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Felimax:
Your headache!
She stole what belongs to her. Hellooo!

If it belongs to you, you wouldn't steal it in the first place.

It's obvious that you're a yahoo boy, your nemesis is gonna catch up with you soon. 'retarded Elon musk boy'

Perhaps he meant transfer of aggression

Felimax:
If I hear!
Strong woman!
The kind of woman you should call a wife.

A wife that steals?
Obviously you yourself are not far from stealing.

I hope the girl you're stressing yourself over to get something for has gotten something for you during your previous birthdays Abi na today a king is born she dey post for you.

What you need is to double up your hustle to avoid being broke

You and Victor Osimen are saying the same thing.

Relationship is transactional, meaning that both parties must bring something to the table, if the woman brings nothing to the table, then relationship shouldn't exist.

Zanzibar1:
I have Been trying to upload the scree shots but nairaland is not letting me

Oh, sorry about that.
Which browser are you using? Opera mini?

If Op give you anything make I bend.
She just wants to trend.
It's very hard for a girl to part with her cash. Know this and know peace

Mtcheew, people will not learn Sha
Na scammers full Nigeria at this point in time, do online transactions at your own peril

Calitoscassius:
fork you man! What da fork does a simp even mean? That shit don't mean a damm thing! I guess you disrespect your mother, your aunties and your sisters, that is if you have any. You are nothing without a woman! I respect your mother, without her you are nothing! Fork you kid!


You forking poor hopeless ignorant fool! Who hates his own mother!

You're a big fool

BigBashiru:
You only hv regrets if you actually fuk around but if you just date in moderation (focus on forreplay and not fukkin with everyone), you will be happier

We all think the grass is greener on the other side.

One thing about life is that we can't make good decisions all the time and anytime we end up fumbling, we shouldn't beat ourselves too hard about it.

Your idea makes sense but a man will want to explore to the end, you know

Goodlady:
You are a Coconut 🥥 head boy.
Like Dontrulee, like Osimhen.
Both of you have hard face like gala hustlers in traffic.

Engaging in banters with a saucy lady like you is like fetching water with a basket.
Get something productive doing rather than deciding to be a parasite and a gold leecher.

Calitoscassius:
True. Osmhen is ugilee as fork! He thinks every woman likes him, some are after his money, if not for his money no female would want him, besides these idiots disrespects and talks down to women as if their mothers are not women, what did their mothers bring to the table?

Without women men are nothing!! And yes! I am a man!

You're a bloody simp and your generations shall suffer the consequences of your misyarning and actions.

UncleKoboko:


Gold diggers every where

If we checked now, NONE OF THEM IS STILL INTACT.


THEY'VE LOST THEIR VIRTUOUS, SOME HAVE LOST COUNT OF THEIR BODYCOUNT.

AND THEY THINK THEY DESERVE FRESH, CLEAN AND RICH YOUNG MAN

What amuses me about them is how the badly damaged ones among them vis a vis single mothers And hoes desire to marry 'the best man' even when they're of very bad character and past. Their sense of entitlement is also very disturbing and alarming. They deserve to be used and dumped

Caicedobets:

What evidence do you have to sow he is rude?
You go explain tire

Abi, help me ask her.
Someone that Victor Osimen doesn't even know

Goodlady:
Asst Coconut 🥥 head, Osimhen is rude. I v seen enough of him.

Someone you haven't interacted with personally, you're calling rude?
Judging a book by it's cover seems to be the 'only good thing ' about you Miss Goodlady

BigBashiru:
Waiting until marriage to date and get a romantic partner instead of maximizing my mating opportunites (and I dont mean sleeping around - just talking to different girls trying to toast them kissing if the opportunity presents, having multiple relationships but only sleeping with those that love me back and i could get serious with )... i dont do use and dump...

I never had a girlfriend cos I was doing holy holy and marriage was to evening newspaper....was very disappointing.....

