house. Their parents didn't seem to care that I was sleeping in their daughter's room. Those days I did crazy things, crazy things

Unlike many guys, I like dressing my ladies up myself and complimently their bodies after the deed. It makes them more bound to me and increase their level of loyalty. Well, me I don't care

Fishy odour.
Bacteria vaginosis comes to mind.
Bleep at your own peril. Lol

Rubbish thread.
Not all women desire deep penetration. We are all different, one man's meat is another man's poison. Some will like deep penetration, others will hate. Variety is the spice of Life.

Samantha124:
I'm sure some of them are men disguised as ladies...

True, don't mind them jare

BennyDGreat:
That's one angle but when you see someone you truly honour, kneeling or prostrating is a way to show that

You're right

The best to them.
If they eventually breakup, the sky wouldn't fall down