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eniorisha:
@Nlfp.mod

Meanwhile, Prophet Moses & Apostle Paul take a liberal position about divorce. To me, marrying a good divorcee may not be too bad , if all issues are properly thrashed.

For d legal front, after all , man already moved on with another woman. My girl is saying he approved she moves on too!

So, will their be consequences later, or possibility of d man coming back for her, as no proper dissolution in d first place?

Samantha125:
I've reached my daily limit and can't post pictures anymore...😩😩😩

Till we meet again tomorrow...😒😒😒

Atasko:
That's my thought process as well. She sees nothing wrong with a woman hitting a man but frowns at the retaliation. I see it as double standard. She's literally keeping malice with me over this our conversation lol

immortalcrown:
Madam, it is obvious that your argument is baseless. Otherwise, specify what can push a doctor to ask people to choose between a pregnant woman and the baby in her womb.

Many of you will just come online to make noise and try to use sentiments to suppress facts.

eulogised:
It’s quite telling that conversations about unmarried women over 30 in Nigeria still centre around “positioning” for marriage as if women are commodities on a shelf. Marriage is not the ultimate achievement for all women, some are choosing to prioritise peace, purpose, and partnership on their own terms. Many of us are unlearning the harmful ideologies that reduce a woman’s worth to a man’s validation and relearning the value of self-determination, emotional safety, and mutual respect in relationships. Let’s stop perpetuating the myth that a woman’s 30s are a deadline. Globally, more women are choosing to have children later, pursue postgraduate degrees, lead organisations, and live fully. Globally, women are marrying and having children later—average first marriage now stands at 31.5 in the UK, 28.4 in the US, and in urban Nigeria, many marry in their late 20s to early 30s (ONS, 2023; US Census Bureau, 2023; NPC & ICF, 2019). In Europe for example, women aged 30–34 now account for the highest birth rates (ONS, 2022). Feminism and women's rights aren't anti-men or anti-Christian, they're about dignity and equity. The real work is not in begging for visibility but in dismantling the systems that tell women they’re invisible without a ring.

immortalcrown:
You are just a noise maker. You claim that I didn't understand what the poster is talking about. I asked you to explain what the poster is talking about. You simply said that a doctor could tell people to choose between saving the life of a pregnant woman and saving the pregnancy. I simply asked you to mention what could make a doctor give such options. Your inability to mention what could push a doctor into giving the options simply means that you yourself do not know what the post is talking about.

Ojigho1:
Mine is forgiving and forgetting. I no dey forget anything. My head dey upload the matter. 30 years down the line,I go remind you with clarity.

immortalcrown:
Mention what could make a doctor give such options.

immortalcrown:
You wrote all this jargon without explaining what the post is about.

immortalcrown:
They are equally important.

Nobody is more human than others. Never intentionally pay more attention to one in negligence of the other. Give them equal care and let nature take the blame if any of them gives up.

The ideology that inspired the question or the post is the type that gave birth to the stupid belief that mothers are more important than fathers. From claiming that aborted babies are not humans, they are now beginning to say that mothers are more important than babies in labour rooms. By the time they succeed in establishing the false belief that mothers are more important than babies in labour rooms, they will begin to preach that any woman who feels pains because of pregnancy should abort the pregnancy.

Saybal:
is only on father's that you talk of responsible and irresponsible ones,but on mother's day it is assumed all mother's are responsible.

Kobojunkie:
If your mother does not remember when you were born, na this National population commission wey never do census since 2006 go come know? Focus instead on doing a DNA test to confirm your mother did not steal/kidnap you from someone else, and maybe visit a doctor to do a check-up to confirm you are at least over 20—bone history— at this point, abeg! 😎😎

ibinaboonline:
My dad's late.

Kobojunkie:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That's because they are of the seedless variety. 🙂