If you did the above, you'll have more regrets Sir.
I once treaded this path you mentioned verbatim, I had fun but I also had regrets. I wished I sticked to one woman

Zanzibar1:
What Is the Common Regret People Have As they get Older?
I saw this post on a foreign group on fb.
I must say it has opened up my heart to learn.

I thought it would help the younger folks to learn and work on some patterns in life.
People that replied that post were 45 years and above

Also share the lessons here. Thanks

Goodlady:
Coconut 🥥 head me sef no find you attractive, except your cash!

And you call yourself a good Lady.
You're rotten if all you're after in a man is his cash. Big big shame on you!

JimmySwaggart:
He should just pour majority of his love on his daughter, girlfriend gets the rest. At the peck of ones career, fake friends will always want to attach to you by force, it's your money they are after, no loyal b*tch out there, ask chinko ekun.

True, what's up with Chinko Ekun? Guy just went into oblivion, used to enjoy his raps

iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls.. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...

The one who puts the most resources in the relationship is the one who gets hurt when it goes South.

The signs and clues were there from the beginning:

1. She told you no "serious relationship" that means she's seeing you as an option. You're inconsequential to her.

2. Vibing with a yahoo guy should tell you that she's materialistic and will only monkey branch

3. Accepting to date an online guy who she's never met and treating you like scum is a big red flag.

4. You're hurt because you think you loved the lady.

Ladies don't love a guy.
They're after what benefits them. Play the same cards to them and watch things turn around

This has made many people venture into fraud and yahoo but it's not a tenable excuse

Boondocxs:
Finished man

That's how they got you right?

Drop her details and info make we help you run am street.

To everyone, never marry anyone out of pity. Such marriage can never work out well.

Marriage out of pity can be in various forms one of which is what the op described.

Other forms include:
1. Your partner cheating on you and asking for forgiveness; that's pity and if you mistakenly accept them back thinking they'll change, you're in for a long ride because a time will come when they'll rub their infidelity on your face and blame you for accepting their flaws.

2. Your partner getting pregnant out of wedlock but you don't truly love her but because of pity on the unborn child you decide to settle down with her. If you eventually marry such, you'll see shege pro max.

3. A very disrespectful and abusive partner that you've warned countless times and they beg you and promises to change. You decide to give them a second chance out of pity, Omo you're in for a long thing. You'll see shege.

4. As a man, you decide to marry a single mother because you pity her and her child(ren) because she told you how irresponsible her baby father is, you're in for a long thing. After marriage, the so called single mother will transform into a devil and show you shege pro max.

Relationship and Marriage built upon the foundation of pity is bound to fail, something will always be wrong that you'll be finding it difficult to place What's wrong. In extreme cases, it will degenerate into a master/servant relationship. Pity in exchange for love is a detrimental relationship and the marriage can never and will never work

This is quite true to some extent.
Some matrons and CNO'S are actually very fat and sometimes I wonder why but the answer isn't far fetched.

They work less hours compared to doctors, they don't do straight days calls like doctors. Some just sit down all day without doing exercises (sedentary lifestyle) and many more factors contribute to them having weight.

However, this is not perculiar to all nurses, some get beautiful and slender as they age older. Useless, majority of these second categories of nurses are those who Are intentional about their body shape and size

My wife, Yes.
My girlfriend, no.

Also, Father of 5 in this economy?
Do you know about family planning?
I'm not married but I know marriage with even just two children comes with a lot of responsibilities especially financially.

Mr. Father of 5, how do you cope with such financial responsibilities. What do you do for a living?

You're doing well.

But in the second picture, the surrounding is too dirty. Yuck.
Don't tell me that's where you live?

If it's tier 1, it's possible to open an account and choose any name for it since it requires no verification at tier 1. Many people use this to scam a lot of unsuspecting individuals.

Tier 2 & 3 provides some form of verification and higher level of security.

About phone numbers having an opay account without being registered, that can also be possible if those that are affected have tried to register on the platform before, or someone did it for them through sending them the link for registration

Negroid001:
Whatsapp?

Yes Boss.