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Dragovich:
Honestly, I never thought of my parents to be over-protective, until I spent a few days at a friend's house. It was then I realized that I've never been allowed to enjoy my teenage years and emancipate myself. I'm 20+ and in my final year in the University, but my parents (especially my dad), are extremely controlling. Apart from the constant phone calls, they still treat me like I'm a five year old. My dad hardly ever let's me drive, and even told me that he feels embarrassed if neighbors see me driving. The best I can do in this regard is to sometimes "steal" the car. Also, they are both obsessed with what other parents think about their parenting skills. Everytime we have visitors or we visit someone, he always tries to speak to me harshly as if trying to show off his strictness to other parents. I feel so disrespected and trapped. While other parents of my friends allow their kids drive, give them responsibilities, and a certain sense of freedom, I stuck with these helicopter parents that are always hovering over my life trying as much as possible to make me not to have any form of independence. I'm really beginning to hate them. Please what can I do abt this?

Feranchek:
Omo mehn.....

smithsydny:
u must be practicing such I guess.. u better teach your kids personal hygiene ooo..inugo

smithsydny:
sorry ya am in my late 20s inugo .. a young guy doing well for himself u hear.. go take ya peels OK

smithsydny:
first to comento ... ebi like say nah front page material be this ooo.



this body thing is very strong. some mums can be so daft that they can't even look after one child talk more of 3 gals.. I met one here in abj my brother the odour no get joy ooo.. I no say I dirty oo but I get hope cus I no fit smell.. its nice u resign make no get HBP ooo..

Speechless3:
I cheat on them too. After all you guys say myopic stuffs everyday! Lol

The problem here is your ego. Handle that and leave her alone.

olagbemi118:
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"Finally, whatever is yours will eventually get to
you, if she keeps you in the friendzone and
you're both meant for each other, she will date
all the guys, tell you about their break up stories
and you'll end up still marrying her."

You really must have a low self esteem to have said that

Feranchek:
Op, whatya gonna do in this situation? I met her online. Found out she stays in same hood (just 2 streets away). After months of knowing and LIKING each other, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She declined with the excuse of being in a relationship (though unsteady). She broke up with the dude finally. Months after that, I asked her again. She didn't accept, neither did she decline. I've done things for her back to back from buying a phone for her to giving her money at different times (even drove her to buy a special weavon she couldn't see around). Yet, no relationship. So I backed out a bit (iyalaya friend zone). Now she calls and complain about my lack of calls and care towards her. I'm kinda regretting 'abandoning' her (that's the word she used). Dyu think I should just forget bout the relationship and be her friend? I still like her though. Still wanna date her cos I'm single and got an eagle eyes towards gurls I wanna date.

Cutehector:
Dnt like yoruba meals

Annoying..

HiddenShadow:
I hope Sun newspapers have not eaten Aisha's rice. If local production has increased why are people still losing their jobs.

olamonsor2:
Demonic house is a house that is possessed. You will be hearing different sound at the hour of the night. Because of this it is not a home because you can't live there.

olamonsor2:
Disagreed. My friend bought a demonic house, he can't live there, could we call that a home?

KingRaoul:
u girls are useless beings , i never understand yall i wish yall chould just die

olamonsor2:
To me, you have not build a house if you buy it because you have not experience the sweetness and sadness of building a house from the scratch.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

LAjibade:
I have not seen him again and I have not spoken with him since September 2013, which was only three months after he arrived to America. I did asked him on Facebook but he won't respond.

KingRaoul:
i am now officially going to be a mean biggot. reason is girls have no interest in learning or being academically intelligent. if u try to explain anything smart to them they will act like they want to cry. all they want is to talk about fine boys, pink lips, cute eyes , cute babies and anything trivial. i dont have a problem with that since its their gender style to be that way, but my anger is that for some reason im their target. they always like being around me or flirting with me and yet they show no sign of wanting to learn, its really annoying since i am a person that love learning and hate trivialities. im not petty shallow or vain so if they dont mind their business and try to disturb me ever again with shallow bullshit that is against learning anything intelligent, i will rain insults on the female cuz i never want to have anything to do with these people till i can find a smart non shallow one.

Halimi24:

Shut up!!

He is handsome while

U resemble d offspring of a baboon

KingRaoul:
since im broke and prolly will die single who wants to date me ?

KingRaoul:
i can never be insulted by a female cuz im too beautiful and yeah im a boy

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lool...that network connection lie been saving a nigga from hoes like my mother since 1800BC. [/color]

RadicallyBlunt:
Submissive is even incomplete, he said "submit in everything" and "submit to him as to the lord". That's because the new testament renewed the curse God placed on them in Genesis. There God said "he shall rule over you, your desire shall be for him". The problem with women nowadays is that they do not count the cost of submission early before marriage so it looks heavy on them.

RadicallyBlunt:
Submissive is even incomplete, he said "submit in everything" and "submit to him as to the lord". That's because the new testament renewed the curse God placed on them in Genesis. There God said "he shall rule over you, your desire shall be for him". The problem with women nowadays is that they do not count the cost of submission early before marriage so it looks heavy on them.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Yes,no thanks to our leaders,past and present.

We all understand our plight too.

I do hope you are living like mama Charlie herself over there. The queen....you must really be enjoying your life that's why you can waste productive time on the Internet

You probably don't even pay your bills sef. Enjoyment officer.

Oya kindly unfollow me because I don't want to be seeing your posts filled with frustration where you attack people unnecessarily. Besides,I already have lots of psychos to deal with.

Good morning. [/color]

happney65:
And English isn't abi?..Ode

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]No...I went to be busy with my real life while you were still here,in your e-office,waiting for me.

And why the hell did you follow me? To up your stalking game I guess.

More power to your phone and free wi-fi too.
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RadicallyBlunt:
Gods clear command in his word and your ideas are 2 different things