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eniteden:
Cry in the shadow? Na wetin my 80+ mother customer dey always tell me be this, "Una dey die quick because of una no dey gree share una problem" Nai make we dey last past una See me 80+ but my husband don die even before i clock 50" Make una dey always share nothing human ears never hear before.

Oga be a man, be a man nai make man dey pass Kpai go, another man go come chop beans wey e no plant guuuuuuuyyyyyyyssssss? If e pain u cry abeg cry well well, make she see say that situation dey weigh u down no form come die troway if not somebody else go oil that exhaust before one week .

U don see oyibo man dey hide tears? African women want u to act strong while them dey free to pour out their own emotion thereby making them free and live longer meanwhile they love those oyibo men for tv wey dey cry well a infact them dey cry wit them sometimes, Oga i say cryam out not in public but face her in private face to face cry for her hand infact make the tear touch her lip make she taste if na real or fake

May we Live Long

If only these men knew this truth you shared! Men are taking their lives instead of crying out loud and proud! You are huMAN! Let it out.

Have you asked yourself whether modern men are worth following or submitting to? Modern men have the women they deserve! We're all in this together so stop moaning and man up!

Liazz:
U get fully paid while on maternity leave. Moreso, I'm talking about the situation even while she was actively working.

Just put your foot down and adjust your budget. For example: reduce the amount you give for food shopping, don't pay for family expenses such as days out and holidays. Live below your means. Cover only essential bills; rent, utilities, and taxes. No WiFi or phone bills.

Treat your children alone; take the 5 year out without her and spoil them. Leave none essential bills. If she wants luxury let her pay. You just decide this is what you can afford. If she doesn't step up then no harm done and you'll have more money in the bank. Work harder and start your own projects. No hard feelings, just stop consulting her about family finances and also stop helping her with the chores at home.

Spend time and money on your children. Take the 5 year old on weekend breaks. Stop spoiling her. Then the ball is in her court, better to figure out her intentions now instead of years down the line.

naptu2:
The only way around it is to switch to desktop mode. You have the old share button on desktop and the new share button on mobile.

Thank you for explaining this to me. 🙏


I must write something for 40 characters.

When the body heals the "hole" they manufactured, the doctors have to use a pole to dilate it weekly or monthly. I hate how they try ro glamorous this madness!

Imagine having to buy and pay for God given genitals and hormones because you want to be something you're not. This nonsense will be banned in 20/30 years when the real results show up.

naptu2:
How come we can no longer share posts with our followers on Nairaland?

This is what I want to understand! How do you share with your followers?

Cc demonslayer

King of my heart, I'm thinking about you

I read somewhere that men fear being alone, so they gaslight women into fearing what they fear. The amount of threads opened daily on nl by men trying to shame women into pair bonding makes this theory more interesting.

Ladies, wait for your other half. He may not be destined to meet you in your 20s or 30s because you wouldn't know what to do with him. Live your life, get your education, stack your money and most importantly, build your character until you meet your best friend, lover, and life partner. Anything less than him is misery.

I can hear them shouting from across the road during rush hour traffic

pocohantas:
Hopefully you will marry this your banny, so that you can rest and we would rest too...

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Dead 💀

Wakes up to meet her 40 character target.

Dead 💀

So, you're saying white women were sexually frustrated so the doctors had to get them off to restore peace in the home?

lebete3000:
Waoh! Was still even talking about you in one of my responses to someone else's posts the other day.

What a coincidence! I'm holding up, still stuck in Nigeria but atleast now afloat.

I think we even communicated via email, not sure if it went into WhatsApp chat

How have you been?!!!

I honestly don't remember, it was a long time ago. I'm well, thanks for asking. I'm glad you are in a much better place. Your hard work will be rewarded beyond your expectations. Take care

lebete3000:
Yep


37 characters more, so what do I have to say now?

Now I remember. I hope you're well; doc!

40 blah blah blah

brain54:
What is the fear...


Do you own one?


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Getting electrocuted down there!!! Nah, I don't like my body controlling me like that!

lebete3000:
But if you're in the UK, I'm guessing you're the one then.

Been ages if you are though

Are you a doctor?

40 characters huh? So I can't ask questions?

brain54:
If una like make una go repair wetin go malfunction...

Come shock person below the belt!

New fear unlocked 🤕

So I had a lazy day today! 40 characters reached

Pass me some chillie sauce now. How many do I have to eat

lebete3000:
You sure you not the lady that sent me £20 some years ago?

She was either Somalian or Ethiopian, can't remember, and I'm in Nigeria.

I barely remember what I ate yesterday so I don't know.

If he can convince fellow men (girl's family), to give him money to marry their daughter then he should go ahead! I hope he births 7 daughters himself and he will be willing to pay dowry for his future son in laws. I bet it sounds better in his head than it does in reality 🤭

Nobody gives a hoot about this attention seeking liar! If career damage was a person aaah head! 🤣

I remember working as a bottle girl and bar staff at a high end club. I was raking in the money. Some weekends I'd make more than my weekly salary in those 2 days.

The manager noticed that when I was behind the bar, my tip jar had nothing but notes in it. He called me to his office and asked if I was using the till to change my coins into notes. I replied no, that's what the customers give me as tips.

He said he doesn't believe me and believes that I was stealing from the till. I asked if my tills were ever down. He replies no, but he doesn't understand how I can make hundreds in tips while other staff members barely break 50s.

He wanted me to turn over my tips. I refused and asked him to provide evidence that I'm stealing. Cctv was right above our heads and the tills are computerised so he needs to show me the evidence.

He got angry at my blunt stands and sacked me on the spot. I was too young and naïve to understand employment laws so I didn't fight back.

God has always blessed me so I didn't struggle to find a new gig. Shortly after we had a big recession so that was the end of the tipping culture. People were waiting for their change of 10s and 20s in coins, let alone tipping 10s and 20s in notes.

Solofresh2:
Are you a narcissist ?
🤔🤔🤔

It would be nice to hear women's experience with narc men too. Why exclude us from the conversation

Why women? Why not people

If these Nigerian men continue to bring shame to their country, the far right will win the next election and the fate of other immigrants who are hardworking will be put on the table.

Why abuse vulnerable people like this?. These immigrants can buy a clean police report from their country so the DBS check isn't safeguarding the vulnerable people who need to be cared for.

AllBlack:
You say you go make heaven like this so? You want him to TOSS the babe into Lake Chad?

Have you toss your own
.........

If someone can catch you then you didn't toss her far enough. Next time, don't miss arms day at the gym

dawnomike:
I see no reason why the father of the victim should be charged with any crime... It was paternal instinct.

I also believe the criminal deserved more than 2 years in jail!!

The father didn't serve any jail time, he got 200 hours community service, but he does have a criminal record which is unfair. I believe any employer who hears the reason for such a record will buy him a drink after offering him the job (I hope!).

As for this monster, imagine how many students he sexually abused in Nigeria, karma was waiting for him in the UK. I hope he gets dealt with in prison because prisoners deal mercilessly with sexual predators, especially when the victim is young child. Karma is going to really deal with him. He'll become some white supremacists girlfriend in jail 😂

carl90:
True !
Beautiful and thoughtful thread !
Do hope it makes FP

Nlfpmod... good morning. Let's bring some peace to Wednesday; Hump day 😔

pocohantas:
Must have been traumatic for you.
😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

I swear 😢. I feel physically sick thinking about it now! 🤮. To make it worse, he had to be a pig and shove his tongue in my mouth. 😢.

NjaFoodie:
I don’t care what you think. I’m def not a Nigerian in any way except for loving the country and the people.

Hey, how are you feeling today?

I had to reflect on your story and you really are a woman scorned! They say hell has no fury like the one you're feeling. You absolutely have the right to deal with this man but please don't set the fire and burn down with it. Calm your emotions and deal with him rationally. Move out of this property before he gets deported. Secure yourself so you could watch him go down in a blaze from a distance. Remember that when we plan to take revenge often we dig two graves. I support your need to exact revenge but I don't want you to go down with him.

Can I ask, is he your first love?

What have you learnt from the experience.

What did you do wrong in this relationship to find yourself where you are today?

Let me pray over this thread so the hateful demons don't enter.